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so he's delusional to think he can fish in any age range other than what he's in

Thanks, so much for my being delusionally in like with you.
 jamescoburn
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Posted: 3/27/2018 9:45:06 AM
Hi, I am a Brit. I am 71, going on 45. I say this on my site, because, in my heart, I feel the same about most things now, as I did when I was 45, ok, the important ones. Without going too deep, about 15+ years back, everything down there stopped. It was ''part to do with a very shallow breakdown. I shook solid for 24+ hours. After that nothing down there worked. I saw my doc, I tied lots of tabs, etc. nada. I was referred to a specialist, he talked, and after a couple of sessions with him, he took me behind the screen, said I qualify for ''this'' ''is that ok for you, it is a needle.' I said yes, he injected into my penis, BINGO! I had an Empire State Building, but stronger hard!!!!!!!!!!!! I ran to my car, phoned my wife, all this is gospel, told her I would be 20mins, ''get your kit off, get on the bed, I have a steel girder between my lets.
Hand on heart, that was about 12 years ago, I still have a FREE supply of ''kit'' from the UK NHS, so at 71, I am still firing for 60minutes, solid +My wife passed away 3 years ago.
Life is pretty good right now, especitally now that ladies find out my staying time, some put their legs up me, they have large tits, and when I stop, out of puff, they lock their feet behind my head, and say either ''stay in'' or ''don't come out.'' May God strike me dead if I have lied, exaggerated, anything above. Good luck guys.
 halcyon_skies
Joined: 7/27/2015
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Posted: 3/27/2018 10:00:21 AM

Hand on heart, that was about 12 years ago, I still have a FREE supply of ''kit'' from the UK NHS, so at 71, I am still firing for 60minutes, solid +My wife passed away 3 years ago.
Life is pretty good right now, especitally now that ladies find out my staying time, some put their legs up me, they have large tits, and when I stop, out of puff, they lock their feet behind my head, and say either ''stay in'' or ''don't come out.'' May God strike me dead if I have lied, exaggerated, anything above. Good luck guys.


Perhaps it's your memory, rather than your sexual stamina that's starting to wane. You appear to be confused about your age, since your profile states you are 63 --- not 71.
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 3/27/2018 10:50:26 AM

My wife passed away 3 years ago.


^ ^ ^ and I'll add, OP signed up for POF nearly 4 years ago. Hmmmm.
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 3/27/2018 10:53:17 AM

I saw my doc, I tied lots of tabs, etc. nada. I was referred to a specialist, he talked, and after a couple of sessions with him, he took me behind the screen, said I qualify for ''this'' ''is that ok for you, it is a needle.' I said yes, he injected into my penis, BINGO! I had an Empire State Building, but stronger hard!!!!!!!!!!!! I ran to my car, phoned my wife, all this is gospel, told her I would be 20mins, ''get your kit off, get on the bed, I have a steel girder between my lets.


I was curious about this:

CaverjectTM or EdexTM (Alprostadil) is injected directly into the side of the penis and produces an erection. The medication dilates the arteries of the penis and allows blood to flow in. An erection occurs anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes after injection. A patient must learn to perform a penile self-injection each time he wishes to engage in sexual activity. The erection will last 30 minutes to an hour or up to orgasm.

Most patients find that they get used to the needle sensation over time. The number of injections is not to exceed 12 each month, and should be spaced as evenly as possible. The site of injection should alternate between left and right side of the penis.


https://www.urologicalcare.com/erectile-dysfunction/penile-injection-therapy/

I assume you already had your testosterone levels checked?

But for me, it would certainly take a lot of enjoyment out of sex to have to inject my penis.

