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 Ladyinred0407
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Pardon me July, LOL ^ ^ ^ ^ Actually your parameters are 27-42.
 julystorm22
Joined: 6/15/2018
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Posted: 7/8/2018 11:34:24 AM
Ok I stand corrected. Didn't realize that
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 7/8/2018 11:35:13 AM

Too old: 50+





If I just want to hook up, I prefer younger because they have more enthusiasm & stamina. I tried hooking up with older guys and ran into arthritis and ED issues.


If I can't get it up and be enthusiastic for you, I'll throw in the towel and join the monastery...


I do prefer to date older men though.


Unless they're over 50.
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 7/8/2018 2:52:16 PM
July, That's funny about your mom, but don't exclude men based on her parameters. About the young guys, they have something to offer, as does every age range. You may be a teacher or like their exuberance and innocence.


Coold, if you don't use it, you lose it. If you're slowly having a diminished capacity, could take a while to find out if you're not actively dating.
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
Msg: 155
if it's wrinkled like a raisin, don't make it a date
Posted: 7/8/2018 4:22:29 PM
"That is something I do wonder about regarding older men, do they have stamina and ED issues? Or has their experience made them better lovers?"

>>>just to throw this in here, and i'm not asking for details, but hey, let's say a woman can only orgasm thru penetration sex, oral does little for her. In that case, ED is a big issue, unless he's good with toys. But if she prefers oral, then only his tongue needs stamina :) So it can depend upon both partners, and how they work together. Experience can be a good thing, but its all about the maturity--does he GAS about reciprocating or not? or has he not had much in a while and his big focus is to impress his lover in order to feel better about himself? A guy who is all giving and little receiving, can make some ladies feel bad that they aren't rocking his world, either (which can return us to ED).

"would an older woman actually be attractive to them, even for a temporary fling?"

>>>>if she has a wonderful rack and anything approaching an hourglass figure, any miracle is possible :) lol No, seriously, there are Mrs. Robinsons out there.
 NewYorker58
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ED is not fun
Posted: 7/8/2018 5:21:22 PM
ED is always an issue. Who wants to feel like sex is work? That's where the younger guys beat out the older guys. When old men think they want young women for sex thinking a young women would be interested, they're delusional. Who wants to deal with this⤵
 MsMicki
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ED is not fun
Posted: 7/8/2018 7:09:23 PM

ED is always an issue. Who wants to feel like sex is work? That's where the younger guys beat out the older guys. When old men think they want young women for sex thinking a young women would be interested, they're delusional. Who wants to deal with this⤵


So it is OK for an older woman to go after younger men because she might have to put some effort into sex with an older man....
But it is not OK for an older man to be interested in a younger woman????

and please....you mean you might actually have to take some time to get your man aroused....
OMG....you poor thing....

You do realize that men have been "working" at getting women aroused their whole lives.....right?

Anytime I see a woman complain she might have to put a little effort into her sexlife....I think 2 things...
Selfish lover....or lazy lover....

BTW...this takes us right back to a discussion from a few months ago....
Viagra will take care of all that "work" for ya!!
 NewYorker58
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ED is not fun
Posted: 7/8/2018 8:15:45 PM
In the context of a relationship, it's different, but if you're just dating, why choose someone with ED?

I'm not against people, male or female, dating those younger than themselves. My ex-h was 7 years younger than me. Men that have asked me out during my lifetime tend to be younger.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 7/8/2018 8:18:04 PM

Coold, if you don't use it, you lose it. If you're slowly having a diminished capacity, could take a while to find out if you're not actively dating.


I use it plenty. I prefer nature's Viagra...hot exotic women!
 MsMicki
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Posted: 7/8/2018 8:50:06 PM
NY....then why do you repeatedly state that older men wanting sex with younger women are delusional???
Since that exact scenario happens quite frequently....wouldn't it stand to reason you are the one that is delusional in thinking
it can't happen?

as for "dating" a man with ED....I don't ask men if they have ED if we are "just dating"...because I don't have sex with every man I have a date with...
that conversation would come up if we decided to be in an actual exclusive relationship...
and it sure wouldn't deter me from entering a relationship because of it.
(I can say this honestly because my guy is a prime example)
and once again....Viagra is a quick and easy solution.....whether you are dating, in a relationship or married.

