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 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 51
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" Oh baby, eat my VULVA ! "


....hmmm.....nah, doesn't work for me
 swedishtextiles
Joined: 2/2/2017
Msg: 52
Vagina monologues, the sequel--vagina selfies
Posted: 2/14/2017 1:51:57 PM
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 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
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Posted: 2/14/2017 1:57:43 PM

I don't think guys carry around videos of themselves slammin' the ol' salami in their phones. Of course many may do it, and don't admit it.


I think many guys have had d!ck pics on their phone -- mostly to send to chicks in exchange for nude pics.


I guess if it's hip in the dating scene here in 2017, and women wanted a vid of me spankin' it........as a qualifier to see me.....I would probably oblige. Gotta keep up with what the market demands I guess.

But Norwegian/Yule you are correct, I would not think many men use self spank videos to get themselves aroused....or to show it to buddies. At least hetero guys. Makes me laught just thinking about it. Now, a vid of doin' it with a woman...sure I can see storing that on phones for future reference. Actually, I wish I had videos of all the sex I had in the past. It would remind me of when I used to have sex.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 54
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Posted: 2/14/2017 2:29:53 PM
Gentlemen: we should realise that vagina, vadge, vajazzle and any derivative thereof can only be used to describe the whole bundle by the fairer sex:

http://www.stylist.co.uk/life/would-you-wear-a-vadge-badge-vagina-badge
 PlutoLover68
Joined: 7/28/2016
Msg: 55
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/14/2017 3:19:10 PM

LOL!!!!.
You are "SURE" that the typical guy keeps phone videos of himself pulling off....for his own vieweing pleasure & satisfaction!
Imagine several guys, stuck in traffic, or waiting for their cars to get fixed, or at half time of a game....all of a sudden they take out their phones and Proudly display themselves BEATING OFF on video to one another!


Laugh if you want...however:
I never said they are pulling their phones out and sharing their videos with each other. But trust me, there is a huge percentage of men that have video and photos of themselves on their phone. And, most are more than willing to share it. Here is a little article from 3 years ago that backs that up.
http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/u-s-adults-sext-study-article-1.1603170
and another from last year https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sext-much-if-so-youre-not-alone/
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 56
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Posted: 2/14/2017 5:44:42 PM

I never said they are pulling their phones out and sharing their videos with each other. But trust me, there is a huge percentage of men that have video and photos of themselves on their phone. And, most are more than willing to share it. Here is a little article from 3 years ago that backs that up.

That's sexting. That isn't about photo-edting/videoing yourself STRICTLY for yourself & only yourself to get off on. :)

It only propagates OP's concern about his new GF's pics & videos. :)
 Yule_liquor
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 57
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/14/2017 6:25:20 PM
#56 says


there is a huge percentage of men that have video and photos of themselves on their phone. And, most are more than willing to share it. Here is a little article from 3 years ago that backs that up.


Well, if you read the survey report it talks about sexting...of which having/sharing private part photos makes up only a small percentage....I've actually sent out a couple of raunchy texts to pple here and there, thus I guess this could be considered sexting...but this is miles away from keeping or sending pix of my private parts....thus there is little in the survey that solidly backs anything you are saying about phone photos.

The survey sampled 1500 pple 18--54(not a significant high sampling), and found that the vast majority of pple doing this were between 18--24...hardly an age group that would be considered to have "good judgment". Contrast this to the OP's Gf who is in her 40's.

The article goes on the indicate the potential dangers of identity exposure by doing such things (as the with dopey teacher who lost her job, when her nude pix surfaced on the net)...which is something that the OP's GF doesn't seem to be worried about. The other thing that should be of concern for her BF is why she never sent him any such texts; which to me suggests that she wasn't just doing this playfully for shitz & giggles.
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 58
Vagina monologues, the sequel--vagina selfies
Posted: 2/15/2017 2:38:09 AM

If Bond had **** Galore, will Austin Powers have "Vagina, Vagina Selfies" purred in a British accent?


