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Yes, there's a certain segment of the female population that sneers at and has disdain for pop culture, claiming to not be attracted to many of the mainstream ''Hollywood hunks". This claim will actually mean something to me the very day they're presented with the reality of being asked out by one of them and turning him down.

I had a friend who once claimed the former porn star, Asia Carerra, did absolutely nothing for him, and he wouldn't have sex with her. I and our friends in common told him he was full of shit, but he continued to vehemently swear he wouldn't touch her.

As luck would have it, years later I was invited to a party and found out she was going to be in attendance. I was allowed to bring two friends and made sure he was one of them. I didn't tell him about her being there, and when he finally realized she was there, he morphed into a colossal A$$ kisser.

Sure, I can buy it when someone claims they're not as ga-ga over a celebrity who's considered universally attractive as the rest of the world seems to be, but to flat out say they wouldn't date them? Color me skeptical.
 adventurejoe70
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Posted: 4/2/2019 7:04:04 AM
Yeah his body fat was very low in that movie. That was the basis of the workout he did since gaining weight and muscle mass would have been very hard for him to do based on his hard gainer body type. They concentrated on developing muscle tone and cutting up as much as he could. I guess for Troy he had more time to do a muscle gaining workout program which would first spend time eating a lot working out with heavy weights and then cutting up after that fact. But Hollywood stars are paid to workout and get the best trainers so.....


Here is a facehugger. Does Sally do that?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZ8AblM28Bs


Sure, I can buy it when someone claims they're not as ga-ga over a celebrity who's considered universally attractive as the rest of the world seems to be, but to flat out say they wouldn't date them? Color me skeptical.


Who said they won't date them? Girls will date them just because they are worth over 100 million dollars and/or the fame involved.
But if the so called actor never made it big and famous sure I believe them. For example, you used the word universally attractive.Mr Spit(Pitt). is not universally attractive but now he is universally famous.. Hollywood tries to make them worldwide but it doesn't always work that way. Eastern Euro's don't generally like that type for example. I think in France he isn't as popular as Anglo land. It is relative.
American culture, including soft culture, has been one of our biggest exports for decades. The US military thought it would help win the hearts and minds in Vietnam, and relatively it did work for many. What I always found amusing about our music exportation is that many worldwide flock to it just because it was considered one time cool because American(Bollywood winning hearts now in some places). However, nothing freaks me out more than when I was in an overseas nightclub in a country that knows very little English and the crowd goes crazy. Sting concerts for example sell out in Eastern Europe but 99% of the goers can't understand a word he is saying.

The second thing that freaks me out is our merchandise franchise exportation. Never understood why people are/were wearing NYPD/FDNY sweatshirt in Chișinău( you probably need wiki to locate it)

It also reminds me of Sean Connery. He actually is as universally attractive as a man can get but his very early roles before he became Mr. Bond got him very little female attention. He played some geeky professor in an earlier movie and was not well admired from it.

As for your Ms. Carrera example.. blah blah blah to your buddy. Men are certainly more homogeneous in what we are attracted to than women in the physical sense. If she is attractive , even avg attractive(high end of avg) then we usually ALL wouldn't mind a roll. I don't think we would see many guys say:
"No Pig , I won't do her because she is too short, too large breasted, etc". I have yet to meet the man who uses preferences that way to refrain from sex with a decent looking girl. Your example is a gal WAY more than avg. That doesn't mean we would consider every trophy gal "meet the mom material".
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Posted: 4/2/2019 7:08:51 AM

Asia Carerra


Had to look her up. Half white, half Asian (Japanese) just like me. Nice...
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Posted: 4/2/2019 7:42:01 AM
msg#104:
Asia Carerra


Had to look her up. Half white, half Asian (Japanese) just like me. Nice...


