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 halcyon_skies
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Why watch regular porn when there's food porn?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Food_porn
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 7/23/2017 12:48:48 PM

So, by this very logic, you shouldn't need non-porn movies either because you have the "imagination" to concoct stories in your own mind to stimulate your senses. Right?

Exactly. Again, people see it as mildly positive to claim/believe that porn doesn't do anything for them. It's a social bias.

It doesn't invalidate my opinion that porn is usually utterly boring and, as Ouija points out, often unintentionally hilarious.

Most porn isn't a movie, but a scene. A real one videotaped by someone, or a semi-scripted "reality" situation that mimics IRL and has no studio, just a camera man. I can see the hilarious part though effecting someone as in "Really?" in either the setup To them having sex in their verbal exchanges -- or in the act of sex if doing some crazy positions. But for most porn out there, even porn lovers aren't keen on anyway. So it's not hard to find something one will go "eeehhh" or "whateve" or "haha oh geez, really?" -- so there's nothing special or uncommon in that, even among those who wax their carrot repeatedly to pron. It's just about finding the ones that you Ideally Like in-that-way, which many gals don't Want to, because it has a stigma of a social bias to Like it.... but they can be "k00l" and say "Well, theoretically, if a porn had [this] and [that], I could be into it I guess," with an implied "good luck finding that; see, I'm not into it". :)
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 278
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Posted: 7/23/2017 2:28:20 PM

But I don't find porn disgusting or sinful; merely boring.


That's perfectly fine, but New Yorker's stance seems to be coming from a place of sanctimony more than anything else.


Except I'd probably win any bet about whether or not they were having real orgasms and their 'enjoyment' comes when they get paid. Most orgasms you think they're having are only in your imagination. And that's fine. Enjoy it. That's the purpose of movies - to provide entertainment. Please don't believe everything you see.


It's all across the board. There are those who do enjoy what they do and could be classified as "insatiable", then there are those who are in it simply for the paycheck. The orgasms? Of course many are faked, hence their being referred to as porn "actresses", but that's not to say it never happens.

Oh, and New Yorker? It's interesting to know you were compelled to look up "bukkake", especially being one who supposedly has no use for porn. I don't like captured footage of people dying, and there's not a single word or description that would make me curious to check out a video of it.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
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Posted: 7/23/2017 4:02:11 PM

"If you don't like masturbation or enjoy sex, then just admit, because many women pre-Menopause have a very low libido, don't want to masturbate and don't want to have sex at all, so the thought of other people enjoying it would disgust them, but men even in their 70s still want and enjoy sex and masturbation"


Clearly doesn't get out very much.


"I should have said post-menopause at the age of 58"


Nah; still doesn't.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
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Posted: 7/23/2017 7:26:59 PM
Kinda has an obsession with menopausal women.. quite the spoken person.
Leon must be experiencing heropause
Little to no interest in actual human contact, up 4 times a night to pee, uneasy thoughts of porn stars wanting him :)
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/23/2017 7:31:35 PM
Pig, I don't care if people watch porn. I don't feel people are wrong if they're not like me. I didn't look up bukkake in a video. I looked up the word on line and got the description. Why would I seek out a video, I had no idea it was even a sex act?

I know porn stimulates a person and so do regular movies in their own way. I just don't need that kind of stimulation for sex. The last guy I dated didn't need it either. Did he watch it at home, maybe, I never asked, but he didn't need it to do the deed. He was 58, so not even a spring chicken. I like men with a high sex drive.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 282
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Posted: 7/23/2017 9:20:57 PM
"I never understood wearing boots with bare legs"

>>well, maybe go-go boots :) Other than deep snow, i'm not a fan of boots. I tried cowboy boots as a kid, they chewed up my feet. L.L. Bean boots outright sucked, the tread had no traction and the seam where the rubber meets the leather also chewed up my ankles. but freshly shaven-shiny legs that aren't pencil skinny? I think they could be in anything and look good :) But hey, I like curves in most forms.

