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 2ufo
Joined: 12/25/2017
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Wow!

To actually talk with someone you've had sex with.

How horrible.

Yeah - get yourself a lawyer.
Ex told me she's pregnant. I blocked her.
Posted: 10/22/2018 3:26:31 PM

To actually talk with someone you've had sex with.

How horrible.

LOL, The nerve of that woman expecting so much! Let me guess, OP. Stand up guy is NOT one of the descriptors that often get used in association with YOU.
 dannmann92
Joined: 3/23/2016
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Posted: 10/22/2018 3:52:15 PM

LOL, The nerve of that woman expecting so much! Let me guess, OP. Stand up guy is NOT one of the descriptors that often get used in association with YOU.


Even if she’s pregnant telling me about getting an abortion is a way to ge sympathy and attention from me. Why am I wrong for avoiding that (serious question)?
Ex told me she's pregnant. I blocked her.
Posted: 10/22/2018 4:55:56 PM

Even if she’s pregnant telling me about getting an abortion is a way to ge sympathy and attention from me. Why am I wrong for avoiding that (serious question)?

Good grief, you can't be serious! Do you own up to anything in your life? You slept with this woman, she may possibly be pregnant, considering an abortion and all you can think about is yourself? If this girl decides to have this child, do it a huge favour and stay out of its life. Hopefully she finds a real man in the future who can be a proper role model to YOUR child. Your parents should boot your ass right up to your ears.
 2ufo
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Posted: 10/22/2018 5:45:38 PM
One of the purposes of conversation and talking is the transmission of information.

Perhaps she thought you'd be interested in her pregnancy - considering you've had sex with her.

Although many people try to avoid any type of unpleasantness, this is a childish way of attempting to avoid responsibility for their actions.

You are wrong because you:
(1) assume she wants sympathy and attention (rather than telling you she's pregnant and wants to find out where you stand on the gradient line of getting married... staying friends/raising the child cooperatively... never wanting anything to do with with her except maybe child support.... abortion)
(2) you are taking no responsibility for a pregnancy for which you may be 50% responsible
(3) running at the first obstacle in your sex life
(4) taking no responsibility
(5) not immediately discussing this with either her (if you're interested in being a parent) or a lawyer (if you're not interested in being a parent).

And if this is just for sympathy and attention... then you need to find out.
Escort her to the doctor.
And if that means a difficult discussion, considering a footstep on the path to being an adult (and earning the privilege of a relationship).
 CBGB77
Joined: 12/15/2017
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Posted: 10/22/2018 5:46:57 PM
OP: If your ex decides to have this child you wont be able to avoid her when she asks for child support.
 cooldog65
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Ex told me she's pregnant. I blocked her.
Posted: 10/22/2018 6:45:06 PM

I go check on Instagram and she unfollowed me smh.



having to see me constantly on social media would just hurt so unfollowing me was self preservation.


Social media...*shaking my head*
 siisaa
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Posted: 10/22/2018 7:51:49 PM
^ dude has a child potentially on the way and he's concerned with social media unfollowings? SMH

OP - GROW. UP.
 moraima
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Posted: 10/22/2018 8:25:58 PM
Op If you need it explained to you, there is no point because you won't understand anyway.
 hemingway234
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Posted: 10/23/2018 6:31:34 AM
I had an ex once say she was pregnant to get attention from me. But she did not have proof like a pregnancy test.
 dannmann92
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Posted: 10/23/2018 7:41:14 AM

I had an ex once say she was pregnant to get attention from me. But she did not have proof like a pregnancy test.


1. How did you find out she was lying?
2. So, you're saying the positive pregnancy test seems like my ex gf is telling the truth?
 oldwxman
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Posted: 10/23/2018 7:57:04 AM
danman92:
*Even if she’s pregnant telling me about getting an abortion is a way to ge sympathy and attention from me. Why am I wrong for avoiding that (serious question)?

You are not. Communicating with her in any way can serve no purpose. She can buy a positive pregnancy test online or out of the newspaper for just a few bucks. All of the flack that you are getting is from people who want you to be warm and loving and above all RESPECTFUL to all women no matter how deceitful and manipulative they are cuz vagina.

Do nothing that you are not forced to do by a court of competent jurisdiction. Like I said before, get a lawyer. Don't let yourself be blindsided.
 dannmann92
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Posted: 10/23/2018 8:09:04 AM

She can buy a positive pregnancy test online or out of the newspaper for just a few bucks


That's what I was thinking too, but how did she get it the very next day if she had to order it online or from a newspaper?
 oldwxman
Joined: 7/22/2018
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Posted: 10/23/2018 8:23:04 AM
danman92:
*That's what I was thinking too, but how did she get it the very next day if she had to order it online or from a newspaper?

