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 MyTrueCompanion
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The shaming language in this post is quite vivid. To say it is anything else is being willfully blind. You may not have come right out and called this poster a slut but its quite clear that is what you're suggesting.


agree & I still suspect she is an alt of The Nuking Old Hag (or one of her mange-y mutts!)

I'm no Angel, I will come right out & say what I feel & not play the passive aggressive BS like many others do.
 julystorm22
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Posted: 2/18/2019 9:24:22 AM
Slut-shaming. Is it wrong or realistic?

Let's look at word."shame". It means to make someone feel bad about something. I agree that in a perfect world men wouldn't treat women a certain way or look at them in a primarily sexual way based on how they are dressed. But we don't live in a perfect world. We live in a world filled with men, some who are sexual predators and some who are just horny and looking for easy sex where they can get it. And a woman wearing sexy clothes with cleavage readily displayed and hooker boots is a sign that she is an easy and willing sexual target. You might not like it, say it is wrong, spout off feminist ideals but the truth of the matter is that is the way the world is. And the image you project is what you will attract. Clothes say a lot about you. And when I, as a woman, see another woman displaying her bosom and dressed a certain way, I believe she is trying to get noticed for her body. And I view her as lacking self-respect. She is using her body to get her what she wants rather than her mind.
 SurelyIamShirley
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Posted: 2/18/2019 10:17:18 AM

"The shaming language in this post is quite vivid. To say it is anything else is being willfully blind. You may not have come right out and called this poster a slut but its quite clear that is what you're suggesting."


Well it is NOT quite clear to me that I am suggesting anything of the sort.
You'll notice that the post referred to is made up of portions of several posts, not just one. Nowhere have I suggested that the photos in debate actually define the woman.

1. I refer to myself in terms of self respect and confidence. I don't diminish her's. I convey sympathy for her that she feels this photo display is a necessary representation of what she believes is necessary in order to feel beautiful. Sad actually, when her beauty is so obvious.
2. There is nothing but truth in my comment about her photos being suitable for the 'back pages' and would garner a lot of calls. I have not labelled her a "hooker".
3. I would not dress that way in public . She complains that she is contacted by men who only want a sexual encounter and in spite of being told by many posters that the photos are the reason for the complaint, she continues to stridently defend them. Knowing that every poster has taken a look suggests that she is attention seeking and thus should get over herself.
4. Many TV shows and movies often depict an "escort outfit". Think 'Pretty Woman', and her attire and posturing in her photos would be entirely comparable. I have not called her an escort.
5. No one that I can recall and specifically myself throughout this thread directly called her any 'slut' branding names in spite of her continued insistence and exaggerations that they have, and encouraged by another poster.
6. The word "silly" was never attributed to her self professed atheism but I offered to pray for her in the hope that she comes to terms with her initial complaint and the potential reasons for it which many posters have tried to provide in their own ways, and to present her beauty in a way that will attract a different kind of man. Unfortunately she refuses to consider these aligned opinions as anything but judgemental from a bunch of jealous "hags" although many men expressed the same observations.

I cannot recall one instance in this thread where someone referred to GG as a sinner.

Reading back over this thread and review of her profile....I could honestly believe that she is much younger than her stated age but almost like a teenager when she insists belligerently that "I won't relent one single inch". Although other posters claim to know of her, her entire dialogue would be completely understandable to me if this were true.

One poster is fanning the flames and enjoying the fire! I think there is an online word for that type?


By GG - Message 218 "Really whI think the fact that the type of man attracted to me, is NOT the type of man I am into, is part of my problem. I have a really curvy body and that attracts shallow types looking for a romp; I couldn't be more turned off by the idea of a meaningless roll in the hay with someone who uses appearance as their main measuring stick. People like that gross me out, and so I ignore 99% of my messages because that is what tries to contact me."


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^^ By Inicia - Message 219 "Do an UGLY Betty type makeover-Could help ya out!! Or as others choose hide photo and only pursue those you are ?would be interested in dating..You will stop fielding shallow messages and can generate some powerful first messages to those who intrigue you..Bit more work and touches our ego center lol but can change up the energy.y make the complaint in the first place?"