Whatcha waitin for!?!
Give her a buzz!
;-)
 dragonbytes
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Posted: 4/2/2019 8:03:02 AM

I had a friend who once claimed the former porn star, Asia Carerra, did absolutely nothing for him, and he wouldn't have sex with her. I and our friends in common told him he was full of shit, but he continued to vehemently swear he wouldn't touch her.


Is this the same Asia Carerra, AKA Jessica Steinhauser, wearing a colander in this DMV photo?

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/11/17/pastafarian-drivers-license/19200447/


Jessica Steinhauser, 41, who also has been known as Asia Lemmon and Asia Carrera, said she's an atheist and member of the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster.

I like her weird sense of humor, but boy she sure looks a lot different than in her glamour pics. I would never think this was the same woman.
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Posted: 4/2/2019 8:11:27 AM


Who said they won't date them?


I've known a few in my day, and I just rolled my eyes at them.



It also reminds me of Sean Connery.


Coincidentally, I was named after him. Mom was a big fan.



Had to look her up. Half white, half Asian (Japanese) just like me. Nice...


She was even better in person. I talked to her for only about 5 minutes, but I was shocked at how well spoken/articulate she was. Later that night, someone associated with her told me she was a Mensa member. Go figure.


Is this the same Asia Carerra, AKA Jessica Steinhauser, wearing a colander in this DMV photo?


Yes, Father Time has not been kind to her.
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Posted: 4/2/2019 9:18:28 AM

She was even better in person. I talked to her for only about 5 minutes, but I was shocked at how well spoken/articulate she was. Later that night, someone associated with her told me she was a Mensa member. Go figure.


IMO that is one thing we seldom consider when talking about famous people who have made it near the top of their profession.

They tend to also be fairly smart, which is likely a necessity if they are to remain in the spot light, the more stupid ones tend to either lose out or get hooked on something, die an early age, have a short career for some reason or other.

Time the avenger spares no one.
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Posted: 4/2/2019 2:29:41 PM

Here is a facehugger. Does Sally do that?

Oh, okay. Now I know what you're referring to. And yes, Sally likes face-hugging a guy (with the inner thighs). What gal doesn't? :)

Girls will date them just because they are worth over 100 million dollars and/or the fame involved.

Not all girls if he's distinctly not good looking. But there'll always be a certain % of girls who will. I think the known super-$$ and fame will make for "girls" in general desire a guy who is cute turn hot. Especially if "he seems so cool & real in person!" It affects guys, too of course.

Mr Spit(Pitt). is not universally attractive but now he is universally famous..

I think he is universally attractive, as the category of universally-attractive would go in my mind. Well, hold that thought. It's not 1999. Take him from Legends of the Fall or Troy, dressed well, cleanly shaven -- yah. Universally speaking, he's going to be one of the hotter guys at the bar.

I think the thing is, gals Don't want to find him attractive -- much like the Asia Carerra example. Kind of like how some girls want to believe porn does Not excite them. It's a pride thing. I showed an ex a certain flavor/brand of video, and she gave in. And no, no Brad Pitt required! ;)

As for your Ms. Carrera example.. blah blah blah to your buddy. Men are certainly more homogeneous in what we are attracted to than women in the physical sense. If she is attractive , even avg attractive(high end of avg) then we usually ALL wouldn't mind a roll.

I agree. That's one of the biggest red flags that would come out at me. "I wouldn't even touch her." You wouldn't even touch her? Did you get beaten by an aggressive Asian maid when you were a kid, traumatizing you for life? It's an obvious pride/image thing that he had.
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Posted: 4/2/2019 7:02:36 PM



Yes, there's a certain segment of the female population that sneers at and has disdain for pop culture, claiming to not be attracted to many of the mainstream ''Hollywood hunks". This claim will actually mean something to me the very day they're presented with the reality of being asked out by one of them and turning him down.


