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 Ouija2025
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well except that it often shows women who have been surgically altered (lady bits)
Art of seduction? Calling for a repair man? :)
I liked Ron in Celebrity rehab.. he was kind
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 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 227
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Posted: 7/21/2017 5:53:26 AM

Hit too close to home for you, Pig? If men didn't get turned on by seeing that "happy ending", producers would not purposefully make sure you see it, because it doesn't have to be seen, but men get excited by it.


Asserting that a man watching heterosexual porn is linked to homosexuality simply because a penis is in the movie is f*cking moronic. As someone else mentioned, it would also make women viewers lesbians simply because vaginas are featured, but you conveniently neglected to address that.



I didn't really have to explain that to you, did I? I think not.


For someone who doesn't like porn, you certainly seem to have a penchant for discussing it. I would be curious to see your browser history. I have a feeling we might see words like "bukkake", "BBC", and "cuckold" pop up.

I don't really have to explain those to you, do I?? I think not.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
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Posted: 7/21/2017 8:04:17 AM

"A porn movie depending on how good it is made, could be considered as educational? Yes the art of seduction, various sexual positions, foreplay, romantic settings, sexy outfits, toys, masturbation techniques, various kissing techniques and many women should think of porn it that way, instead of being prudes"


Art of seduction? Romance?? Hahahahahahahahahaha!!!
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 7/21/2017 10:38:54 AM

when men say they're watching it for the women, aren't they watching the men also?

Yes, and they're watching the (not so great) plot-line and scenery too. It's the act of sex they watch, so most guys want to see, yes, a guy porking the gal, and the focal point is on the chick. If she's ugly, he's going to switch to another one. So the point is, the focal point is on the gals in them.

But even for those few who wig out seeing a naked guy on video in any context -- and only want to see naked ladies doing stuff... okay. So seeing a gal masturbate... if they're "watching it for the women", they're also watching the dildo pork in and out of her, among other things. So likewise, it's much the same way when watching sex. The focal point's about the women in it and what's happening to them, whether it be by a guy, dildo, etc.
 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 230
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Posted: 7/21/2017 11:12:25 AM

"A porn movie depending on how good it is made, could be considered as educational? Yes the art of seduction, various sexual positions, foreplay, romantic settings, sexy outfits, toys, masturbation techniques, various kissing techniques and many women should think of porn it that way, instead of being prudes"


Except so very little porn (or maybe men's porn) show anything other than the actual in-n-out porkin' going on.
There is no seduction, no foreplay, no romantic settings, damn little kissing and few effective masturbation techniques.
Sexy outfits are rare as are toys.

Disclaimer - I haven't sat down to watch a porn movie in a very long time.
The few glimpses I catch indicate nothing has changed in those years.
 IBup4it
Joined: 6/15/2017
Msg: 231
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Posted: 7/21/2017 1:15:10 PM

"A porn movie depending on how good it is made, could be considered as educational? Yes the art of seduction, various sexual positions, foreplay, romantic settings, sexy outfits, toys, masturbation techniques, various kissing techniques and many women should think of porn it that way, instead of being prudes"


I wouldn't watch porn now or ever sorry you couldn't pay me to watch the legal way to rape, degrade, and violently attacking women. Nor would I ever think it was educational in any form other how to get away with the something.

Fact is what you are watching those women don't like it, they do it cause they have no other means of supporting themselves financially. Alot of the were preyed upon put into the sex industry and ended up in porn videos, as they lack education and belief they themselves are already worthless. Your hour or whatever of excitement that you get off on causes them a life time of trauma, and counselling but so glad the people here enjoy their porn and all it does for them.

Don't take my word for it try Shelley Lubben who was once a pornstar's, she even wrote on book on the industry and how bad it was.

https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/former-porn-star-porn-was-the-worst-darkest-thing-ive-ever-been-involved-in
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 232
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Posted: 7/21/2017 1:42:07 PM

I wouldn't watch porn now or ever sorry you couldn't pay me to watch the legal way to rape, degrade, and violently attacking women. Nor would I ever think it was educational in any form other how to get away with the something.


Then clearly you are not educated enough to have a valid opinion.




Fact is what you are watching those women don't like it, they do it cause they have no other means of supporting themselves financially.


