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 NewYorker58
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I'm glad you understand, Pig?? I'm not relationship dependent. I don't need one, but I doubt a day will arrive where men are not going to be interested in me. I plan to stay in shape and look as good as I can, but that's really for myself, and then spills over into dating.

Henry, I'm talking about men that look at profiles and only want sex, but make it seem otherwise. I don't know how I'll feel when I'm 80. I could have a s/o in my life. Most likely I will think the 90 year old is too old, because like now, if I just want sex, there are plenty of younger men willing and available for that. When I'm 80, I'll have 70 year olds lined up for sex only, maybe a relationship too. I may not care about a relationship at that point. Sex for me is everywhere. I could have a younger guy every day of the week.

LiR, why do you mention paid membership? You don't need one to see the meet me guys. Isn't there a choice for casual relationships under intent? Maybe its ok-stupid that shows, allows, one to list casual sex, not sure.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 2/7/2018 5:01:31 PM

I'm glad you understand, Pig?? I'm not relationship dependent. I don't need one, but I doubt a day will arrive where men are not going to be interested in me. I plan to stay in shape and look as good as I can, but that's really for myself, and then spills over into dating.


You actually feel qualified to say how men will respond to you 20 years from now and how your body will respond to your big "plans"???

hahahahahahahaha. Oh, my ribs.

You don't have *a* screw loose. They're ALL loose.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 2/7/2018 5:03:50 PM

NewYorker58
LiR, why do you mention paid membership? You don't need one to see the meet me guys. Isn't there a choice for casual relationships under intent? Maybe its ok-stupid that shows, allows, one to list casual sex, not sure.

It’s really quite simple. Both you (NY58) and PBEO are claiming that a “Meet Me” selection by a man is saying that he only wants sex. Nowhere on that page is there an option for SEX or for SEX ONLY. It just says “Meet Me”. And meeting someone is the ultimate goad here, right?

Yes, we all know, if the man clicks yes on Meet Me, or sends you a message, or Favorites you, or sends you a Wink (different site), he is interested in getting in your knickers. But that isn’t necessarily ALL that he is interested in.

Be happy that men do want to meet you, and get in your knickers. There will come a day when you will look back on all of that lust fondly.


NewYorker58
I don't know how I'll feel when I'm 80. I could have a s/o in my life. Most likely I will think the 90 year old is too old, because like now, if I just want sex, there are plenty of younger men willing and available for that. When I'm 80, I'll have 70 year olds lined up for sex only, maybe a relationship too. I may not care about a relationship at that point.

You kinda sorta missed my point. As you get older, your dating pool is going to shrink. Dramatically. Down to damn near zero. And you, being you, will still think that there is no one good enough.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 2/7/2018 5:54:13 PM

I could have a younger guy every day of the week.


I'm hearing a lot of talk, but no action!
 fullmoonguy2
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Posted: 2/7/2018 5:58:36 PM

I think some even favorite, which is creepy to me


I'm certainly glad there were plenty of women who did NOT think that way back in the glory days of OLD.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 2/7/2018 6:28:34 PM
Pig, I have no plans, I roll with life. I'm not concerned about having a guy in old age. I could be in a LTR now, and the guy could die by the time I'm 80 or before.

Henry, what you're not understanding is that I have different priorities than you. Not counting these last single years, I've been running wild, partying, and meeting men for 24 years with being single. I've had a lot of sex in my life. Now, I'm more about getting in my interests before I become decrepit. Being able to hike and kayak will end sooner than my sex life. I can always get horizontal.

I don't think of all men as not good enough. Just most of the guys contacting me here, due to their low quality and their desires. I'm not focused on DDG, far from it. I'm not looking for someone with a ton of cash. That leaves me with a lot possibilities. If my dating pool wanes with age, that's okay, I'll be content with my friends. I don't want to deal with some guys aging penis anyway.

CoolD, I'm not looking to do that, at least right now. Being single, my options are open. What are you up to in the hood?
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/7/2018 8:34:27 PM

I think some even favorite, which is creepy to me - to have someone want to keep looking at their profile, photos and never say anything.

Well, apparently you'd wouldn't enjoy the fruits of NY's grocery store, where men are chasing her around, 3 paces to her behind!

I have no plans, I roll with life. I'm not concerned about having a guy in old age. I could be in a LTR now, and the guy could die

Nothing wrong with not being Dependent on the notion of being in an LTR, even for a long-haul. I agree, that's for the weaker folks, who unfortunately were raised at least somewhat in that way, directly or indirectly, as how one should be. That said, dating/schmoozing in general with the opposite-sex, assuming one has a sex drive + not emotionally hissing about the opp-sex, should Naturally be something one desires (not 24/7, but you get the idea). Thus, given enough time, the good potential of non-fling/non-short-term comes around... and so that shouldn't make us heed either, since if it were to follow-thru some, it'd possibly have LTR potential.