Count me in that segment....if you are referring to Brad Pitt. There isn't one thing I find attractive about the man...looks or personality wise ( and that is more important to me than anyone's looks).
and I don't need to meet him in person to know I would not date him.
Now his ex-wife Jennifer....her I would do!!
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Posted: 4/2/2019 7:39:16 PM
I highly doubt that Brad Pitt cares if some women wouldn’t date him. He gets enough attention already.
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Posted: 4/3/2019 9:26:34 AM

Apparently, some might argue we should be finding that mid girth sexy. Otherwise, we may be discriminating against those who can't find their way to a gym or put down the Big Mac's and beers. Preference be damned! You are required to like beer bellies or else you are discriminating. Or so I read, something to that effect, over in the "short man syndrome" thread.
Well, if so many women didn’t fall for fat guys with beer bellies, there wouldn’t be so many of ‘em.


Perhaps but slim guys have a similar problem. Heavier women don't want them often because they are afraid being side by side will make them look heavier due to the comparison.
Sure. In my prime I was 6’2” 180 and there are many woman – not only larger women – who preferred huskier guys. But there are plenty enough that like(d) 6’2” 180 lol.


Luckily, I kept my dept. issued ones away from her.
”Dept issued.” Who else issues police gear? Kinky dot com? LOL Bet those handcuffs and billy club came in useful.


I had a friend who once claimed the former porn star, Asia Carerra, did absolutely nothing for him, and he wouldn't have sex with her.
You obviously have a higher class of friends than I. My friends would bang anyone that fogged a mirror and sometimes even that was optional if the mirror was being used for other nefarious, substance dispensation purposes.


someone associated with her told me she was a Mensa member.
Not the way one expects to find a reference to Asia Carriere and “member” in the same sentence.


Father Time has not been kind to her.
And father time probably banged her.
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Posted: 4/3/2019 9:40:08 AM
as much as i am ODing on antihistimine this week ($#%#ing allegeries), its interesting the men are theorizing what attracts women :) usually the ladies chip in. i guess it means we're accurate in our accessments. i believe that Joe's study on a wiry male figure (as opposed to skinny or 'roided out) being most attractive is true. it could explain why an older man will admire a woman young enough to have high metabolism, b/c slender is becoming of a lady (not to mention peaches and cream complexion and firmness), while an older lady sees a young male and he's just skinny and needs to fill out a little (the body shape of the early Brad Pitt was more like a laborer who was paid well enough to eat). if my broad assumption is true, then perhaps cougars are led less by a physical lust, and more by what a young conquest represents to them. but that's getting off subject.

some people will chase a celebrity, hoping to make a conquest, even if they aren't phsyically attracted to that person (and of course, there's the factor that few celebrities look in real life, how they look on screen after makeup). and then there's the cache of a porn star--will she say no? but, i get the gist of the story about the friend who would never show Asia any attention until he had a chance. i've had men claim there are no such things as 10's, or that they would never be a fool for one, and in real life...broke all their rules. a lot of male ego talks tough, until its time to step up.

i agree with dragon's assessment on intelligent entertainers. the dumb ones get burned out, the smart ones realize being behind the camera pays more than being in front of it.

"Who else issues police gear?"

>>>i don't know about NYC, but my former friend the former corrections dept worker, could get her gear from outside, private, licensed shops.
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Posted: 4/3/2019 10:28:50 AM

Now his ex-wife Jennifer....her I would do!!


Funny enough, she's the first female celebrity to come to mind when I think of overrated. Would I kick her out of bed? Hell no. Are there women I bump into out in public that appeal to me more? Absolutely.

The story about my friend who claimed he wouldn't do Asia is rather amusing. It was in the early 90s, and we had a weekly "guys only" get together every Tuesday. A lot of times, porn would be playing in the background. On one of these occasions, a porn with Asia in it was onscreen, and a lot of the guys were commenting on her. That's when my friend chimed in claiming he wouldn't touch her.

I honestly believe he was just trying to be the black sheep contrarian, but boy, was it sweet to make him eat his idiotic words in such a spectacular way.
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