Nope, but thanks for attempting to spread a stereotype.

As if anything, it is the men in porn who are taken advantage of.




Alot of the were preyed upon put into the sex industry and ended up in porn videos, as they lack education and belief they themselves are already worthless.


So how many is it?

10%?
25%?
50%
75%?
100%?





Your hour or whatever of excitement that you get off on causes them a life time of trauma, and counselling but so glad the people here enjoy their porn and all it does for them.


Congratulations you just went full hyperbole.
 Manofsubstance1970
Joined: 7/8/2017
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Posted: 7/21/2017 2:05:59 PM
Ibup4it,
“I seriously doubt that modern day feminist’s, with their fake rape culture, rules of conduct towards women, laws to protect women and favour women, would allow women to be exploited by men and with photographic evidence or video footage, would destroy men in courts if indeed, they committed any violation towards women, so it would be very rare indeed these days, but I accept it could have happened pre-feminism maybe?”

“You said yourself that a man need’s spoken permission from a woman just to kiss her, so can anyone really see women not choosing to participate in porn voluntarily? No and I bet they get holiday pay, free health care and a large pay cheque, on top of exposure to promote themselves to make even more money"

“Maybe some female drug addicts go into porn to pay for their habits, but they chose to get into drugs and no one else forced them too, so they are responsible for those bad choices they made and have to find some why to pay for the drugs”
“All the porn I have come across the women are well into what they are doing, they enjoy being filmed, they enjoy being touched by men, they enjoy masturbating, they enjoy orgasms and they love sex, so I don’t know what type of porn you have been watching, but it’s clearly not the stuff I enjoy”

"Hide nudity from this man, because he can't cope with beautiful naked female bodies, women enjoying sexual encounters with men and having wonderful orgasms too, Oh the misery it must have caused him to watch;)"
 IBup4it
Joined: 6/15/2017
Msg: 234
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Posted: 7/21/2017 2:13:09 PM
http://thepinkcross.org/

This site doesn't exist if it was so sort of myth. How many?

Average life expectancy of a porn star is 36.2 years – 1
208 porn stars died prematurely from aids, drugs, suicide, homicide, accidental and medical since 2014 – 2
#1 suicide method among porn stars is by hanging – 3
67 porn stars that we know of committed suicide – 4
66% of porn performers have Herpes, a non-curable disease. – 5
2,396 cases of Chlamydia and 1,389 cases of Gonorrhea reported among performers since 2004. – 6
Over 100 straight and gay performers died from AIDS. – 7
36 porn stars died that we know of from HIV, suicide, homicide and drugs between 2007 and 2010. – 8
Of all known child abuse domains, 48 percent are housed in the United States. – 9
26 cases of HIV reported by Adult Industry Medical Healthcare Foundation (AIM), since 2004. – 10

These are documented facts that are backed by the porn industry actors that's why the website for them exists.

That makes anyone who watches it just as guilty as those who promote and exploit them. How you liking your porn industry now.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 235
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Posted: 7/21/2017 2:21:10 PM

I wouldn't watch porn now or ever sorry you couldn't pay me to watch the legal way to rape, degrade, and violently attacking women.


In less than a DAY, New Yorker has been officially dethroned. F*cking amazing.


other how to get away with the something.
Fact is what you are watching those women don't like it, they do it cause they have no other means of supporting themselves financially. Alot of the were preyed upon put into the sex industry and ended up in porn videos, as they lack education and belief they themselves are already worthless.


Let me guess, you're one of those who has "done their research" and managed to land only on websites with information that supports what you want to be true? Perhaps one day you'll be objective enough to look into it from the other side. Did you ever think maybe there are women from well-adjusted families who just happen to find the idea of making a couple grand from a few hours of "work" more appealing than being a 9 to 5 slave?? Naaaaaw, I'm sure that has nothing to do with it.

Certain aspects of the business are dark, dirty, and seedy, but that's by my own standards, which may not parallel someone else's. A lot of it also has to do with who performers happen to get into business with.
 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 236
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Posted: 7/21/2017 2:46:04 PM

“All the porn I have come across the women are well into what they are doing...


