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 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
Msg: 101
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No, it doesn't center around "getting big d!cks"


I don't think it centers around it but I bet it plays a important part in it. I had a buddy that was 6'6" tall and according to him he had a baby d!ck. I never saw a dude that just wanted a regular girlfriend in all my life and he would have no problems getting women at all. His problem was keeping a women. I'm just saying man I think there is more to it than you want to admit.

Just like I saw a average height dude one day playing pool in a bar that would keep a sock in his pants. I knew he had a sock in his pants because a rolled up sock fell out the bottom of his pant leg one nite when we were playing pool. He said "hey man don't say nothing, ok?" when I was done laughing I said "sure man whatever".

That dude would pull women all nite every nite. Sometimes those women would come back to the bar shortly after him taking them home or what have you totally pissed off. I'd always love to go talk to those women about what happened like I didn't know and watch them try and squirm out of telling me. I'd always tell them I knew already what they were pissed about in the end and they would then laugh it off and say it was false advertisement.

I don't think all women seek that but a good portion do. My first ex wife made me feel bad about having a big one so it wasn't to stroke my ego she would not want to have sex because of it. Like touching bottom or trying to get all the way in was a big deal all the time so we would do everything but have straight up sex all the time. That was fine and I dealt with it even though that wasn't as much fun of course.

So a part of my deal is that and the other part is a woman I dated before her that was a shorter woman affected me. I was 18 and 19 and she was 34 and 35 because we were together for a couple years. She was 4'11" and my stuff would only go about halfway in and that was cool too. She loved that sh!t dude but she told me a story about her ex husband that she found kiddy porn and sh!t and it brought back stuff of their past together and such. Like he would have her act kind of school girlish and sh!t. Well anyway he even said when they were talking one day he would pretend she was a child. I broke it off with her really shortly after that and any short woman always creeped me the f^ck out after that day.

So judging from some of my life experience I came to the conclusions I have and from yours you may of come to completely different conclusions for whatever reason. I actually found that I enjoyed most not all taller women anyway because they accommodate me better as well. As in I fit nearly all the way most of the time and my old lady now believes there is no such thing as too big and so I was like SOLD!
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Posted: 6/2/2017 12:46:05 AM
I just came back from swimming and the water was COLD! Can you tell her the water was COLD?!?! Does she understand?
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
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Posted: 6/2/2017 6:31:04 AM

And yeah, the average size of a penis erect went from about up to 6.5" to up to about 5.9" (not even hitting 6")


5.9" might be the high end of average. But from what I have read, average penis size is usually somewhere between 5 and 6 inches.


But I will disagree that girls go after tall guys because they're thinking "tall" d!ck.


I don't think the majority of women like tall men for that particular reason. But I know ( and heard of ) a few women that have mentioned this. That might be based from their limited experience. Maybe among the men they had sex with, the tallest ones had the largest penises. Thus they incorrect assume that tall men in general have larger penises.
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
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Posted: 6/2/2017 7:12:36 AM

I don't think the majority of women like tall men for that particular reason.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmRewdqpN2I

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zieLQQuraWI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BeHSZaKZTPw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3boOD81uIdc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fe6QlCeIj7o

I could do this all day. Women will lie and it maybe arguably unintentional but the crotch cam doesn't lie.
 The_Pearl
Joined: 2/7/2017
Msg: 105
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Posted: 6/2/2017 7:31:54 AM
^^^^You know seriously Crusty Jack...(what an image) take your penis and braggart self to the "sex and dating" forum...ffs. This is not what this forum is about.
Join the rest of the guys that want to brag about their genitals....and b1tch about women.

Or better yet join the MGTOW forums......you'll find you'll fit right in.
 Sweet_Danimal
Joined: 10/31/2015
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Posted: 6/2/2017 11:39:56 AM

You're still guessing too low.


MmmmKayyyyy. I'll up my guess to 220lbs.

