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 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 129
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i think you're missing my point though guys.

i'm talking about the "oh! what just happened?" comment. you don't know what happened? COME ON!

maybe i can just multi task, but if the sex is great i'm thinking "let's make it even better" if it's not, i'm thinking about work or a funny movie.

i know men are visual. things like spit bridges, catching you looking at the action, watching breasts jiggle turns them on. i'm conscious of it, aware of it, it turns me on when they get turned on so i am going to.....guess what.....turn them on!

i'm not the just lay there and take it kinda girl and hope the simple in and out friction gets it done. it doesn't

sex for me is mental as well as physical. i want to be talked to during it, i wwant to hear my name, i want to be appreciated when i've done something that they LOVE. i want to know about it so i can do it again.

people who can't be in tune with their partners mentally during sex have my sympathy. nothing is better, not even snowballing

als, just my opinion, tunnel vision is rarely a good thing. i work out, i know that not only do i have to concentrate on mind/muscle control but at the same time i have to keep telling myself i can do one more rep all this with headphones on.

i must be truly amazing
 OneCoolChick
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 130
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 8:48:30 AM
I am in tune mentally with my sex partners... I don't think any of that stuff you mention above requires that much thought is my point... with me... it just happens naturally. No thought required (or very little).
 kisama
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 131
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 8:53:10 AM
No offense SICutie but if I knew you were putting so much effort into it a small dark part of me would begin to wonder if you were faking the pleasure too.

Now I admit that's just my insecurity but I would not enjoy myself for too long with a woman who was always calculating.
 -lebanese-lion--
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 132
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 8:53:37 AM
you are amazing SI, truley, and i like to comment on one more rep... my kinda girl!! pushing it to the next level!!!

and the vocal part of sex... you gotta have that!!!
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 133
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:08:32 AM
maybe things just don't come naturally for me onecoolchick. i'm ok with it. i guess it's like some people can get straight As without cracking a book and some have to study. i don't know.

k - yeah that is TOTALLY your own insecurity. you have GOT to leave that behind in the sack. don't be THAT guy

lion - ha! thanks.
 OneCoolChick
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 134
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:09:28 AM
hahahahahaha!

I guess I'm just a 'natural' sex fiend!

I mean...
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 135
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:15:45 AM
i'm a natural control freak and obsessive compulsive. wanna trade?
 timber_wolf
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 136
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:49:50 AM
ok let me explain SIcutie 'what just happened' was a comment from a woman who was wondering what i did to her to make her.....er..um for a lack of a better term ...'blow her load'..and by that i mean she just got in touch with her g-spot. if ya can't understand that well...maybe ya need to find someone who can show ya.
 Little Whip
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 137
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 9:57:54 AM
OT: I was always taught that sharing was caring.
 guapisimo
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 138
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 10:08:40 AM
If you expect her to go down on you, you better wise up and quit acting like a kid!
If you can't handle the heat.....get out of the kitchen!!
 jacey12
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 139
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2005 2:36:52 PM
I agree , if you expect her to go down, expect a kiss, kissing is a part of the intimacy... if you dont want her kissing you, dont expect oral. I see nothing wrong with kissing after oral, although been with partners that did mind it.
 hailfun
Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 140
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2005 7:40:26 AM
jdbaby............I bet u do..............
 rphjrtampa
Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 141
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2005 8:22:05 AM
Hell yeah! Very much a turn on!
 Munch
Joined: 11/30/2004
Msg: 142
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2005 8:28:23 AM
(quote)Are you not clean? Turn the tables around on you, do you want her to kiss you after you give oral to her?(/quote)

Hell yes.
 timber_wolf
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 143
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2005 8:50:23 AM
she better not be shy!!!!! cause i'm sure not (well about sex)
 amust2c
Joined: 9/28/2005
Msg: 144
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Posted: 10/6/2005 8:51:55 AM
Wait how old are you - 23, that explains it all.
 DoWnUnDeRGiRL
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 145
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Posted: 10/6/2005 10:33:28 AM
well cum is like food or any other thing you shove in your mouth. Once its swallowed then its SWOLLOWED so then why not cause its all gone right? Now if your asking about her spitting it into your mouth well that is a diffrent question lol
 OneCoolChick
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 146
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2005 11:42:36 AM

do you want her to kiss you after you give oral to her?


Yes, please. Kiss me after you've gone down on me.
 NPGMuSiCCLuB
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 147
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/6/2005 11:46:45 AM
Id go as far as sucking my own cum off or out of the Gash & spiting it in the ladys mouth to swollow.Thats pretty hot to me.
 madamx7316
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 148
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Posted: 10/6/2005 3:15:46 PM
bravo NPG
 Holy Grail
Joined: 8/29/2005
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Posted: 10/6/2005 3:45:02 PM
Whats all this "if you are clean" mean? What does being clean have to do with kissing afterwards?
 kilmer101
Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 150
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/10/2005 7:21:24 AM

Whats all this "if you are clean" mean?

Correct me if I am wrong here - but I think "clean" within the confines of this thread refers to "Healthy" as in you're not gonna be swappin disease around by doin it.
 guitar_obsession
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 151
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/10/2005 7:38:34 PM
I ALWAYS brush my teeth... you can't kiss after that... no thanks
 somecutechick
Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 152
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/11/2005 2:32:24 AM
how about h*ll NO
 gottameetme
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 153
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 10/11/2005 8:20:55 AM
OK...here goes. I have been with guys who will NOT kiss me after a blowjob and I have been with guys who will. About the guys who wont kiss you.....most of them have told me 'I'm not gay'. What does gay have to do with it.

You have to be comfortable with your sexuality to be able to kiss after oral...(moreso for some men). Personally I will kiss anytime after oral it doesn't bother me at all. I know where I have been and I am very comfortable with me and my past experiences so what the hay.
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