GG does not seem to understand that she herself is using her own appearance as her "main measuring stick". I don't always interpret Inicia's enlightening posts without careful review but in this case, it was fairly easy. GG doesn't understand that Inicia in a very nice and humorous way, is also confirming that the photos will continue to attract the type of man that gross GG out. Inicia suggests that GG show some "UGLY Betty type" photos or hide her photos to discourage the 'rompers' and to show them to only those she would be interested in dating. She even suggests potential rejection when she says "Bit more work and touches our ego centre". GG doesn't interpret the subtlety so following posters make caring but futile efforts to help her understand. Still, GG is happy with Inicia's recommendations although they aligned with every other comment. LOL. Go figure!

Have a lovely day!
 SurelyIamShirley
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Posted: 2/18/2019 10:33:04 AM

"Slut-shaming. Is it wrong or realistic?

Let's look at word."shame". It means to make someone feel bad about something. I agree that in a perfect world men wouldn't treat women a certain way or look at them in a primarily sexual way based on how they are dressed. But we don't live in a perfect world. We live in a world filled with men, some who are sexual predators and some who are just horny and looking for easy sex where they can get it. And a woman wearing sexy clothes with cleavage readily displayed and hooker boots is a sign that she is an easy and willing sexual target. You might not like it, say it is wrong, spout off feminist ideals but the truth of the matter is that is the way the world is. And the image you project is what you will attract. Clothes say a lot about you. And when I, as a woman, see another woman displaying her bosom and dressed a certain way, I believe she is trying to get noticed for her body. And I view her as lacking self-respect. She is using her body to get her what she wants rather than her mind.


Congratulations! You spelled it out as it is although unfortunately. You aren't also one of those "mangy mutts", are you? LMAO

I can cite a related example. Years ago, my very attractive cousin and I went out for a night of dancing. Her clothing consisted of a little floral top exposing much bust and all midriff with very short bright yellow shorts and red high heels. I was dressed much more conservatively, in finger tip length shorts, an T-shirt exposing nothing but my shoulders and arms with cute flat heeled red shoes. My cousin and I too, having been painted with the same perception brush had to ask the bartender for help in getting rid of a number of young men that would absolutely not leave us alone in their desperate attempts to brush up against us, hold us to dance even after our refusal, and so on. I actually smacked one guy across the face when he grabbed me in an inappropriate way. The guys were given the boot but really in my opinion, my cousin wanted men to notice her body and they did, in a disrespectful and negative way. I never went out with her again. Just not my thing.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 2/18/2019 1:21:40 PM

Slut-shaming. Is it wrong or realistic?

IMO, it can be either or. Depends on the context. Or it can be both -- with 'wrong' in the sense of it not being kosher to point out in most venues. There's plenty of things out there in society that we are not socially 'allowed' to point out, even if it's accurate. I think the using the term "slut shaming" while also arguing against it on someone is a bit confusing. That would mean one should not have any social negativity associated with them if they are in fact a 'slut'. For the most part, I think the argument should be "Don't call one a slut or call it slut-shaming because they dress a provocative-sexual way."

It'd be like me wearing a hoodie of a certain style + a particular style of jeans & shoes -- and saying one shouldn't be "gangsta shaming" me. No, instead: I'm not a gangster at all -- it's not focused merely on the shaming -- but the first word that I'm arguing that doesn't apply just because I wear similar clothing sometimes.

And a woman wearing sexy clothes with cleavage readily displayed and hooker boots is a sign that she is an easy and willing sexual target.

That term "hooker boots" points to it. And some female friends will say to each other (and other friends) that they're going to go out and dress 'naughty' on Sat night. And yes, have their sexual freedom and proud of it (that conservative folk sneer at; as with some guys who can't get said gals) -- but they don't want to be seen as Literally a 'slut'. Understandably, one's not going to have much sympathy for them if they make themselves Stick Out that way + not vibing with their environment.

