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 VikingHoosier
Joined: 5/8/2015
Msg: 51
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Gals in the USA wear bikinis (or more modest swimming suits) in hot tubs. Perhaps they're topless in Canada and European countries, but most of the USA has a sharia law. An outdoor hot tub might be viewable by neighbors such as jealous wives who don't want her husband to see the babe in the tub. The girls themselves might not want to be seen by a creepy neighbor or a stranger operating a camera drone.

I remember hanging out with friends who had a big hot tub in their backyard. One gal wore a swimming suit that looked like what women wore to the beach in the first half of the 20th century. I found the outfit endearing.

As to girls sending a private bikini photo to a stranger with her number as a first message, it's stupid to give your number so soon. The photo might be fake. The OP has made posts suggesting he knows people lie about age, so he should know the bikini girls might be fake. She shouldn't message him like that because he might be fake.
 ebolakitty
Joined: 3/19/2016
Msg: 52
Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 3:53:55 AM

ust this old cucks two cents ,,,


Cuck doesn't even do it justice. Rarely do you find a man so warm, so loving and so non threatening. Are you suggesting that the OP strive for an equal partnership based on mutual respect with someone like Ouija2025 perhaps? Cripes! What would you do if you caught the OP manspreading?
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 53
more like a preyer player
Posted: 4/15/2017 6:42:58 AM
Hard to imagine the OP having the guts to manspread on the subway. More like keeping his knees closed, arms in, hoping no one bullies him, considering all the insecurity he displays with massive amounts of "this is how many girls i'm getting". its as natural as Tiger Woods bragging about every putt he sinks--it happens so often, he doesn't have to.
 SS4544Spd
Joined: 8/31/2016
Msg: 54
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Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 8:15:46 AM
Razor wrote:

one night you will be laying there ,next to your "latest" fling feeling empty ,,as always,
wondering "is this it, is this all there is nothing more?"
Now if you don't wonder ,you just keep up your endless tail hunt,
you may just miss out on that "real thing",,that will make you a better man,

Didn't read through the whole thread but the first few...and last but get the gist of the whole thing.

OP probably should listen to the above.....

One thing he will have future problems with....is fidelity....and sexual boredom within a one-on-one relationship.....because the revolving door habit is very difficult to stop if you've done it for years.

OP, I don't know what you're getting out of this exercise....'cuz your "suggestions" here are pretty much standard for those that are young and beautiful. Singles bar stuff. Nothing new or novel there.
 Wilkes_Barre_Candy
Joined: 9/7/2016
Msg: 55
Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 11:14:48 AM

An outdoor hot tub might be viewable by neighbors such as jealous wives who don't want her husband to see the babe in the tub.


Be careful Viking; according to some- women don't get jealous.

Even when their man is getting all hot-N-bothered by a younger, more nubile cho-cha.

Men love to look. They even prefer a more modestly dressed woman who is real/in their vicinity, over the most naked of all porn stars.

Something about accessibility (even if only in their minds) & leaving something up to the imagination!
 AngryGroceries17
Joined: 1/9/2017
Msg: 56
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Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 12:27:29 PM

one night you will be laying there ,next to your "latest" fling feeling empty ,,as always,
wondering "is this it, is this all there is nothing more?"
Now if you don't wonder ,you just keep up your endless tail hunt,
you may just miss out on that "real thing",,that will make you a better man,

OP is 27. He hasn’t even hit his stride yet. As far as the better man comment, ask yourself this; what did that get you? A divorce or two, a few women sneaking of with men just like OP and 50% of your assets, the pleasure of raising another man’s child?

Hard to imagine the OP having the guts to manspread on the subway. More like keeping his knees closed, arms in, hoping no one bullies him, considering all the insecurity he displays with massive amounts of "this is how many girls i'm getting".

The fact that you even consider manspreading being a topic of concern is concerning in itself. Don’t be such a liberal cuck. It will get you nothing but heartache.

Didn't read through the whole thread but the first few...and last but get the gist of the whole thing.

OP probably should listen to the above.....

That was sound advice 40-60 years ago. Today it’s a different ballgame and that advice is utterly misguided and out of touch with reality.
 razors_edge55
Joined: 11/25/2013
Msg: 57
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Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 1:32:56 PM
Boy you are "angry" the guy has not hit his stride ,,well my mother would put that "he don't know how to wipe his azz yet" ,,,no it's the same ballgame ,,,but do you just want to play ,,or win ??

your post is too long ,,just say don't listen to the old fart ,,go fvck who you want ,,,
don't matter the OP is just here to try to stroke his ego ,,(that's ego not eggo)

and what the hell is "manspreading "??
 Nestaron
Joined: 3/22/2016
Msg: 58
Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 6:22:04 PM
So if I wrote the same thing as the official post and said modesty is the best for profile... How many guys with laugh think about it.

