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Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 101
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Right. What's the right course of action now? Should one publish the stalker's full address, name and telephone number? Poor Pauline though. She is clearly a disturbed individual unable to handle rejection.

Funny that it was me that told you to GTF wasn't it? You are just disturbed full stop, what was it Kirk called you the other week? Insane.
Disturbed is sending someone messages saying they deserve to be forced into sex. Disturbed is then sending links from the Daily Mail saying women love it. Disturbed is starting threads saying I want a woman to feel me when I punch her in the stomach. Disturbed is offering a woman money to sleep with you. Disturbed is just about every single one of your threads that you've posted on here since the day you started on here. Its funny being called disturbed by someone who is unhinged and a raging narcissist to boot.

Even the expression on her face yells "insane".

Says the person who used to have a profile with one staring eyeball

Chap on the other hand is as daft as fk. He got hook, line and sinker. Both Pauline and the wee fat Counsela didn't wanna post the links. What did they do?

I had no intention of posting those links up.

Give enough details for others to find me

YOU gave enough detail for other people to find you, even before you went home you clown

and chap, poor old fugly daft **stard got the hook. Idiot

Not threatening chap or orange though are we, you only threaten women, that's your style. Because if someone threatens YOU, like you thought square did, you were going to go to the police. You spent several threads upset about it. Nae?

He would have smashed you into next week (although Im sure hes sensible enough to know you aren't worth the risk to his job or the effort).

Poor wee Paul misunderstood. Canny get a bird but he's a nice wee dude

Go polish your halo nice wee dude. Might take you some time. Mind if Irene comes back on here you might need to work at your nice wee dude act. She might think you are a complete FANNY the way you are currently posting on here.
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 102
Change of life
Posted: 8/27/2018 12:55:05 PM

>>Right. What's the right course of action now? Should one publish the stalker's full address, name and telephone number? Poor Pauline though. She is clearly a disturbed individual unable to handle rejection. Even the expression on her face yells "insane".

You took your eye off the ball. Big time. When you were busy quizzing me as to why my gay mate gave me a compliment on facebook you obviously didn't see that one of my best mates is a serving police officer with Strathclyde Police. She wasn't impressed when you sent me those messages in January and she is not impressed now. She will be more than happy to have a wee chat with you should you decide to publish my details on here. Shes far from impressed that you threatened to force yourself on me and you are now posting all over the internet that I deserve to be taught a lesson. Anyone else would have piped down by now. Not you though, Too arrogant. No female gets the better of Paul eh? They have to be taught a lesson, on you go.

I personally hope you do. Because what last shred of I'm a nice dude Rox, I'm a nice dude Jack, I'm a nice dude Irene, will be completely blown right out of the water. You've shown your hand. You sent me these disgusting messages. And now you've threatened to teach me a lesson by publishing my address and phone number. Go for it. You do not need a forum yes or no to decide to do it, just go ahead.

She should be exposed to the same danger she exposed me. Only way to make her grow a conscience I reckon. Teach her a wee lesson albeit I wonder how responsible of her actions she actually is.

You've already offered to teach me a lesson, I still have the messages. You are an unhinged clown.
Where is your conscience? You don't have one. You threatened to force yourself on me knowing I had been sexually assaulted in the past. You don't have one. Orange has you bang to rights. You are an absolute danger to women, do yourself a favour and stay away from anyone decent, they do not deserve to be lumbered with you. Look how quickly you change eh? My best pal Paulette. I love that chick. After I told people the truth, that we didn't fall out because of my hot temper you have been gunning for me ever since. Can't cope with being challenged. Because no inferior woman ever challenges the great Paul. Two weeks ago I was your best mate and now I have a face that looks insane. You are fucking laughable.

I've spoken to my mate today. Bring it on and we will take it from there. She's particularly interested in the teach me a wee lesson phrase that you used. And that you want me to be exposed to danger. In light of the messages you sent me earlier in the year. You know the ones you are denying you sent but other people have seen? Including her. A serving police officer. Not sure what you are waiting for. Just post my address and phone number, the one you think you have and just get on with it.

Just get on with it, you don't have my phone number, it's changed. You have neglected to mention the only reason you have my address in the first place is because I sent your present recorded delivery because it had some value to it, you would never have had it otherwise.
Just post my details. No point in saying it the first place if you aren't going to follow through.

