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 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 88
Do men get off on crazy women?Page 2 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
I think that the question should really be "Do men get off on abusive women and control frreaks'? IN a word "NO"
 IdoAllmyOwnStunts
Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 90
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Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 8/10/2006 6:23:50 AM
ive heard psycho women are better in bed.. you just cant tell them where you live..
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 97
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 8/10/2006 9:15:10 PM
I think it's more like men depicting their ex's as crazy in order to blame the failed relationship on them. When I meet a guy and he launches into the old "I'm a great guy, but my ex was a psycho who wrecked what could've been a great thing..." that's when I ditch the guy.
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Minxy --- There are four versions of every relationship brreak up.


1/ His version - She was crazy
2/ Her version - She was abusive
3/ The offical version
4/ They truth

What has you so convinced that she wasn't crazy and that it was all him.
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 106
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 8/18/2006 2:47:57 PM
This whole post is just a gender reversal of something else. I just dug it up. Again.
I knew women were like this when the men abused them. I didn't know some men did too.

Erin Pizzey was the founder of a women's shelter in Chiswick, England, the first modern battered women's shelter in the world. She found that of the first 100 women who came to her shelter, 62 were as or more violent than the partners they tried to escape from -- only to return to their partners time and again because of their addiction to pain and violence, violence that they persistently did their best to bring about. Over a period of ten years, Erin Pizzey became involved with about 5,000 women and their children who came through her shelter. She has written a number of books on domestic violence, one of which, Prone to Violence, addresses the issue of women's abuse and violence
 Wraith67
Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 113
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 8/21/2006 1:31:13 AM
LOL, I date crazy women because no sane woman would date me...lol... Be well, all ...
 YouRFireD131
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 114
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 8/22/2006 12:09:31 PM
Depends on how good she can*uh* cook and clean, *uh* yeah...

 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 116
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 12/30/2015 12:00:37 PM
I love bat guano crazy women. The key is to find one with the same neurosis and craziness as you do.
 scubabird12
Joined: 2/4/2016
Msg: 117
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Posted: 3/4/2016 9:11:00 PM
I've always said the same thing on the flip side: why do women go for the worst guys? Either way there is no easy answer. Confidence, sexuality, a desire for a dominant / strong type, can play a lot of it. Insecurity and a lack of self worth is even more likely. My advise is to be strong and be the "cool" person you are (reflect of course and make sure you are as good as you think you are) and someone will eventually come along. Perhaps be more assertive and make a first move from time to time. Don't be so "cool" if you mean like laid-back that it seems that you just don't care at all. People and especially guys like their ego stroked so be a little (but not too much) excited about things can be a good thing if used wisely.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 118
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/5/2016 9:28:19 PM
I noticed the craziness with women that earned much less than I did.

YMMV
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 119
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/6/2016 4:31:43 AM

Do men get off on crazy women?


Hold on here for a moment. I'm confused.

Of course us guys love the nutbar women out there. Is there any other kind?

I mean.

Like.

Really?


have never tried to tie a man down and tell him to change or tell him what he can and cannot do


You should try it.

It's kinda fun, in a weird sorta way...........
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 120
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Posted: 3/6/2016 4:58:03 AM
As the saying goes...

"Crazy in the head, crazy in the bed."
 Angel_Feet_Hurt
Joined: 3/25/2016
Msg: 122
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/29/2016 6:23:36 AM
^^I agree, many men like crazy, because they themselves are dysfunctional. Water seeks it's own level.

Normal women can be very lonely.
It's the nutbars that have the most fun.
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 123
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/29/2016 9:34:26 AM
^^^^Hahaha! Well...this crazy woman does enjoy life and have quite a bit of fun! :D
 Strider324
Joined: 2/17/2016
Msg: 125
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/30/2016 1:07:34 PM
My experience is only anecdotal, but the 3 most batshyt crazy women in my life were also the most gifted and ardent lovers. Balance has been difficult to obtain. :(
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 127
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/30/2016 3:35:15 PM
It's true, the more whackadoodie a woman is , the more passionate/wild she is in bed.

So, the next time I meet a seemingly normal woman and she's passionate/wild in bed I'm gonna be thinking....UH OH !
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 129
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 11:16:50 AM

It's true, the more whackadoodie a woman is , the more passionate/wild she is in bed.


That must be why "good in bed" is diagnostic criteria for most mental illnesses :S

(Actually, there may be SOME correlation, if promiscuity makes people better in bed - people with Borderline Personality Disorder can sometimes be highly promiscuous.)
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 130
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 3:15:32 PM
"That must be why "good in bed" is diagnostic criteria for most mental illnesses :S"


Is that self reported?

Cause I have yet to hear one single person say they are a lousy lover....crazy or sane.

But I sure have heard some hilarious stories of the female recipients of men that claim to be the best lovers ever! :D

When I hear those claims...first thing I think is...got references? :)

Maybe there is only a positive correlation between crazy and passionate sex with females and an inverse with males?
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 131
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 4:41:00 PM
^ I curse the day I showed you my psychiatric assessment. But I'm much better - I'm terrible in bed now. And yes, I can provide references :)
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 132
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 6:12:07 PM
^^^^^^Guess I'm giving up my born again virginness to you, then.

But I do appreciate your honesty. ;) ;)
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 133
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 6:25:44 PM
^ Huh? What?? You send really mixed messages. I think you might be crazy :(
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 134
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 6:56:58 PM
^^^^^Woo Hoo! Yes! I'm crazy! Guess you know what that means. ;) ;)


****Wait! That's not good. I'm all alone.....I'll have to deal with all this "craziness" .....alone. :(
 Onyx49
Joined: 3/6/2016
Msg: 135
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 3/31/2016 7:12:32 PM
Okay...there is something hot about crazy women...usually they are beautiful women...notably " Halle Berry, Heather Locklear, Elizabeth Taylor "...to name a few and all certified lunatics....

But when it comes to tossing...guys have to call a tow truck to get her off him...guys usually put up with her insanity because of the sexual payoff...
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 136
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 4/2/2016 8:08:23 AM
People primarily go for who they are physically attracted to. Some are more selective and want sanity too..... others are not so smart.
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 137
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 4/2/2016 8:51:56 AM
I can handle insanity in the bedroom, but not outside.

These women are fun to be with, but the anxiety and uncertainty you feel when you're apart is agonizing.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 138
Do men get off on crazy women?
Posted: 4/2/2016 9:15:08 AM

Cause I have yet to hear one single person say they are a lousy lover....


Well, I'll raise my hand on that one. I'm brutal between the sheets, and I have no problem making the time for any women so I can prove such a thing.

Be forewarned though, it may take more than an hour or so for it this to be all confirmed.
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