I don't think of all men as not good enough. Just most of the guys contacting me here, due to their low quality and their desires.

Well, most of the guys (and gals) who write someone can suck. Doesn't take a majority or remotely close to majority of dateable catches to give things a go.

If my dating pool wanes with age, that's okay, I'll be content with my friends. I don't want to deal with some guys aging penis anyway.

I think you're quite frustrated with guys in general. :)
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 2/7/2018 9:43:08 PM
Absolutely not frustrated with guys. I've got nothing to be frustrated by. Even though I ended relationships, it doesn't mean I didn't enjoy the guys or myself in the relationships. Maybe if I had kids, I could say the guy broke up the family, but that's not the case. No one ruined my life. I'm a happy camper☺ I'm still friends with some exes.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 2/7/2018 11:53:12 PM
Henry, you're a product of your era. Women slathered in makeup. I've seen women do a good job, but it still doesn't look good to me. The older women get, the less makeup they should wear. It settles in their wrinkles. I wouldn't want to date a woman that's made up like that. I grew up with a more fresh-faced Ali McGraw. http://french.fansshare.com/gallery/photos/15490443/

If a guy just looks at your pic, he only wants sex. He already isn't interested in what you have to say. He's not interested to know what you like or don't like, so pretty self-centered. The meet me guys are pretty delusional too, but hey, all they have to do is swipe right.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 2/8/2018 6:14:03 AM

The meet me guys are pretty delusional too


Speaking of delusional, you have actually convinced yourself there's a generation gap between you and Henry.

Who needs Comedy Central on cable tv when a place like this place exists?
 Platinum_Blonde_Angel
Joined: 1/23/2018
Msg: 111
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Posted: 2/8/2018 6:28:20 AM

The older women get, the less makeup they should wear


I agree, some tinted moisturizer, some lip balm, & maybe an eye pencil if a woman is fair complected.

Maybe a tad bit more for a special occasion, but not that much.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 2/8/2018 8:32:39 AM

I've been running wild, partying, and meeting men for 24 years with being single. I've had a lot of sex in my life.


Do we need to check the odometer and do a Carfax on your vagina?
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 2/8/2018 9:11:29 AM
Pig, 8 years is a big age gap at this age. And....we have to assume he's not lying about his age. 8 years is a huge gap in makeup trends. Just from season to season, colors and textures change, how much you apply, and where the focus is.

CoolD, Vajaja-fax wouldn't record hard usage, though there was many a day I was walking funny from taking a pounding Gotta love vajajas, they're so resilient☺

Platinum, I really did look at Ali McGraw when I was a teenager and admired her sparse makeup, and wanted to go that route. Makeup can become an addiction.

People get used to how much makeup you use, and then it's hard to scale back. I remember a friend telling me she went camping and didn't apply makeup the next day, much to the surprise of her friends camping with her. The women actually asked her, "what happened to you"?, LOL! They were used to seeing her in full makeup from the foundation, under eye concealer, 2 cheek colors for contouring with eyeliner and mascara and eyeshadow and lipstick. My skin isn't flawless, but I would never put on foundation. I can't even imagine covering my face with something like that. I know some women are a product of their era that way. The cosmetic companies are making a fortune on making women feel bad about how they look.
 Platinum_Blonde_Angel
Joined: 1/23/2018
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Posted: 2/8/2018 9:28:12 AM

Platinum, I really did look at Ali McGraw when I was a teenager and admired her sparse makeup, and wanted to go that route. Makeup can become an addiction.

"LOVE MEANS NEVER HAVING TO SAY YOU'RE SORRY"
I wonder how many people in here will know who & what we are talking about?


People get used to how much makeup you use, and then it's hard to scale back. I remember a friend telling me she went camping and didn't apply makeup the next day, much to the surprise of her friends camping with her. The women actually asked her, "what happened to you"?,


oopsie hope it was her "ah-ha moment"!


LOL! They were used to seeing her in full makeup from the foundation, under eye concealer, 2 cheek colors for contouring with eyeliner and mascara and eyeshadow and lipstick.


Sounds like a full time job, & a bit theatrical. I've often wondered, those makeup tutorials on You tube, to see young, fresh faced women putting on 27 diff products that they do not need, including green tinted glop under their foundation. I guess when you are young it's fun to experiment & play w/ cosmetics. I cut waaay back when my vision started to tank, even w/ a magnifying mirror hard to see what one is doing & risk ending up overdone.