Oh will we get a thread soon saying (mopes), )(nae) (she's not worth it), (nae) (Im a nice dude)(nae) (I dont threaten people) (nae) (shes insane) (nae)(I cannae)(nae)(everyone likes poor wee Paul)(nae)(people must have travelled 2000 miles to put me at risk so I'll give out someone elses address to teach her a lesson).Go **** yourself.

You are just a woman hater, plain and simple. The fact that you accused Orange and chap of doing the same as me but decided to teach me a lesson and left them alone tells me everything I need to know about you, not that I didn't already. You only target women. That is clear given the way you shat your pants when square offered you a square go.

****ing clown.
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 103
Change of life
Posted: 8/27/2018 2:25:20 PM
Heres a wee interlude

Justin Currie

Sexy **stard and proud yesser

Celtic get pumped

Helicopter Sunday

Well bois on the drums



I used to work beside this lad, hes my fb mate

Probably the only man on my facebook fanny baws didnt quiz me about
Joined: 8/19/2018
Msg: 104
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Posted: 8/27/2018 2:29:50 PM

Guess what that is?

Your pal is a police officer yeah? Was she not supposed to have called me a while ago? She better hurry up cause I'm soon going to publish your address. Perhaps your bro's too albeit he's got nothing to do with the crazy shite his evil sister do.
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 105
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Posted: 8/27/2018 2:34:25 PM

>>Your pal is a police officer yeah? Was she not supposed to have called me a while ago? She better hurry up cause I'm soon going to publish your address. Perhaps your bro's too albeit he's got nothing to do with the crazy shite his evil sister do<

Go on. I cant wait for you to tell my address to the TEN people who post on here on a good day. It will make my day.

Yeah, she is.

I'll publish it first. Who actually gives a flying **** what you do?

Do it.

You don't know my brothers address. He lives with his gf . Publish Malcolm's address, he won't give one shite what you do. Neither will his gf. Because anyone who tried to turn up at Malcolms door, giving the type of training he does 6 days a week would get their arse handed to them.

On you go. Publish my brothers address on here you wee prick, you are just showing yourself up for the cunt that you are.

Do it, publish my address and Malcolm's in your next post. I cant wait for this. He doesn't even know you or who you are. You want to put him in danger as well?

Go on? See where it gets you. Publish mine and my brothers address in your next post.

And my mums. Do it. I don't give a shite what you do.

Im sure Malcolm will give two fucks that some wee cunt who is five foot four and lives two thousand miles away is going to try to post his address so someone can do him and his gf damage

He wont. Good luck to you.

You don't know my bro very well if you think he will give a flying fuck what you do.

He won't bother his arse.

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Msg: 106
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Posted: 8/27/2018 2:52:32 PM
Classic narcissistic personality behaviour, thinking he's untouchable. Except his details are now as public as his troll posts. Many months ago, I warned him that the web keeps it forever. Deleting his previous profile and putting up fake details in his new one won't help if he continues to write in the same juvenile style. I wonder how good the lawyers are in Malta?
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Msg: 107
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Posted: 8/27/2018 2:52:43 PM

> Perhaps your bro's too albeit he's got nothing to do with the crazy shite his evil sister do


and again





Good luck finding my brothers address, hes just moved house you absolute bell end.


Ive just phoned Malcolm, when he stopped crying with laughter he said to let you know he is absolutely SHITTING himself incase you find him

Hes five foot 10 and built like a brick shithouse, I really would not fancy anyones chances if they found his address and tried to upset him


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Msg: 108
Change of life
Posted: 8/27/2018 3:02:06 PM
I am supposed to be scared of an app that will trace me from my email address?

Big ****ing wow. I am the only person in my home town with my name. people could find me easily enough if they really wanted to

Who actually ****ing cares?

You'll publish my address?

And what exactly?

Big effing deal. Big deal. You'll publish my address so that people can do me harm? As you said before. Well mate, if any harm came to me, all roads would lead back to you, so on you go.

Publish my address. Do it. Publish it and tell people to come round and cause me danger, like you said before, on you go. I dont need to be waiting 6 months for you to post my address up, or Malcolms, or my mums, just get the fuck on with it.




Silly wee bastard. Threatens to rape someone and then threatens to publish their address so other people can do them harm and thinks there will be no consequences. Typical NPD behaviour

Do it.

