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 mrod3041
Joined: 1/11/2014
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Utter bullsh!tPage 11 of 15    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15)
"I don't know if anyone I know was killed, maimed or otherwise injured. You act like people don't regularly go "

Good for them. Doesnt make any sense though? If people jump off the GW, I aint jumping off with them right?

C'mon chica. Stay on topic. Those two things have nothing to do with each other.

Start a thread of you feel the need to discuss the derailment/accident.
 saintclara
Joined: 5/30/2017
Msg: 252
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Posted: 12/18/2017 5:51:38 PM
45 to 55 dollars sounds like a cheap diner ! If you are not out to impress and not that bothered stay home and let them find an adventurous, original,investing non cheapskate that will at very least make some effort!you are step away from ordering her a take away pizza!
 JohnO1916
Joined: 5/26/2017
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Posted: 12/18/2017 9:32:03 PM
If you view the profile of "SaintClara", he/she is an obvious troll with no life. Just read his/her bio guys.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 12/18/2017 10:22:12 PM

NG, I don't think talking about one's sex life means they're not traditional.

"So there I was girls... Balls Deep! Then, all of a sudden he...," yeah, it's just fine. ;) My point is -- gals talking about the ins and outs of their sex lives isn't "traditional", in the same sense one will justify something else 100% a-okay and Suppoed-To-Be, because "I'm traditional". It's making fun of the make-your-own-"tradition"construct that some people don't understand they do (hence, "because I'm traditional" ends up not carrying any weight, when that is so).

If you view the profile of "SaintClara", he/she is an obvious troll with no life. Just read his/her bio guys.

Yeah, she's quite Out There. :)
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 255
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Posted: 12/18/2017 11:05:04 PM


I get that it doesn't matter where 2 people are together........once a relationship is established! That does NOT apply to a 1st date. I don't know if you're pulling my leg with saying you don't realize these guys are lackluster and would be happy to meet in a parking lot of Starbucks, not even go in, just sit in their car and talk and hope you have sex with them.


Sorry, I don't believe for a second that's all you've encountered nor does it make up the vast majority. It's okay to admit you don't really care about the person at first. It's all about the props and fanfare.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 12/19/2017 7:55:19 AM

45 to 55 dollars sounds like a cheap diner !


It isn't cheap. It actually exceeds the Leykis 101 rule of $40 and under. You can't buy chemistry.
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 12/19/2017 2:02:08 PM
Pig, it's said NYers are neurotic. I don't seem to have the neurotic traits listed here on a consistent basis, but don't have any envy, jealousy, guilt, fear, depressed mood or loneliness: Individuals who score high on neuroticism are more likely than average to be moody and to experience such feelings as anxiety, worry, fear, anger, frustration, envy, jealousy, guilt, depressed mood, and loneliness.

I don't need what I'd call fanfare, but I look at a date as an opportunity to create an experience. I've done that all the time with vacations, motorcycle, camping and kayaking trips I've planned with the ex-h. I seek out some way to make them interesting and special. A decent person will appreciate how you made them feel as opposed to what you gave them. I'm still thinking about your romantic suggestion of candles at McD☺

Mrod,

NG, "balls deep", I like that expression, think I'll use it with the gals☺

CoolD, guys have to come up with something else to do on a first date besides dinner, until they know a woman won't run up a bill on them. Or, a person can do what a lot of other men do and go for something more specific like a burger, or a place with a fixed-price meal.
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
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Posted: 12/19/2017 5:50:29 PM
My First Date suggestion: "I'll buy you a Hot Dog."
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/19/2017 6:22:59 PM
Seki, Are you sure, that could be a lot of money. Wagyu beef, shaved truffles, you could be looking at over $100.
 mrod3041
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Posted: 12/19/2017 6:28:48 PM
" I'm still thinking about your romantic suggestion of candles at McD☺ "

YES!!!! MY IDEA STILL LIVES!!!!! IT LIVES!!!!
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/19/2017 7:41:04 PM
Was that you that said that, Mrod? I was mistaken, thought it was pig.

In order to maintain the highest quality forums you are restricted to having no more then 2 of the last 10 posts on a thread. Since 2 of the last 10 posts are yours you can not post to this thread.
 mrod3041
Joined: 1/11/2014
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Posted: 12/19/2017 9:02:17 PM
Oh no. It was Pig. It was that the notion of it still lived. He made it more appealing and sophisticated. :)
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/19/2017 9:24:29 PM
To guild the lily, do candles at the McDs in NYC that has/had the piano player

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 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 264
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Posted: 12/20/2017 4:33:51 PM
Oh, and New Yorker, I sent out that text to a female friend like I said I would. Her response was "only if Oscar the Grouch can come".

