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Joined: 10/11/2017
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But if that's the way women want who am I to complain. They have the option to stay or leave I don't see them sticking around sucks to be them. But you don't see me going omg another humped and dumped me do you? No cause no one puts a gun to my head I chose the action I live with the consequences it's called Adulting responsibility for ones own actions is part of that.
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 27
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Posted: 2/25/2018 9:23:11 PM

Women give sex to get a relationship. Men give a relationship to get sex.

I don't agree with that saying at all. Just because you're fooling around with a gal, doesn't mean she's relationship-chasing you. It's not a rarity for a gal to be open to sex with a guy, without having a relationship with him on her vagenda. And women aren't "Giving" sex any more than the guy -- they're experiencing it just as much as the guy. They're not asexual beings, like utilizing sex as a tool to get a husband and to breed. We don't live in 1800s Mormon-land. :)

I think instead, the Common way things tend to go, outside of rebound-effect: Women have sex with a guy who, at the time, Feel is Dating-worthy... and guys have sex with a woman who's merely not Unattractive.
Joined: 12/2/2017
Msg: 28
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Posted: 2/25/2018 9:41:17 PM
A guy I'm not going to date, I'm not going to sleep with.
Guys have a hard time understanding this.
Joined: 1/14/2018
Msg: 29
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Posted: 2/26/2018 3:29:25 AM
DUH.....I'm thinking it's your choice right? in saying that you just might be sooooo bored your on a sight talking about the angel ring you have over your
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