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 cooldog65
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The next day, I didn't contact her at all, and a little after 9:00 PM she sent a text that said "wow, busy guy". I didn't see it at the time, then about 2 hours later, she sent another that said "very disappointing, please don't text me again....thanks."


She missed out on your piggish charms...
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 1/24/2018 9:53:39 AM
Cyndi, I will take that as a compliment!

Rise, you're making me out to be more interesting than I am☺ I would have gone sans clothes if it was an empty Caribbean beach. Been there, done that, naked swimming☺
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
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Posted: 1/24/2018 10:13:40 AM


She missed out on your piggish charms


Indeed. Crap like this is one of many reasons I have no use for relationships. The "we exchanged contact info, now I will make big demands" bullshit just isn't going to fly. She *may* do what others have typically done and wait a few weeks to contact me again, pretending nothing happened (which I will ignore) or she will simply never contact me again, which is fine with me.
 fullmoonguy2
Joined: 6/14/2017
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Posted: 1/24/2018 10:17:54 AM

Dated a quiet one once and he was crazy. Quiet, polite, "gentlemanly" to all outward appearances, and "gaslighting" me in private. Did crazy things like hack into my computer and sent porn to everyone on my email list. Took meat out of my freezer and "hid" it in the apartment, and I had a hell of a time trying to find out where the horrible stench was coming from. Accused me of changing clothes in the middle of the day because at lunchtime I was out having sex with other men -- but get this....we worked in the same complex -- I had a parking space -- he didn't. So I let him use mine, and we drove to work together -- but he swore he saw my car in the area. One night, my "inside kitty cat" was downstairs (I lived in a 2nd floor apartment), crying to get inside -- after I arrived home from an evening out with my daughter. He said the cat jumped off the 2nd floor balcony -- the cat who would not even go out on the balcony unless she was in her carrier. I think his family (who lived on the other side of the state) knew he was crazy, too, because in 20 years (at that time), they had never been to his house because they said it was "too far" to drive. Yet they literally drove past our city on their way to visit other family in New York and South Carolina.


Good choice.

Did all of this happen on Day One?

Or how long did you let this madness go on?


One night, my "inside kitty cat" was downstairs (I lived in a 2nd floor apartment), crying to get inside -- after I arrived home from an evening out with my daughter. He said the cat jumped off the 2nd floor balcony -- the cat who would not even go out on the balcony unless she was in her carrier.


You left this nutcase alone in your apartment?

Another SMH moment.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 1/24/2018 10:25:56 AM
Pig, You're so bad@ss! I think you left out a step. It's kiss the girls and make them cry

Tothemoonalice, yeah, I wouldn't have left him alone with my pet. She lucked out. Don't be mean to Blacklady. We all use bad judgment from time to time ☺
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/24/2018 10:35:40 AM
102

Rise, you're making me out to be more interesting than I am

Damn I guess I'll have to go back to looking at my sorry naked ass in the mirror. What a disappointment.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 1/25/2018 3:44:43 PM
Sorry, I had naked pics, but pof wasn't allowing them😇
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/25/2018 3:57:57 PM
The Bastards.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
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Posted: 1/25/2018 8:36:35 PM

Pig, You're so bad@ss!


It's not a matter of being a bad ass, it's a matter of *not* being a stupid ass.

Would you tolerate a man acting like he's entitled to speedy text replies after first meeting him??
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 1/25/2018 9:07:25 PM
Yes and no. Having just communicated with someone, I would be expecting another text and would have answered it fairly quickly. In your case, the "no" is because she shouldn't have wigged out on you just because you didn't. For future reference, I would tell the person I'm not texting all the time, don't expect a fast reply. You want a fast reply, pick up the phone.

I had a constant e-mialer. He asked me why I didn't respond right away. I told him I'm not always online checking mail. Really, I didn't want to be communicating all day long, every day, but I also wasn't online 24/7. Men think that because I'm retired, I'm always available. I've even had gfs say where were you, like they expect me to be home all the time.
 ThePigOfYourDreams
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Posted: 1/25/2018 9:25:37 PM

Yes and no. Having just communicated with someone, I would be expecting another text and would have answered it fairly quickly. In your case, the "no" is because she shouldn't have wigged out on you just because you didn't. For future reference, I would tell the person I'm not texting all the time, don't expect a fast reply. You want a fast reply, pick up the phone.