Just do it. On you go, who the fuck cares what you do, you are an irrelevant piece of shit that no one in their right mind should go near

Your pal is a police officer yeah? Was she not supposed to have called me a while ago? She better hurry up cause I'm soon going to publish your address. Perhaps your bro's too albeit he's got nothing to do with the crazy shite his evil sister do.




Publish our addresses

Ps, Malky is more than happy that you publish his address, but he hopes you won't mind if he tells your employer that you've put his address out in the public domain so people can harm him

After all, fair is fair eh? Threatening me is one thing. Threatening my brother. HUGE mistake. And you were silly enough to post that up on a public forum. My brother doesn't even know who you are, or he didnt until earlier on tonight, He has done zero to you

Big mistake bringing my brother into this. Massive. You are that spiteful you would want to cause my brother and his gf harm. Thats fine, but don't expect my family not to bite back.

Piece of shit.
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 109
Change of life
Posted: 8/27/2018 3:46:12 PM
And for what its worth silly wee arsehole

My brother has been trying unsuccessfully for years now to get his address changed with the people on the electoral register.

They still have him registered at an address that he left 13 years ago despite him doing everything he could to change it

You don't know his address, you are just all mouth and trousers

But post mine up. Post my mums up too

Because if any harm did come to me as you suggested earlier on in the thread, all roads lead back to you

You want my brother harmed and me harmed?


Expect my police officer mate to be in touch very shortly. If you can post up my address, she can find yours. Easily.

The difference is, you have stated on here someone deserves to harm me and you are going to post my address up

You are one stupid idiot and you deserve everything that's coming to you because of your posts over the last 24 hours

You can threaten me if you like but dont you DARE threaten my brother and his girlfriend.

You obviously dont care about your career, or you wouldn't be threatening to post my brothers address up on here. With the understanding that someone does him harm when you post it up (because that's what you've threatened me with).

I'll let any threats to me go, but I won't let threats go to two people who you don't know and have done nothing to deserve your spite.

Fuck off you unhinged loose cannon.

PS, my other mate is a lawyer. Expect to be hearing from him very shortly. You crossed a line you should not cross when you decided to bring Malcolm into this.

This is what a mate of mine said when I told him that you were planning to publish mine and my brothers address

Report it to the Police. Please, do it; threats like this need to be seen to be dealt with.


And I am going to, trust me. I won't have my brothers girlfriend put at risk because someone has a spite at me and is deciding to publish their address.

Joined: 8/19/2018
Msg: 110
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Posted: 8/27/2018 8:56:59 PM
So, Pauline, gonnae publish your address youself or should I do it myself? I want 1. Your full name, 2. Your full address and 3. Your post code out there. People must be able to get to your door just as they are able to get to mine thanks to your loud, angry, filthy mouth. Then again, you're 7 miles away. This won't put you in any danger by your argument; right?
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 111
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Posted: 8/27/2018 9:38:54 PM
Nah. I'll leave this to the police to sort out. I'm on my way to see them as I type.

Blackmail now is it? I post my full details or you'll do it for me? 7 miles away? Good for you.

On you go. See where that gets you along with the rape threat you made in January.

In writing.

Post malcolms up as well like you threatened to.

Oh wait, you don't pick on men bigger than you. Only women.

Joined: 8/19/2018
Msg: 112
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Posted: 8/27/2018 9:52:17 PM
Good. I'll give the police a day to get in touch then. You don't seem to like the idea of your details being splashed all over this forum though yet you have no qualms splashing somebody elses' just because he didn't want to meet you again right? It's curious how your opinion changed all of a sudden too. You did not put me in any danger you said, yet if I do the same thing to you, I apparently do put you in danger. How does that work? (;

Ehh.. you are a nut Pauline. A 5'0 f-all, obese, nut...
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Msg: 113
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Posted: 8/27/2018 10:01:42 PM

Ehh.. you are a nut Pauline. A 5'0 f-all, obese, nut...

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Pot kettle and black

A 5'0 f-all, obese, nut...

Says the five foot 4 weeble.

At least I got off my arse and lost weight. Unlike you.

That's the thing, when you can cook and actually train in the gym it's easy to do

Ha ha ha. Mortally wounded by the wee lump who spent a year eating munchy boxes and has a ten year old pic on his uni profile.

yet you have no qualms splashing somebody elses' just because he didn't want to meet you again right?

