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 LyricSerendipity
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 180
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Wow...I guess I'm a freak and I didn't know it.

I didn't read this entire thread, but it seems like a lot of people don't find it stimulating to say things to your lover, things that aren't at all appropriate in most situations, in the heat of passion. There's a fine line between saying things in an erotic and sexy way...and being degrading and a turn off. Not everyone can pull it off. Dirty talk and saying things you wouldn't ever say to someone in any other circumstance is a fun way to spice things up.

Of course, you should determine what things are a turn off before you say them and ruin a mood. If you agree that calling your lover your hot little sl*t during sex heightens things for both of you...I don't think that's degrading at all.

People like all kinds of things. Sometimes just the fact that something is supposed to be taboo or inappropriate is kinda hot.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 184
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Posted: 12/15/2011 1:27:35 PM
I am a fan of rough sex talk when it's appropriate. Wouldn't offend me in the least. Now, I draw the line at the *c* word being yelled out during a hot sex session.
 Agallah005
Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 186
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Posted: 12/16/2011 3:31:59 PM
yeah, how much ARE you paying for these ladies? I've yet to hear a woman want me to call her a **** or a whore
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 187
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Posted: 12/16/2011 3:51:53 PM


Where did you learn this rubbish from? I certainly don't like being called "****" or "slut" or whatever nastiness issues from the mouths of men who don't respect women.

Roleplay is all about the "play". It is not disrespect, if I know he doesn't really feel that I am a ****,**** or whore. It's a game, and nothing more. Just like when a man and a woman wrestle with each other. If I know he wont ever really body slam me or cause me any harm, then he is just showing his strength over mine in a playful way, and it's hot. I like tender, gentle love making. I also like being that slutty ****. I wear both hats, and can switch on a dime. So if someone I love and find attractive tells me to "Take this d*ck, ****" ok I'll be a good girl and comply baby.

I'm with you ~ if one doesn't know the difference between what goes on in the privacy of their own sex-capades vs. their daily lives, I'd have an issue with this type of talk. But I've not been in a position where the bedroom antics were taken out of that context. He can call me whatever he wants ~ as long as it's not "Mommy." Now that would creep me the hell right out. **shudder**

~OT~ This is another one of those "to each their own" things.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 191
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Posted: 12/19/2011 12:56:49 AM
Its called roleplaying. When you are with someone for several years and you are constantly just "making love". It can get old. But toss on a some stripper heels and skirt, meet up at a bar like you dont know eachother. Let your partner pick you up and take you home and treat you like a slutty stripper and say things like in your Original post and it really really spices things up.

I donno. Maybe some people can just "make love" for a life time. But for some people they like to change it up and make things new and intersting. Of cours ethats just one example. And then no doubt there are other reasons women like having things like that said to them. But Im sure they already answered what their reasons are on prev pages
 gerrrycda
Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 192
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Posted: 12/19/2011 6:42:12 AM
There's no limit as to what get some people off. Think of the sickest perversion possible, and there will be people who get off on it . Being dominant or submissive, golden showers, being administered pain or receiving it, physically abuse during sex while giving or receiving, giving/receiving specific pain, or just doing it in the old fashioned missionary position via slam, bam, thank-you, m'am.

The only thing that limits what people like about sex is their imagination.
 SugahPunkin
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 199
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Posted: 12/27/2011 9:08:55 AM
The longer Im here the more I appear more clearly to myself that I am not the Lady I thought I was.

There is a difference in a sexual encounter and being called 'names' and being in an argument and being called 'names'.
Every woman is different but I wonder how many women all these years have been reserved in their sexual expressions for fear of showing their true selves? And have you changed somewhat over these years this thread has been around?

When I was much younger my thoughts, wants, desires were much more "innocent" in context but as Ive matured and allowed myself to enjoy sex more for myself my cravings have somewhat changed, maybe due to experience?

There has been times when sex was very missionary and "thoughtful" and Ive completely enjoyed it. But there has also been primal urges where abandonment has occurred and Ive let loose and enjoyed it too.

I suppose according to this thread I am no lady at all. I like at times to be choked with hair pulled, spanked, thrown over the dining table spread on my belly and told this is what Ive been made for. xplicit? well... If this is too graphic Im sorry but not every woman wants sweet butterfly kisses on her forehead as she is asked may I enter you?
In a relationship where trust is communicated then all things are good to go.

But it never occurred to me that alot of women are more discreet in their sexual escapades.

This is really interesting to read. I do know none of the women I work with have done "wild" things.. which is to them wild but to me tame. So, I rarely discuss anything with them. I dont fit in.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 1/7/2012 8:16:08 PM
I'm simply suprised that a thread topic like this actually made it to the forums. Haha


Some women like to be talked dirty to, or choked, or bitten, etc etc. To each his own.
 bottomboy1
Joined: 7/1/2010
Msg: 207
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Posted: 1/7/2012 9:56:27 PM
its called acting....you watch to much porn.
 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
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Posted: 1/11/2012 2:50:40 AM
Okayyyyyyy ... Well I always aim to please .... How about if I say, "**** PLEASE take this****