Gives a new meaning to, no pain no gain.
 browneyesboo
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Posted: 3/27/2018 11:11:19 AM
Jaysus tap dancin kerist on a cracker.
That post nearly put me off my lunch.
eww
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 3/28/2018 1:30:27 AM

I am 71, going on 45. I say this on my site, because, in my heart, I feel the same about most things now, as I did when I was 45

I don't find that odd. But I do find it odd in society that you're Not supposed to feel that way. Like at 45, you're supposed to "be" 45 -- "you're not 30"! Not for doing acrobatic stunts and the like, but the way you roll thru life. Society almost tends to make it required to put an "old man's hat" in the back of the car next to the windshield, too. :)

It was ''part to do with a very shallow breakdown. I shook solid for 24+ hours. After that nothing down there worked.

Wow, that's nuts. Nothing worked, just suddenly like that? I dunno if I could do injections, but, yeah, after a few years if I literally couldn't get it up -- even with "Sammy Sosa & Mark McGuire" pills -- I'd probably try it. But I'd probably go thru some intense extreme exercise program + hypnosis, etc., to change Everything if those pills were having Zero effect.
 julystorm7
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Posted: 3/28/2018 9:36:10 AM
I've been thinking about how old would be too old to date. What made up my mind was when a guy who was messaging me, age 45, and I almost agreed to go meet him but then I was talking to my mom about it (I usually tell her some details about someone before going for a meetup for safety reasons) and she started laughing because she had gone out with the same guy on plenty of fish. I decided right then and there to limit it to 44, basically 10 years. Although I get a lot of guys in the 26 to 29 year age group messaging me. My brother said they must be young guys who have heard single mothers are easy pickings. I would prefer someone in the 30 to 40 age groups but would consider outliers.
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 3/28/2018 10:03:08 AM

I don't find that odd. But I do find it odd in society that you're Not supposed to feel that way. Like at 45, you're supposed to "be" 45 -- "you're not 30"! Not for doing acrobatic stunts and the like, but the way you roll thru life.


Roll through life? Like with a walker and hypodermic needle?
 flyover_boy
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Posted: 3/28/2018 11:16:24 AM

I think it's "disgusting" out of social-conditioning. But it wasn't disgusting in "the good 'ol days" of grandma & grandpa. And most importantly, biology has the backing that it's not Actually "disgusting". One's lying to themselves if they can't find a 16 year old gal more than mildly sexually attractive.


Exactly ! Many forget the the Ancients who built our World, Greeks and Romans, paired adult men with 14 year old girls. A practice in the First World Modernity is called ‘pedophilia.’ Times and attitudes in the West have changed. And we have heart disease, cancer and Big Macs too. But, more to the point, the British commentator, John Derbyshire (kinda a provocateur, like a Michael Moore, yet of the Right), penned that women tend to reach the peak of their attractiveness at 15-20. Like many of his other controversial statements and observations, he says he’s a slave to the data, not emotional, societal imposed views.


Men make me laugh when it comes to age! Many men expect women who are over 10 years older than them to fall in love!


My neighborhood is loaded with bitter attitudes like this. One problem comes when these women realize they might have to do some romancing to 'win over’ their contemporaries more than they had to 10, 15 or 20 years ago. It’s not much, but sitting across from you at a coffee shop, hearing you complain about your ex’s, men (the 'but...not you’s’ don’t help) and pouring out sharp, unconditional opinions, are not a key to even attempt to win someone over or to gain THEIR interest in you. Ten minutes later, this is why the wondering eye spots Penny (from the Big Bang Theory) in delicious jeans.
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
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Posted: 3/29/2018 8:34:24 AM
"Many forget the the Ancients who built our World, Greeks and Romans, paired adult men with 14 year old girls."

>>>except, what was the age of adulthood in this time of poor medicine and short life expectancy?

"Greek child from birth to adulthood—around 15 years of age for girls, the time of marriage for females in ancient Greece, and around 17 or 18 for boys, the age at which they entered the military."

https://www.getty.edu/news/press/exhibit/comingofage_LL.html
 flyover_boy
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Posted: 3/29/2018 10:13:59 AM

except, what was the age of adulthood in this time of poor medicine and short life expectancy?


