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 floatman
Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 76
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Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Say it with me again. Foreplay.

Its one of the best things that can happen between a couple. Unless you're both uber excited and want to do a quickie, then get down to some foreplay. It'll rev up her engines as well as my own. Besides, whats not to enjoy about foreplay anyway? Some people.
 Redmaid70
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 77
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Posted: 12/16/2008 4:15:29 PM
I too am an ongoing forplayer.
I find the texting and teasing an incredible buildup. It should not be restricted to just the body, though that tends to come later, you do need to stimulate the mind and senses. But again some men just want the cherry off the sundae.
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 78
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Posted: 1/28/2009 11:03:41 AM
Don't look at me, I love making a girl hot and wet and having her beg for it. It makes the sex more intense and personal when you know what combination works and gets her started. And she usually gives as good as she gets in my experience.
 Indestructible23
Joined: 1/15/2009
Msg: 79
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Posted: 2/11/2009 1:51:29 PM
I love foreplay. I usually wrestle with my girlfriend. She'll wrap her thighs around my neck and choke me for about half an our, while I'm rubbing her thighs. Well before then we're both hot and bothered but we want to build suspense if you will. I'll know when she wants me to start rubbing elsewhere when she starts to play with her nipples, then I'll rub her vagina slightly, almost tickling it. Then after a few minutes of that, I start to finger.....and you know where this is going.
 denim_daze
Joined: 1/17/2009
Msg: 80
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Posted: 2/16/2009 9:46:44 AM


told the guy I recently started sleeping with he needs to put some forplay into "play"



i think OP should switch it to 'more'play haha!
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 2/16/2009 10:28:04 AM
WTF???

Since when did this thread become the Penthouse Forum?

I love foreplay. I usually wrestle with my girlfriend. She'll wrap her thighs around my neck and choke me for about half an our, while I'm rubbing her thighs. Well before then we're both hot and bothered but we want to build suspense if you will. I'll know when she wants me to start rubbing elsewhere when she starts to play with her nipples, then I'll rub her vagina slightly, almost tickling it. Then after a few minutes of that, I start to finger.....and you know where this is going.

Eww.
 redkatt
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 2/16/2009 4:22:40 PM
He truly may be clueless which means you may want to "teach" him.

Show him what you like and hopefully he'll pick up on it.

Men typically take pleasure in turning their partner on...if yours doesn't then that really may be a whole other issue.

Good Luck!
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 2/16/2009 4:29:25 PM
the OP asks, " are alot of guys this clueless as to what a female wants?"

they are selfish and inconsiderate and they believe that once they start pistoning in and out you'll get all excited and not worry about the foreplay.

FOOLS!!!

a wise man from Brookfield Ohio once said, "You must always warm up the cookie before you consume it." i believe he was right.
 ByronHayes
Joined: 1/30/2009
Msg: 84
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Posted: 2/16/2009 4:54:14 PM
uhmmmm i prefer foreplay and prolonged cunn_lingus to actual penetration. i think i'm the exact opposite to that guy because i'm all about pleasing than to be pleased. And women aren't into that too much either... they say they are but really aren't.

women need to stop assuming men can read their minds even if their words don't match..an communicate what you're thinking. otherwise it's not going to go anywhere..
 GottaJustGetEachOther
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 85
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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:08:15 AM
Boo hoo hoo.....I find this happens ALL the time. I think foreplay is a lost art. I'm sick of men who just go for the goal. Stick it in, pump as hard as you can, finish.....and I mean they are finished when they finish!!!

From now on I'm making a new rule, if you want the sweet stuff you have to participate in at LEAST 30 min of foreplay first!!!

Maybe that will be my next tattoo across my forehead....LOL
 moto-rider71
Joined: 4/30/2009
Msg: 86
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Posted: 5/5/2009 9:12:44 AM
long lasting foreplay is awesome....the longer the better.....
 jakeya99
Joined: 5/9/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 5/5/2009 10:50:48 AM
Sex is wierd.

A guy needs zero foreplay. He's got wood and he's ready to roll. A woman is hardly ever ready to roll. You need to warm her up. Guys know, we see boobs, we're ready.

Guys have to hold out as long as possible despite our urges to let go. We count backwards, think of baseball... blah blah. Coming too soon is seen as a no-no.

Girls can come as much and as soon as is humanly possible. If she cums in seconds, that the fun girl at the picnic.

It all comes down to we have to do what the women want because they hold the key to the vagina. Plain and simple. Is it fair? No way is it fair, but that's the rules of the game.