"Simple Man" is one of the few songs where I like the lyrics as well as the beat. But destroying cars? maaaann, what's that all about, what did those poor cars do to you? :)

as for dumb movies, its crazy that now there are ones intended to be hokey (sharknado, anyone?). Quentin Tarrantino makes a load from making them. Andy Sidaris has a dozen of b00bs, bombs, gunplay and exotic location movies that are straight-to-video. There are porns that are good from Adam & Eve, and then there's...everything else. of course, no one is watching them for the plot, any more than anyone's watching Fast & the Furious for Vin Diesel's Shakespearian performance. The interest is the car stunts that probably require a green screen and have little basis in reality. a lot of movies are escapist fare.

Still, porn has a purpose, a bit more than just entertainment for 2 hrs or to raise social awareness. it even gets its own awards ceremony.
 Szaszaspasz
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Posted: 7/23/2017 9:46:50 PM
^^^^^^^^

But destroying cars? maaaann, what's that all about, what did those poor cars do to you? :)


*Gasp!*
[clutches pearls]

Fake wood paneling on certain gutless automotive products offended my delicate sensibilities..
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
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Posted: 7/24/2017 5:42:17 AM
There are 2 hour long porn movies?
Do they do sequels?
I'd reckon that with so much free internet porn that movie industry is suffering
Did anyone else see the outrage over Teen Vogue mag?
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
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Posted: 7/24/2017 6:01:27 AM
Anybody ever download someone's profile pics and masturbate to them??

Ahhhh...ohhhhh

I love getting off with NY58 for freeeeeeeeee!!!
 cooldog65
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Posted: 7/24/2017 8:44:51 AM

There are 2 hour long porn movies?


Yes there is. They're usually parodies of movies or TV shows.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 7/24/2017 9:48:22 AM
awwww, maaaan....I'm on a "Save the cheesy '70's" kick, i'd love to find one of those cars with the fake wood paneling and gutless 2 barrel V8 under hood and hot rod it with 1980's fuel injection. I call it, "stupid cool". Its a dumb waste of money yet if one had $$ to throw around back then, they wished they had musclecar power to go with the faux luxury and stripes and spoilers. Glitz and actual guts, like a King Cobra Mustang II I saw at a car show yesterday :) Hey, a regular Cobra was good enough for Farah Faucett on Charlie's Angels, is a big snake on the hood too phallic?

I think some porn does have sequels, didn't Holmes do a detective series?

now, just to double-post a link:

https://www.davidwygant.com/products/men/7-second-seduction/?utm_source=Infusionsoft&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=7%20Second%20Seduction&inf_contact_key=9c8459cea34aa98ff13113d9bb604e3dbd2886279f7ad3f083b1c053adc09a3c#letter

this is a 40 minute vid by a pickup artist on what he thinks makes men sexy (everyone can probably skip the sales pitch at the end, well, maybe perhaps our resident "short men get no dates" might be interested in improving his attitude/body language). what this self-proclaimed expert believes is male sexiness has little to do with the man's body parts or bank account. Can either gender be sexier via their personality or body language regardless of their looks? and does sexiness define their manhood or womanhood? or is there a difference between a male friend who is a gentleman, and a male lover who is The Man?
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 7/24/2017 4:47:17 PM

Did he watch it at home, maybe, I never asked,


You should break into his place while he's gone and do some rummaging.

You just might find an old Betamax player with a copy of "Midget Trannies Take Manhattan"
in it or something.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 289
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Posted: 7/24/2017 5:38:18 PM
Good band name
I always enjoy when someone doesn't fancy something - yet knows nearly every detail
I found an old bike that I want
Bike porn. It's a sweet ass ride tho
If my wallet as deep as my needs
Spacelander. I really really need it. For reasons
 LOLTrump
Joined: 3/7/2017
Msg: 290
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Posted: 7/24/2017 6:44:07 PM

You just might find an old Betamax player with a copy of "Midget Trannies Take Manhattan"
in it or something.


Slim chance of that.

Due to the fact that it was the porn industries adoption of VHS that killed Beta, which was a better but more expensive product to use.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/24/2017 7:20:38 PM
Mustang guy, I have a Mustang. It's the V6 model, RED, manual shift, because that's how I roll:) I haven't done anything fancy to it. It just has a stripe on the sides that says Mustang in it.