The life expectancy issue is very much misunderstood. It is often defined from birth to average death. What is more telling is what is the survival rate from...age 20...age 30 and 40. Many never lived to see age 20, even into the early 20th Century. You’ll see this on tombstones in old cemeteries. But, at the turn of the Century, if you made it to 40, your life expectancy, while still less than today, wasn’t as low as you might expect. We have done miracles getting people to age 40, even in the last Century. We haven’t done that great expanding life expectancy post 40.

Even in Ancient times, people did live to old age. There were 80 year old men in the Greek Senate. Perhaps with their ‘new’ 16 year old brides. But...we’ve evolved in Modernity. Heart disease, cancer and our burgers. :)
 ohenryx
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Posted: 3/29/2018 8:42:58 PM

browneyesboo
Jaysus tap dancin kerist on a cracker.
That post nearly put me off my lunch.
eww

I do enjoy your posts, Boo. A new phrase for my lexicon.


norwegianguy456
I dunno if I could do injections, but, yeah, after a few years if I literally couldn't get it up -- even with "Sammy Sosa & Mark McGuire" pills -- I'd probably try it

You might be surprised at what you can do when you have to.

I had a vague memory of someone a few years back telling me this was rather expensive. A quick google search shows an average retail price of $228 for a carton (2 injections). So $114 per round. Not exactly cheap
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 3/29/2018 9:54:53 PM
At those prices, a guy may have to ask his date, do you want dinner or sex☺
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 3/30/2018 1:37:06 PM

Roll through life? Like with a walker and hypodermic needle?

Lol - no, but how you dress, the places you go to, etc. "Go places and be like those your own age," is society's general theme. Doesn't have to be exact, but if you're "too much" like those significantly younger, "there's something wrong."

penned that women tend to reach the peak of their attractiveness at 15-20. Like many of his other controversial statements and observations, he says he’s a slave to the data, not emotional, societal imposed views.

I don't really agree with that. It certainly can be in a society of "letting yourself go", but I don't think that's a biological standard. Especially since some gals (and guys in their ways) get more developed. There's too many gals who look noticeably better at 24 than they did as a senior in high school. And it's by no means an exception to look just as attractive at 28 as they did at 20.

Problem is, many don't. Why? Folks let themselves go, and some get prego and don't work their way back, etc. So yeah, the data will aim that at 15-20, it's statistically a "safe spot" where they haven't let themselves go (enough) yet.
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 3/31/2018 3:06:26 AM
ohenryx

You might be surprised at what you can do when you have to.


But this doesn't fall into the category of I have to do it. I can live without sex.

If I had such a problem, I might try the needle, but I doubt I would be a regular user. At my age, I think I would take it as a sign from God that I am past sex. And I am not sure how this works, (or doesn't) , if I am a limp dck, can I still orgasm with oral?

However, I don't mind jabbing myself in the ass once every 3 months with testosterone undecanoate , but the benefits go far beyond a few hours in the sack. I can't say I like it, but I have done it. Not currently, but I am looking into getting back into it.
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 3/31/2018 3:17:39 AM

Lol - no, but how you dress, the places you go to, etc. "Go places and be like those your own age," is society's general theme. Doesn't have to be exact, but if you're "too much" like those significantly younger, "there's something wrong."


I do think there is something wrong if I go out of my way to emulate a 20 year old.

Like if I were to wear hip hop and low rider jeans. I do have hole in some jeans, but that isn't a fashion statement, it's because they are old.

But I think fedora hats are coming back into fashion ??

I got some roller blades in the shed, maybe I will give them a try.
 MachIMustangII
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Posted: 3/31/2018 5:44:01 AM
trying to be something we are not is...trying to be something we are not. plus, what benefits there are to our age, we'll pass on them and a decade from now, wish we could be that young. Last I saw, fedoras are back, but I suppose anything classic can be back if we just "rock it" or "own it" as the kids say. I'm sure someone's posted here about how after Kennedy's Camelot, we stopped worshiping the experience of our elders.

