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 lookingforsophia
Joined: 3/3/2009
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"The more you cry..
the less you pee."

That sounds like a good book title for a Best Seller.


Did you read the recent news about Banning Glitter ?

Glitter has always frightened me.
Especially in makeup !
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Posted: 12/1/2017 6:50:49 PM
You used that credit card in Vegas AFTER you walked out? Really?
Geez....didn't think I'd have to call every account and have them lock it down.
At least I got ALL the furniture.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Posted: 12/1/2017 7:07:43 PM

But the point of "I don't want to die alone" -- is "having people by my side as I slip away". It's not about lack of health care and lack getting what you need during those times... but having friends/family members being by your side the whole time. For me, I'm not like that (nor am I the only one, even among those older). I don't want to have people I know change their venue to take care of me because I'm going to pass in the not so distant future. If I'm on my death bed -- or even in a hospital a mess at the time -- I don't want people visiting me (obligation), but obviously I'm not going to say No. I'm that Type, and there are some like that who are not young.


That's me. Don't need anyone to "witness" my death, testify, prop/fluff pillows or basically bug the heck out me asking "are you okay" every friggin' day until I will myself to death to MAKE IT STOP!!!! If I'm in the hospital plugged to a machine, please pull the plug - people have other things to do than sit and cry all day.
 from site to sight
Joined: 11/30/2007
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Posted: 12/3/2017 5:57:31 AM
"That's me. Don't need anyone to "witness" my death, testify, prop/fluff pillows or basically bug the heck out me asking "are you okay" every friggin' day until I will myself to death to MAKE IT STOP!!!! "

Along the same line, I've heard people say my whole life "Who is going to look after you when you're too old to look after yourself", as the reason for having kids. In other words, people thinking that way are basically saying "I want to be a total burden to others when I get old, and mess up their lives as they're wiping the poop off of my butt." Gee, who could resist an offer like that.
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
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Posted: 12/3/2017 7:53:39 AM

"I want to be a total burden to others when I get old, and mess up their lives as they're wiping the poop off of my butt." Gee, who could resist an offer like that.


In perspective................The cycle of life.........100% We are born, completely physically dependent upon others to feed us AND wipe the poop off our butt, ............it's life. ..................
At the other end of life, we may or may not , become completely dependent upon others to meet our physical needs.

With so many health care options / living arrangements, available, for those who are or become physically dependent, it is no longer assumed a spouse / or SO / or adult children will become " burdened."

As to what I would say to an ex? No need, I don't give them space in my head.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 12/3/2017 9:44:11 AM
"Why do exes bother to send a happy birthday text if that is all the contact they want ?"





That's a good question that nobody can answer
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 12/3/2017 12:33:16 PM

That's a good question that nobody can answer

I think if saying Happy Birthday is the Only thing an Ex wants to say -- I think there certainly can be an explanation for that. If on their FB page -- it's Facebook, some people execute on that even with people they barely know in their "friends list", and just wish to throw it out there. If that's weird for an ex to do -- the real question should be "Why are they still my friend on FB?"

Otherwise, they can be the type to always wish people they've known -- old friends included (that's what an ex is much of the time; at least from their perspective) -- a quick little Happy Birthday text, of those they Do remember it of. Can just be a "Oh yeah, it's Dec 3rd, it's [ex's] birthday," and thinking about that one-time on their birthday 5 years ago -- and after a few drinks just give a Happy Bday thing. Doesn't necessarily mean anything, as some equate it the same as saying Happy Bday to people on Facebook. But it certainly can be Weird, and Most of course do not do that.

We are born, completely physically dependent upon others to feed us AND wipe the poop off our butt, ............it's life.

Not everyone goes out like that, but certainly some can. But I wouldn't want to burden adult offspring to take care of me. Otherwise, I'd say "Hey, don't move out of this town, unless you're willing to move back when I'm old. Otherwise, you're dead to me! You're supposed to take care of me. That's why I had you!" Not going to have kids for when they're older, take care of me as a part-time of full-time job 6 - 7 days a week, if possibly necessary. That'd be Crazy. :)

Glitter has always frightened me.
Especially in makeup !

Reminds me of a story/joke, about a mom & teenage daughter. Mom comes home one day freaked out about her trip to their gynocologist who they've seen for umpteen years in a row. She says he's always been a great guy... but he was sooo freakishly weird on her trip this afternoon. She says she gets on the stirrups, and the doctor puts on the rubber gloves and goes down to give things a looksee -- and he laughs a bit. He looks up, chuckles while shaking his head a bit, and says "FANCY," and continues his work. The mom was very put off and WTF about him saying that. The mom says "I even used some of your female deodorant spray before I went to his office. I was 100% fine down there, so I don't know what he was drinking!" The daughter responds by saying "Female deodorant spray? Mine? Hmmm... I don't have that." The mom goes, "Of course you do. It's under the bathroom sink, in that cupboard. It's not mine, so it's obviously yours." The daughter goes, "It's not mine, mom. I don't have any. Here, show me." So the mom brings her in the bathroom, opens the cupboard, and whips out the can. "See?" the mom says. The daughter then laughs. "Mom, that's hairspray glitter!!"
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 12/3/2017 3:03:34 PM
I have 2 ex-bfs and 1 ex-husband that wishes me a HB. The 2 bfs, those relationships are about 30 years old. I think I'm thought about fondly☺ and also remained friends, sort of. One is married, 1 living with someone, and one now recently divorced, but all are on the east coast, so not for a hookup.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
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Posted: 12/4/2017 6:37:21 PM
I’m getting better blowjobs from my new woman and she can cook too
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 9/29/2017
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Posted: 12/4/2017 11:29:56 PM
(Above.)