It was chap who posted them but don't let that stop you
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 114
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Posted: 8/27/2018 10:21:39 PM
Post my details up. On you go. I must have forgotten the fact that I booted you off social media in January this year. I think someone would need to be unhinged to want to meet someone who threatened to rape them. You have a huge big hit for yourself don't you. You really are thick as shit aren't you. You send me messages threatening to rape me. You then threaten to post my home address and phone number on a forum and then you suggest that you are 7 miles away. And then you tell me that if I don't post my details up you'll do it for me. Do you think I'm not going to get police involved? Or that my family won't?

Post them up. Do it. Only a complete Muppet would consider himself to be in danger because six people on a forum saw a link to his work profile two thousand miles away. What danger have you been in this week? Needed a police escort to work?

And threaten not only to post someone's home address and phone number but a member of their families as well. What have Malcolm and his gf done to you exactly? Related to me so you'll post their details up as well? On you fucking well go then.

But that Muppet is you. No one would recognise you from that picture anyway. It's ten years out of date.

Ps. The police don't work to the timescales you dictate to them. I know you think you are very important and all of that but I'm sure they've got bigger fish to fry than a wee nyaff like you.

Post them up. And we will take it from there.

Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 115
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Posted: 8/27/2018 11:03:39 PM
Only a complete clown would suggest that Chap posting up your work details when you gave more than enough detail over the months for people to find you compares to you suggesting that if I don't post up my home address and phone number you'll do it for me. After you've sent me the messages you did earlier in the year. And you'll post up Malcolms as well for good measure. Being called a nut by someone as unhinged as you are is quite a feat. You threatened to rape me. Are going to post my home address and phone number online and have just suggested you are 7 miles from me. Are you thick. Do you have to work this hard to be this abjectly stupid?

Wee five foot 4 Internet hard man who leaves men alone and only picks on females.

You would shit yourself if you ever came face to face with my brother. Keyboard hard man of the year.

What have you said to chap for posting up your work profile? Zero.

Scared of chap and scared of orange. Scared of square. Only goes in on women.

Just get on with it. I can't be arsed with a week of this. Just do what you want.

Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 116
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Posted: 8/27/2018 11:54:02 PM
7 miles away. Ah. You're not 7 miles away. You're suggesting that I'm not right in the head. Bore off. I've heard every insult from you 100 times over.

Ha, ha ha, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha and again ha,

From the person who sends women messages saying they like rape in certain circumstances and then grins about it. Because he thinks he's frankie Boyle.

Your work photo was taken the last time you lectured in your home country. You are thinner and you have hair. Please. Calling someone out for being obese when you are too scared to put up a recent photo. And if I were 20 stones, what exactly does that have to do with you? Anything? No it doesn't.

No one would give a shite about your waistline or your hair if you weren't so fixated on slating other people for the way they look

Crack on mr perfect. I'm actually proud of myself for getting back into the gym after the couple of years I've had.

What's your excuse.
Joined: 12/4/2013
Msg: 117
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Posted: 8/28/2018 2:22:49 AM
Back on my topic - i had my first driving assessment. it went well but if I had actually been on a test I would have failed apparently! So much to relearn. I did things without even noticing. Biggest problem was not using the mirrors enough. Apparently around about every 5 seconds you should check your mirrors - bet none of you do that.

The instructor had a Ford Focus 1 ltr turbo. I was hugely impressed. I've got a VW Passat estate for work, had it for around 9 years. It is ex police and nicely tuned. It's a great workhorse but definitely chalk and cheese between the 2 cars, technology has certainly moved on..
Joined: 4/23/2018
Msg: 118
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Posted: 8/28/2018 2:37:05 AM
I remember being told before I had my driving test to be sure and actually move my head when I checked my the tester realised I was doing it.
And no these days I know I don't check them enough......unless some tw4t is tail-gating me and p1ssing me off.

I think newer cars are generally more economical too?

I remember in Australia there was a big push towards people replacing their fridges if they were over a certain age......stating that your electricity bill would lower enough that you'd often get the cost of the new fridge back over the next 3 years.
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 119
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Posted: 8/28/2018 2:38:20 AM
That's great to hear

Btw. The person who pulled it off topic on page one was Paul himself. Asking where I had gone.

Which seems odd in the light of recent events.

I need to learn to drive full stop. Our malcolm passed his test two years ago.

Sat it once when he was 22. Failed it on something minor and didn't go back to it in between.

