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 jiszam
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 54
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Yeah.Good post.
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 55
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/26/2005 8:47:55 AM

NOT that men are wired differently, its the training behind it. As kids, we are often taught anything we want to know/learn, EXCEPT sex. Our society is so conservative that sex, especially masturbating, is taboo...its a sink/swim knowledge


Humorous......but logically speaking,the same thing is true of women and sex/masturbation. Women and men BOTH have orgasm in about the same time during masturbation according to data and logic. Therefore the wiring IS a major factor,it is not the ONLY factor however. Also,regardless of study Kinsey/J&J,Masters&Johnson ect....the conclusions are similar.

Why do women and men achieve orgasm in about the same time during masturbation? Both use comporable stimuation points,the clitoris and penis are VERY similar.During intercourse the clitoris isn't stimulated as directly as the penis therefore the "lag" in time to achieve orgasm for MOST.
There are MANY ways of offsetting this "problem".
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 56
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/26/2005 9:55:31 AM
You guys were jerking away!
If a female masturbated twice a day as a teen you mean you guys were jerking off OVER 10 times per day!?! Dayum,time to buy stock in the tissue companies!
I didn't masturbate much at all at 13.......by late teens maybe twice a day....maybe thats HOW I became a marathonman

Seriosuly though,I think every individual male and female has had varying expereince in masturbation frequency as teens.
 i am4u
Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 8/27/2005 12:32:03 PM
till you want me to cum
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 61
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 10:25:34 AM
there's too many variables. more foreplay could make it quicker. tightness is definitely a factor. and do you mean how long til the first one or til the last one?
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 63
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/23/2005 10:08:15 AM
^^^^^^ 10... 9... 8... 7.... LOL
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 65
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 10:37:44 AM
I've read the average length of time for sex was 20-30min(INCLUDING "foreplay")
The average length of time for a man from penetration to (his)orgasm seems to vary from study to study Kinsey report(2 min)to more recent studies 6min.
Here is a link that should help:

http://www.sexualrecords.com/WSRaverages.html
 Anchap1980
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 66
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 1:06:54 PM
yeah i have to agree there, the longest sex ive ever had was about 2 1/2 hours, and we didnt get raw cuzz she was having multiples. but most girls seem to dry up after too long, even if u are doing it right, some of them just loose the ability to enjoy it after a certain amount of time. i would say on average i last from 30 mins to 70 it really depends on how i am enjoying it. if she is a freak and makes it exciting im more apt to make it last longer. the last girl i had sex with was a dead fuk and so i didnt ever last too long, i let her get hers and then i got mine, no use in prolonging something that isnt that fun
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 69
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Posted: 9/26/2005 4:20:23 PM
Not including foreplay, the average is about 25-30 minutes. I have had an erection last no longer than 1 hour 15 minutes-ish and that was enough. I have also cum in 5-ish seconds. Every day, every woman and every arousal is different.
 formerprincess
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 71
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 6:02:49 PM
depends i had a man **** me 4 5 hours but he came 3 times but still stayed hard...wow...but recently had amazin sex w/ this man who lasted about an hour n it seemed like 5 he was that great
 Canuck_Casanova
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 72
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Posted: 9/26/2005 6:29:19 PM
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:53:48 AM by Headly Lemar
I won't barge on this discussion....but am I just neurotic or is this normal?
I usually go about 2 - 2.5 hours. I don't say that to 'brag' because I don't think it is.....time passes pretty quickly, but I think I get so caught up in making it enjoyable for her that I really don't think about my own 'needs'....ie ~ so caught up in not wanting to be a 'quickie' guy (that just would feel emasculating)...Especially during the first few sessions....

Just saying ~ I haven't had complaints - but when I think about it - it sounds neurotic.


Headly,

You're full of shit, and the only reason your partner doesn't complain is that you always wake up from your dream after you've finished.
 formerprincess
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 73
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 6:33:26 PM
whos full of shit?
 Canuck_Casanova
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 74
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Posted: 9/26/2005 6:37:42 PM
I think I'll be the only honest person here. I haven't lasted an hour in years. I'm lucky i make it 30 mins from the time I go in. On average, it's closer to 15. But in those 15 minutes, I have yet to have a love making session where I was not able to pleasure my partner correctly. The thing for me is that my biggest turn-on is seeing a woman cum. The moment my partner starts cumming, I can help but explode with them.

I'll also admit that I have had minute men experiences, but that's when you wait 10 mins, and then the second time you go for gold. (Yes, 10 minutes recover. Not 25. With only 10 the guys sure not to pop easy again)
 formerprincess
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 75
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 6:39:37 PM
no good...still whos full of shit?
 Canuck_Casanova
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 76
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Posted: 9/26/2005 6:40:35 PM
Headly is full of it. Sorry. Fixed my previous post
 formerprincess
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 77
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 6:44:16 PM
cant u quote ppl here makes it so hard 2 know who u r talkn but...im not new 2 forum but am new 2 this 1
 Canuck_Casanova
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 79
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Posted: 9/26/2005 6:53:02 PM
T, D and H.

You've been the most honest man here. I commend you.

And Formerprincess,

If I knew how to quote propperly through these boards, I would. But I'll admit that I haven't been using message boards since HTML editing was the only way to change the scrypting, and HTML editing doesn't work the same here as it does when web designing.
 JJMcLain
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 80
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 9:08:09 PM
I last for a couple of beers after the litre of vodka, so I guess that'll be 30 minutes.
Otherwise I can get drunk and just fall asleep wit my d..k in her and wake up in the middle of the night and keep doing it, I guess thats like a record, 12 hours!
 jennthelpn
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 95
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Posted: 1/21/2006 5:17:21 PM
30 seconds to 20 minutes....


back when I had lotsa drunken sex with drunken boys, well they could last up to four hours!!
 jennthelpn
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 1/21/2006 7:00:51 PM
^^^


I didn't say how long I liked it for...but I suppose I can...I prefer the actual penetration too last anywhere from 30 seconds (those bend me over the bathroom sink quickies) to 30 minutes (thats the real intense love making.....).

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