Last few times I weighed in was between 211 and 216.
Doing a ton of cardio might drop me 15 pounds, 20 if I starve myself.
Still well into the 'overweight' range my many scales.
Trying to find a match by the numbers is pretty much hopeless.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 6/2/2017 12:36:51 PM

Sometimes small men have big "packages". sometimes big men have small ones.
Sometimes big women have tight "hoo-hah's" (forumslady has exclusive rights to the term hoo-hah, just so we are clear), sometimes small women have large hoo-hah's.

I totally agree, and that was my original point. My response to Jack was that yeah, okay, you have a less chance to find a small wee-wee with a taller guy, fine -- but no, that's not why women like tall guys. As far as the hoo-hahs are concerned -- his point was that penis & hoo-has are different, because girls get breasts later in life, not at birth. I never got into that, but I do have to say it's genetic like a penis -- and penis size doesn't come to fruition until later life, but with either it's a red herring on later-in-life sorta thing. Being 6 foot comes later in life, too. It's about genetics... so yes, short girls with big ripe hoo-has and taller gals with small hoo-has occur... as do short men big-d!cks, tall men small-d!cks. I will say there IS a difference between the two, sure, but not by a "one appears later in life, one appears as a baby".

I had a buddy that was 6'6" tall and according to him he had a baby d!ck. I never saw a dude that just wanted a regular girlfriend in all my life and he would have no problems getting women at all. His problem was keeping a women. I'm just saying man I think there is more to it than you want to admit.

At 5'6" or 6'6", yeah, having a baby d!ck is going to be a problem. No argument there. I'm sure that wasn't the only reason he couldn't keep a girlfriend -- because it'd hinder him from Getting a girlfriend more than anything. And he was Very Tall yet a baby d!ck. That should tell ya something about tall = taller penis as a Strong correlation. But again, I admit, it's about what's Perceived when a gal decides who she's going to get the # from. However, pen!s-size isn't on her mind. If anything, there WOULDN'T be any thoughts about pen!s size, because he's tall so there's nothing to worry about (or so they thought! ha!).

That dude would pull women all nite every nite. Sometimes those women would come back to the bar shortly after him taking them home or what have you totally pissed off.

Okay, avg sized dude putting sock in his pants. I think that (a) gave him confidence which goes a long way, and (b) if done right -- OK, I can see girls noticing that. They can't normally tell. No argument about many (but not all) girls Liking a Big D!ck, to at least try it on for size. The argument is -- is there a strong correlation between Tall men -> Big penis? No. A non-strong correlation of having on average a bigger one, ok. Do women want tall guys because it's thought he has a big wang? No, not really, but I will say that the passive belief that she won't be short-changed, among other things, probably comes into it (no pun intended).

I think you're making too swift of a connection there. Much like people who say short guys have bad attitudes. I think when it comes to Taller guys, it's not about bigger d!cks... I think there may be a back-of-the-mind comfort not having to worry about a lack of one -- but it's centered around basic attraction of being taller next to her & around her as a Man.
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
Msg: 108
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Posted: 6/2/2017 7:46:47 PM

I totally agree, and that was my original point.


I agree with the above to a degree but I think more like this ----->
A non-strong correlation of having on average a bigger one, ok.

I think there may be a back-of-the-mind comfort not having to worry about a lack of one


So we agree and are saying the same thing in different ways but disagree to the importance level to a woman.


At 5'6" or 6'6"


6'6" Not a mistype. I always said not always but one guy doesn't tell me anything. Like I said he was getting to a point due to his height his foot was in the door. If penis size didn't matter then getting a foot in the door would of been enough yet it never was and to this very day it still hasn't been enough and the guy is in his mid 40s and a very good and nice person willing to bend over backwards and still single. I got stories for days about the guy.

If you don't believe penis size is more important to women than you may thing and are willing to be open minded to it do a google search of crotch cam on you tube and check it out. Watch a few of those videos because women can be far more perverted and superficial than any man you know.