To be fair at that point he lived a five min walk from work and now he's a bit further away.
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Msg: 120
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Posted: 8/28/2018 2:53:04 AM
Well assuming I pass my test in October, I will then be looking for guinea pigs to practise my teaching on. Free lessons for someone but I think the train fare might be more than the savings!
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 121
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Posted: 8/28/2018 8:09:32 AM
It's the strapped on turbos and superchargers that make these small engines go so well. Do you remember what diesels were like before turbochargers and common rail injection systems?

And yes, I check my mirrors constantly and consistently, do the right left right at junctions, and keep both hands on the wheel at ten to two. [/angel mode off] :))))
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Msg: 122
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Posted: 8/28/2018 8:49:16 AM
Ha! I'm the worst driver in the world. You'd have your work cut out good and proper

Do folks think men are more natural drivers?

I'm terrible. I had ten lessons years ago and packed it in. I was rank rotten

I was really Meh about driving for a long time now I feel its something I need to at least try.

Sick of standing at bus stops in all weathers
Joined: 8/19/2018
Msg: 123
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Posted: 8/28/2018 8:55:00 AM
Well I suppose I don't look in my mirrors as I should.
I can play dvds in my car when I'm not moving but the
Picture disappears if I do. Listening to Hamilton a lot
at the moment. Thomas Jefferson's coming
La I put my self back in the narrative...fed up
of all the tears ? I live another fifty it ...podcasts ..
.it's all going to end in Armageddon....
Bloomberg ...the markets are going to the moon especially
Tesla and Netflix...magic
Eagle 7os has popped off the dial...I'll have to look into it ...

Failed three times...took it into the countryside the fourth time..
still failed it..not really ;)....1984 ...March..
started in January 1983. Instructor told me off for ruining his averages.
Good old harry...£5 60 a lesson.
Remember that. My train stop is next ...had a lovely
day wandering through my old neighbour good. 100 % too. Got to get off ....byeee$%^'v!!!!
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Msg: 124
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Posted: 8/28/2018 8:57:28 AM
Just to add something to the sidetrack, it's worth reminding the little troll from Malta that HE brought on what's to come all by himself.

Let's look at that list again and especially at one of a narcissist's most prominent behavioural traits:

5. Lack of responsibility—blaming and deflecting
Although narcissists want to be in control, they never want to be responsible for the results—unless, of course, everything goes exactly their way and their desired result occurs. When things don’t go according to their plan or they feel criticized or less than perfect, the narcissist places all the blame and responsibility on you. It has to be someone else’s fault. Sometimes that blame is generalized—all police, all bosses, all teachers, all Democrats, and so on. At other times the narcissist picks a particular person or rule to blame—his mother, the judge, or laws that limit what he wants to do. Most often, however, the narcissist blames the one person who is the most emotionally close, most attached, loyal, and loving in his life—you. To maintain the façade of perfection, narcissists always have to blame someone or something else. You are the safest person to blame, because you are least likely to leave or reject him.

There was a time when Pauline was one of Tena's few supporters here, and that's only because she gave him a chance. Tena being Tena reverted to type and now he's paying the price. Boo hoo. Coming back was a big mistake.

That is all. Normal service can resume.
Joined: 8/6/2018
Msg: 125
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Posted: 8/28/2018 9:08:22 AM
The thing is. As I said before Paul was nice to me when we met although he's now reverted to type and he did long before we stopped speaking. Face to face he's fine. Online and on the phone he's a horrible wee troll. He stirs for a reaction. He's now making digs about my height and my weight. My height he got wrong of course. I'm just short of five two which is two inches shorter than he is.

I'm obese. Cool. Even at my fittest my bmi is over 25. My brother is technically obese. He's five foot 10 and 12.5 stones. His body fat is around 15 per cent. He trains 5 times a week 50 weeks a year. If he's obese. I'm afraid Paul is also.

I train 3 times a week. I've just finished a 16 week bootcamp, started another and I have a Pt. I don't need lessons on my weight from some wee nyaff who hasn't seen me in 8 months. I'm quite aware of why I put weight on. My mum was unwell quite seriously and the last thing I cared about was training. I've done half marathons. 10ks.5s.3 triathlons. Two of which I did when I wasn't at my fittest. I've taught thousands of fitness classes.

Someone wants to call me obese. Big deal. Not the first and won't be the last.
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