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 cooldog65
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How can it be special when it's not your first time? Reading her posts is mentally exhausting...too much work.
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 4/3/2018 12:09:34 PM
Boo


Jaysus,
Is this how 25 year olds talk now?
Maybe he can touch your boobs, but maybe not because you want it to be "special"?
I need eyes muffs just to read this stuff.
Gads.

^^
NO. I have three children in their 20s. They do not speak like this - not even in jest.

I work with many in their teens and 20s. None of them speak or behave in the manner that is shown on these pages.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 1/17/2018
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Posted: 4/3/2018 12:24:17 PM
^^^^Whew! Thank you!
I know I'm out of touch, but that's just plain creepy and shades
of victorian porn.

 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 4/3/2018 12:53:50 PM

We are not going to his house ffs. We are going to the lake.

Okay, but his place exactly wasn't the point. A secluded place away from public was the point -- where a guy & a gal could play "hide the salami" if they wanted to.

A few dates could mean a few months worth of dates. I just wasn't being specific.

I wouldn't go that route though. Not if he's a good catch and he's worth your excitement when you meet him in person. It will kill the mood, if he realizes "I meant a few months worth of dates, not a few dates" -- even if he's a guy who doesn't want to have sex on a 1st date or anything.

I think both me and him are unique tbh :)

I think you are, and it sure sounds like he is, too, sure...

He wanted to see me after his shift today quickly cos he was working really close, but I felt too sick to plus it was like midnight. Hes so sweet though :3

Awww... he wanted to see you around midnight. ;) No, it was a good idea if you were under the weather. Not a good thing for a first meat.

We both agreed no touching under clothes except maybe my boobs lol, because we want it to be special.

Awwww, how romantic. ;) It was good you gave the warning beforehand, with all your talking about everything under the sun. That way he won't be frustrated if one-thing-leads-to-another and you move his hand away when he moves it "down there".

I have no problem not sleeping with guys when they're not right there actively trying to seduce me lmao.

True... but what about guys who aren't actively trying to sexually seduce you, but going with the flow and letting one thing lead to another, as many couples do?

Gets kind of hard.

That's what he said (and will say). ;)

We both knew it was going to be difficult to resist each other so I just suggested no touching underclothes. I think that will be effective if its not broken.

Well, obviously anything will be effective if it's not broken. :) But nothing under the clothes below the waist -- that's a decent line to draw in the sand. Especially if you're laying on sand. The sand can get into certain parts that would make you feel real uncomfortable until you shower.

Or I could always get a better chastity belt but guys hate those for some reason lol!

Yeah, guys don't like that -- even non-sex-hungry guys. Much like the no-sex-for-months "rule", if applied. In the end, just roll with it. And if he's a cool guy not being pushy and you guys mesh/flow really well -- let loose, girl! You only live once. :)
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
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Posted: 4/3/2018 12:56:12 PM
He almost met OP at midnight?

They plan to meet around 9pm, go to the lake?
So the sun goes down around 5:44 pm, the weather forecast is for temp to be approx. 66 degrees around 10pm.
Dayem , that pizza is gonna get cold!

The handwriting is on the wall.....................
I'm one for adventure and all that, but there is no way, on God's green earth I would meet a man for the first time, alone, go to the lake alone, in the dark, and eat pizza. No way! The Dingo's might smell the food, and drag me away!
 browneyesboo
Joined: 1/17/2018
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Posted: 4/3/2018 1:00:44 PM
Is there some subliminal message behind your use of
"meat" instead of "meet", Mr. Norwegian?




In order to maintain the highest quality forums you are restricted to having no more then 2 of the last 10 posts on a thread.
Since 2 of the last 10 posts are yours you can of course post to this thread, Boo.
 sun___flower
Joined: 5/8/2015
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Posted: 4/3/2018 1:20:49 PM
LadyInRed
The handwriting is on the wall.....................

+1. Why isn't he taking you to the pizza place for a date?
 Nestaron
Joined: 10/11/2017
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Posted: 4/3/2018 2:35:29 PM

I have no problem not sleeping with guys when they're not right there actively trying to seduce me lmao. Gets kind of hard.


Oh no doubt you have no problem cause when their not trying your wondering why they heck not? So you are the one doing the seducing, cause it gets kinda hard and you just are happy when the occasion rises.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 4/3/2018 5:07:02 PM

there is no way, on God's green earth I would meet a man for the first time, alone, go to the lake alone, in the dark, and eat pizza. No way!