But personally, I myself have learned being out a lot -- how a gal dresses out on a Sat night at a club is not condusive to how 'easy' she may be. Mainly because it's very mainstream in said contained places, and one's not sticking out as that's more the theme and is socially understood/accepted. But it would stick outside the norm, walking into a low-key 'redneck' bar during happy hour on Tuesday afternoon. Or, posting it as their Key pictures on Match/POF/OKC.

And the image you project is what you will attract.

And detract, yeah, I agree. Whether we like it or not. From social conservatives to social liberals. From people who are they themselves hastily criticized under the radar by how they dress, and those who are not.

And when I, as a woman, see another woman displaying her bosom and dressed a certain way, I believe she is trying to get noticed for her body.

I agree. And for guys, too. When a guy's worked out and built muscle, and it's not cold outside, and he wants to wear a tight t-shirt, he'll do the same. He is trying to get noticed for his body. Guys though don't get the 'overly sexual' negative claims thrown at them, tho. But I think a good part of that is due to the wear that nicely built guys wear to bring attention to their (better) body shape doesn't aim at any sexual pieces, as his upper body isn't one. What would, would be his "package" down there, and he'd surely be laughed out of the room if he was trying to wear something emphasizing and showing a "bulge" ready to pop out. Nor do guys tend to wear tight spandex emphasizing their arses (at straight bars anyway?) -- as with guys who do Actually have a good arse (as with gals) -- you just need well fitted jeans/slacks.

One question can be though: Is there anything wrong with being a 'slut'? It's a highly relative term -- but in general, one who is Just Fine with casual, consensual sex as often as they'd like?
 SurelyIamShirley
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Posted: 2/18/2019 1:41:03 PM

One question can be though: Is there anything wrong with being a 'slut'? It's a highly relative term -- but in general, one who is Just Fine with casual, consensual sex as often as they'd like?


That could be a truly interesting 'NEW THREAD'.
 curvylady1965
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Posted: 2/18/2019 3:32:50 PM
People get judged for what they wear (including jewelry and tattoos), and the behaviours they exhibit. People get judged, period. I COULD choose to never wear tight tops and instead wear flouncy ones. But I won't make that choice. Flouncy tops bug me and make me feel like I'm in maternity wear. I have a flat stomach. I don't wish to wear something that reminds me of maternity wear. Do I get judged for wearing tight tops? Sure. People don't say anything to my face but I'm not stupid. Do I care? No (I probably did at some point but there is so little I care about at this advanced age - the only good thing I can think of about advanced age). I know women with STUNNING figures. I have to tell you, they get judged whether they are in tight clothes and pumps or they are in cute sun dresses and flats. I hear people talking about them. I don't for a second think people would be saying the same thing if the same clothing was on someone less attractive with less of a figure. I see women wearing some pretty short skirts and not all of them have what would be thought of as nice legs. They sometimes wear tops with that show a LOT of cleavage even though the cleavage comes as a result of being several pounds overweight. But I don't hear anyone calling them names behind their backs as long as they DON'T have a good figure. I occasionally hear someone saying she shouldn't be wearing that skirt but never hear them remarking on her being trampy or slutty. When I hear a woman criticize another for dressing in a way that highlights her figure, I simply want to let them know that if that is the body they want, they should go out and work for that body.

I am not saying all the women here fall into the category that I am talking about above, but perhaps some do. Perhaps some would not be as likely to note the same revealing clothes on a woman with less of a figure. Just my two cents.
 flaneur001
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Posted: 2/18/2019 4:24:35 PM
Hi Basilisk,

I think Cooldog's suggestion that it's a POF issue may be the case. Too bad.

Any how, the last sentence of the intended note was:

"I also wanted to add that I have read various posts you've made over the years and I'm rooting for you! It takes a lot of courage to go back to school in your 30's!

Wishing you the very best B!

Natalie"
 MsMicki
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Posted: 2/18/2019 7:02:10 PM


One question can be though: Is there anything wrong with being a 'slut'? It's a highly relative term -- but in general, one who is Just Fine with casual, consensual sex as often as they'd like?


That could be a truly interesting 'NEW THREAD'.


