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 john52758
Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 25
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Geez! I could not even imagine not going down....and all around !
 thickpipe
Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 9/25/2007 5:43:23 PM
I like to eat p****y. You know I am having the same issue with my girlfriend. She likes it hen I go down on her but she won't put the hog in her mouth.
 thickpipe
Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/25/2007 5:47:48 PM
HA HA HA HA HA!! STINKWEEDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I always called a nasty smellin kooch "ViVa Laree" or even better "Vinigans Farm"
 Keithslegacy
Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 28
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oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 11:12:40 PM
I've never had a problem with it......unless it reeks down there.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:26:20 PM
Either way, one partner will feel neglected and resentful over time. You can bet that the free ride won't last forever.
 LaddyMike
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:36:49 PM
Both partners should want to please the other. It is very selfish for guys to expect head and
to not recipricate. Part of the fun of sex is giving pleasure and making sure your lady is satisfied.
 Wildcard74
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:44:09 PM
Giving a woman oral sex is like an amusement park for my senses. Only thing is that everyone is different and what works for some may not work for others. When performing oral, communication is a must in telling your partner what feels best and what doesn't.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:54:51 PM
Personally, I liken oral sex to being at the controls of a pinball machine. You can push buttons, rock or tilt the machine, be aggressive or gentle with the flippers, and each action has a unique reaction with bells, whistles and sirens heralding each successful twist and turn. You, and only you (legal disclaimer: with her consent, of course), are completely in control of the outcome at that point. And...and...if you're really, really good, the machine will gyrate into an orgasmic frenzy, signalling your ascent into the ranks of the sublime.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 9/26/2007 10:31:50 PM
It all depends, doesn't it? If you truly love something to the point of being passionate, then you will devour it...that is, to crave and devour it like you've never eaten before, and to savour like you've never tasted something so exquisite in your life , and to feel and realize that your sole purpose and your meaning for existence was this one fleeting moment in time. To truly envelope yourself in another and to become one with another soul means nothing can be taboo or grotesque. Ah, whatever...what do I know?
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 9/26/2007 10:44:32 PM
^ nothing that a little Febreeze wouldn't fix.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 9/27/2007 7:43:38 AM
uhm...a guy no good at it?
Teach him what to do....
If you're at the point where you're this intimate.....u should be able to tell him what feels good and what doesn't....
A willing student scores big in my book.


OT: Selfishness has no place in a relationship. Someone that refuses to give their partner the pleasure they seek....is probably just as selfish in other areas of life.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 9/27/2007 12:20:22 PM
a woman that knows what she's doing doesn't need her hands....
 pet_tech
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Posted: 9/28/2007 10:36:13 AM
...........Amazing.
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 12/2/2008 7:58:54 AM
WTF?

there are also WOMEN who insist on RECEIVING oral sex but will refuse to reciprocate..
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/2/2008 8:07:48 AM
She better if I do...that's a recipe for disaster, sex wise...
 CAbimale
Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 40
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Posted: 12/2/2008 9:48:04 AM
I would never allow a woman to go down on me without returning the favor. In fact I met a woman last year that at age of 56 never had oral done to her, it took sometime to convince her to give it a try, once she allowed me the pleasure and she had a toe curling orgasm she was hooked. Now we have a good open sexual relationship that always includes mutual oral pleasures.
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 12/2/2008 1:39:35 PM
...and the radio goes to Alice Cooper...all together now, you over 35's..."Only Women Bleed...!" Ha!!
 sexyisback!
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 42
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Posted: 2/24/2011 1:48:09 PM
actually I've experienced it FAR more the other way

women who love to receive but won't give.

so it can cut both ways, for sure
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