Hey, not so fast! What kind of pizza we talking here? ;) It'd make for a great Pizza Commercial:

Gal: "There is no way, on God's green earth I would meet a man for the first time, alone, go to the lake alone, in the dark, and eat pizza. No way!"

Announcer: "Are you SURE, my lady? What about zesty POF Pizza?" (nerdy pizza guy comes out with the box)

Gal: "OH. Wow. WOW. Okay, you got me. But no touching under the clothes!"

(Pizza guy opens the box showing the pizza with all the toppings)

Gal: "Okay. You can touch me under the clothes, but only my boobs! It looks to be a special night!"

Is there some subliminal message behind your use of
"meat" instead of "meet", Mr. Norwegian?

Maybe. Maybe. ;)
 julystorm7
Joined: 12/25/2017
Msg: 410
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Posted: 4/3/2018 5:41:12 PM
Oh boy. Lol. Sienna, you shouldn't have even said anything in this thread about your new guy. It's like confiding in something with your siblings who will tease you till the cows come home.
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 4/3/2018 8:18:23 PM
^^^^ I can understand people taking others to task for what they said in the past, as opposed to what they say now, but if it's done in a mean-spirited way, it just makes everyone not want to express themselves. Honest and forthcoming people are the most interesting people.

July - I did an edit, because the way I originally wrote it, it looked like I was saying you're mean-spirited, which you are not☺
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 4/4/2018 3:58:11 AM
I meant we want our first time sleeping together to be special so we are going to hold back until it is. We don't want to just sleep with each other on the first, 2nd etc date.
We want to make love with each other not just fvck each other.

Well he said we will work through things together and he doesnt mind if we don't have sex often or how long it takes.
It wasn't really a warning, he agreed to it as well, because we want our first time having sex together to be special. We don't just want to "go with the flow" at any random time.Letting things go with the flow just equals lame sexual encounters with randoms lol.

He can touch me down there but not under my clothes. With the rule he shouldn't be trying to touch under my underwear mainly anyway.Wish I had a better chastity belt but I obviously don't.
It shouldn't be a problem that it is somewhere isolated. If it is and the date went well, future dates will be in public.
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
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Posted: 4/4/2018 7:48:20 AM
"I think both he and I are unique"

>>>you aren't alone. I mean, we all think put the you in unique.

"we both agree to no touching, well except my best feature"

>>>that's like, "i'm only going to put in the tip, and then i'll pull right out". Like Oscar Wilde said, I can resist everything but temptation. She's not unique in this, I used to work w/ young adults, and there was plenty of "leeway", like "oral sex doesn't count". come to think about it, there's also adults who play fast and loose with identifying what they've actually done. In their mind, they aren't lying--the other woman is a slut, they kept their clothes on, for example. "Clothes" meaning just their panties, of course. But s0me people really aren't having sex, b/c they can have it any time. So no reason to go "halfsies", they can be all the way or nothing. They can pass up an opportunity, b/c there's always going to be another one soon.
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 4/5/2018 11:13:50 AM
Just had my date :3
We had pizza by the lake it was really dark lol. Then we had a cuddle by the lake on the grass then went on a drive and walked along a beach.
He was so sweet he gave me a chocolate bunny for Easter :) and pineapple chocolate
I gave him 2 chocolate bunnies 1 was normal milk and other was dark chocolate cos he said he loves dark chocolate so I just had to :3

He was such a gentleman didn't even touch me below the belt :)
He sucked my nipples though it was so sexy.
I don't see how that's anything to do with 'just the tip' mentality. Kinda ridiculous imo.
Oral sex doesnt really count as sex even. Obviously fingering doesn't!
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 4/5/2018 11:34:37 AM
Oy vey, here we go again☺ It's called oral what? SEX. I really think you need a suit of armour, and not just a chastity belt☺

I'm glad you're home and safe, and happy with how your date went☺
 browneyesboo
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Posted: 4/5/2018 12:04:58 PM
Well, except for the chocolate bunnies,
that sounded like awful.
 MadameBoisseau
Joined: 5/11/2017
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Posted: 4/5/2018 5:19:52 PM

Madam thinks you’ve to earn her ****


Yep, and I'm 100% justified in thinking that. I have NEVER in my life deliberately tried to screw someone over for my benefit. I go out of my way to make the world a better place consistently. I'm extremely loving, giving, moral, kind, loyal, compassionate, altruistic, honest, and passionate. My life is together, I have an advanced education, a decent career, I take good care of myself, I'm attractive, healthy, and great in the sack. I have no bad life ruining habits. I REFUSE to be a liability in someone's life. I'm smart, I can cook like a demon, keep a nice home and will roll myself out like a red carpet for someone who does the same for me. I KNOW I am a good woman, a good human, and a great catch.

