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Age is a number and love conquers everything, at least I hope it does.

are you ever delusional!
 Clytemnestra
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Posted: 7/9/2018 2:14:23 PM

Who Is Too Young or Too Old for You to Date?
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Age is a number and love conquers everything, at least I hope it does.

are you ever delusional!


+1 Only in movies and books. ;-(
 whiterose0
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Posted: 7/9/2018 2:29:54 PM

I've never been with a guy that needed a pick-me-up during the course of sex, because he found whatever was going on to be stimulating, and have easily bounced back from the refractory phase, but I understand what you're saying.


How do you know for sure that a man didn't take a pick-me-up before having sex with you? He could even have a penile implant and you wouldn't necessarily know the difference. Not all men will tell you this.


I haven't researched ED or Viagra yet, as it's not been an issue so far.


It's true that ED wouldn't be an issue for someone who isn't dating.
 Dave of Indiana
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Posted: 7/9/2018 4:16:08 PM
Some older men need Viagra and some older women need KY gel. Both genders have their challenges.
 BuretoDesu
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Posted: 7/9/2018 5:02:41 PM

Who Is Too Young or Too Old for You to Date?


I try to stay within seven years in either direction, but if the back and forth messaging feels good then age isn't so important.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/9/2018 6:24:29 PM
Whiterose, I would see the scar and I think I'd notice someone pumping up their penis, plus there could be more signs. Why don't you relay your experiences? Wise me up. I'd love to hear them. I'm dating, just haven't this year.
 whiterose0
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Posted: 7/9/2018 6:53:26 PM

Whiterose, I would see the scar and I think I'd notice someone pumping up their penis, plus there could be more signs. Why don't you relay your experiences? Wise me up. I'd love to hear them. I'm dating, just haven't this year.


You wouldn't notice the scar unless you were specifically looking for it, which most women aren't. Since the pump is hidden inside the scrotum, you wouldn't necessarily notice them pumping it up.

As a former counselor, my experiences with men suffering from ED are from word-of-mouth. Many men will not reveal to the women they sleep with that they use sexual enhancement drugs or have had surgical help, until after they're in an exclusive relationship. By then, it doesn't usually matter to the woman.
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 7/9/2018 7:44:31 PM

Wise me up. I'd love to hear them. I'm dating, just haven't this year.


OK, I will wise you up a little.

C and V are Cialis and Viagra, I took this quote from another forum. Some number of men take Cialis and Viagra either separately or together on a regular basis regardless. I am not sure what percentage, but it''s more common then you might think. Guys are competitive that way.

C and V together work very well for me, I pair it different ways sometimes 5/C in the AM , 5C in the PM, and then a 50/V as date time approaches. Be easy on it and judge your tolerance with lower doses and if you pair it with NO donors like Citrulline/Arginine watch your (low) blood pressure

Also, on yet another forum , many young men take Cialis and Viagra if they anticipate sex with a lot of women in a short period of time, like say 2 a day for a couple of weeks. They stock up on the chemicals ahead of time.

TRIMIX, now no doubt you would notice someone that used TRIMIX.

I tried Cialis out of curiosity, but I didn't care for it. It game me a headache and I don't need it, just wanted to see how it worked.
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 7/9/2018 8:14:49 PM

CBGB77 People age at surprisingly different rates. My sister is 71 but she looks much younger,younger than me in fact. Her boyfriend is 40 years younger than her

This picture of her when she was 70.


Your sister looks quite a bit younger than 70. Congrats !

I don't entirely agree that how one "looks' totally denotes how healthy one is, but it's often a good indication.

But her 40 years younger BF, that would be pushing it for me. Kind of depends, as few years ago I used to chat up this lady that was 23, but she was an avid rock climber, I am sure I could not have kept up. And it would bother me to be a drag on someone.

I never had children, but chatting about meeting with an 18-year-old gave me a queasy feeling of having to plan her college education if we ever got married.

It depends on how old one is. I am 66, but if I were single and 71, 31 doesn't sound too weird, but a super active 25 year old is out of the question, 18 still makes me queasy.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 7/9/2018 8:42:41 PM
Dragon, thanks for that info. I have a feeling that men don't consider the side effects. I'm sure that headache was one of them. There's a lot of meds being taken by some men with them doing it with regularity. I wouldn't ask a waning s/o to take anything due to side effects. If the person wanted to, I'd do more research about side effects.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 7/10/2018 1:40:56 AM

A couple of weeks ago, I cracked open one of my old yearbooks and I instantly noticed how the senior girls looked more womanly than even girls in their 20s today.

One thing I noticed though thru my eyes when looking at old yearbooks from decades past is that gals with older hair styles (and shirts) give the impression of being "older" in a sense, more mature, as older women tend to lean on past hairdos. Same with watching movies from the 80s/90s. "She was only 19 in that movie? She looks like she's in her mid 20s at least..."

I've never been with a guy that needed a pick-me-up during the course of sex, because he found whatever was going on to be stimulating

You don't take "the male pill" during sex at all. Doesn't work that way. You wouldn't see him taking it, and most men are Not inclined to tell you -- even if he's Dating you. :)

I pair it different ways sometimes 5/C in the AM , 5C in the PM, and then a 50/V as date time approaches.