My skin isn't flawless, but I would never put on foundation. I can't even imagine covering my face with something like that. I know some women are a product of their era that way. The cosmetic companies are making a fortune on making women feel bad about how they look.


True, they should not feel cookie cutter & bad if they need a little help or feel co-erced to use product at all.

Although I must say sunscreen is our friend.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 2/8/2018 9:31:33 AM

Posted By: Newyorker58 on 2/8/2018 1129 AM
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Platinum, I really did look at Ali McGraw when I was a teenager and admired her sparse makeup, and wanted to go that route.


Ali was a swinger :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rIGrbo1MRA
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 2/8/2018 9:55:03 AM

Pig, 8 years is a big age gap at this age. And....we have to assume he's not lying about his age.


Bullshit. 8 years is a big gap between a 13-year-old and a 21-year-old because they're in different stages of life. One is an adult, the other is a pubescent child. This doesn't apply to you and Henry. Sorry. I can't believe this needs to be explained to you.


Do we need to check the odometer and do a Carfax on your vagina?


hahaha. I believe this woman has a different personality for every season. Surely, I'm not the only one who has noticed the massive contrast in her posts these days compared to months ago.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 2/8/2018 12:09:02 PM
Platinum, the makeup companies want to say makeup empowers women. I think it empowers makeup company's pockets. Some women enjoy face painting, and some women feel tortured by it. Makeup has never been compatible with my outdoor lifestyle since I was a kid. I feel bad for women that feel the need to sleep with it on to not shock their husbands☺

CBG, I don't recall that commercial. I would have been 7 years old☺

Pig,of course it's not a big difference for the reason you mentioned, but it is for makeup trends. They change from year to year, never mind several years. Not to mention looks, what y'all picked on me for, saying a few years makes a difference in pics, so there's that with a person's looks.

I know you dislike and refuse to believe there are different sides to a person's personality. I don't know why that is
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 2/8/2018 1:24:22 PM

Who needs Comedy Central on cable tv when a place like this place exists?


Precisely, LMAO, thank goodness my s*** kicker /wadin' boots are close by!
 Platinum_Blonde_Angel
Joined: 1/23/2018
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Posted: 2/8/2018 2:38:29 PM

Platinum, the makeup companies want to say makeup empowers women. I think it empowers makeup company's pockets.


Of course, all manufacturing wants to make $ it's called capitalism.

Sadly, someone made a bundle off the late Tammy Faye Baker.
 Naturalselection53
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Posted: 2/8/2018 3:15:31 PM
zero, ziltch ,nada, not one. My profile is hid and shall remain that way.
 spot4username
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Posted: 2/8/2018 4:01:58 PM

Makeup has never been compatible with my outdoor lifestyle since I was a kid.

So you wouldn't consider yourself a lipstick hiker?
 ThePigOfYourDreams
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Posted: 2/8/2018 4:58:33 PM

Pig,of course it's not a big difference for the reason you mentioned, but it is for makeup trends.


I never said a word about makeup trends. I couldn't care less about them.


I know you dislike and refuse to believe there are different sides to a person's personality. I don't know why that is


Yes, people have various personality facets, but they tend to not completely contradict each other. Months ago, you were the anti-porn, wholesome fuddy-duddy, now you're the big sex kitten.


The cosmetic companies are making a fortune on making women feel bad about how they look.


Oh, spare me. What they are doing is capitalizing on what they know women already feel about themselves. They didn't create your vanity. Let a man roll through here with bullshit like this, and he'll be met with responses like "OMG! No one can MAKE you feel what you don't WANT to feel. You're insecure and have self-esteem issues!!" from the POF armchair psychologist all-stars.
 Platinum_Blonde_Angel
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Posted: 2/8/2018 4:59:12 PM

So you wouldn't consider yourself a lipstick hiker?










n order to maintain the highest quality forums you are restricted to having no more then 2 of the last 10 posts on a thread.
Since 2 of the last 10 posts are yours you can not post to this thread.
 fullmoonguy2
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Posted: 2/8/2018 5:59:38 PM

I know you dislike and refuse to believe there are different sides to a person's personality. I don't know why that is


So, your real name is Sybil?
 aintnodeal
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Posted: 2/8/2018 6:27:35 PM
No matter how pretty or how ugly men and women become in future years, make-up will never be necessary, because it never WAS necessary. Do you think most average people had time & cash to toss away on make-up 200 years ago? Somehow people keep on breeding from the Dawn of Time ( add echo sound effect) without it.

There will always be people who are prettier, more fit, stand straighter, have more brains or more coodination. Make up is one of the equalizers that allow people to punch in a higher weight class. YMMV.

Funny how all the poor manage to breed without it.
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