What makes you think that it was the next day? She could have been planning to twist your arm for a long time and decided to use it just now. Besides, she could always ask one of her pregnant friends to piss on a stick for ten bucks and have one right away.
 dannmann92
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Posted: 10/23/2018 8:26:40 AM

What makes you think that it was the next day? She could have been planning to twist your arm for a long time and decided to use it just now. Besides, she could always ask one of her pregnant friends to piss on a stick for ten bucks and have one right away.


Right, but why do all that just to say that you don't want to keep the baby? That seems like an awful lot to go through just to say you're going to have an abortion...
 hemingway234
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Posted: 10/23/2018 8:28:44 AM

I had an ex once say she was pregnant to get attention from me. But she did not have proof like a pregnancy test.



1. How did you find out she was lying?


- it was obvious......she was on the pill, and she was doing weird stuff after the breakup, like this, to get attention.



2. So, you're saying the positive pregnancy test seems like my ex gf is telling the truth?


- honestly, I don't know. Give it a few weeks and see if she sticks with that story, or drops it.

does the woman have any mental issues, as far as you know?

Dr Phil had an episode awhile back about a woman who would constantly fake pregnancy. She had fake ultrasound pics. Women faking pregnancy does happen.
 oldwxman
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Posted: 10/23/2018 8:43:47 AM
danman92:
*Right, but why do all that just to say that you don't want to keep the baby? That seems like an awful lot to go through just to say you're going to have an abortion...

Because she wants you and you don't want her. She is playing on your sympathy as you already suspect. She hopes that if she threatens to kill YOUR baby then you will be with her to make that unnecessary. Male stalkers operate much the same way. Some pathetic dude thinks he can scare a girl into wanting him. It doesn't have to make sense. It is just what manipulative people do.

She doesn't need your participation to have an abortion even under the most bizarre circumstances imaginable.
 dannmann92
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Posted: 10/23/2018 9:06:10 AM

- honestly, I don't know. Give it a few weeks and see if she sticks with that story, or drops it.


No she's never given me a reason to think she was crazy. When I said I would call her but didn't she didn't do anything except unfollow me. She had told me weeks before this that she was worried that she was pregnant because her body had been feeling off. She sent me the screenshots of her friend asking if she had gotten the test.

Well she had sent me the picture of the test and said she wasn't going to keep it I waited a week and then blocked her. She So in that week she hadn't said anything else. So I'm not sure what that silence means.
 Spectrallight
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Posted: 10/23/2018 10:02:31 AM

No she's never given me a reason to think she was crazy.


but you said in the first post


I'm not wrong here, don't give into crazy right?


What story is it lol?

I think roxy needs to add some tension :)
 whiterose0
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Posted: 10/23/2018 10:59:54 AM

Well she had sent me the picture of the test and said she wasn't going to keep it I waited a week and then blocked her.


Both of you sound too immature and vindictive to be good parents. If there's a baby on the way, I feel sorry for it.
 ontheotherhand
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Posted: 10/23/2018 11:05:40 AM

You are not. Communicating with her in any way can serve no purpose.


It can, but we'll never know since this man-child insists on sticking his head in the sand and arguing. He's looking like the attention seeker.


All of the flack that you are getting is from people who want you to be warm and loving and above all RESPECTFUL to all women no matter how deceitful and manipulative they are cuz vagina.


Wherever did you get that idea? Most people have been telling this fool to get get his head out of the sand and get a lawyer.
 SiennaBear2
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Posted: 10/23/2018 12:00:06 PM
Soooo is she still pregnant or did she have the abortion?
 2ufo
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Posted: 10/23/2018 12:09:33 PM

[All of the flack that you are getting is from people who want you to be warm and loving and above all RESPECTFUL to all women no matter how deceitful and manipulative they are cuz vagina.

Uh, people should be respectful to people they've had sex with.
People should call when they say they'll call.
At least in my world.
You mean OP isn't deceitful and manipulative when he tells her he'll call but never does?
He's not being deceitful when he implies (i.e. says he'll call) that the relationship isn't totally gone when it's already been zombified?

OP is an ignorant azz in more ways than one.

However...

Don't let yourself be blindsided.

He's not only letting himself be blindsided... he's actively encouraging it.

Like others here, I see misconduct on both sides and pity any child that emerges from either of their collective loins.
 PennyAnte
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Posted: 10/23/2018 1:11:34 PM
"She wanted to trap me into speaking about us." It sounds like an important thing to talk about it. If she keeps it, adoption or abortion. You have paternal rights. You seem to be certain it is yours. So talk about it.
 Clytemnestra
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Posted: 10/23/2018 1:16:18 PM
OP<
Ex told me she's pregnant. I blocked her.


Should have blocked your sperm. Would not be in this situation now.
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