5mg of Cialis is the classic low dose. So he's taking 10mg A Day. That's a LOT for every day. Daily doses are 2.5mg or 5mg. Taking it every day builds up in your system, as it lasts more than a day. And a 50mg of Viagra (I think they come in 50 & 100s), as date time approaches? I know Viagra doesn't take long to kick in (30-45 minutes), but also for many it doesn't last longer than 2-3 hours for many guys after taking it. So if he needs a lot of horsepower, taking it before the date would make me assume he's taking her thru the drive-in. :) Or he probably doesn't really need it if it's for full fledged dates, and it's more a placebo effect as it wouldn't have much an effect popping it at 7:00PM and coming home to roost at 10:30PM.

Cialis gave me a slight headache the first several times I took it, but it went away after those few times, confirming what I read. I know I've been lambasted on here for saying how I've taken the Sosa & McGwire pills before, for maximizing performance. And no, I wouldn't need much to do so, as opposed to what I imagine I would 15 years from now. But you'd be surprised how many guys under 40 actually do need it. And also, some who wouldn't if going bareback with their GF, but with nerves + throwing on a condom + their dates over 30 not being so naturally wet -- really could use it from time to time, too.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 7/10/2018 7:55:50 AM

Posted By: norwegianguy456 on 7/10/2018 356 AM
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+ their dates over 30 not being so naturally wet


Really? Over 30? My girlfriend is 64 and still gets wet like a teenager.
 Gemgirl
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Posted: 7/10/2018 4:23:06 PM
I'm also open about age. I don't even ask, don't care. The quality of the person is what I am looking at, and of course if there is an attraction. Language, conversation, intellect that is what I look for.
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 Gemgirl
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Posted: 7/10/2018 4:23:40 PM
I agree, it is a number. Who cares!
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 Dave of Indiana
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Posted: 7/10/2018 6:57:08 PM

Age is a number and love conquers everything, at least I hope it does.

If age doesn't matter there are lots of retirement centers with people looking for dates.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 7/10/2018 9:45:03 PM

Really? Over 30? My girlfriend is 64 and still gets wet like a teenager.

I wasn't implying it's all the time. But at the same time, it's not Hard (no pun intended) to find a gal when not going bareback needing a little lube, especially if out drinking and/or no oral on the pink parts were done beforehand. :)
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 8/12/2018 10:52:02 AM
Guys no older than 29 and no younger than 24. My boyfriend is 26.
My family likes me to date older guys. They always patronise me when I date younger ones.
Younger ones are just too immature and selfish usually.
 Ladyinred0407
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Posted: 8/12/2018 11:23:26 AM
NG, haven't had a lube job yet! LOL...……………...but then I don't go out drinkin!
 dark_n_juju
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Posted: 8/12/2018 2:50:27 PM
I don't date men under 40 and I rarely date men over 59. Truthfully men who are over 50 are not exactly attractive to me. They tend to let themselves go. I KNOW but they do and I want a man who makes an effort to be attractive.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 8/13/2018 10:00:49 AM

NG, haven't had a lube job yet! LOL...……………...but then I don't go out drinkin!

That definitely helps. And to clarify, many gals, even in their 30s & 40s, don't Need lube, but, it would help much of the time they do have sex -- where with others it's really no diff. When using a condom (I know, they're for sailors) -- the chances of lube being a good thing increase a lot. I don't know why people would get bent out of shape for using lube, though.
 dark_n_juju
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Posted: 8/16/2018 6:15:44 PM

There are some in their seventies I find very attractive, yet there are some barely 50 who don't manage to wear it well.

Wow. I have never found older men sexy. NEVER. Younger men have always been drawn to me. I have a very youthful attitude. I dress younger than 50. I appear younger than 50. I still love to go out and club the night away. Yes, it takes me longer to recover from staying up all night. No, I don't drink or do drugs just old age won't me lose that much sleep anymore. The idea of an older man seems so slowing to me.
I guess it takes different kinds to make the world go around.
 txwidow1939
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Posted: 8/16/2018 7:14:28 PM
and not all of us are in retirement centers either! Guys under mid 60s are too young and a year or two past 80 is probably the max. My (now deceased husband) was ten years younger than I - he was 30 when we married. Too bad he didn't make it past 59.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 8/16/2018 8:26:16 PM

I have a very youthful attitude. I dress younger than 50. I appear younger than 50.


What are the standards you're measuring these things against?



I still love to go out and club the night away. Yes, it takes me longer to recover from staying up all night.


I'm assuming that hasn't happened recently since...


I haven't been to a club in since moving to Houston.
 dark_n_juju
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Posted: 8/17/2018 5:48:05 AM

What are the standards you're measuring these things against?

I dont tell women at work how old I am. Why because they realize I am older than they are and get pissed.
One guy in the office suggested I think I am all that because I am 36. LOL I explained I was the shit when I was 36 but that was a LONG DAMN time ago.
BLACK people have a hard time guessing my age. IF I don't tell people have NO clue. I have given my ID to cash a check and the women say THAT age has to be incorrect. YOU CANT be that age. RANDOM women who are cashing a check or allowing me to buy a bottle of wine or allowing me to buy diet pills or spray paint or ETC things they CARD you for. YES boo, I still get carded.
I still go out to dance the night away. I still twerk. In fact, my ass has gotten bigger as I have gotten older so it bounces a lot better.
Only been in Houston a year. I am still looking for my hot spot. Most older people here believe that sitting and drinking beer is a night out. OR EATING forgot how much the people of this city love to eat. I will be heading to the Red Rooster to check it out just haven't had a chance to do it yet.
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 8/17/2018 9:05:41 AM
Sometimes you can't tell a black person is older until they get gray hair. Black don't crack☺
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