As Meg Ryan was so adept in showing in When Sally met Harry... orgasms are easy to fake on film. And she didn't even have to do the sex scene (averages about $1000 for porn movies).
 Manofsubstance1970
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Posted: 7/21/2017 2:48:21 PM

As Meg Ryan was so adept in showing in When Sally met Harry... orgasms are easy to fake on film. And she didn't even have to do the sex scene (averages about $1000 for porn movies).

"I don't watch 18 porn or soft porn and what I watch is a visible female orgasms filmed close up and the turn on is her being genuinely turned on"
"What's the point in watching fake when you can see the real thing?"
"Do you think Meg Ryan faking an orgasm in a 15 movie is porn?' lol"
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 238
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Posted: 7/21/2017 3:10:37 PM
"when men say they're watching porn for the women, aren't they watching the men also?"

>>>yeah, and I read Playboy for the articles :) seriously, I've never watched gay porn, maybe its done different from straight porn b/c men who want to watch men want to see them in a different way. I suspect, however, that just as women look at female manequins, but imagine themselves in the dress, I look at whoever may be giving Gianna Micheals the business and imagine its me with a woman who looks like her. Just like some dude checking out kinky porn might just be doing it out of curiosity or entertainment/distraction. As for the money shot...i'm thinking about Robin Williams and what he had to say about the face men make during orgasm :)

Porn stars have horrible lives? Well, let's see, we just had another talented musician commit suicide. Apparently we shouldn't listen to music, subsidize the industry, etc, b/c its just sending musicians into ruin.
 yourstillhere
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Posted: 7/21/2017 3:33:32 PM

The thing about porn.....when men say they're watching it for the women, aren't they watching the men also? I think there's a lot of crossover there. Men watching porn have seen more throbbing and exploding penises than women have experienced in their lives. Funny how men are okay with that, it's very telling.


Yes, the "money shot. "

This was explained in an episode of Beavis and Butthead, in which they were talking about Ron Jeremy.

In short (pun unavoidable)~
Beavis told Butthead "I wasnt looking AT his weiner, I was looking AROUND his weiner....huh..huh...huh.."
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 240
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Posted: 7/21/2017 4:02:01 PM

http://thepinkcross.org/

This site doesn't exist if it was so sort of myth. How many?


FYI, the pink cross is no more.

Either way, maybe you should do a bit of research before you quote a crook / scam artist.

The Pink Cross and Shelley Lubben: An Expose Parts 1-2 of 3
The Pink Cross and Shelley Lubben: An Expose

http://thenewsofexposure.blogspot.ca/2010/11/pink-cross-and-shelley-lubben-expose.html




These are documented facts that are backed by the porn industry actors that's why the website for them exists.


Nope, her website existed so she could scam money while pretending to be a prophet and when the IRS took a closer look she shut it down and ran away.




That makes anyone who watches it just as guilty as those who promote and exploit them.


No, it makes you a dummy for believing fake news.




How you liking your porn industry now.


Better than ever.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 241
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Posted: 7/21/2017 4:16:33 PM
Oh, holy shit. I didn't see his pinkcross.org post when I responded to his other one. Dude, are you SERIOUS?!?! Shelley f*cking Lubben?!?!
 imanorangetiger
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Posted: 7/21/2017 6:19:18 PM

“I seriously doubt that modern day feminist’s, with their fake rape culture, rules of conduct towards women, laws to protect women and favour women, would allow women to be exploited by men and with photographic evidence or video footage, would destroy men in courts if indeed, they committed any violation towards women, so it would be very rare indeed these days, but I accept it could have happened pre-feminism maybe?”


Leon/Laidbackguy on one of his usual anti-feminist rants again, using his new weird "let's put everything in quotes" style. Blimey, he really hates women who don't do as they're told, doesn't he?
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 243
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Posted: 7/21/2017 6:26:11 PM
I know. I was who is he quoting
Then again, porn vids give him pick up lines :)
LOL
He can't hate women, he has never had a date I wager
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/21/2017 7:01:49 PM
Yourstillhere, "the money shot", that's a good one, LOL!

Ibup4it does have a point, everyone is watching what are probably a bunch of messed up people. I guess in the name of fantasy, one could make believe the actors are all normal, and of course you don't want to think they're acting.

