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 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
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^^^^and they’d be right. I pay when with my mates we split bills cos we are friends. If they want to be another buddy yeah I’ll pay for my “date”!
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 402
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Posted: 7/13/2018 5:50:54 PM
I can't believe some people can believe some silly nonsense, about a man looking for a woman due to her hip size...for birthing babies???????????????In my 63 years not once....not one time did I hear a man utter such foolishness.

And me ………..ask a man his income. .........….his financial package? Not once.
Growing up my father's money was his. My first husband, his money was his.
My 2nd husband. His money was his and he wanted mine.

As 2ufo said, I'm one of those women who wants a man who wants me, brains and all. Love me, like me, keep me, with my strengths and weaknesses. LOL, Cooking, house cleaning, birthing babies.? Been there, done that...….no time for that. Time to hop on the bike and head south!
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 7/13/2018 5:57:41 PM
So is your message 398 posted to prove America is still number 10 or is your intention just to bash men? It seems you and Blonde are here for the purpose of causing division between men and women. Both of you make outlandish claims against ALL men. Most of your info comes from unreliable sources.

BTW, I have a long list of female serial killers that I could post. The vast majority of them the national news media has never reported. Of the last 60 years there have been more female serial killers than men. Do I feel this proves women are more dangerous than men? No. It's how the information is written and published. What is the ax you two have to grind?
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
Msg: 404
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:13:59 PM
^ Say hello to "Daddy Pence" 4 me, LOL
No claims against all men...I have 2 sons Had a Father, & married in the past & now again.

I don't love or hate all men, I take each person on an individual basis as to whether I like them & it is in varying degrees.

Maybe men should start fearing women...

LMAO
 TomásIasan
Joined: 5/17/2018
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:22:44 PM
Dave your wasting time and energy on their crap I would be done with it, their just as guilty of it as any man.

Forms of sexual harassment
Sexual harassment can include:

sexual solicitation and advances (your teacher asks for sex in exchange for a passing grade)
a poisoned environment (pornographic images in the workplace)
gender-based harassment (targeting someone for not following sex-role stereotypes)
violence (if inappropriate sexual behaviour is not dealt with, it may move
to more serious forms, including sexual assault and other violence).


Examples of sexual and gender-based harassment:

demanding hugs
invading personal space
making unnecessary physical contact, including unwanted touching, etc.
using language that puts someone down and/or comments toward women (or men, in some cases), sex-specific derogatory names
leering or inappropriate staring
making gender-related comments about someone’s physical characteristics or mannerisms
making comments or treating someone badly because they don’t conform with sex-role stereotypes
showing or sending pornography, sexual pictures or cartoons, sexually explicit graffiti, or other sexual images (including online)
sexual jokes, including passing around written sexual jokes (for example, by e-mail)
rough and vulgar humour or language related to gender
using sexual or gender-related comment or conduct to bully someone
spreading sexual rumours (including online)
making suggestive or offensive comments or hints about members of a specific gender
making sexual propositions
verbally abusing, threatening or taunting someone based on gender
bragging about sexual prowess
demanding dates or sexual favours
asking questions or talking about sexual activities
making an employee dress in a sexualized or gender-specific way
acting in a paternalistic way that someone thinks undermines their status or position of responsibility
making threats to penalize or otherwise punish a person who refuses to comply with sexual advances (known as reprisal).

All you need to do is look on their online history and they basically admitted to do it.
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:26:23 PM

BTW, I have a long list of female serial killers that I could post.


Good, maybe some of us forum women or on it...

Ever hear of "The Honeymoon Killers" ?

;oP ;oP ;oP ;oP ;oP
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/2/2018
Msg: 407
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:27:48 PM

Maybe men should start fearing women...

LMAO


That’s supposed to be funny? Generally violence by men against women gets handcuffs, but violence by women against men just gets laughs.
 lulz567
Joined: 7/6/2018
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:31:04 PM
^^^ how uptight are you. Look from what I read in posts you are a stay at home dad so I’m assuming your partner is the breadwinner, so who pays on dates would be her,so it’s not applicable to you. You’ve won kept man of year award:)
 TomásIasan
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:32:59 PM
@kissfromarose77 that is because women on men violence is not criminal according to justice system.
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/2/2018
Msg: 410
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:50:05 PM

^^^ how uptight are you. Look from what I read in posts you are a stay at home dad so I’m assuming your partner is the breadwinner, so who pays on dates would be her,so it’s not applicable to you. You’ve won kept man of year award:)


How wrong you are. I don’t have children, and I’m not even in a relationship. Do to a disability I had to fight very hard just to get a job that at least pays my bills and can support me. I’m proud of the fact that I achieved that.
 backcreek7
Joined: 12/2/2014
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Posted: 7/13/2018 6:53:53 PM

Men want Marilyn Monroe in the bedroom, Martha Stewart in the kitchen and Mary Poppins in the nursery

^^^
.... In my opinion, an average & intelligent man doesn't need or expect any of these three ~ he would be happy with someone SIMILAR to himself.

.... He realizes the " Marilyn Monroes, Martha Stewarts & Mary Poppins " are just puffs of smoke, on a silver screen ~ exceling in one particular field, they are not the norm. Most men are smart enough to treasure, an average woman. I appreciate and admire your basic woman ~ they are truly the salt of the earth. Besides being the physical " creators " of new life ~ they bind the civilized world together & by their actions - slow down the pace towards human implosion.

