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 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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oh boy its not easy living in the closet...


True it can get a bit cramped.

He loves you but in a way as to cover up the truth.
Wishing you were this or that is his way of hoping you will help him cover up the truth.
I guess if you really wanted to stay you could roll play as a boy with a beard.
But the truth of it, you will never be happy nor will he.
You will always be his "other" choice.
And he will always desire you to be a man.
I personally would walk away and hope he can truly find what he seeks.
 reallyunreal2
Joined: 11/28/2017
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Is my Boyfriend gay and in denial or am i paranoid?
Posted: 3/15/2018 4:20:44 PM
Hate to say it, your boyfriend is gay and likes straight sex too, bi is is still gay. I have had many so-called straight guys want to have sex with me, only to hear them say "If you don't take in in your butt or mouth, your not gay", which is BS.
I've been in four straight relationships while gay in the closet, my social surroundings made it unacceptable to be gay. If you were gay, physically or mentally challenged where I went to school you got hunted down by like 100 or 200 kids everyday after school and beat up.

And all you guys out there that like your butt played with chances are you have some underlying sexual issues that are gay oriented, who cares, it's 2018, but pride and ego can prevent a man from coming out of that big walk-in closet.
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