My affection and trust DOES have to be earned - because I know how many dishonest exploitative folks are out there and what they will attempt to do to someone who doesn't haven't strong boundaries. I wish MORE human beings would strive to be the best version of themselves they can be and demand to be treated with the dignity good people deserve. The only people that resent a healthy self esteem are those who want an east target for abuse.
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
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Posted: 4/5/2018 5:45:12 PM
if you can acquire a sexually transmitted disease, from an activity...then that activity has to, by definition...be sex. otherwise you caught a friend transmitted disease (like a cold, the flu, etc)
 cooldog65
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Posted: 4/5/2018 7:02:58 PM

He was such a gentleman didn't even touch me below the belt :)
He sucked my nipples though it was so sexy.
I don't see how that's anything to do with 'just the tip' mentality. Kinda ridiculous imo.
Oral sex doesnt really count as sex even. Obviously fingering doesn't!


"Gentleman"...He must have said "Please" and "Thank you".

What did he get besides chocolate?
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 4/6/2018 5:46:01 AM

Oy vey, here we go again☺ It's called oral what? SEX. I really think you need a suit of armour, and not just a chastity belt☺

I'm glad you're home and safe, and happy with how your date went☺

that's silly and why? lol
Thanks!!
I saw him again today :3 I was going to walk to the shops and he said he would drive me and I said that I wouldn't get him to come here just to drive me and he said he wants to see me so I was like lets do something fun then. So we went to bunnings and had a chat before he had to go to work and we are going to a restaurant on Sunday. Maybe Thai! He is such a gentleman he has seemed to of made little rules to himself about taking things slowly when it comes to sexual stuff. It's so cute
 SomewhereInTheStratosfere
Joined: 4/1/2018
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Posted: 4/6/2018 7:00:59 AM

I need eyes muffs just to read this stuff.
hahahahahahaha. Thanks, there goes my morning coffee.
 forumfairy
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Posted: 4/6/2018 7:18:27 AM

Internet bullying a young girl. Very nice, Cyndi. Didn't you self-proclaim to be a nice person? Words are cheap.

I agree, this is a very inmature, naive, young lady here. being a role model and offering good advice is more helpful here. I'm starting to think Cyndi isn't all that nice.
Sienna, as a guy I'm just going to say, BE CAREFUL. Most men have one goal, some will stay around after, most wont. Choose wisely and dont be in a rush.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 4/6/2018 10:28:27 AM

Oy vey, here we go again☺ It's called oral what? SEX. I really think you need a suit of armour, and not just a chastity belt

Oral sex does not equal sex. The English language doesn't always mean the word before is just a variation of said word by itself. "Hot sex" is completely different than "Oral sex". "Hot" is describing the Kind of sex (intercourse) that's being had. "Oral" is describing that it's sexual relations of a different variety (oral interaction on a sex organ).

If Sally says she had sex with Brad when she gave him a BJ on the beach when nobody was looking, and that's all she said, she would be Clearly misleading people. Just because it's "just as bad" in one person's mind, doesn't mean it's the same thing.

if you can acquire a sexually transmitted disease, from an activity...then that activity has to, by definition...be sex.

No, incorrect. First, you can get a sexually transmittable infection thru other means outside of Any sexual activity. Just a lot harder + bad luck. I guess a baby had sex with a mom, because the mom passed one along to it when prego or breastfeeding, right? And it isn't restricted to that.

Second, by more common means, kissing = sex. Yes, it's sexual relations, but you can get chlamydia & herpes when kissing, and it's not hard to transmit that. We can make the argument that most transmissions occur thru some form of sexual relations -- ok. That would mean kissing = sex. Even Mormons would disagree that it's sex ("Close, but no cigar. And no smoking cigars!").
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 4/9/2018 5:01:29 AM
Well we are boyfriend and girlfriend now :3
Thanks everyone for your advice

We have seen each other every day since thursday. I slept over his house saturday night and Sunday we went on a nice date at hogs breath and went to the yoghurt place :3
I had to go home that night to have a rest and take care of my plants and aquarium lol
 overunity
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Posted: 4/9/2018 6:26:23 AM
^^^^ If true, I wonder which one of her multiple personalities she used with this latest "boyfriend".

See also "Dissociative identity disorder" for more on this malady.
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