If, during sex play, his motor sputters....I am more than happy to do what is needed to restart his engine!!
I enjoy giving as much as receiving....so it's just a natural thing for me to do...

I couldn't even imagine ditching a good man just because of this issue....
 feirene
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ED is not fun
Posted: 7/8/2018 8:56:23 PM
When i was 17 i did hook up with a guy who had ED but it didn't last long coz i wasn't mature enough to handle it. He used to give me loads of oral but i wanted sex as well. Nowadays there is viagra so it's not as much of an issue. Even met a couple of guys in their 60s for sex not long back and they had no problems at all and i think they were using viagra because their**** were thicker than most guys.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 7/8/2018 10:46:13 PM

as for "dating" a man with ED....I don't ask men if they have ED if we are "just dating"...because I don't have sex with every man I have a date with...

Well, to be fair, if you are datING -- he's not a guy you merely landed a date with... but someone you've been on several dates with, with the understanding that there are more to cum. :)

I've never experienced it, but I guess I can understand at 50+ a gal asking a guy if he has ED if/when talking about sex in conversation (sexy conversation or not)... which many times happens after the 1st date, of course. But I could also see it where that's not really needed, if the gal's not looking for a hookup, but instead Fully Likes the guy and they're hitting it off. If he has problems in the bedroom -- yeah, slip him a Micki (Viagra)! ;)
 reverendswine
Joined: 4/14/2018
Msg: 163
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Posted: 7/8/2018 11:16:04 PM
A couple of weeks ago, I cracked open one of my old yearbooks and I instantly noticed how the senior girls looked more womanly than even girls in their 20s today. I recall them carrying themselves in a more womanly manner, as well. These days, it seems like women in their 20s make a conscious effort to be more childlike.

I dated someone 13 years younger than me at the end of 2015, and it was *only* because she didn't make it feel like there was an age gap. I don't need to be feeling like someone's Dad.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 7/9/2018 12:18:40 AM

A couple of weeks ago, I cracked open one of my old yearbooks and I instantly noticed how the senior girls looked more womanly than even girls in their 20s today. I recall them carrying themselves in a more womanly manner, as well. These days, it seems like women in their 20s make a conscious effort to be more childlike.


I noticed the same thing myself. Many of the women aged well at my 30 year reunion 5 years ago.

When I have watched clips of the Supremes wearing evening gowns (around 1965-1969), it's hard to believe that Diana Ross is only 21-25. She carried herself in a very mature manner. One would think they were seasoned veterans in their 30s.
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
Msg: 165
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Posted: 7/9/2018 1:25:53 AM

When old men think they want young women for sex thinking a young women would be interested, they're delusional. Who wants to deal with this⤵



https://youtu.be/15upx_4zES8
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
Msg: 166
Mr ED is hoarse
Posted: 7/9/2018 4:39:54 AM
"Who wants to feel like sex is work?"

>>>initially, there are plenty of ways to get a woman off. Some people focus only on one, the one actually discussed in polite company. if that process is missing, its eventually noticed and focused on. Some young ladies prefer an mature man, and seek age as a result.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 7/9/2018 6:43:12 AM

yeah, slip him a Micki (Viagra)!

one or the other is going to work! LOL

I don't really see where I would have to ask that question...
my questions are more along the lines of ....how do you feel about oral sex....and what are your fetishes?!!
those answers would be more of a dealbreaker than ED!!
 reverendswine
Joined: 4/14/2018
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Posted: 7/9/2018 8:28:00 AM

I noticed the same thing myself. Many of the women aged well at my 30 year reunion 5 years ago.

When I have watched clips of the Supremes wearing evening gowns (around 1965-1969), it's hard to believe that Diana Ross is only 21-25. She carried herself in a very mature manner. One would think they were seasoned veterans in their 30s.


Yes, it's a weird thing that leaves you wondering what the hell happened. The internet is saturated with women in their 20s selling the "little girl" schtick by posing with teddy bears while sucking their thumb, wearing children's clothing, (Pokemon, Hello Kitty, and "princess" shirts) posing at playgrounds, etc.