She told me not to text her again, and that's what she's getting. As I said, she was very likely waiting for my apology and explanation. Fat f*cking chance.

The ingrate should be thankful I contacted her at all.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 1/25/2018 9:31:03 PM
It's nice for a person to show enthusiasm, but they can't suddenly show up in your life and think they'll call the shots like that.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2018 3:34:10 PM
"She told me not to text her again, and that's what she's getting. As I said, she was very likely waiting for my apology and explanation. Fat f*cking chance. The ingrate should be thankful I contacted her at all."

>>>its refreshing to know, she didn't get under your skin :)

ah well, you found out you two are not compatable. she's free to find a better fit, and so are you. missions accomplished. Look on the bright side, I don't get out there as much as I used to, so i'm not feeling as happy are you're expressing.
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/26/2018 3:46:44 PM

It's nice for a person to show enthusiasm, but they can't suddenly show up in your life and think they'll call the shots like that.

Now you tell me. I guess it's time for me to give up my hopes and dreams of ever seeing what that picture looks like from the other side of that sign.
 __TEXASCHICK__
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Posted: 1/26/2018 3:50:20 PM
NY 58 states/ writes
[[I'm a talk softly, carry a big stick, chick. Got to watch out for the quiet ones.]]

now, now,,, play nice in the sand box, we want Mr Pig to be safe. lol
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 1/26/2018 4:22:25 PM
Rise, small butt, medium size hips, good indent for the waist, hard calves☺

Texas, I'm not worried about pig who is more like a wild boar. They have tusks, and are quite capable of defending themselves☺
 ohenryx
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Posted: 1/26/2018 7:24:02 PM
When I was young, my great uncle still owned 160 acres down on the edge of the Big Thicket in East Texas. He would take us (my grandfather, my father, myself and my brother) hunting for wild boars. These suckers were big, and mean, and afraid of nothing. You really, really didn’t mess around with them.

These days I am of a gentler mind set, I don’t want to kill anything. But I do remember those hunts. A lot of male bonding, a lot of growing up, a lot of learning what it is to be a man.

This was the same great uncle, Uncle Oscar, who fought in WWI, was severely injured, and left behind when the American Army came home. A French family took him in, cared for him for nearly a year until he was well enough to come home. We haven’t always treated our veterans well. And in some ways, we still don’t. But at least now we don’t leave them behind.
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/26/2018 7:26:51 PM
Thanks Newyorker. Finally i'll be able to sleep at night.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 1/26/2018 9:30:01 PM


Messages this short may not be posted, yet I posted anyway
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/27/2018 2:27:31 AM
^^^^
Damn, now i'll be up all night trying to figure out what you mean by "short"
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 1/27/2018 5:12:38 AM
Oh for Gawds sake................Can you read? ^ ^ ^ ^ Newyorker posted a pic of herself behind a post, which shows, "WELCOME OPE ISLAN". Clearly someone was short an H and a D. Got it?
You can go to bed now. You're welcome.
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/27/2018 5:28:56 AM
^^^^
These are the forums, what is there to get. Why would you assume either of us in our last posts were talking about her picture?
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 1/27/2018 6:05:36 AM
LMAO............. And why would you assume I was being serious about any of this?! This IS the Forums!
We can, and do, take advantage of any and all opportunities, to find the humor hidden ..........in here!
 __TEXASCHICK__
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Posted: 1/27/2018 6:44:12 AM
Rise writes,,
[[ These are the forums, what is there to get. Why would you assume either of us in our last posts were talking about her picture? ]]
to NY 58

Y'all are too funny
 _Rise_Above_This_
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Posted: 1/27/2018 6:53:07 AM
Of course I saw the humor

after you pointed it out.

The word braindead comes to mind now. lol

thank you ladies..
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