I think too much foreplay can get boring and it loses it's initial excitement as I want to get down to the action... but I have to play the game for my girlfriend. Boo-hoo for me... BOO HOO FOR MEN!!
 GottaJustGetEachOther
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 88
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Posted: 5/5/2009 11:01:02 AM
Ok jakeya99 let's do a compromise. One day you do it like the man wants it and the next day you do it to please the woman. Now everybody can be happy some of the time :)
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 5/5/2009 11:03:13 AM
Foreplay is very important. I love to give and receive. When one gets in the middle aged years, its better to take your time and prolong the pleasure, provided of course you have the time.

Forchecking in Hockey is what wins Hockey Games too!
Sorry..I'm a hockey fan and just had to say that!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 5/5/2009 12:17:45 PM
Did the groundhog see his shadow?
 coinoperatedgirl
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 91
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Posted: 5/5/2009 12:31:39 PM
It sounds like he is just a selfish lover. He can't be that clueless. I mean even in the most basic porn which the majority of men have watched, the chick gets pleasured before she gets banged.
He is far too eager, and thoughtless.
 Biplane024
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 92
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Posted: 5/5/2009 7:18:51 PM
Any guy who does not give the lady several orgasm's before actually having sex does not know that they are doing. Nothing like playing around and finally having the lady say "I cannot take this anymore, I want you inside me" and then you know that the foreplay worked.
 openlover35
Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 93
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Posted: 5/6/2009 12:33:42 PM

He barly even gives the time to take my bra or anything off.. thats fine for a quicky.. but not everytime... are alot of guys this clueless as to what a female wants?

Clueless would be an understatement.
"Selfish" and plain dense would fit more into HIS category. I'd have to tell him to beat feet....move on to someone who isn't so self centered, OP.
 Mustang065
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 94
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Posted: 5/7/2009 4:14:16 AM

Yeah,,some guys are clueless. I was with my guy for 2 yrs (FWB) and he still didnt understand he concept of foreplay, which is one of the reasons i ended it. He considered it that i was being aggressive by suggesting things like the way i like to be touched,,,, where,,,etc,,,, and he hates aggressive women. lol So yeah,,'some' guys are utterly clueless and 'un-teachable'. lol


2 years and you are calling us clueless?
 trailgirl
Joined: 7/1/2008
Msg: 95
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Posted: 5/7/2009 5:13:20 PM
I agree ^^^^^^^^^

If stating your needs in the bedroom was considered aggressive, how would you state your needs in any other area of your life with that man? I guess what we don't know is HOW you stated your needs. Some egos need very careful handling.
 unique30s_couple
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 96
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Posted: 5/8/2009 11:18:55 AM
LOL oh my!! Sadly i must admit that my man had to help me learn what i liked, and then took the time to show me what he liked. It appears before I met him I was the clueless one. The women i have been with (yes I'm bi) havent been great at filling me in on what they want either. Perhaps if we'd stop pointing fingers and start shareing our thoughts (both ways) more we'd be more productive.... and happy :) But thats just my personal opinion.
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 97
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Posted: 5/8/2009 11:26:37 AM
Remember before you Tee Off To Hollar " 4 "

Well every guy is a little different like every lady is you know.

Sounds like he's just so glad to have a woman that puts out that he can't wait figuring if he doesn't hit it fast and hard you might change your mind...
 Hush!
Joined: 4/17/2009
Msg: 98
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Posted: 5/8/2009 11:46:28 AM

Boo hoo hoo.....I find this happens ALL the time. I think foreplay is a lost art.


Right with u here (not for the rest, but this part)...I dont know if its the age? My sexual partners have been around my age and really, there wasnt much foreplay. An ex didnt understand it at all...women have more than a vagina and nipples...I showed him more than once what foreplay is and which touches etc he can enjoy...but he never got the hint that I would like it as well...so stupid (yeah ok, I should have said sth but really, how dumb can a man be???)

So is it the age, lack of experience, lack of thinking, lack of understanding a women? Im not talking for all men here, again, thats just my experience as well...now I dont put up with it...I say what I want and if that doesnt work Im out.

Thumps up for the men here that say they enjoy foreplay not necessarily for them but for their woman
 pleasurelimits
Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 99
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Posted: 5/8/2009 12:07:07 PM
No it is not, I like to think most men have the thought of using foreplay in a seductive manner that has their SO at the point of cumming prior to penetration. this builds the experience for both of you, you should be at the point of 'for gods sake f**k me already' at that point.
 Trishinwi2009
Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 100
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Posted: 5/8/2009 12:15:24 PM
Do you talk online or thru text at all through out the day? Try telling him what you'd like to do for him VIVIDLY and see if he'll play back and that will give him time to think about all the endless ways he could pleasure you before he is even in the room. =]

Sometimes my foreplay starts days before hand (I had a long distance relationship for about 4 months which brought this on)...builds anticipation and excitement. I love it!
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