.... I think most men, want a woman of average looks ~ intelligent, good character , strong values & a good sense of humor. A " partner " not a puff of smoke. Those who seek " puffs of smoke " will often get burnt.

heart / sun
 backcreek7
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Posted: 7/13/2018 7:29:20 PM
omg !!!

... I almost forgot to add this to the list , of what most men want ...
... A healthy attitude towards > SEX ( ok there I said it, and I'm not taking it back !!!! )

col ^
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2018 7:36:15 PM
Very well put Backcreek....
even the "OMG > Sex" part!!
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 414
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Posted: 7/13/2018 7:40:24 PM
LOL, OMG (wink, wink) Backcreek how could you? Shame on you! (wink wink)
 julystorm22
Joined: 6/15/2018
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Posted: 7/13/2018 8:25:01 PM
Those things (Martha in the kitchen, Mary in the nursery, Marilyn in the sack) are ideals but men do measure women this way although like any other thing, there's certain levels of expectations. For some men, a woman who doesn't cook is a dealbreaker. For some men, women who aren't good with children are a dealbreaker. And of course, for many men, a woman who does not like different sex positions is a dealbreaker.
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 7/13/2018 8:45:56 PM
Many a male profile state they want sex with a female that's feminine, but willing to get dirty (referring to outdoor stuff), but still rock the LBD in the evening. These guys don't even look like they get dressed up and go anyplace, so I don't know where a woman would be wearing that LBD. Some mention heels too.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 7/14/2018 5:39:55 AM

Those things (Martha in the kitchen, Mary in the nursery, Marilyn in the sack) are ideals but men do measure women this way although like any other thing, there's certain levels of expectations. For some men, a woman who doesn't cook is a dealbreaker. For some men, women who aren't good with children are a dealbreaker. And of course, for many men, a woman who does not like different sex positions is a dealbreaker.


and this is an issue....why??
don't we all have expectations of what we want in a partner??
Why do men lie to get a woman
Posted: 7/14/2018 7:00:21 AM

don't we all have expectations of what we want in a partner??

Yes we do. The only time this is an issue is when someone thinks everyone should have the same expectation as they do, or their expectations are wrong. We are all entitled to whatever expectations we want, we just aren't entitled to tell someone else what their expectations should be.
 MachIMustangII
Joined: 2/16/2018
Msg: 419
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Posted: 7/14/2018 7:52:53 AM
Our expectations should be realistic. And we have to deal with the fact that, human nature is human nature, and some days, ya can't awwwways git whatcha wah-ant.
 whiterose0
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 420
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Posted: 7/14/2018 7:57:14 AM

We are all entitled to whatever expectations we want, we just aren't entitled to tell someone else what their expectations should be.


But we do it anyway, don't we?
 curvylady1965
Joined: 12/31/2017
Msg: 421
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Posted: 7/14/2018 8:13:34 AM
Never met a man who can't cook or keep house. I consider several better at cooking than I and I'm pretty awesome at it. In terms of housekeeping, all the men I come across are more than able on their own. Those who don't like it pay someone weekly to come in and do it for them so the only value a woman woukd have in replacing that function would be in saving the guy a few bucks. In terms of being good with children, at a certain point, men tend to have their children already and therefore already have a mother for them - they don't want to replace her. I've come across a few widowers but their children were a little older and even these men were not looking for a replacement mother. In terms of sex, partners have to be open to growing and changing together. I think relationships are about partnerships. Fulfilling certain ticky boxes at any point in time is really just that - satisfying the ticky boxes for a point in time.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 7/14/2018 9:40:03 AM

Men want Marilyn Monroe in the bedroom, Martha Stewart in the kitchen and Mary Poppins in the nursery


Marilyn Monroe was seriously overrated in my opinion. Martha Stewart could probably fill all 3 positions adequately.
 julystorm22
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Posted: 7/14/2018 10:25:35 AM
I've met more than a few men and women who can't really cook other than simple things. And I've known many men who haven't had to do chores in the house growing up because their mother did everything for them. And when it comes to kids, while my generation on average has a lot more dads who are very much involved in the day-to-day lives of their kids than generations before, there are still so many guys who barely do things with their kids. And it still shocks me how many men fade away from their kids after a divorce.

One thing I want in a man is the ability to fix things. I have zero talent at that stuff and when I find out a guy isn't handy, he loses attractiveness to me. I also find a guy who works with his hands more attractive than someone who works at a desk. A guy in coveralls is much more attractive than a guy in a suit to me.
 Clytemnestra
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Posted: 7/14/2018 10:36:02 AM
msg #423:

One thing I want in a man is the ability to fix things. I have zero talent at that stuff and when I find out a guy isn't handy, he loses attractiveness to me


I totally agree. I'll go for handy over handsome any day. Handy AND handsome---hit the jackpot there! (smile)
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/2/2018
Msg: 425
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Posted: 7/14/2018 11:11:59 AM

One thing I want in a man is the ability to fix things. I have zero talent at that stuff and when I find out a guy isn't handy, he loses attractiveness to me


I don’t think that the ability to fix things is just necessarily a male talent; however, a lot of women see this as indicative of a man’s masculinity.


And I've known many men who haven't had to do chores in the house growing up because their mother did everything for them


I can cook and do chores in the house, but I don’t know any women who appreciate that. Maybe I shouldn’t do those things and focus on learning how to be handy.
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