I don't think this hurts but I don't think it is all that important. ---->
but it's centered around basic attraction of being taller next to her & around her as a Man.
 Laidbackguy1964
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 109
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Posted: 6/4/2017 8:11:47 AM
It should state the height in the profile....but a lot lie about their weight, age etc and not sure why? Dating is about attraction and you have to have that
 RyanPerson8890
Joined: 9/2/2016
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Posted: 6/6/2017 6:44:26 AM
I don't think that's really a man vs woman thing, if you ask anybody what their weight is over their height they could get offended
 Laidbackguy1964
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 111
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Posted: 6/6/2017 8:45:49 AM
I know my height, but I don't honesty weigh myself, nor do I have scales...why worry about one's weight 24/7? Some people get ill doing things like that and end up hating good tasting food...no not me, but I do keep an eye on things

Some woman let themselves go after pregnancy and let the pounds pile on, but others lose weight easy and get back to having great figure, once again and they learn to love their bodies again...I don't find anything at all attractive about a pregnant woman and don't like seeing them being promoted on TV...everyone pandering and telling lies, by saying how good they look...no the majority don't look good or sexy, when their pregnant and they know it...so no sugar coating needed...the one's that are really overweight, before pregnancy, well they will be huge and not sure if they, could ever have a good figure anyway?

It's sexist to put higher value on women all the time and even when they are looking at their worst...society compliments them and praises them...that's wrong and I totally reject it
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 6/6/2017 5:56:13 PM

So we agree and are saying the same thing in different ways but disagree to the importance level to a woman.

I'm not hitting on any level of importance of "size of boat VS motion of ocean"... but their mindset when it comes to going toward a Tall guy. It's not about pen!s-size, is my point -- but indirectly, as far as not having to really worry about a lack of Anything -- sure.

My point is that the main thing is the bigger physical presence. A 5'8" gal can be solidly attracted to a guy whose pee-pee is just fine and dandy in size compared to all men -- but ugh, he's not a tall guy. She's lacking attraction after their first few dates that went well, because he's noticeably shorter than her in her heels and equal in her flats. Yeah, I'm sure when they hooked up on their 2nd date, if she found out he was hung like a rattlesnake and not just 'nice sized' that she can come across -- that her interest may not be waning, as it'd make up for it. But she'd rather, all other things being equal (including pee-pee), be with 6'1" Bobby. That's the main thing, the main draw on height.

If penis size didn't matter then getting a foot in the door would of been enough yet it never was

Well, usually a foot in the door's required before the pen!s unravels. ;) But yeah, a foot in the Relationship door -- I agree, small pee-pee is going to not be there. I think pen!s size IS important -- as far as being Too Small, yep. And that they'll stick around with a guy they're so-so interested in but has Big pen!s, all other things being equal, longer and give a Relationship a go where she otherwise wouldn't. Yeah.

All my point is -- they're more avoiding small ones (see your friend there) -- and they're not chasing tall guys with tall pen!s in mind as their motivator, is all. It's what we disagree on is what drives guys taller than other guys (and they themselves)....

I don't think this hurts but I don't think it is all that important. ---->
but it's centered around basic attraction of being taller next to her & around her as a Man.

... And that's our main disagreement. It is very important with gals. It's related to the concept of not liking a guy who's overly skinny with narrow shoulders, especially with gals who are big boned. It's more about not having/feeling like not having the Lack of something. By your rationale, if it's really not that important how a guy's height and shoulder width compares to her (and other guys if noticably Less) -- then all that would have to be "(cough) Mentioned (cough)" on the side is that 5'5" Johnny is nice sized when around in social groups. Not bragging he's "Yuge" as some big thang by any means -- but word gets around that "yeah, I heard he's nice sized", and that's it.... then that would wipe away Johnny's troubles from anyone who heard it, as actual Height of the guy doesn't really matter.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 113
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Posted: 6/6/2017 6:42:49 PM
HOw really lost is someone who can only boast about his****size? As if
Size only matters re a wine glass
But if they only thing you can offer is a } cough" pretnd big member, or not from factory breasts
Perhaps you were improperly TT
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
Msg: 114
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Posted: 6/6/2017 7:52:22 PM

... And that's our main disagreement. It is very important with gals. It's related to the concept of not liking a guy who's overly skinny with narrow shoulders, especially with gals who are big boned. It's more about not having/feeling like not having the Lack of something. By your rationale, if it's really not that important how a guy's height and shoulder width compares to her (and other guys if noticably Less) -- then all that would have to be "(cough) Mentioned (cough)" on the side is that 5'5" Johnny is nice sized when around in social groups. Not bragging he's "Yuge" as some big thang by any means -- but word gets around that "yeah, I heard he's nice sized", and that's it.... then that would wipe away Johnny's troubles from anyone who heard it, as actual Height of the guy doesn't really matter.