I believe I noticed this bizarre transition after the debut of Britney Spears. The video she did for "Baby One More Time" had a school girl theme and it was massively influencial, and I don't believe the momentum of the influence has subsided since then. If you look at 80's music videos, yes, many of the women were scantily clad, but you didn't see shit that screamed "little girl".
 browneyesboo
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Posted: 7/9/2018 8:53:17 AM

A couple of weeks ago, I cracked open one of my old yearbooks and I instantly noticed how the senior girls looked more womanly than even girls in their 20s today. I recall them carrying themselves in a more womanly manner, as well. These days, it seems like women in their 20s make a conscious effort to be more childlike.


I always try not to be an old poot who picks on the young people, especially at the bookstore.
But, I've noticed the hires at the bookstore that are young...are YOUNG. Very immature and clueless about money,
cell phones on the floor, dress codes, discipline, etc. Don't even get me started about how many don't read and don't care
to. (which should be a given if you're working at a bookstore)

Back in the old days, when I graduated HS, most people were sliding into full time jobs and starting out their work careers.
Of course things change, and I'm glad they do, but yeah, young people are really young nowadays.

Conversely, old people can be really old. There is a big difference between a 70 year old and a SEVENTY year old.
70 year olds are mostly old to me, and I'm almost one. I'm wondering if they started out young and then just got tired or
they were always old. It could be depressing if I thought about it, but usually I don't.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 7/9/2018 9:28:21 AM

Posted By: browneyesboo on 7/9/2018 1017 AM
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Back in the old days, when I graduated HS, most people were sliding into full time jobs and starting out their work careers.
Of course things change, and I'm glad they do, but yeah, young people are really young nowadays.

Conversely, old people can be really old. There is a big difference between a 70 year old and a SEVENTY year old.
70 year olds are mostly old to me, and I'm almost one. I'm wondering if they started out young and then just got tired or
they were always old. It could be depressing if I thought about it, but usually I don't.


People age at surprisingly different rates. My sister is 71 but she looks much younger,younger than me in fact. Her boyfriend is 40 years younger than her

This picture of her when she was 70.

http://bestnetworx.com/uploader/files/208/13607035_10154195102476280_3399649350362985120_n.jpg

This is a picture of me and her when I was 20 and she was 26

http://bestnetworx.com/uploader/files/208/LifeOnMars.jpg
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
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Posted: 7/9/2018 11:00:19 AM
i'LL HAVE WHAT SHE'S HAVING!!!

That is 71???
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/9/2018 12:28:13 PM
Micki, people tend to want to be with others that are the equivalent of themselves in a variety of ways. I don't need a guy working on me to get off, nor do I want to work on someone else, above what is in the normal range of what occurs during sex. I'm just speaking for myself, so if working it out with your partner works for you, I'm not putting that down. Maybe that's one reason why he's handy around your home. People know when they have to do a little more to equal things out.

I thought ED would mean a slow start, and not also a problem during sex. That's really unpalatable to me. Your partner is using Viagra? Then why the sputtering?

CBGB, your sister looks fantastic! Loved the retro pic of you two!
 MsMicki
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Posted: 7/9/2018 1:01:47 PM

Maybe that's one reason why he's handy around your home{/quote]
Good lord you crack me up!!
There is nothing to equal out.....he helps out ...because he's a good dude....
not because he has to take a Viagra!!
and I promise you.....if anyone needs to equal out anything....it's me!! He makes plenty sure I am pleased in the bedroom.

as for the sputtering out....you really do need to educate yourself!
when a man takes Viagra....he doesn't just pop a boner all by itself...
he still needs stimulation ...
so....when the focus is on me....or we take a little break...things tend to need a pick me up.
for some that just do the 15 minutes of banging....probably not an issue....
but we tend to spend a few hours of playing, teasing, pleasing, smoke break, dancing, teasing, pleasing....
 christinatrekker
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Posted: 7/9/2018 1:42:31 PM
Age is a number and love conquers everything, at least I hope it does.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/9/2018 1:43:14 PM
I've never been with a guy that needed a pick-me-up during the course of sex, because he found whatever was going on to be stimulating, and have easily bounced back from the refractory phase, but I understand what you're saying.

I haven't researched ED or Viagra yet, as it's not been an issue so far.

About dating younger, there's younger, then there's younger. For myself, I like to date men of a similar age, but when I have dated younger, most times the difference was not more than 6 years. Men that think they're going to date 20+ years younger, that's delusional. I would be delusional if I thought I was on the radar of men 20 years my junior.
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