I can't imagine poking myself in the nethers w/ a sharp item, either, but then that's b/c I know what league of women I would get and not get. why tease myself.
 julystorm7
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Posted: 3/31/2018 5:15:04 PM
I just this year finally realized I'm not young anymore. Not sure when it happened but I'm suddenly feeling out of touch with the young crowd. I feel like a full blown adult now. Maybe it's because I'm approaching 35 and I'm halfway between 20 and 50.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 3/31/2018 7:18:57 PM
What is the difference between acting young or old? Acting old is negative, why do that? As older adults, we can act younger, but not to the point of being stupid. It's a win-win situation. Acting old means you're dying inside, little by little. I learned to ride a motorcycle and buy one in my 40s. Got into kayaking in my 50s. Buying a gun and target shooting, in my 50s. Want to die young, become stagnant and lose your interest in things and your sense of whimsy.
 MachIMustangII
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Posted: 4/1/2018 4:34:34 AM
"I just this year finally realized I'm not young anymore."

>>>ah, someone called you miss, eh? :) For us guys, its when some young dude we'd associate 0urselves with calls us Mister. Still, i'd love to be 35 again, you're still young. too old for the college crowd, but still a way's off from midlife crisis.

"Not sure when it happened"

>>>no one is. its like belly fat. you never wake up one morning and stand sideways to the mirror and there it is. ironically, people love to hand that baloney, "you're only as old as you feel", but in reality...you're as old as everyone around you treats you. Certain convo didn't happen around you when you were a child, b/c you were "too young to hear this". Now you're "too old to understand".

"but I'm suddenly feeling out of touch with the young crowd"

>>>this is one good thing about the internet. when a comedian makes a ref to some person who you don't know, you can look them up instantly. and realize you don't know them b/c they star in movies you think are beneath you. and you realize that's b/c you're too old to find those movies interesting, they're cheezy and dumb :)

"What's the diff between acting young or old?"

>>i'm going to say, its the maturity. you can act like a fuddy-duddy and its obvious you're acting old and lost your sense of adventure. but if you act younger than your age, but you're mature about it, then you're jus being lively. if you swap phart recipes, you're acting like a child and not in a good way. indeed, we should go out and learn new things, as the commercial tells us, objects at rest tend to stay at rest. our joints need to move to avoid rusting.

when my father stopped getting the morning paper, I knew it was b/c he was at peace with no longer being part of this world. sure enough, a month or two later...
 MsSkeezix
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Posted: 4/1/2018 6:26:54 AM
MachI wrote in part:
"I just this year finally realized I'm not young anymore."

>>>ah, someone called you miss, eh? :) For us guys, its when some young dude we'd associate 0urselves with calls us Mister. Still, i'd love to be 35 again, you're still young. too old for the college crowd, but still a way's off from midlife crisis.


^^^For us women, it's when someone calls us " ma'am"----"miss" is still 'young'
According to your profile, Mister MachI, you're 36---only a shade past 35, no need to fret about your lost youth quite yet~
 Nestaron
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Posted: 4/1/2018 6:59:15 AM
Any woman who thinks she needs to dye the grey is to old for me. I think it's a sign of immaturity and women fighting to hang on to something they no longer are age gracefully and it's alright in my book.
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Posted: 4/1/2018 7:55:41 AM

Posted By: julystorm7 on 3/31/2018 704 PM
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Message: I just this year finally realized I'm not young anymore. Not sure when it happened but I'm suddenly feeling out of touch with the young crowd. I feel like a full blown adult now. Maybe it's because I'm approaching 35 and I'm halfway between 20 and 50.


Lol,I used to feel that way when I was your age(30 years ago).Ah but I was so much older then,I'm younger than that now.
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Posted: 4/1/2018 9:41:15 AM
"....do you want dinner or sex?"

We can still do both. I have coupons for Jack-in-the-Box. Sex first tho, in case of indigestion.
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