Austin Powers had Allota Vagina.
 Cowgirlwannabe1
Joined: 8/21/2015
Msg: 59
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/15/2017 1:45:00 PM
ya if she hasn't used them yet? she's gonna
how could a woman in her forties not know what her vajajay looks like ?????

ridiculous
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 60
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/15/2017 2:11:52 PM
Maybe they were not selfies, and had a guy being the photographer.
 NYCKOSI
Joined: 4/24/2015
Msg: 61
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/15/2017 2:55:27 PM
Stop complaining and send us the selfies so we can see also
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 62
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/15/2017 2:55:59 PM
Vulva photographers are in high demand , who knew ?
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 63
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/15/2017 5:00:22 PM
LOL. IDK, I can't see having a bunch ( like OP said) ain't like it going to change overnight
My esthetician GF who moved got freaked when women would ask
" does it look pretty?" LOL
Woman I see now is gay and I like her and her wife.. never really thought if I should worry about how my bits look
I do know that lots of porn women get things enhanced leading to unrealistic expectations
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 2/15/2017 5:04:39 PM

Vulva photographers are in high demand , who knew ?

Yeah, we're not all up on the times of the photography market. Vagina Snaphot Artists aren't as in demand as they used to be... and from what I hear, Clit Pic Clickers are always occasionally wanted, but nothing special.
 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
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Posted: 2/16/2017 11:12:41 AM
Butterchickenchuck wrote:


Vulva photographers are in high demand , who knew ?


Maybe vulva photography will be one of those new "industries of the future" that Clitonian...er, Clintonian Democrats keep telling me will employ all the unemployed labia..er..labor who got bounced from jobs due to bad trade agrements.

I can just hear the business news on CNBC...."Wall Street is eagerly awaiting profit results from the Vulvar styling and photography sphincter..um... sector. Investors are bidding these stocks higher on rumors there will be a profit and hiring spurt. Sector prices are engorged." *Groan*
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 66
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/16/2017 11:22:19 AM
It sounds like she has had a wild past. I little too wild. I'd be worried and looking for another girlfriend who is not crazy.
 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
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Posted: 2/16/2017 11:22:54 AM
Pluto wrote:


Laugh if you want...however:
I never said they are pulling their phones out and sharing their videos with each other. But trust me, there is a huge percentage of men that have video and photos of themselves on their phone. And, most are more than willing to share it. Here is a little article from 3 years ago that backs that up.


Probably a generational thing. I don't know how men within a settled couple in their 50s would do this though. Unless they are swingers. If I was out on the dating market....I'd do it in a ...um hardbeat... if that is what it took to attract women on the dating scene. I would not keep it on my phone though. Would not want self-spank vids on my phone for various reasons.

I still believe though, at least to me, a woman that required this prior to meeting...would immediately be put in the "FB candidate only" file though. But I would never show my face regardless in the vid...even if it were Giselle Bunchen wanting it. And trust me, I'd really like to get back at Tom Brady.

And I still don't think guys do it for their own pleasure. But then again...maybe a generational thing.
 BeckyHT
Joined: 1/1/2013
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Posted: 2/16/2017 12:46:50 PM


I am staying with her, I just wanted some other opinions, and mainly just to talk about it.

I truly love her, more than any other woman (ok only loved one other woman) I have been with, friends and family say we look so happy together on our pictures together on Facebook.

She is very sweet to me, and very affectionate, we both have a lot of passion for each other.


How balanced is your relationship? You say in your profile that you're a beach bum with some college. Are you financially well off, own a home and car, and can afford to give her gifts? Is she the same, or does she need to share your income and assets. Or do one or both of you live pay check to pay check? My point, ask yourself, what is one expecting from the other? Is it fair or what you expect?

If you're not ready for a solid long term relationship and this girlfriend isn't the one you want long term, then you both are players.

