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Joined: 3/5/2004
Msg: 3
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Takes too long.
Makes me more lonely.
Is more fun with someone watching.
Has it's place.

Masturbation could never replace the mental/emotinal/intellectual stimuli, afforded by another person (man/woman)

/me hums "One is the loneliest number....dum dum dee"
Joined: 9/27/2005
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Posted: 10/2/2005 5:24:34 PM
nice to see that im not the only one in the that is still "untouched" and im 26... personally I am the type that chooses not to put too much emphasis on the whole sex thing. i'll agree to a somewhat degree to what you're saying, but I am not sure bout the whole "confidence thing. its more along the lines of relieving yourself... but hey if you feel confident after doing so, more the power to you. VIRGINS RULE!!!!!!
Joined: 5/1/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/2/2005 10:49:47 PM
Masterbation rocks, no doubt. However, once you have had amazing sex with another person, masterbation will always be a substitute for it.
Joined: 3/5/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/3/2005 7:38:35 AM
masturbation has lost it's fun.
 Ruby Lips
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 10/4/2005 7:46:17 AM
Whoa! I had no idea so many guys were still virgins like that? I tend to think all guys get a lot while younger. Geez I really feel for you fellas. I can also relate to the lonliness. Damn shame you have to experience that in your prime years too. Maybe more of us women do need to step up to the plate. Jes sayin is all. It really ain't funny when your going through it. I understand that.
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 10/4/2005 5:39:20 PM

God I wish I was 23 again! shit!!!!...
Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 5/26/2006 11:15:06 AM
I know you asked the guys this but for me .. it just makes me more lonely... wishing there was someone else doing it for me lol Yeah it feels good but afterwards all the other feels are still there.
Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 6/5/2006 2:21:59 PM
masterbation is the best thing for men.. I get so pissed off at mankind.. when he has been on his own for like 2 yrs after the devorice and then he has spent all this time with him and his happy hand..

Then he starts a relationship with a women .. he stops doing it.. well what happends is this.. here the women is use to have 5 or so climaxes.. and at least 6 or 7 times a day.. weekends.. // weekdays at least 3 to 5 times do to work and life.. anyway

well he stops and the man dose not understaind why he can't keep it up.. he dose not understaind why he cant please her like he use too...

well men all i have too say is this.. when you start dating a women.. DON'T STOP MASTERBATING.. PLEASE US WOMEN ARE BEGGING YOU.. WE WANT THE 5 TO 7 TIME OF SEX.. SO DONT SABATAUSE IT..

Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/22/2009 1:47:07 PM
Hey Matt urbation

Matt why feel lonely in the first place

You dont need a woman to make u feel unlonely

Sex doesnt stop the loneliness either .

Funny how it changes with time have a buddy whoes on a dating site as well and as you do when mates have a chat we talk about sh--

He made me laugh he said
i long for a woman and how good it would be to go for walks hug and kiss all that stuff
but as soon as i have a wank ,it doesnt matter lol

Matt stay a virgin until you meet the one for your heart that blows you away because once you lose that virginity that experience and emotions of the first time can never be felt again its a one time feeling .
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 12/25/2009 8:46:28 AM
Oh, absolutely, I agree with you, and I'm glad some guy finally said it!

Masturbation satisfies the PHYSICAL part of loneliness. It does NOT, in my experience, cure EMOTIONAL loneliness, that feeling of wanting to simply look into someone's eyes, feel the heat of her heart and breath, be able to talk with her and really connect with her.

But it is a great ego boost, confirms that one's libido isn't dead, and you can't get rejected by a centerfold or a girl on the screen in a porno, so it does feel incredibly empowering to fantasize and fulfill those fantasies (in a side-stepping kind of way to actually interacting with her).

Plus, of course, masturbation is disease and pregnancy-free, so it's the safest form of "sex" there is.

Since sex begins in the mind anyway, you can do anything you want and live it out through masturbation. But, again, after the seed has been spilled, there is a further sense of isolation, for me anyhow. Maybe I like to cuddle after lol.

For actual interaction, and to remain disease-free, I recommend phone and cyber-(webcam) sex. You DO feel a "sort" of connection with the other person, in your souls, even though your bodies are not touching. Yeah, you don't feel the real heat,'s an alternative. Find someone willing to do it without charging you. Maybe start up such a "long-distance relationship" with someone here-!

Oh, the original thread is from 2005 lol. THAT'S funny. I'm wondering how many times the dude has choked his chicken since then.
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