Dont matter if that is my preference it sounds stupid when you state it like that especially since guys love skin showing.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
Msg: 59
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Not a prayer
Posted: 4/15/2017 11:53:48 PM

and what the hell is "manspreading "??

You have a wonderful search engine at your fingertips called GOOGLE. It's not the only one, but it's better than most. It's an encyclopedia, dictionary, news source, celebrity & pop media reference, maps, guides, storylines. There isn't much you can't get at least a clue about by using GOOGLE.

You're already using the internet. In the time it takes to ask a question to people on a old-style message posting board and get an answer, you could have looked up the answers to 100 questions and read a book or two.

People call me and ask me where in town to get this or that, or what's the address, or what do they sell at XYZ store. WTF? Do you NOT have an Internet connection?!? You can ask Siri, or Google, or Alexa and get info hands-free. Why is it so hard to do?
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 60
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Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/16/2017 3:24:22 AM

Simply send the guy a private BIKINI pic and your CELL.


At my age, chances of this happening is slim to none.
 razors_edge55
Joined: 11/25/2013
Msg: 61
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Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/16/2017 6:09:13 AM
mes,59 mr,aintnodeal ,I only asked cause I was here and it did not sound like a real word to me ,
I don't have FB or twitter ,,so if it's some new slang of the day???? ,,,never crossed my mind to google,
I guess it's a lot more fun for you to bétch than be helpfull ,,or you don't know what it is ,,honest
I've lost intrest already ,

Happy Easter to you ,,health and happiness
 jco415
Joined: 1/4/2017
Msg: 62
Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/16/2017 6:29:12 AM
OP's picture caption...
Sep 2014 My arms have not been this big since! haha


...and mine haven't been that small since 1984 when you were born and I graduated high school!
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 63
Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/16/2017 6:39:41 AM
VALUE...........................? I should print this trash out and start a fire with it!
 VikingHoosier
Joined: 5/8/2015
Msg: 64
more like a preyer player
Posted: 4/20/2017 8:54:42 AM


Hard to imagine the OP having the guts to manspread on the subway.


I don't believe "manspreading" is gutsy behavior. It's immature, most likely from displacement from being dominated elsewhere, most likely by the spreader's mother.

Most people outgrow trying to dominate seat territory as young children, as it's most common in car seats: "Mommy, my brother has an arm on my side!"

In September 2009 a high school bus camera in Belleville Illinois captured footage of a punk black kid trying to take up an entire seat by putting his backpack on the aisle side. The driver demanded a thin male student (who happened to be white) sit down. Nobody would let the white kid sit in their seat. When the white kid cautiously approached the seat with the one kid, the backpack kid and another black kid viciously beat the white kid for a long time while a bloodthirsty mob of other black students cheered on the attack. It's quite possible the backpack kid would have done the same to any male student who tried to sit by him regardless of race. I initially thought the backpack kid was from a fatherless household, but then the news interviewed the backpack kid's father, who is minister / preacher at a church. The father condoned the attack. Perhaps the father beat the son on a regular basis and the son took out his frustration on smaller kids at school.

Many people have bad experiences involving people who try to hog space. Seeing a spreader might bring back bad memories, and the current spreader is associated with multiple previous bullies.

It's also a bad choice of terms, as is "mansplaining". Notice how the feminists who complain about terms with specific genders never say anything about negative terms with "man" or similar male terms in the name.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 65
more like a preyer player
Posted: 4/20/2017 9:29:11 AM
VikingHoosier- "It's also a bad choice of terms, as is "mansplaining". Notice how the feminists who complain about terms with specific genders never say anything about negative terms with "man" or similar male terms in the name."

Maybe that's because it was MEN who came up with those terms?!
The MGTOW crowd coined them BOTH.
I thought it would help you to know that. ;)

"I don't believe "manspreading" is gutsy behavior. It's immature, most likely from displacement from being dominated elsewhere, most likely by the spreader's mother."