See? Not everyone is as uptight as you are.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/20/2017 4:58:34 PM
You can call it uptight if you want, I call it having standards. Was that friend someone that considered it a real invitation to go out on a date? Maybe she thinks you only have paper boy money for dating. If that's all you can afford, then that would be understandable, because I do think a person should only spend what they can afford. It's not really about the money, it's about creating a nice date. How much is McD? I went on dates that would have cost a similar price, because I only ordered an appetizer, but the atmosphere was nicer and that's what I am talking about.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 266
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Posted: 12/20/2017 7:06:46 PM
Hold on, now. This was about "who would joke about something like that?!" My response to that is - someone who knows not everyone is as uptight as you.


Was that friend someone that considered it a real invitation to go out on a date?


No idea. I've only known her about a month. She saw me on a friend's Facebook, added me as a friend, and occasionally messages me with silly shit. After she responded to my initial message, she started sending pictures of her Christmas ornaments, and I didn't reply.
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
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Posted: 12/20/2017 7:20:19 PM
and a bottle of fine wine. Now, where is my American express card?

PS: What's the latest on the derailment?
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/20/2017 8:28:23 PM
Pig, how do you know she considers it a joke? Would you ask her out, sounds like she's interested? Maybe that was a joke to you, but my POF date was not kidding when he asked if I would eat there. If she gets a joke, send her a picture of your testicles with the note, you showed me your balls and I'm showing you mine. If you want to be festive, you can drape a little tinsel on them before you take the picture

Seki, everyone said 6 people died, but it was 3. It was discovered that one victim was a man that had been convicted of child porn. His mother said he served his time and he was on the right track. I beg to differ, he was definitely on the wrong track, LOL. I think I-5, the major main hwy is, still closed in that area. They're still investigating the cause of the derailment, but it is said the train was going too fast. Something that I guess automatically slows down a train that's going too fast was not engaged.
 holaks
Joined: 5/25/2014
Msg: 269
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Posted: 12/20/2017 8:55:15 PM
I never say no to food.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/20/2017 9:01:55 PM
Holaks, We're the same age. If you lived near me, I'd introduce you to someone that would love your convivial personality, and gladly bring you for McD burgers.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 271
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Posted: 12/21/2017 11:34:54 AM

Pig, how do you know she considers it a joke?


Her response indicated it.


Would you ask her out, sounds like she's interested?


When she first contacted me, she said to me "we should hang out sometime". I asked her if she wanted to meet up on two different weekends after that, but she couldn't make it. I don't really even care enough to ask again.


If she gets a joke, send her a picture of your testicles with the note, you showed me your balls and I'm showing you mine. If you want to be festive, you can drape a little tinsel on them before you take the picture


OMG!! WHO WOULD JOKE ABOUT SOMETHING LIKE THIS?!?!

The ornaments weren't balls, anyway. They were animals.
 forumzfishonly
Joined: 12/17/2017
Msg: 272
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Posted: 12/21/2017 5:49:17 PM
Hard to believe women would waste your time for a free meal, but many do, I guess men are here for sex, women just want food..go figure
 saintclara
Joined: 5/30/2017
Msg: 273
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Posted: 12/21/2017 8:42:43 PM
I don't believe for one minute women come on here just for food we are in the age of equality I think this is something men say to justify the fact that a women went on a date and thought Fck no his 🤢 and decides not to see them again. They can't handle being rejected and make up all types of lies to themselves. Women are more advanced and know if a man doesn't date them again he probably wasn't all that into her. Men will just scream meal whores and assume they are too incredible fora women to date and run. So pathetic the denial
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/21/2017 10:21:28 PM
Pig, yeah, I would leave it up to her at this point, but now you have nothing to lose by sending her a pic of your tinsel covered balls and say You've got no sense of humor

What saintclara is saying is true, because how could a man know for sure it was about a woman wanting a meal and it wasn't about his personality?
 saintclara
Joined: 5/30/2017
Msg: 275
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Posted: 12/21/2017 10:31:23 PM
They act like we are on food stamps or Victorian era unable to get shopping I mean who do they think is going to supermarkets mostly. We don't need men for food or sex or anything but sometimes we think it would be nice to date and see who is out there and when we do reality check and retreat back to the safety and comfort of our homes again with double locks
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