Oh it wouldn't be "new".....but it does get quite interesting!!

btw.....myself and every girlfriend I have, call our boots...."hooker boots"!
It's just a thing!!
 basilisk123
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Posted: 2/18/2019 7:56:18 PM
Thank you so much, flaneur001! It is very much appreciated. It is too bad POF won't allow regular email service between accounts. :(
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Posted: 2/19/2019 4:49:59 AM

Well it is NOT quite clear to me that I am suggesting anything of the sort.
You'll notice that the post referred to is made up of portions of several posts, not just one. Nowhere have I suggested that the photos in debate actually define the woman.

It's quite clear to me and I imagine anyone else with the ability to read and a IQ over 2. You should at least own up to your posts if you are going to post. I'm quite aware that quote was made up of different quotes by YOU. She left out a few, one being

I am not the slightest bit jealous because we can all do what you do, should we want to get down in that ditch.

Here is another from another thread which you conveniently went back and tried to back track on what you posted, after I posted about your shaming language. Anyone interested can check the date and times

Well....the "diseased stranger" from anywhere will be dressed a lot like you so yes

Slut shaming--- Language used to degrade and belittle women or girls who are perceived to violate expectations of behavior or appearance.
So Please, I was born at night but it wasn't last night. You were clearly shaming this young lady.


One poster is fanning the flames and enjoying the fire! I think there is an online word for that type?


Go on down to the humor section and do a little light reading. Perhaps it may occur to you why these flames get fanned. That's off topic though, I just have no words.


Slut-shaming. Is it wrong or realistic?


Policing others attire doesn't put you on some moral high ground. It says more about you than it does the other person. July, you know I love you, but, slut shaming is never ok.


I can cite a related example. Years ago, my very attractive cousin and I went out for a night of dancing. Her clothing consisted of a little floral top exposing much bust and all midriff with very short bright yellow shorts and red high heels. I was dressed much more conservatively, in finger tip length shorts, an T-shirt exposing nothing but my shoulders and arms with cute flat heeled red shoes. My cousin and I too, having been painted with the same perception brush had to ask the bartender for help in getting rid of a number of young men that would absolutely not leave us alone in their desperate attempts to brush up against us, hold us to dance even after our refusal, and so on. I actually smacked one guy across the face when he grabbed me in an inappropriate way. The guys were given the boot but really in my opinion, my cousin wanted men to notice her body and they did, in a disrespectful and negative way. I never went out with her again. Just not my thing.


This does not surprise me, coming from you. Slut shaming, victim blaming, and rape culture are all very closely related. That was a nice story and all, but really means nothing. I have been out with friends after a ball game, we were dressed in jeans and a t shirt, smelling quite sweaty, and had to ask the bouncer to remove certain patrons who would not leave us alone.
I'm going to make the observation that for some women, I think the young lady you are slut shaming happens to be one of them. They are so beautiful, they could be wearing a burlap sac and they would get attention. I think perhaps that bothers more average women. So they do what they do best to try to bring her down a few pegs...slut shame.


I am not saying all the women here fall into the category that I am talking about above, but perhaps some do. Perhaps some would not be as likely to note the same revealing clothes on a woman with less of a figure. Just my two cents.

I agree.


btw.....myself and every girlfriend I have, call our boots...."hooker boots"!
It's just a thing!!


There is quite a big difference between friends calling their boots "hooker boots" and telling a perfect stranger she is wearing "hooker boots". Perhaps this is where the confusion lies. Some just don't understand where the line gets crossed.

I hope everyone has a fantastic day!
 MyTrueCompanion
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Posted: 2/19/2019 5:31:52 AM
^^Good post!

Yep, there are some "Queen Bee" types in every forum, ones who employ "drones" who try to sting ppl ;0P


Here's a Bee Joke for her (granny Queen Bee incognito)

What do you call a bee who is having a bad hair day?

A Frizzbee!

On a more serious note:


some would not be as likely to note the same revealing clothes on a woman with less of a figure.
agreed
 SurelyIamShirley
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Posted: 2/19/2019 9:06:48 AM
You really are into this whole Conspiracy Theory you have in your mind! Wow. Drones, nuking committee.....lol.

Cute joke, BTW.

