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 Talitha001
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 26
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I`m not sure if I would relocate or not!!!! I do have a job I can do anywhere, but leaving my grown kids behind might be hard...No might about it...it would be hard!!!! We spend all the holidays together so I would have to really think on it...It would depend on where I`m relocating to and how easily I could still see my kids....I`ll cross that bridge if, and when, I come to it!!!!
 justmeinnc05
Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 27
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 8/26/2005 4:52:28 PM
Yes and I am going to be doing so in less than a week. He didn't ask, but I want to. Not only to be closer to him, but I really am not happy at all where I live and just feel in love with the area he is in. Peaceful, more jobs, and way nicer people. Sorry to my fellow NC pof members but there really are a lot of close minded people here.
 eyez
Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 28
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 8/26/2005 5:27:38 PM
Not at the present due to the fact I am care giver for my Mom. If that changed, would definitely consider it at a later date.

I'm not originally from the state I'm living in right now and have lived in several states plus overseas; therefore, moving wouldn't be difficult.
 shadowgirl58
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 29
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 8/26/2005 6:20:23 PM
Done that..he wasn't as serious as I thought..old falmes die out..lol

anyway..yes I would if it were in my means to do so..I would give him about a yr. first to make sure he is sincere about you-before moving or relocating.
Have you chked the locality you are concerned about moving to? you know the stats. and such on the town you are considering moving too?As I would dread to see a lady deserted if it didn't work out-know where you are going first...

 kicknIT2
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 30
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 8/26/2005 9:12:45 PM
im amazed at how many say no and how many say sure. i guess it does all boil down to where the relationship is and how your current situation is as well. such as kids, family, work, finances, etc.

but hey if your serious enough and love each other truly deeply enough then it does not matter where you live as long as its together.

by the way i never said interenet relationship. just a serious realtionship with some one youre connected and serious with.

thank you all for responding so openly.

 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 31
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 2:55:10 AM
yeah i would i have a great guy in BC right now that i am like in love with he is liek my best friend if he would ask me i would move in a heartbeat

but i doubt that he will
 hac3011
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 32
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 3:19:14 AM
Absolutely I would! I see it as you only live once and if you don't take the chance you could be missing out on something. All he would have to do is say the word and I would be there.
 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 33
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 3:20:56 AM
i am sorry he is in ontario right now not BC lol
 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 34
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 4:06:01 AM
i am so happy that so many people are quick to decide what true love offers !
 bigsmile
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 35
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 4:13:06 AM
Someday when my teens are out of high school and into college, I could see me traveling the world with someone special if they asked.
 kingofkrunk21
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 36
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 5:41:34 AM
I did...and I'm now engaged to her...
 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 37
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 10:28:19 PM
so cool ^^^^
 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 38
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/27/2005 11:27:32 PM
me ? ^^^^
 cupcake25
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 39
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 12:32:58 AM
I would relocate, but i would research the cost of living, I'd start applying for jobs, I wouldn't move out there at the drop of a hat. I'd probably spend a few days out there at a time before I made the permanent move. And once I decided was moving I would make sure I had everything prepared. Relocation is difficult as it is, gettting used to new surroundings, new people, a new job but throw in there a new relationship and it will be a difficult few months. But i think in the end, it could be a huge learning experience to step out of the familiar. Not just to be with someone that is special, but to prove to oneself how independent they really are.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 40
 wonwascallywabbit
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 41
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:33:21 AM
Well both my girls are cheerleaders who would beat me to death if they had to change schools in their last few years. So I guess I couldn't if I wanted to. I have lived all over the world and know I can make it anywhere so that wouldn't be a worry for me. I must say though if someone was serious enough to move for me I would go the extra mile to make sure it was worth it for them.
 wearswhitewell
Joined: 9/21/2004
Msg: 42
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Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 6:41:03 AM
I think it would depend on who it was for and how long you had been together.....life is to short to not live a little bit......I have a job that I can get employment pretty much anywhere.....however I'm not willing to move every year for that person.....but a one time move.....for the right person..yes I would.......
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 7:04:38 AM
If it had truly developed to "serious" I would. I'm always welcome home, so I'm ready to make the leap for love.
 dapi_editor
Joined: 4/15/2005
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Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 7:53:08 AM
Did it several times in my life. The last time was to Tokyo and that was a 20yr long relationship. For the right woman, I'd do it again.
 Carol27
Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 45
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 12:10:53 PM
Nope...been there, done that, won't EVER do it again....ended in divorce.
 YamIhere
Joined: 3/17/2005
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Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 1:54:04 PM
No - end of discussion.
 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 47
Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 11:22:10 PM
im a bud girl ^^^^

OT yeah i would but def had to be certain
 jacqiO
Joined: 2/6/2005
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Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4?
Posted: 9/28/2005 11:40:06 PM
Yes, I sure would....if it were the "real" thang....oh yeah... not an issue
 whyscracker
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 49
not at this time
Posted: 9/29/2005 12:10:05 AM
timing is everything, if certain things change and the locale to move to fits the new changes, then yeah. But now? NO NO NO. I love it here. middle of nowhere, open sky, big stars, desert out the back door and no freeway, no city BS, close to beach, close enough, anyway. I love my community, I've built strong roots here. Actually, I already have had the offer from a few men I'd otherwise be serious about. So we're just long distance just friends. Good enough. I don't believe there is only *one* to love anyway. There's a lot of men who could work for me and one is eventually bound to jump into my fishbowl.

Jeannie
 cheerer
Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 50
not at this time
Posted: 9/29/2005 5:21:55 PM
yeah and i am going to as soon as charlie gets back from iraq ! i love him so much who would have thought that a friendship would grow so much !
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