Go ahead and play, but be ready for surprises.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 69
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/16/2017 6:37:02 PM
Deliciousandnutricious- My take on this..............
If you trust her, much ado about nothing.
Do you trust her?
She let you look at these pictures.
That's major points in her favor, she didn't hide it from you.
Could she be sending them to other men? Yes, she could. Is she? Once again, the fact she showed them to you tells me that she probably isn't.
Frankly, I'm a little tired of the double standard when it comes to men's and women's sexuality.
If this were a man, would people question it?
Under the same circumstances, probably not.
Now, I WILL say, I've had men send me ';ick pics without me asking for them, and right away at that.
That is a turn off.
It tells me they aren't very mature and I end things right then.
This was not some stranger, this is your girl friend.
I take it you have seen her, Ummm, lady parts by now?
Even if you haven't, like I said, she IS your girl friend, so perhaps she though this would turn you on?
I'm thinking she has them because they turn HER on.
Why is that causing you such angst?
She obviously has NO hang ups when it comes to her body or sex.
This is a problem, HOW?!
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 2/17/2017 12:40:40 AM

Deliciousandnutricious- My take on this..............
If you trust her, much ado about nothing.
Do you trust her?

You're basically saying "It's nothing much, unless he/she has a track record." I like that advice, but certain things don't apply, though. I think his question is -- where does it stand? Where that is one of them, as you point out as neutral (unless has backing by other things). I don't think it's As simple as that, as many people show no signs of anything, but...

She let you look at these pictures.

.... they say "Oh sh!t, I thought I deleted those." That's actually what happened. :) Hence, his post. I think you interpreted it wrong.

There's a trust factor there though in what you're referring to -- she gave him her Phone. Which Does imply that she most likely doesn't have anything Going On Now. But at the same time, it wasn't A pic or A video, but a gallery that points to sending to others. I have many guy friends who make the mistake of the girl they're dating realize about other gals, and yes, also female friends who juggle guys. It's No Rarity. Just saying.

Again, she wasn't saying "Oh, see these pics? This is me frisky!" It was "Whoah -- what's this?" with a "Oh, I thought I deleted those (play it cool girl, play it cool)," regardless as to whether it was one of those looks-worse-than-it-is situations or not.

I'm thinking she has them because they turn HER on.

Naked pictures of oneself turns them on? A huge gallery over time, with close-up shots of genitals? Really? I'm asking honestly. It's been known, but to think that's default VS sending them out -- no way.
 hearton64
Joined: 6/9/2016
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Posted: 2/17/2017 4:39:59 AM

It sounds like she has had a wild past.
A little too wild.
I'd be worried and
looking for another girlfriend
who is not crazy.


Yeah 'cuz she's just a crazy, wild,potentially unfaithful woman
who's not relationship material because she enjoys
taking photos of her vagina!?

Judgemental much?

Ironically these "types" of women are more than
good enough to fuel a billion dollar porn industry.

Madonna/whore complex.

If men could manage to see women as decent
and sexy it might help women to be more open
and uninhibited!

Win/win for men!
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 2/17/2017 6:27:01 AM
on the flip side...if the guy can't trust a sexy woman, maybe he should move out of the way so a real man can date her?

still, devil's advocate, who's more likely to cheat, the prude or the one who loves sex enough he or she might rationalize why its ok to cheat? Car insurance companies charge young drivers more, even tho they haven't individually had a history of driving yet. The companies do it based on the odds.

it would be great and both men AND WOMEN would stop using the whore label to keep women inhibited. Around a playground, I remember girls using the label t0o on their enemies.
 MadameBoisseau
Joined: 12/16/2016
Msg: 73
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/17/2017 2:44:38 PM
1) Seeing your own vagina in a mirror is difficult because if you squat over it then you block most of the light and its too dark, if you lay down you have to crank the hell out of your neck to see while trying to balance holding a mirror and spreading yourself with the other hand. The optimum way to look is laying on a bean bag or something with legs spread in a mirror on the wall, even still because you are laying you don't get to see the whole thing. Hence: Cameras.

2) Your girlfriend is the age where your vulva can change coloration and that can really freak a woman out. Its good to check from time to time to see how it's changing just in case of melanoma. I have a freckle on my labia - its NICE to have an older picture to compare to a newer one to make sure it doesn't develop into something bad.