I'm thinking you must have seen that tv series Fast N Loud. They restore cars. I get a kick out of Richard Rawlings. He loves his Mustangs and has a Shelby he did some funky things to. It's supposed to be a replica of the car in the Thomas Crown Affair. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/487585097132660176/ They did a restore of a wood panel wagon: http://www.barrett-jackson.com/Events/Event/Details/1971-CHEVROLET-KINGSWOOD-CUSTOM-STATION-WAGON-182066

Ever see Lord of the Car Hoards? Loved that show, it's not on anymore that I know of. The two hosts of the show would find someone hoarding cars. They would choose one that they wanted to rebuild and use the others to pay for it. One host is Rick Dore, a custom car rebuild guy and a wrestler, Chuck Palumbo. They had different styles, so it made for an interesting show with how they did rebuilds and which cars they chose to rebuild.


Pig, everyone is entitled to privacy. I never went thru my ex's stuff, but I also was thinking he had nothing to hide.

The little people are my heroes! It's not easy being little. I hope there really aren't little people that are transgender. It's a hard life, and can be very lonely.
 Seki1949
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Posted: 7/24/2017 7:56:23 PM

Your hour or whatever of excitement that you get off on


If it's good porn, who lasts an hour?
 Seki1949
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Posted: 7/24/2017 8:02:39 PM

No and I bet they get holiday pay, free health care and a large pay cheque, on top of exposure to promote themselves to make even more money


I don't think that's how it works for most performers (male and female). They get paid per shoot. They receive 1099's. not W-2's.

The top, smart one become full or partial owners.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 7/24/2017 8:05:07 PM

If it's good porn, who lasts an hour?

A guy who's low on his Viagra. ;)
 Seki1949
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Posted: 7/24/2017 8:07:00 PM

...orgasms are easy to fake on film.


True for women, but a guy can't fake the 'Money Shot' which is why we almost always see it. Every guy knows what is exactly happening for those 4-6 seconds.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
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Posted: 7/25/2017 4:09:44 AM
Do they have old grumpy white male porn actors?

Do they make money shots?
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
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Posted: 7/25/2017 5:22:31 AM
Might as well ask if they pay for the coffee first meet.
Prolly is old guy porn actors. slight shudder
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 7/25/2017 6:48:49 AM
Glad you mentioned it was a V6 and not an inline six, it tells me which era your Mustang was made. So how many times do the police pull over a red Mustang? :) I think everyone should own one sports car/flashy car in their life, to see what its like, and one luxury car, to see what its like to be pampered while driving. I own a formerly red one that is at the moment orange, and I got pulled over at least once a year. I'm thinking its going back to its brick red and i'll put black rims on it for contrasting color.

I have seen the two TV shows you speak of. Not to be a grumpy guy, but the owner of F&L seems to be about the money, while another show, Counting Cars, the owner seems to be more about veterans and family, but his crew is...eccentric to say the least. And Lord of the Car Hoards, goodness does Rick Dore whine and cry or what? sheesh. He's had other people build some beautiful cars for him, but I lost a little respect for him, but I've also lost respect for some other car builders once I saw their shows. i'm sure a lot of it is for the cameras, but just like rumors, all things have to grow from a kernel of the truth :)

is there old guy porn actors? i'm thinking there is, as Baby Boomers reach that age. its a big audience, for sure. Of course there are grannies ILTF videos.
 Ouija2025
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Posted: 7/25/2017 7:06:11 AM
^^^ having an old Mustang wasn't all fun - people were always stealing the ponies and the letters.
Half the time like I said drove a U TANG. Pretty beast of a car tho. It was stolen too. Got it back - they didn't drive it too hard
 benartflick
Joined: 3/8/2012
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Posted: 7/25/2017 8:06:44 AM

is there old guy porn actors?


I'm thinking about staring in a porn movie. It might be cheaper to pay their acting rate than that few hundred bucks per hour rate. Better looking women and it might be fun staring and directing. Perhaps 3 or 4 at one time. Might die with a smile on my face.

I've made hundreds of animated films. I'm ready to move up, up and away.

Below are my last 3 videos.

https://youtu.be/1K2lS6j_lFE

https://youtu.be/HjDXSHsrFps

https://youtu.be/Xc1hkI5Pgg8

The following involves a hooker.

https://youtu.be/CbANfk42gkU
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