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 NewYorker58
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I think him and his friends were just being a jerks, that's all. They're in a bar drinking and they just thought they would mess around with the new guy. You should have left immediately to be protective over the new guy and not to have him be subjected to your ex and his friends as a joke. You shouldn't be jerking this new guy around. I'm sure you wouldn't want it done to yourself.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:29:15 PM
Msg 8 NAILED IT


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 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:33:52 PM
^^^ That poster is frequently SPOT ON.
 Butterchickenchuck
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:34:58 PM
^^^^


Wow, you noticed that too, eh ?
 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:40:03 PM
^^^ How could one NOT notice?
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:42:57 PM
^^^^


Good point !


Verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry good point !

WOW !

I'm impressed !




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 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:45:36 PM
^^^ Might you say I nailed it?


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 Butterchickenchuck
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:47:31 PM
I might go so far to say you nailed the shit out of it even !







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 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:53:27 PM
^^^ Wow, that is flattering coming from one who so frequently is F UCKING SPOT ON!


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 Butterchickenchuck
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Posted: 9/24/2017 6:58:06 PM
It's good that you are capable of recognizing when to be flattered

DAMN good !




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 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 7:01:41 PM
No one knows how to be flattered like me! F UCKING NO ONE!


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 Butterchickenchuck
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Posted: 9/24/2017 7:05:29 PM
Having the ability to cause huge boners is an admirable skill indeed !

















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 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 7:11:55 PM
^^^ I cause some huge boners, if I do say so myself.


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 Butterchickenchuck
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Posted: 9/24/2017 7:21:46 PM
If I cause huge boners I'd rather not know






 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 7:25:24 PM
Indeed, it is more a curse than a blessing.


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 cooldog65
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Posted: 9/24/2017 8:59:16 PM
The only erection I want to cause is a woman's nipples...
 sun___flower
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Posted: 9/24/2017 9:20:40 PM
#nippleboner


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 imanorangetiger
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Posted: 9/25/2017 4:34:38 AM
Quite obvious that you're still pining for the guy, OP, because if you weren't, you wouldn't be having this conversation.
 Etritonakin
Joined: 11/25/2016
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Posted: 9/25/2017 7:58:43 AM
Exactly.

When you find "real" love and things get in the way, it can really mess with you and future relationships -but that isn't necessarily a bad thing.

It is easier to move on if you end up really not liking someone or know you would not be good together.
When you know it could be awesome and stupid worldly things get in the way, it is not easy at all.
Another relationship might be good, but if your mind is telling itself it won't be as good as the other would be, it is difficult to give 100 percent.
That's not a bad thing, because you really don't want less than the best -even if it doesn't work out with that person.

The answer is to give it a go or make absolutely certain it isn't going to happen -but you will still want awesome love -and it is worth the wait.
 daynadaze
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Posted: 9/25/2017 9:59:06 AM
He hung out by your table using his phone? Is he mentally stable? What was his point? How rude, dumb, and immature, and your question ...was he bothered by your dating...lol. Seriously, nicely break up with the new guy and go back to the bar and wait for doofus and his phone to show up. What part of clingy don't you get.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 9/25/2017 11:10:04 AM

I think him and his friends were just being a jerks, that's all.

They may have been jerks, but they weren't trying to though.

They're in a bar drinking and they just thought they would mess around with the new guy.

No, that wasn't the situation at all. Him and his friends see his ex who he hasn't seen in forever -- wants to talk with her, but, she's with a guy. It's awkward & weird, in and of itself, regardless on how things unfold. This conceptually had nothing to do with "mess with the new guy at the bar" thing at all. They weren't trying to razz the guy she was with -- otherwise they would have come right up to the table. They were Avoiding confrontation with the guy she was with, but trying to "hint hint, nudge nudge" her to talk to them... hence grabbing her when she was away from the table and walking from the bathroom.

The drinking will make one not do a good job trying to be inconspicuous. And ya don't exactly know the natural way to do it, as it's a rare situation.

As far as the guy she's going out on dates with -- I don't think she's trying to mess with him... but yeah, she's not over her ex. Which, if they're just casually seeing each other some, that makes no difference... but it should be warning sign Not to get serious with him... and to more get over her ex.
 Etritonakin
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Posted: 9/25/2017 5:15:29 PM
I just thought that the hanging out by the table using the phone might have been a half-buzzed not-very-sneaky suggestion for you to call him.
Sounds like something beered-up guys would think of doing.
 Seki1949
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Posted: 9/26/2017 2:11:09 AM
Write better fiction.
 holaks
Joined: 5/25/2014
Msg: 49
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Posted: 12/21/2017 7:49:42 AM
Got to agree, I would have left way before all that stuff happened.
 saintclara
Joined: 5/30/2017
Msg: 50
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Posted: 12/21/2017 7:35:27 PM
Why didn't you get the waist grabber for assault .
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