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 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 27
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The google search also shows other sites you're on, if you use the same name.

And I do have a stalker-turned troll!

But he's not very good at it the moron!
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 10/5/2005 8:59:34 PM
Nah, stalking is unwanted, and I'm just finding out if they are interested or not...
I really prefer IM's to emails.
I'm actually pretty shy, and a girl doesn't have to try very hard to send me running, if that's what she wants.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/5/2005 9:03:10 PM
Well, email is a start anyway....


btw...the reason so many of us in this thread are in the same ones as OTB is because great minds think alike!
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/5/2005 9:17:27 PM
LMFAO^^^^^
 MasterBart
Joined: 6/20/2004
Msg: 31
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Posted: 10/5/2005 9:27:18 PM
How come nobody's stalking me?! :(

I mean, even after I quit doing profile reviews and such...
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/5/2005 9:34:43 PM
I add a lot of ppl when planning a current POF get together so I can be sure to mail them with the party info
 BarnBabe
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 10/5/2005 9:47:04 PM
HB1... erm.... I.... uh....

you've arranged events before? Man oh man could I use your advise. No way.. no POSSIBLE way to contact everyone comming to my event.
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 10/5/2005 9:51:54 PM
Arduinna, some people find IMing to be much more comfortable--more like a real face to face conversation--than email is.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/5/2005 10:15:40 PM
norolim...you have mail

nite all

If you're going to stalk/lurk at least let the person know! LOL
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/5/2005 10:31:28 PM
As OTB said ...threads get more views than posts...
there are many who enjoy reading forums without posting....
I have received many mail asking about my views on something posted at the forums...click ontheir profile and...no last 5 posts.
maybe they are too shy to post...LOL.

At the moment I have 4 who added me for reasons better known to them.

We all have different uses for the favourites function.

I add someone..who is a forum pal...easier to email...or some who start great threads or have great posts...its easier to follow them...its not stalking....LOL

As for those who add me some I know some I dont..I NEVER remove anybody.(they remove themselves....I think we should not let it go to our heads..it doesnt mean if they ADD you youre hot..it could be just bookmarking...so they can follow your posts.

I receive far more mail from those who have not added me than whose who have.
I dont bother deleting mail either...the system automatically deletes mail older than 30 days.
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 10/6/2005 1:21:31 AM
@ Blu eyed...
yes they can....hardly anybody from my country posts at the forums...
Iam on only 1 persons list from my own country..the other 30+ are from outside my country.
I think Forumist use this function more generally.
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 10/6/2005 1:33:04 AM
can't people who've never even looked at the forums put someone on the favourite list by browsing the profiles....


Blu, that was my point back in post #16.

It looks like the thread has gotten away from OTB's original intent?
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 10/6/2005 1:43:16 AM
Tru blu,

Hey that rhymed-lol. Another bored early bird huh?

Well I wasn't sure of his intent but we might have drifted off a bit if we knew what it was?
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 10/6/2005 1:48:21 AM
OTB...you're a Brat..............silly phenomena you say

now its about time for another
 carribeanking7
Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 10/6/2005 2:26:25 AM
I like being stalked by you Wifey
 ripley65
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/6/2005 3:46:20 AM
Ive had some people email and comment on one of my posts and when i check their profile to see theirs,,,,they've never posted. I guess if they are secretly interested in ya,,this is their way of getting the gist of your personality. Ive heard some ppl say on here that they watch what they post for that reason. lol
 Naydra
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 10/6/2005 8:36:59 AM
Well, you're not on my favs list and I don't read threads on a forum by who has posted, rather by what the subject line is. Sometimes I have a response...most times I don't. Does that make me a lurker or a thread stalker?
 capedcrusader
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 10/6/2005 8:39:57 AM
I'm only on one person's fav list, and she doesn't post on the forums! :(

I guess the superhero business is going down the drain like the rest of the american economy.
 astrosky
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 10/6/2005 10:25:06 AM
I consider it flattery and don't worry about it much.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 10/6/2005 10:45:30 AM
Have fun with it!

Sometimes I just send a mail that says hey...caught you peeking!
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:15:44 AM
Why would someone put you on their favorites list, then shun all attempts at communication on your part?
Some really gorgeous girl is doing this to me right now.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:17:14 AM
Why does it bother you so much?
Maybe she just enjoys your posts.
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:18:07 AM
"Cause she's drop dead gorgeous!! I want a date!
 smith2267
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:19:29 AM
She's actually on the 500 hottest people list here...
Yeah, I know--what is she looking at me for? I wondered too
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 51
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:19:48 AM
Obviously she isn't interested or she would have responded to your inquiries.
Sorry but that's life.
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