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 pitstop65
Joined: 4/16/2005
Msg: 274
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wasting too mush time with mr wrong thinking he's mr right only to find out you were wrong ...lol
 Always Active
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 275
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/20/2007 7:36:18 AM
NO such thing, same as other myths about there being Santa Claus, Tooth Fairies etc etc
 gonzofanmel
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 276
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Posted: 3/20/2007 9:41:17 AM
Because I haven't created him yet in my laboratory from my hidden fortress off the cliffs of Mt. Everest....I'm still working on my army of genetically mutated rubber chickens......One thing at a time, please!
 ascuteasabug
Joined: 8/8/2003
Msg: 277
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/20/2007 6:37:37 PM
WHAT??? No Santa Claus? Awww, now I'm gonna really cry.

Actually it's not Mr Right I want, it's Mr Right-for-me (and I think I found him - in the forums of all places)
 poeticjust
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 278
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/21/2007 6:43:48 PM
Because mr. right is too perfect of a person.. everyone has flaws. Depends on the person if the are willing to accept the person for their shortcomings. Alot of times they meet and they won't even know it, because that they are intwined in their lives. I guess that it depends if they "want to" find mr right.
 italiantexan
Joined: 10/16/2006
Msg: 279
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/21/2007 7:53:52 PM
Mr Right is located in the phone book, between Mr Riggetti and Mr Rigitoni. I am surprised more women dont realize this
 Thebestbeancounter
Joined: 10/11/2006
Msg: 280
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Posted: 3/21/2007 8:43:09 PM
Women usually don't find Mr Right.. it's usually Mr Right hopefully finds Miss Right.. While the woman hopes that Mr Right is really Mr Right.
 DreamSailor
Joined: 12/30/2006
Msg: 281
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Posted: 3/21/2007 8:48:17 PM
Why would you ask us? Are we not all looking because none of us really know where our perfect match is, do we? I would find a 'Happy Married' board, and ask there if I wanted this answer. My bet is they would say, 'Pick One', and be happy!
 Kush83
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 282
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:48:37 PM
I believe in Life we will meet A LOT of wrong people for us.......In reality we need these people.....so that when we do find the find the right person....we know the Difference!;)
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 283
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/21/2007 9:31:50 PM
"Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?"

Have all you gals looked in the ....... geezer asile at Wal-Mart?

The geezers fly off the shelves but if you get there when they get a new supply in ...... you're good to go.
 humancondition
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 284
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Posted: 3/22/2007 2:17:12 PM
Yep I got an answer 4 this one.Well ya see its simple.The answer is nothing is ever simple.The world is a fecked up mess.That sucksazz.Mother nature is a sadist.God is a maniac.And people live to suffer :D ( takes a bow.And moves on to other threads) Hope this has helped hon
 iamasiam
Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 285
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Posted: 3/22/2007 4:19:53 PM
Too right to be wrong tunnel vision, huh?
 stetsonman62
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 286
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/22/2007 4:53:35 PM
I have not been on here for years but from what i have seen on here. alot of the people on here say they are lookin but they are set on finding the perfect guy.
Well i hate to break the bad news to you folks but there are no perfect guys or ladies.
everyone has faults and you have to except their faults or you will be alone a very long time. for the people who think they are quote "HOT" please you maybe nice lookin but mother nature will reclaim that one day then all you are left with is the person you are inside.
stop lookin for "HOT" and look for what a person is and you might find the one person to make your life happy and loving.
But what do I know i am one of those hopeless romantic types
 Just another window
Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 287
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/22/2007 5:13:12 PM
I think it is just finding someone for either sex in general.There is always another window to look at and see if someone looks better/sounds better comes along .It seems as everyone is just not willing to see each person for who they are, it is all about looks, money and material things.
Everyone wants there share of the cake and to be able to eat too. Times have changed and with that so have people and their outlook on life and how people live it. People want the best of both worlds and many will lie ,cheat and steal to get it.
I'm not writing this with a negative outlook but just from chatting with people of both sexes this is what is happening. It is really hard to find someone that you 100% click with and most aren't willing to give you the time to see how far it may go.They want mr/miss perfect at first sight or they move along and some are just looking for a sex partner as they don't want anything serious.
Go figure ...I really don't look anymore and if there is such a thing as Mr.Right , then so be it and hopefully he'll bump into me soon.
Best of luck in finding the one who gives you many smiles.
 wwwwwhatever
Joined: 7/6/2006
Msg: 288
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/22/2007 5:14:36 PM
Because society has systematically eliminated every characteristic which actually makes a man, well, a man; further deminished every aspect thereof; therefore, Mr. Right exist only between the pages of Cosmo, further the folds of your mind...
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 289
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/22/2007 5:23:48 PM
How funny. I was NOT looking for Mr. Right. I was hoping Mr. Right For Me would find me. And, thankfully I'm a glass-half-full type personality because he did find me. Had I believed all of this negativity ~ I wouldn't have been open to the options in front of me.

