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Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 89
Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
ever hear the famous and notorious saying, girls love bad boys?

It's wrong, but I'll admit it is appealing...
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 93
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Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/20/2006 12:05:30 AM
i'm a sensitive type and fortunate enough
to have a fair amount of female attention in my life,but women
do have mixed feelings about this type--

after all we'r all influenced by the data in our genes, just as men are
sometimes over preoccupied by large breasts [in the
old days it meant more milk for the babies,better chance for
survival], women still in many cases linger over macho and sometimes

deadly men[ hence the popular myth about attraction
to bad boys]. when people used to live in caves, and in medieval days, sensitive
men often didnt survive battlefields, so women
unconsciously and otherwise selected men who were better at fighting
hunting....the ability to write poetry was more optional

now society is changing and we sensitive men are
coming out! with guns blazing!!!!
just kidding guys,,,,,,lets be compassionate to everyone with
whatever qualities they may have
bottom line---sometimes its good to be sensitive, sometimes
toughness is the order of the day
Joined: 7/24/2009
Msg: 102
Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 8/12/2009 10:04:42 PM

I consider myself to be a sensitive and affectionate man. I enjoy romance a great deal, cuddling, kissing, general affection, kissing of the neck, pecking, holding hands, whatever feels right. My question is don't a lot of women admire these characteristics of a guy? The sweet sensitive guy. I always hear women wishing their guys were more sensitive and affectionate, and showed their love in more that just words, and I feel that way too. I find that sensitive guys like me don't really get a lot of attention. I just want to find that special girl to share my heart with. I wish love wasn't so hard to find. :P I am really grateful that I am a sensitive person because it really allows for a much more passionate relationship when you can truly understand your lovers feelings, and also being able to express love with a motion of your body, or even a sweet tender kiss. It's bliss. :P

Any thoughts ladies?

Just don't overdo it. When a man is becoming too "sensitive" it kind of turns me off. I hated it when I called my ex and he had an attitude like a girl, it drove me crazy. Of if he is whining about me, I felt like flipping him hard behind his head. I was most attracted to him when he had "controlled sensitivity".
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