 AngelofHonesty
Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 215
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Posted: 1/12/2012 11:58:57 PM
SEX is suppose to be dirty, nasty, erotic, raunchy, so the whole verbal usuage rather it be deamining names just adds to the filth, it's just makes it that much hotter, trust me it's not just ladies that are exceptive to this......I have a bit of a sailors mouth in the bedroom myself...men don't seem to mind... And for the record if a hot guy told me "...itch take this .ick" I would and wouldn't be offended at all...Come on, that's HOT...ok thanks now I'm horny
 fresh food
Joined: 9/4/2009
Msg: 216
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Posted: 1/13/2012 12:43:47 AM
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 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 221
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Posted: 2/24/2012 7:21:31 PM
I must be a freaky deek because a little "rough talk" doesn't offend me in the least in the bedroom. After the fun, joking and giggling about it is awesome. Fun times. :)
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 223
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Posted: 2/24/2012 7:32:18 PM
So if I screamed HOW YOU DOIN?! it'd be ok? lmfao


I would more than likely laugh my ass off (like I am doing now) after you said it, and it may ruin the moment. Now, if you said "B1tch! How YOU doin?" it may have more of an erotic effect.

 mainelyhere
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 224
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Posted: 2/24/2012 7:37:53 PM
i want to know who actually says "**** take this****?

they sound like ghetto trash .
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 226
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Posted: 2/24/2012 7:42:28 PM

B1TCH!!! HOW YOU DOIN?!?!

AHAHAHAHA, I couldn't do that with a straight face.



Freakin A! lol

It would be funny as hell!
 mainelyhere
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 227
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Posted: 2/24/2012 7:48:47 PM
are you talking to me crystal?
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 234
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Posted: 3/28/2012 4:29:56 PM
I wouldn't and don't like it at all! I hate being called those things. Some women are into that whole disrespect thing-I don't know why but it just goes to show how he feels a woman "should" behave and tolerate. It only seems to me like she has poor self-esteem...who knows!! Some men think women are supposed to give blowjobs...not me! It reminds me of a sugardaddy. They don't want to feel loved and cared about? Just buy her what she wants when she wants it? I feel bad for them, it's like they're getting used.


Girl, that's totally NOT how it goes. Dirty rough tallk during sex has nothing to do with having poor self esteem. Some like it ...some don't. Some think it's a turn on and some don't. If it's not your thing....don't do it/accept it. Simple as that.

Also, you have a weird way of thinking about things (imo). Pleasuring a man orally is something that is a HUGE turn on for me. Just seeing the pleasure in his face is awesome. I feel very loved and cared about when I give a nice long blowjob because I only give them to the ones I love and have a relationship with. It's even better when he returns the favor. Just my opinion.
 DerekDiabloCBC
Joined: 11/5/2011
Msg: 237
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Posted: 3/29/2012 2:28:20 AM
If the girl is ghetto to begin with, and has her whole bottom rack of teeth permanent gold, and sells dope and works at the strip club and has a .38 special in her purse, I may just use some of the aforementioned language as she will not respect anybody who is not as deadly as the dope boys, gangsters, gang members, and pimps that they ususally encounter. The fact that I'm not trying to capitalize off them or their body and am nice before and after the dirty-whorism, makes it (such dirty talk) something to be shared as a couple would a porn movie or sex toy; which is to say an abberation from normal conduct. I hang out with alot of girls that I refer to as, "this bxtch... ect", and to them it's normal. Also we calls girls "pvssy-azz-hoes" pretty frequently and with abandon to no complaint...

On the other hand, if it's Sister Sara with the two mules I may keep it a bit more pg-13... Basically if you can take a girl/woman/slut to her upmost or lowest depravity and bang her to the point where she feels so degraded and dirty in a fun way that she will not resist anything, including your friends joining in, drugs in her nether regions, or filthy language, then she is very into this sort of talk and conduct. Women like "role-playing"-type stuff, especially as they get older. So their fantasy is often to get destroyed by a gangster/badboy sort of lad. And that is where I come in...

Again, a sweet, innocent girl who makes a face like they're going down a roller-coaster and closes their eyes and makes random squeals while they ride me, will get exactly what they should; me thinking about porn girls while I have some fun in their boring shell.

Just saying. Ha...
 sirsoul
Joined: 3/15/2012
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Posted: 3/30/2012 11:28:03 AM
op, every **** is different.
 imtrue2heart
Joined: 3/25/2012
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Posted: 4/4/2012 3:26:24 PM
sometimes even a really good classy respectfull woman likes to "roleplay" and feel"dirty".. Its sometimes fun to think your doing something very naughty!! Its not unusual for a woman to fantasize about being man handeled and abused sexually = but by the right person..
 SpittyKitty
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 240
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Posted: 4/4/2012 3:57:02 PM
I haven't read ANY of these posts past the first one written by the OP. He wrote:

This is the type of thing women like to hear during sex. So my question is "why do women like to hear demeaning things about them during sex." I just do not get it. Women like to be called b*tches', whores and other disrespectful names that they otherwise would not except from a man. So why ladies. Why do you like to be cursed out while have sex with a man?


I DO NOT like being cursed out anytime. I find even this question offensive.
Nobody and I mean nobody ever better call me a whore. NEVER.
And I can be a real b*tch if they do.
If they do it again, there's the door..."don't let it hit you in the azz on the way out".
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 241
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Posted: 4/4/2012 6:15:08 PM
Some women do scream obscenities when having sex as do some men. These are people who basically see sex as animal and dirty. It is not the language of real lovers I would say. I may be wrong.
 russell5417
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 244
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Posted: 4/5/2012 6:39:43 AM
"**** take this****................ the beginning of some "thug" wedding vows...????
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 245
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Posted: 4/5/2012 1:14:02 PM

Some women do scream obscenities when having sex as do some men. These are people who basically see sex as animal and dirty. It is not the language of real lovers I would say. I may be wrong.


And.....you would be wrong. ;)
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