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 neverbeenlaid
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 45
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I just want to put in a piece of realistic advice. 9/10 of the people who have posted on this thread said something like: show him your boobs, tell him youre wet, tell him you want him in the mens room in 5 minutes...

well, honestly if a woman i didnt know walked up to me and said something like that, I would go home and watch the simpsons.

Dont try to use some one liner. Try to initiate conversation. Say something that provokes thought and demands verbal feedback. I would be really impressed by something like:

"I've been trying to think of a way to get your attention all night, and i finally got the courage up to walk over but i havnt thought of a thing to say. I'm (insert name). Do you mind if i join you for a while?"
 isopyt
Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 47
Best way to pick up a MAN??????????
Posted: 2/22/2005 8:29:02 PM
I was alone on an elevator one time when this lady came in, saw me, and said "I want you to make me feel like a woman."

So I took off my clothes, threw them on the floor, and said "Here, wash these."
 killakeat
Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 2/23/2005 12:47:16 AM
Great idea dude! You got a direct approach and I think this way is great if you have eye contact. How about a sudden approach to a stranger? Any realistic ideas?
 thomas peter
Joined: 9/16/2004
Msg: 53
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Posted: 2/23/2005 8:53:12 AM
Yup, you have the right idea - show you're interested. I respond to women with a look in their eye that shows they are approachable. Won't waste my time on princesses who think they are going to be wooed or want to play hard-to-get like they are a prize in a contest.
 xander
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 2/23/2005 12:19:41 PM
I'd have to agree with Thomas Peter.

Too many women have been taught they're the trophy when it should be so much more mutual (hey, I'm an idealist!).

Anecdote: My buddy went out with two of our female friends one evening. When it came time to pay for the drinks, she *actually* thought the drinks were free. She had had drinks bought for her for so long that she had forgotten that they cost somebody money. My buddy asked where she thought the drinks came from and how much she would spend on a night out. She said "$20?" whereupon my buddy told her that most guys he knows will spend between $50 and $100 a night because they're the ones buying the rounds.
 xander
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/23/2005 12:29:38 PM
Realized I didn't really answer the question of the thread.

Exavier has it pretty much nailed. No need for 'slutty' when 'direct' will do.
 teamgreen
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 88
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Posted: 7/27/2005 9:29:02 AM
by not saying "why do men...." for topic in in threads!
 Paradoxx
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 96
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Posted: 7/29/2005 6:26:20 PM
...by the handle.
 ingridtu
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 102
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Posted: 7/30/2005 6:10:34 PM
No, no, no, sit in a corner away from the crowd and look and act shy. There is always a guy who'll offer to "bring you out of your shell'' and restore your disappointment in life, he'll even offer to share his "pride and joy" with you. Men are so kind (of a strange kind)? Truly Ingrid
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 108
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Posted: 7/30/2005 7:30:30 PM
Feed him, bathe him, and bring him to your tent!
 Fcukmeplease
Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 109
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Posted: 7/31/2005 5:00:51 AM
open my legs
 anthony10306ny
Joined: 4/16/2004
Msg: 130
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Posted: 7/31/2005 5:25:39 PM
Maybe by saying Hi , I think it will work for you all.
 BiggerTits
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 137
Best way to pick up a MAN??????????
Posted: 7/31/2005 9:10:56 PM
Go up to him and be like, Hey, you look familiar. Did you go to (insert name here) high school or college. If he says no, say while touching his shoulder, I'm so sorry, but you look just like (insert name here).

Corny I know, but has worked wonders for me!!!!!!!!!!!!
 afriendofafriend
Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 140
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Posted: 7/31/2005 11:01:24 PM
Grab him by the shoulder and the groin
and use your legs to lift and throw.
This works well if he is behind you.


Michelle
 afriendofafriend
Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 142
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Posted: 8/1/2005 12:26:50 AM
Naw... It's more fun if you pick them up and throw them.
So I stand by my first statement..
Grab them by the shoulder and the groin..
use your legs to lift and throw..


Michelle
 Eurogirlsrule
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 147
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Posted: 8/1/2005 5:40:55 AM
OK ladies For those of you who don't know or haven't figured this out yet Listen up ..You have the Upper hand ..Use it!!! Chances are he is already checking you out!

This is foolproof ..Bump into him!! ..OMG I'm so sorrry..Blah .blah..blah
 Gideon_70
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 158
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Posted: 8/3/2005 6:23:50 AM
I agree, saying hello will do it for me. I tend to like ladies that are smart, would allow me to rub their feet as well as bring me a piece of cake just to see me smile. I've been with the psycopaths, selfish women, and the ones that want you to take care of them but give nothing in return (really sad time) and I'm being very careful in who I date now. So, saying hello is the best way if you really are interested in a guy that will stick with you and treat you well for the rest of your life, after all, when the age catches up to you I woudl really like to have a friend that is also my lover.
 Gideon_70
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 160
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Posted: 8/3/2005 6:29:24 AM
Walk up to me and say "I serve Jesus" Say that and I'll be all over myself trying to get to know You!
 Cdub151
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 162
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Posted: 8/5/2005 12:33:07 AM
Its not rocket science. Its not like were not offering penis to you any way.

"Let me get that door for you." translation- "would you like some penis."
"how about dinner and a movie?" translaton- "May I help you to some penis."


The list goes.

If you really wanna pick up a man, all you gotta do look at him and smile. If you got all your teeth 90% of us will take care of the rest.
 Real_Brunette
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 165
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Posted: 8/5/2005 9:37:41 AM
pretty much anything will work...we ARE talking about picking up a man, right? lol..j/k but seriously...it's not that difficult :)
 Real_Brunette
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 168
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Posted: 8/5/2005 7:38:05 PM
or you can tell him you are a lesbian , but looking for her first male experience
or you can show him how you can put your legs behind your neck
of course, there is the guaranteed not to fail : "let's f.ck"
 GmanTv
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 172
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Posted: 8/7/2005 12:37:57 AM
Well that only works if you can see his eyes in a bar or club.I play dumb i am old school; body language works great for me especially if its crowed.My trump card is when I look into Her eyes!
 GmanTv
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 173
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Posted: 8/7/2005 12:52:02 AM
NOW THATS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT AGGRESSIVE AND OUTGOING THAT IS ALWAYS CLIMATIC!!
 GmanTv
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 174
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Posted: 8/7/2005 12:56:29 AM
Was wondering would you act the same if you where face with the fact that your best girlfriend thinks hes hot too and she is using the same technic.Hummmm..makes you think.
 dakota5369
Joined: 5/5/2005
Msg: 175
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Posted: 8/7/2005 1:44:45 AM
like it is hard to do! walk up to him and say, "wanna ****?" he is all yours
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