Magazines, tv, movies, etc., played NO role in what/who I was hoping for ~ I made my own boundaries on traits, goals, interests, intellect, religious beliefs, sexual interests, etc., and had he not found me, I would have been just fine without a romantic interest in my life. Know yourself and take the time to get to know others ~ you just might be surprised what you discover along the way. JMO
 humancondition
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 290
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Posted: 3/22/2007 5:33:29 PM
hey what ? Im right here.Email me U silly bytches lol.Kidding.Carry on.
 studplayrico
Joined: 12/9/2005
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Posted: 3/29/2007 9:31:05 PM
Because he went out with Mr. Perfect.
 goddessoflightning
Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 292
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Posted: 5/3/2007 9:24:24 PM
Have you found him yet??????
 .Marc
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 293
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Posted: 5/4/2007 5:30:55 AM
Because finding someone that matches you is difficult.

Interacting with people is complicated. Finding someone with social quarks that are similar enough that you can live together forever is tough.
 wanderer1999
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 294
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Posted: 5/4/2007 6:21:23 AM
Lots of possible answers. Here's a few possible scenario's...

-You blew him off when he asked you to dance/for a date/for a phone number
-You scared him off with your desperation/neediness
-You made him think you were uninterested because you never call/e-mail guys
-You made him feel unimportant because you didn't make time to spend with him
-You made him feel like an object when you showed him off to your girlfriends
-You made him feel like a bank machine when you asked him to buy you things
-You appeared unapproachable after you turned down the five guys who asked you to dance before him
-Your friends dragged you away to the ladies room because they thought he wasn't right for you
-You lost his trust when he found out your photo/age/weight wasn't accurate
-You made him feel useless because you were unable to emotionally let him in
-You made him feel like he wasn't sexy because you wouldn't give him more physical attention
-You made him feel smaller when your conversations were always belittling of men
-You made him doubt your feelings when you became unwilling to fully commit
-You made him think you don't care because you never asked what he wanted
-You decided he wasn't Mr. Right because someone else told you so
-You deleted his e-mail without reading it
-You decided not to answer his e-mail because he had a fuzzy/no picture
-You decided not to answer his e-mail because he had spelling/grammatical errors in his profile
-You decided not to answer his e-mail because it didn't read like a literary masterpiece

-You lost him because he respected himself, and decided to find a woman who wasn't afraid of being Mrs. Right.

The morale of the story, just because you want Mr. Right, doesn't mean you actually deserve him.
 sunshine2900
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 295
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:00:17 PM
Hi Yummy fox

There is no such thing as Mr Right in the dating world. According to relationship expert. There is no Mr Right or Miss Right. You yourself have to make yourself a Miss Right or Mr Right. Looking for the girl or boy next door. Dont ask for the impossible.
Reach out and love and serve others. When people got to know who you are that you are a very lovable person willing to reach out and touch and make a difference in others life. People will just come knocking at your pathway. Look for the things that normal couple do while dating and dont ask for any expectation in return in a relationship. Just be geninue, be yourself. And proof to others that you are a person that is credible, geninue and honest. Approachable, easy to get along with. Help others and go the extra miles to help others in need. Be people oriented and love other. Then you will not have difficulty find the people to have fun, laid back and easy time to get along and go with the flow. Find out others interest and cultivate a geninue interest in other people's activities. Be postive, considerate, p0lite and fun to be with. In no time you will have friend to be around with, to share and enjoy life with. Good life and make yourself Miss Right first..
 bullielover62
Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 296
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Posted: 5/10/2007 1:22:32 PM

Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?

Cuz he's hiding under my desk at work......
 A New Adventure
Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 297
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Posted: 5/10/2007 1:36:42 PM
Wanderer1999 is right: we're wise enough to see right through the games and are fully aware of the excruciating details you look at that we're becoming more savvy of looking at them ourselves (IE: We know you'd turn a man down for spelling so we use a spell check, we know you'd turn a man down for having too dry of skin, so we moisturize as a result), and we know you test us and that's why we're all ways on our toes when we interact with you.
 Hott Buttered Soul
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 298
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Posted: 5/10/2007 1:51:37 PM
Why is it so hard to Ms. right..

Touche!
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