Ding Ding!
And Viking Hoosier gets the prize for coming up with the explanation for types like the OP, seki and other menchildren here.
It's very Freudian and kinda' complicated, but basically they suffer from a profound case of nipple confusion. Their mother's bottle fed them, so now they are always seeking titty in other forms, which explains their love of bikini pics that feature the all important boobies.
I hear they invite complete strangers to swap body fluids, while said strangers cringe and consider puking over such a notion.
I also hear they like to have digit's up their hiney's, sometimes spanking's too, because that darn mommy fixation can never quite be subdued. After sex, they cry and their lover's hold them and they finally feel safe, until another nipple calls, then the cycle just starts all over again.
Toodles, you lovely menchildren, happy hunting and waiting for those bikni pics, I'm sure another will come in just a sec. :D :D
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
Msg: 66
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Shirtless pics are ok now?
Posted: 4/20/2017 9:42:30 AM
I tried the bikini pic route once.

It got me deleted.

*shrug*
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 67
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Shirtless pics are ok now?
Posted: 4/20/2017 10:10:51 AM
^^^^^Welcome back...It's been awhile.
 flman2015
Joined: 10/3/2015
Msg: 68
Shirtless pics are ok now?
Posted: 4/20/2017 10:57:47 AM


I tried the bikini pic route once.

It got me deleted.
If the bikini is too large, you get deleted ;-)
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 69
only from little boys scared shirtless
Posted: 4/20/2017 11:46:14 AM
we'll have to see the photo, before we can judge.

:)
only from little boys scared shirtless
Posted: 4/21/2017 9:18:00 PM
Just found this thread.

First thought: Oh god. Here we go again.

A weak original post. Worded well, making it sound sensible and thought-out. But representing very little thought at all. Weak.

Then the usual page after page of trollish idiocy from most sides.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 71
only from little boys scared shirtless
Posted: 4/22/2017 6:41:46 AM
and yet you read it to conform you're right :) lol
only from little boys scared shirtless
Posted: 4/22/2017 8:44:50 PM
I read it to give it a chance. To give the benefit of the doubt. Der.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 73
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Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/25/2017 11:07:25 AM

Simply send the guy a private BIKINI pic and your CELL.

That's it.

Not to say she obviously wouldn't get feedback... but she would also miss out on a few guys if she looked really good in them, as some would take it as spam. Most spam aren't nudes, but bikini pics with not much else said.

I think a better approach would be to have a profile with photos set to 'private' -- and to say something something kind of short & generic on top of it to give it a "I'm real, not spam" feel to it, with a regular pic + a bikini pic. IMO, that'd do the trick without throwing a few babies out with the bathwater. Understandable why they'd throw pics at you -- they just don't want them public.
 hearton64
Joined: 6/9/2016
Msg: 74
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Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/25/2017 12:27:50 PM
So, just sit back and let the women flock to you
(With bikini shots and phone numbers as
though all they are worth is
****?)because it would be beneath you to stoop to
Displaying any class or decency whilst trying to get laid
in a dating forum?

Interestingly, I received a ton of unsolicited****shots
And phone numbers when I joined her back in 2008.

I could have settled for getting laid daily if I was a slut with no
self worth.

Instead I held out for a man who showed interest in more
Than just sex,who pursued me,and had integrity and common decency
not to use his looks to use women who were so shallow
all that mattered was his looks.

I may be older now, but at 45 I was still sexy enough to
do what you suggest, but why bother if my goal is more
than to get laid!?

And why should I be the one chasing a man
Begging for****with bikini pics,
when it's easy as shit for women to get laid without
even doing that?

I'm sure you'll come back with insults but seriously
if you're here to help women get laid,
Don't waste your time,most of us actually want and get
more than****if we don't stoop to your advise.

Btw I haven't been single since 2009
and I've had sex virtually daily with a man I found
here who loves me.

I challenge you to finding LOVE,not temporary instant
gratification,for a change.It takes a lot more effort
than just hooking up and it brings 100% more
satisfaction.

You're obviously good looking
( if those are actually your real pics)
But your condescending attitude towards anyone
who disagrees with you makes you so unattractive.

If it works for you to have horny shallow girls send you pics and phone
numbers all the power to you, but there's no need
to shit all over everyone else in the forums, is there?

Seems to me your best bet is adult friend finders
It Hookup.com if your main goal is easy sex.

Happy Fishing in a barrel.
 SilverWings2017
Joined: 12/14/2016
Msg: 75
Finally a Thread with VALUE - How to Write an UnSolicited First Time Letter to a Guy!
Posted: 4/26/2017 6:44:32 AM
Hearton64 Truer words have never been spoken!

OP - Given your other threads, how to hump and dump a girl you met in a coffee shop was a huge waste of time as well. Not that you could actually get anyone to date you anyway.

And FYI, didn't anyone tell you that it's bad form to post a cut off picture of yourself with someone else?
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