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 CBGB77
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My sister is 70 and her boyfriend is 30.
 sun_water
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Posted: 6/16/2018 9:32:56 AM

As long as the guy is 18 and over it is legal. I know a lot of women over 30 with with 18 year old boyfriends....Most of them will not date any man over 22 and they are in 30s 40s and 50s.


Probably very few women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s would want anything to do with a 18 year old man that could still be in high school. Or younger than her kids in some cases. Especially for women over 40.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 6/16/2018 10:35:54 AM

My sister is 70 and her boyfriend is 30.

Cha-ching$? :)
 CBGB77
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Posted: 6/16/2018 11:19:53 AM

Posted By: norwegianguy456 on 6/16/2018 12:35:54 PM
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My sister is 70 and her boyfriend is 30.

Cha-ching$? :)


Nope,my sister is hot.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 6/17/2018 11:44:02 PM


Cha-ching$? :)
Nope,my sister is hot.

Okay, so the 30 year old guy is not financially supported in any way shape or form by your sis. OK. Where I could find this not Too difficult to believe:

- The 30 year old guy may be young & healthy, but Not a looker. I find 'average looking' 18 year olds better looking than I did when I was 20, due to the 'supple youth' carrying more weight. So a gal who's 70 and great looking amongst 70 gals could find the 30 year old guy who she Wouldn't find attractive 30 years ago, nor would she be attracted to him Now if he aged Well over 30 years -- she does now, even though he's No Catch amongst his age group @30.

- He doesn't look that "good", but he doesn't look bad, but he's not healthy or has some mental or emotional disability that doesn't have to be known about, and his self-confidence due to it & past dating experiences, is Shot. The "supple youth" factor still plays into it for the 70 year old, cerebrally.

In a nutshell what I can't buy -- although anything is technically possible -- is a 70 year old, even a looker for her age, being in a Solidified Relationship with a decent looking, healthy 30 year old guy when $$ plays no role, either. A hookup, or even a FWB? A stretch, but I can buy that one.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 6/18/2018 12:17:47 AM

Nope,my sister is hot.


Strange thing to say, but we'll have to see for ourselves.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 6/18/2018 6:49:32 AM

Posted By: cooldog65 on 6/18/2018 247 AM
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Nope,my sister is hot.


Strange thing to say, but we'll have to see for ourselves.


Lol,I'm not trying to pimp my sister.Just repeating what my mom told me last week.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 6/18/2018 8:24:44 AM

Posted By: norwegianguy456 on 6/18/2018 102 AM
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Cha-ching$? :)
Nope,my sister is hot.

Okay, so the 30 year old guy is not financially supported in any way shape or form by your sis. OK. Where I could find this not Too difficult to believe:

- The 30 year old guy may be young & healthy, but Not a looker. I find 'average looking' 18 year olds better looking than I did when I was 20, due to the 'supple youth' carrying more weight. So a gal who's 70 and great looking amongst 70 gals could find the 30 year old guy who she Wouldn't find attractive 30 years ago, nor would she be attracted to him Now if he aged Well over 30 years -- she does now, even though he's No Catch amongst his age group @30.

- He doesn't look that "good", but he doesn't look bad, but he's not healthy or has some mental or emotional disability that doesn't have to be known about, and his self-confidence due to it & past dating experiences, is Shot. The "supple youth" factor still plays into it for the 70 year old, cerebrally.

In a nutshell what I can't buy -- although anything is technically possible -- is a 70 year old, even a looker for her age, being in a Solidified Relationship with a decent looking, healthy 30 year old guy when $$ plays no role, either. A hookup, or even a FWB? A stretch, but I can buy that one.


I really have no idea how they met or what their relationship is about. She just told me she was seeing someone when we spoke last week.She said he was younger but she didn't tell me how much younger but my mom did. She also told me that my sister's new boyfriend is black,so going by her Facebook page I think I know who he is(the only black guy who is Facebook friends with both my sister and my mom,lol). He seems like a decent guy.They both work in the same industry(travel) and share some views about politics and social justice. That's really all I know about their relationship. Oh and my sister is hot,lol.

http://bestnetworx.com/uploader/files/208/13607035_10154195102476280_3399649350362985120_n.jpg
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 6/22/2018 4:06:37 AM
Ideally, I would prefer only 3 years younger or 3 years older that looks good for their age.
 Tech30
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Posted: 6/22/2018 9:50:25 AM
I dont think its always more older women with younger men. I know a girl my age who was with a 65 year old for about 7 years, and i know a 50 year old woman with a 38 year old man...

What about overweight women with thin men? I see this a lot.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 6/22/2018 10:48:49 AM

I really have no idea how they met or what their relationship is about.

That's why I wouldn't put much stock in it being a Solidified Relationship-Relationship, given the significant Key difference in age -- sans significant issues with he himself that's not known, when $$ is not a factor into the equation. If in Vegas, I wouldn't hesitate to throw down some nice $$ on that, if a Gods-eye POV came into play to give the true answer to it all. :)

I dont think its always more older women with younger men. I know a girl my age who was with a 65 year old for about 7 years

I agree. When there's a Wow difference in age, it's almost always Older Guy -> Younger Gal. Almost always it's $$ coming into play, but if it's not, I can see the genders flipping on that, but it wouldn't be a Serious Relationship with the guy @30, lady @65+. It'd be more of a FWB. Which there are significantly older women who don't look that bad, and it's an interesting endeavor to pork a truly old lady. But to be truly An Item? If it were to be so, and $$/fame were not an issue, you can bank that the guy @30-40 has some health and/or mental issues if he's chasing that. But you can also bank with more confidence that although it may be talked about as a true item, that they're Not, and it's just a FWB.

and i know a 50 year old woman with a 38 year old man...

That's more understandable and not shocking for a serious Relationship.
 ssm508
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Posted: 6/22/2018 12:56:33 PM

i know a 50 year old woman with a 38 year old man...


In my viewpoint, a 10-15 year age difference was the gray area / general boundary for myself possibly having a serious relationship with an older woman. If the age difference was higher than 15 years, then most likely it would be a FWB / casual relationship.
 CBGB77
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Posted: 6/22/2018 10:57:19 PM
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/avyq5p/the-40-year-age-gap-what-its-like-to-date-across-the-generations
 Like2dance
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Posted: 6/25/2018 8:39:49 PM
The only relationship I can see for a fellow with an older woman is to be adopted by her.
 jco415
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Posted: 6/26/2018 5:29:05 PM
I see no reason to be concerned either way...as long as it works and both are happy, for whatever reasons...go for it!
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