Well think about the physical qualities you look for in a woman. Those can vary from person to person and for some people it can vary day to day for them. It is never one particular quality in and of itself. In my opinion the women here go money, d!ck size, height, personality maybe in your area you have drawn a conclusion of a different order of importance. Could be different countries and areas and a variety of factors as in we both maybe right about the women we both have encountered.

Anyone who says these physical attributes are not factors at all it's probably because they have no physical attributes to offer. They are probably old, wrinkled, ugly, shriveled up nasty human beings with no souls and the personality of a dry towel. They probably are very unsuccessful in getting a man and feel a need to follow people around in a dating forum and talk sh!t all the time. Kind of a sad existence if you ask me. So things to offer a potential mate can be important as you do not want to end up one of these people my friend.
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 6/7/2017 3:08:17 PM

In my opinion the women here go money, d!ck size, height, personality maybe in your area you have drawn a conclusion of a different order of importance.


I, not only totally disagree with this ^^^^^^^ I take umbrage to the 2nd paragraph.......................

I swear life must be F'n unbearable, .....................sad...............even. WTF?

Is there an online..................... no... make that a retail store in a mall ...where a woman can walk in....................shop for a man , "by size", and use a dressing room? I mean after all, no woman wants to walk out with her "purchase' with out "trying it on first". Right ladies?
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
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Posted: 6/7/2017 5:04:45 PM

I, not only totally disagree with this


Can't and how would you know? Unless you live where I live you wouldn't know because here was in reference to where I live and not POF.


I take umbrage to the 2nd paragraph


Again it wasn't aimed at you I think the person or people it was aimed at know it is accurate for them.
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 6/7/2017 5:35:37 PM
Jack, When you write from the Forums, in the Forums "here" would refer to The POF Forums. There are a lot of us "here" who read and respond "here." IF it was your intent to refer to another "here", be precise and include the whereabouts of your "here".
And when you write insulting comments about women "here", that includes me..............I'm "here".

The Forums are open to anyone to read. And open to anyone with a profile to respond.
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
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Posted: 6/7/2017 5:50:14 PM

Jack, When you write from the Forums, in the Forums "here" would refer to The POF Forums. There are a lot of us "here" who read and respond "here." IF it was your intent to refer to another "here", be precise and include the whereabouts of your "here".
And when you write insulting comments about women "here", that includes me..............I'm "here".

The Forums are open to anyone to read. And open to anyone with a profile to respond.


I'm sorry you thought that and came to the conclusion you came to.


In my opinion the women here go money, d!ck size, height, personality maybe in your area you have drawn a conclusion of a different order of importance. Could be different countries and areas and a variety of factors as in we both maybe right about the women we both have encountered.


Ok we have both encountered the women on POF via the forums and we really wouldn't know what ya'lls preferences are as we have never met any of you. At least I haven't. Maybe norwegian guy has I don't know. I even mention later countries and areas in the paragraph. It was not my intent to make you think that so sorry and I will try to be more clear in the future please try not to jump to conclusions next time. If I even intend on offending you I promise you will know it and there will be no doubt. I also believe you have a boyfriend or husband? I assume he is not 5' tall wrinkled old ugly with a baby d!ck so that wasn't in reference to you either. However if he happens to be and that is your preference more power to you and no offense intended.
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 6/7/2017 6:18:44 PM
Apology accepted, Jack.