And....I said nothing worse than many, many posters on the same topic, men and women both with the same opinions.

Quotes from posts when taken out of context can take on a whole new meaning. People should play nice.

I notice GG has taken out the bedroom photo. Thats' a good start but anyone who feels the need to take every photo but one with a bird's eye view of her nearly naked bust and not see the issue, can surely (no pun intended) handle the fall out and without a doubt enjoys the attention.
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Posted: 2/19/2019 9:36:27 AM
Hey Basilisk, I thought you might find Stephanie Land's life experience inspiring. She lived in poverty for many years raising a child as a single parent, she worked as a maid cleaning peoples homes. She just came out with a book, Maid: Hard work, low pay and a mother's will to survive. Her book just came out and it looks like it will hit the best seller's lists! Here is the link to her website, it give an overview of her life circumstances and how she was able to pull away from her social constraints and go back to school and become a writer! https://stepville.com

Cheers.
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Posted: 2/19/2019 10:12:07 AM

I notice GG has taken out the bedroom photo.


Yes and replaced it with a really pretty no war paint one. Wit-Woo :)
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Posted: 2/19/2019 10:56:39 AM
"There are some men, regardless of how we present ourselves who will be respectful & some will be pervs regardless of how we obfuscate our "charms"."

>>>yet, in times past "men" have posted here about how many cars they own, how much real estate they own, put up pictures of their Harleys and certain female posters were quick to let them know that showing off their literal assets..wasn't charming. interesting how that level of boasting is easily determined.

"Slut-shaming. Is it wrong or realistic?"

>>>while popular opinion isn't always correct...its funny how many times people tend to agree on what is "come hither" and "get lost, i'm busy curing cancer" clothing.

"Dressing in a certain manner doesn't give anyone any right to be....aggressive towards them."

>>>this is true--if you want to walk thru the bad part of the city wearing all your jewelry, you should. but its interesting how many people won't defend that part of their identity. When someone says they got robbed of their Rolex in the dark alley, we tend to think instinctively, "well, what did you expect?" even tho we don't wish that experience on people. If someone gets drunk and drives their car into your's, are you "drunk shaming" them by insisting they be held responsible? certainly they didn't intend to harm you and their own property.

we are not responsible for the caddish actions of others. We can, however, control how we present ourselves. Chances are some adult explained to you as a child, if you wish to be respected, act with respect for yourself. Set the precedent for others to follow. It doesn't automatically mean they will...but that's on them. the clothes you choose to wear, are a uniform that educates others what you are about. even a "i don't care how i look" look tells strangers about you.
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Posted: 2/19/2019 11:48:52 AM
You are spot on, MyTrueCompanion. If this was just a matter of this particular post the attacks would stay in this particar thread. But they are also coming to other threads with insults that in no way apply to the topic of the thread and also messaging my personal inbox. Thats all i need to verify for myself what is really going on here. Normal decent people dont make an axe to grind over petty stuff.

Btw. You are stunning. I thought you were in your 30s and nearly pissed myself when i seen your age listed at 58. You are a Goddess! I favorited you lol
 basilisk123
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Posted: 2/19/2019 1:09:27 PM
Thanks flaneur001! I will definitely read it. I have to go to the book store tomorrow anyway, so I will pick up a copy while I am there.

I just finished one book on critical interpretation of the poetry of Walt Whitman, and it has helped me see him in a new light. Walt Whitman's poem collection, "Leaves of Grass" has helped me a lot when I felt down. I highly recommend it for anyone who has trouble dealing with the zooming out of a problem to see a bigger picture.


Thanks for your kindness

A
 basilisk123
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Posted: 2/19/2019 1:12:42 PM
Thanks Flaneur! I will definitely read it. I have to go to the book store tomorrow anyway, so I will pick up a copy while I am there. I just finished one book about Walt Whitman, and it has helped me see him in a new light. His poem collection, "Leaves of Grass" has helped me a lot when I felt down.
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Posted: 2/19/2019 1:43:22 PM

You really are into this whole Conspiracy Theory you have in your mind! Wow. Drones, nuking committee.....lol.