She must miss you a lot.
 NYCKOSI
Joined: 4/24/2015
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Posted: 12/5/2017 1:54:24 PM
OMG when we broke up, I did not know how to move on, I thought I will not find anyone else. After just few months a brand new world opened up for me. WTF was I doing with this person all these years? I should had broken it off way much sooner.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 12/5/2017 3:12:12 PM
My feeling is if the only contact you desire with me is to say HB, then don't bother.

IOW either fuck me or fuck off !
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 12/5/2017 3:26:22 PM
^^^^New name, BetterFvckChuck
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 12/5/2017 3:32:11 PM
^^^

Yeah except most women don't have a guy's sense of humour, unfortunately
 CrazyCatLadyLookin
Joined: 9/21/2012
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Posted: 12/5/2017 4:08:16 PM
Chuck. Just curious. Did you get your username from that recipe floating around involving chicken breasts, ranch powder and a stick of butter?
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 12/6/2017 8:01:23 AM
"Chuck. Just curious. Did you get your username from that recipe floating around involving chicken breasts, ranch powder and a stick of butter?"


Nah, I just picked one of my fave foods and used chuck because it has a nice ring to it after the word chicken
 CrazyCatLadyLookin
Joined: 9/21/2012
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Posted: 12/6/2017 5:18:57 PM
So....your name isn't "Chuck" ?!?!

*Gasp*

I don't want to live in this world anymore.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
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Posted: 12/16/2017 2:00:37 PM
I’m glad you choked for 4 minutes while I watched amused
 saintclara
Joined: 5/30/2017
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Posted: 12/16/2017 4:24:12 PM
They can't read your reply they are on their sixth hook up by now! You are not even a speck of dust thought! You may cross their mind for a second like, glad I dumped that dullard immature twat that starts threads trying to get last word but as a general rule long forgotten
 Tempered_Soul
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Posted: 1/3/2018 10:18:47 PM
Dear Miss T.: You're boring and self righteous. Thank you.
Dear Miss K: I miss you every day. I can't believe you're gone. You were taken from us way too soon. I love you.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 1/21/2018 3:55:05 PM
To EX1: Yes, I admit it. I slept with your sister. You lost your looks, she had them. You didn't like sleeping with me on Wednesdays, and apparently she did. You snooze, you lose. Tell Becky I say hi. *wink*

To EX2: I never told you how I knew you were cheating on me. After my gut told me something was awry, I installed two mini-cameras in your bedroom that snow day I stayed over and you went to work. I figured by now you would have discovered them still in there (unconnected now), but I guess I'm just that good. Whatever the case, I got live internet feed of you banging your ex a few times. And of you masturbating which you say you RARELY do (right right). And of me banging you and smiling to the camera. You can probably find them on PornHub somewhere by now.

To EX3: No, I did not hit on your mom. I just flirted with her, and she started making out with ME. What was I supposed to do? Not have sex with her? She only had you when she was 16, and she gets all the eyes staring at her. Hey, you said you didn't Really cheat on your previous ex when you and I first hooked up -- because you said you and he were having troubles and ended up breaking up soon after. Well, I didn't cheat on you either -- things I could tell were awry between us. Your mom helped clear things up, is all.

To EX4: Don't make me out to be the bad guy because I left you in Florida. I took the car & my stuff in the middle of the night, but I didn't take your stuff. You could have bought a plane ticket. What did you expect us to do? Drive back home together with the girl I met when we were down there? I did you a favor -- you wouldn't have wanted to ride with she and I anyway. I left you $40 for a taxi on the nightstand -- I have no idea why you went OFF on me on Facebook. I wasn't perfect, but it wasn't the perfect situation.
 Nyeahsers
Joined: 12/7/2017
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Posted: 1/21/2018 5:32:11 PM
Msg. 124 I would find this to be hilarious if I didn't read all your comments and advice for the last three weeks.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 1/24/2018 9:27:24 PM

Msg. 124 I would find this to be hilarious if I didn't read all your comments and advice for the last three weeks.

Sooo, you take it to be scary, then? :)
 Platinum_Blonde_Angel
Joined: 1/23/2018
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Posted: 1/27/2018 7:21:44 AM
"Your cornbread aint done in the middle"
 Nyeahsers
Joined: 12/7/2017
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Posted: 1/27/2018 9:42:52 PM
"Sooo, you take it to be scary, then? :)"

Nnn, yeah. I fear that it is real.
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