Yes, I have a boyfriend of nearly 3 years. You assume correctly, he is taller than 5 ft. He has some wrinkles, I don't think he's ugly, and ....................no I'm not kissen' and tellin'.
My initial attraction for him was, .............he was / is polite, a gentleman, his laugh is contagious, and my grand children adore him. Oh, and did I mention he has a Harley? LOL :)
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 6/7/2017 6:30:30 PM
Do you think you're funny by being rude to women to ask their weight? Keep on laughing as you remain alone. If that's your goal, then keep it up.
 Nestaron
Joined: 3/22/2016
Msg: 121
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Posted: 6/7/2017 6:37:59 PM
Researchers have done this and find that for men there is no amount of income that the woman in the bottom ten percent in terms of appearance can earn to make men prefer her over women in the top 10 percent. That is, looks really matter to men relative to income. For women though, if the man in the bottom ten percent in terms of looks earns more than $248,500, they will prefer him over the more attractive guy earning $60,000. My students often interpret this result as saying that women really care about money, but that is not what it says at all—$186,000 is a huge difference in income. If women didn’t care about looks and only cared about money, the figure would be much, much lower. This says that despite the impression that on the marriage market women really care about income, the evidence suggest that they also care about looks. They just care about income too.

But what does it actually say about guys they will always choose top 10 percent of women in looks. There for you have your problem here on POF guys are not going after lower percent in women, so the higher percent in looks demand higher income earners. The less appealing ladies get nothing, or guys willing to settle sounds like everyone is getting shafted all around. Might as well have fun doing it.

And as a side note only 16% of women actually care about penis size, and 71% of men are actually rather insecure about theirs so ladies if you really want to hurt men call them are the lack of their johnson's size you might get lucky and cause damage.
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
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Posted: 6/7/2017 7:07:15 PM

Yes, I have a boyfriend of nearly 3 years. You assume correctly, he is taller than 5 ft. He has some wrinkles, I don't think he's ugly, and ....................no I'm not kissen' and tellin'.
My initial attraction for him was, .............he was / is polite, a gentleman, his laugh is contagious, and my grand children adore him. Oh, and did I mention he has a Harley? LOL :)


Awesome:) I'm glad you're happy and I know he is too.



Nestaron that all sounds about right what info do you have about a man's height on importance to a woman?
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 6/7/2017 8:28:54 PM
I think this survey is flawed, as they tend to be. It depends on people answering honestly. One can easily say, it's as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor man. It's not about seeking money for money's sake. Also, do the women have their own money, because those who do could go for looks instead. I know it's not part of the survey, but it's important. About penis size, I think that number is too low.
 Jackcrusto
Joined: 2/27/2017
Msg: 124
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Posted: 6/7/2017 9:09:01 PM

I think this survey is flawed, as they tend to be. It depends on people answering honestly. One can easily say, it's as easy to love a rich man as it is a poor man. It's not about seeking money for money's sake. Also, do the women have their own money, because those who do could go for looks instead. I know it's not part of the survey, but it's important. About penis size, I think that number is too low.


Well I think the whole package matters. I mean a woman is good looking and she is broke and smaller boobs. Well when love fades I can ride that nice azz all the way home. You tell me she is ugly, stupid, broke, no boobs, no azz and one leg and one eyed and love fades I'm completely f^cked. lmao

It don't make a sh!t either way on the survey to me personally. First I'm not single but even when I have been it has never been for long. When I get single the b!tches of the past come out of the woodwork like they were waiting for it. Who has both ex wives messaging them on fb saying saw your status change want to talk about it.lmao

Money I meet the standard. Height I'm 6'1" so that ain't too bad.****size good. Weight a little heavy. I think 235 probably gained another 5 on top of that between here and there. Looks I don't know I guess ok. No hair loss gone a little grey. So I mean sh!t, does it really matter to me? However, I do agree that the penis size number is too low but I'm willing to accept it and wonder what he says about the height. If that matters more or less according to stats. I'm either I'm right or I'm wrong I'd like to know. I'm well above women's standards as I age and I love that as my stock continues to increase everyday.
 Nestaron
Joined: 3/22/2016
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Posted: 6/7/2017 9:41:58 PM
Roflmao@survey is flawed? Do you even get what you just said? You immediately judged a survey because of your own untrusting nature, a person who thinks someone lies, would only do so because it's what they do. Kinda like a cheater is always the first to accuse a person of cheating either that or they are really insecure in which case is most likely to cheat anyways. No I assure it's a pretty accurate survey along with the next one I am giving cause Jack asked for it but he might not like that findings.
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