Shirley, it’s been suggested that I’m a "queen bee", and you’re on my "nuking committee". Obviously, this is b.s. - you have a mind of your own, independent of mine. You and I don’t always agree on everything, although we do happen to agree that GG’s provocative photos may be one of the reasons why she gets unwanted sexual attention from men.

If I had a "nuking committee" or "posse" going, (which I don’t), it would be impossible for me to recruit you into it, anyway. Your mail filters only allow men 52 - 65 in your area to contact you. This whole thing is just ridiculous paranoia. I would just ignore it.
 SurelyIamShirley
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Posted: 2/19/2019 2:17:34 PM
Oh White Rose! You are the Queen Bee, head of the nuking committee, mom of the mangy mutts, head of the jealous hags......lol, lol, lol. (Bowing and kissing of feet) Good for you! Obvious sarcasm intended. As I have said before, I enjoy your posts and lively debate but I must admit that I get frustrated when some just don't get it especially when efforts are actually well intended and others are just out to stir s..t, er...the pot. Thank you for your response.

I did want to agree with a previous poster that GG's photo with no makeup is gorgeous and she looks like a teenager without it. That is the kind of photo that will get her an entirely different set of messages so....maybe we accomplished something after all of that.
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Posted: 2/19/2019 5:14:30 PM
Wow, after reading the last two pages of these`posts, now I remember what a POF cat fight looks likes after all these years. Peace everyone!
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Posted: 2/19/2019 6:32:13 PM
I find it downright hilarious that if I agree with someone that Blondie or SS disagrees with....I am part of some "nuking committee"....

But if they agree with each other....it is individualistic thinking!!

You can call us mean and hags and anything you choose....
it will never erase the fact that a photo (or photos) with the main focus being on your t!ts....will get you far more responses from "pervs" that photos that aren't.......
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Posted: 2/20/2019 4:54:35 AM

And....I said nothing worse than many, many posters on the same topic

Once again, You need to own up to your posts. I'm not blind and either is anyone else here. Although a few came sort of close, none came down to dead on shaming this lady as YOU did. I saw quite a few posts without the judgements attached.

men and women both with the same opinions

That's the point that keeps going over your head. It's not your opinion, it's your shaming of this young lady. Several posters managed to state their opinions without shaming her.


can surely (no pun intended) handle the fall out and without a doubt enjoys the attention.

I have the feeling this is the real reason for your disdain.



Quotes from posts when taken out of context can take on a whole new meaning

No quotes were taken out of context. Once again, everyone here can read. You can't backtrack now, nice try though!


People should play nice.

I'm not sure what that is suppose to mean or is pertaining to. This is a forum. If you are going to post, you should expect people to comment on your posts.


But they are also coming to other threads with insults that in no way apply to the topic of the thread and also messaging my personal inbox. Thats all i need to verify for myself what is really going on here.

Unfortunately, you are seeing what has been quite clear to some of us for quite some time. There is a certain element here who take this forum ultra seriously. If you don't cheerlead for them or tow the party line, you become a target. This is their whole life, unfortunately.



I find it downright hilarious that if I agree with someone that Blondie or SS disagrees with....I am part of some "nuking committee"....

I have it right from Granny's own post that someone who I strongly suspect is YOU tracks my posts to report them. If I had more time I'd go dig that post up. I know you will just feign innocence though. A certain bunch here constantly picks at Blondie, runs into obscure threads to take shots at her, pulls their passive aggressive innuendo on her and then you wonder why she does what she does? You've got to be chiding me? At least she has the guts to say it out loud! I think a certain element here needs to own up to their own shiat.
REPORT THAT!

Once again, I hope everyone has a fantastic day!
 ssm508
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Posted: 2/20/2019 7:19:40 AM

From experience of using other forums most men looking for sex will literally fcuk anything, especiallywhen using online where their mates won't find out.
And i know all women online attract this type of guy because like i said above, they will literally fcuk anything.

That depends. Maybe that's true when he has limited options or he hasn't had sex in a while. But I have turned down some opportunities for sex when I was single and wasn't looking for a serious relationship at the time.
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