3) Women most of their young life are made to feel like sluts for having interest in sex. It takes a LONG time to let all those self imposed out of social conditioning inhibitions go. Women in their 30's & 40's normally start to feel more comfortable in their skin and own their bodies via self exploration. Your GF could have been curious how she looks when she is having sex. Maybe she wanted to see her orgasm face so she feels less anxious when she does it in front of you (women sometimes worry about looking ridiculous when doing that because we know how visual men are and how many fake orgasms they see in porn). Maybe she wanted to show herself she can be sexy, maybe it helps her to feel more confident to see what you see and LIKE it.

I've recorded myself for many of the above reasons, it was NEVER about sharing nude pictures. I would never share them, and not just because I want to protect a relationship but for a more important reason: relationships will come and go, my need to earn a livelihood will NEVER go away. I am NEVER going to give someone a dirty pic of me when they could send it to my employer out of spite if I later am not interested.

I have also had photos backed to cloud and NOT realized it - I switched providers and phones and didn't realize the new settings needed be changed.

If she was sending them to dudes: she would have NEVER let you look at her phone in the first place. She wouldn't bother getting engaged with you in the first place - she could just dump you and bang who ever or just say she wants to date. Why bother to get a ring if you know you want to play games? This isn't some 20 year old who is window shopping for her best option, this is a grown woman way past the game playing stage...

The real question is: does she engage in ANY other kind of behavior that makes you think she would cheat? If you aren't seeing other sure signs, then you are barking up a wrong tree....
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
Msg: 74
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/17/2017 4:09:34 PM

1) Seeing your own vagina in a mirror is difficult because if you squat over it then you block most of the light and its too dark, if you lay down you have to crank the hell out of your neck to see while trying to balance holding a mirror and spreading yourself with the other hand.


Not for all of us. If a woman has difficulty seeing her own vagina in a mirror, I'd lay odds it's because she's out-of-shape, very overweight, or disabled.
 swedishtextiles
Joined: 2/2/2017
Msg: 75
Found vagina selfies in girlfriend's phone.
Posted: 2/17/2017 4:17:42 PM

age: 1) Seeing your own vagina in a mirror is difficult because if you squat over it then you block most of the light and its too dark, if you lay down you have to crank the hell out of your neck to see while trying to balance holding a mirror and spreading yourself with the other hand. The optimum way to look is laying on a bean bag or something with legs spread in a mirror on the wall, even still because you are laying you don't get to see the whole thing. Hence: Cameras.

2) Your girlfriend is the age where your vulva can change coloration and that can really freak a woman out. Its good to check from time to time to see how it's changing just in case of melanoma. I have a freckle on my labia - its NICE to have an older picture to compare to a newer one to make sure it doesn't develop into something bad.

3) Women most of their young life are made to feel like sluts for having interest in sex. It takes a LONG time to let all those self imposed out of social conditioning inhibitions go. Women in their 30's & 40's normally start to feel more comfortable in their skin and own their bodies via self exploration. Your GF could have been curious how she looks when she is having sex. Maybe she wanted to see her orgasm face so she feels less anxious when she does it in front of you (women sometimes worry about looking ridiculous when doing that because we know how visual men are and how many fake orgasms they see in porn). Maybe she wanted to show herself she can be sexy, maybe it helps her to feel more confident to see what you see and LIKE it.

I've recorded myself for many of the above reasons, it was NEVER about sharing nude pictures. I would never share them, and not just because I want to protect a relationship but for a more important reason: relationships will come and go, my need to earn a livelihood will NEVER go away. I am NEVER going to give someone a dirty pic of me when they could send it to my employer out of spite if I later am not interested.

I have also had photos backed to cloud and NOT realized it - I switched providers and phones and didn't realize the new settings needed be changed.

If she was sending them to dudes: she would have NEVER let you look at her phone in the first place. She wouldn't bother getting engaged with you in the first place - she could just dump you and bang who ever or just say she wants to date. Why bother to get a ring if you know you want to play games? This isn't some 20 year old who is window shopping for her best option, this is a grown woman way past the game playing stage...

The real question is: does she engage in ANY other kind of behavior that makes you think she would cheat? If you aren't seeing other sure signs, then you are barking up a wrong tree...


Oh for god sake, this guy is a troll--making up salacious stuff for his own enjoyment~
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