Pig, dethroned? I didn't know I was on one. We're role playing? Am I a queen since I'm on a throne, and do I have a fancy crown? Okay, sounds like fun, I'll be in charge. I knew you were the type that likes women telling you what to do, LOL! ( j/k!). Really, I don't know what you mean, you wrote that above and below a quote that is not from me, nor pertains to me. I never said a man was gay if he looked at porn, I just stated what was part of the viewing process.
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 245
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Posted: 7/21/2017 7:22:17 PM

Ibup4it does have a point, everyone is watching what are probably a bunch of messed up people.


Nope, that point has already been destroyed.





I guess in the name of fantasy, one could make believe the actors are all normal, and of course you don't want to think they're acting.


Which literally applies to all movies, tv and theater.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/21/2017 7:41:22 PM
Many actors don't want you to know personal things about them, because it's harder for people to see them be the person in each role they take on. Same would apply, could apply, to knowing someone showing themselves to be having fun, are doing it because they have mental issues, then you can't get into it. It's possible.
 2ufo2
Joined: 8/29/2016
Msg: 247
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Posted: 7/21/2017 7:42:18 PM

"... what I watch is a visible female orgasms [u]filmed[/u] close up and the turn on is her being genuinely turned on"
"What's the point in watching fake when you can see the real thing?"


What's the point of a photographer filming the so-called 'real thing' when it's so much easier and cheaper to film it fake and make it look real?
What's the point of watching porn at all?
Unless there's no one to do it with.


"Do you think Meg Ryan faking an orgasm in a 15 movie is porn?' lol"

I never said that. I simply implied that a lot of men aren't aware enough to know a real orgasm from a fake.
In your case, I'd say it's a presumed fact.

The worse sin of porn isn't that it's 'porn'; it's that it is usually horridly boring.
 IBup4it
Joined: 6/15/2017
Msg: 248
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Posted: 7/21/2017 8:16:35 PM
It was when a subject like this comes up you go searching what do find, when you go looking there is no positive and you really need to search for it. Which when "PIG" mentioned it I was going to comment it was all the information that is available. Normally I have nothing to do with stuff because it plays no part in my life at all, and not once have I ever heard anything positive about the industry.

So I searched deeper cause the only thing you get is negative stuff for the most part from those who are against it, and older people who have been out of the industry. They don't mention there was a committee formed to protect those performers which looks like it was formed in 2010 or earlier.

I don't discredit facts, but it seems it was before the "Adult Performer Advocacy Committee" even formed I take it. Who I have never even heard of existed. There is no reference to them anywhere that I saw so why would I think otherwise. Benefit of doubt to who exactly and industry looking to make money?

Adult Performer Advocacy Committee covers all that stuff health and safety is their primary concern, if I found that group right off I would have said porn industry is properly regulated, and meets the needs of their performers so I don't see a problem with it.

See all takes is one little group to change an opinion of someone who don't even watch the stuff. I have no care one way or the other provide people's safety is at the top and they do what it takes to make sure they are safe. It's not a hard concept and if they promoted the fact safety was a first concern in the porn industry they would gain a lot of support instead it's buried so far with negativity you would need backhoes to uncover it.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 249
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Posted: 7/21/2017 8:59:03 PM
ouija2025- Wow, so much discussion about porn.
Seriously people? Some of you need to get out more. Women produce and make porn these days (from the other side of the camera), watch those.
Good God and to think, I've been accused of being a prude. Some of these comments are hysterical.
Not you, ouija.
I LOVED it when you said :
" On Golden Blonde" I could do the titles"
Yes, let's! That sounds like fun.
Let's see..........
Moby's d8ck, Is that too obvious?
Um, The Snatch Game, too crude?
Love Boat, Motion on the Ocean, Is that too corny?
I had WAY too much fun, trying.
Anyone else wanna' give it a go? (Wait, could THAT be a title?) :D ;)
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 250
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Posted: 7/21/2017 9:25:44 PM

I don't discredit facts, but it seems it was before the "Adult Performer Advocacy Committee" even formed I take it. Who I have never even heard of existed. There is no reference to them anywhere that I saw so why would I think otherwise. Benefit of doubt to who exactly and industry looking to make money?


So you are saying you think every industry takes care of its people other than porn?

Who do you think burns out and takes advantage of people more?

Porn or the NCAA?
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