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 GeorgiaBilly
Joined: 6/7/2006
Msg: 126
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This is a touchy subject indeed, yet its full of holes. Generally speaking woman who hang out with alot of guys, tend to be at one point boring and not very intelligent becasue at one point they have a mind set like a guy. And guys who work on cars tend to be not very intelligent, unless its just a hobby. After all mecahnics and body guys are just what they are. Grunts who know cars. And every guy that you meet you use a previous yard stick to measure the new guy. Yet your profile description says other wise. A little blue book, says either one thing, you s**** around unitl the right shorty comes along and you hit the sugar daddy jack pot or you have alot of guys friends indeed. In using your profile as an example, how many guys friends out there do you know who are into painting or anything other than cars. Furthermore in looking at your pictures, DO YOU HONESTLY BELEIVE THAT YOU CAN ONLY BE FRIENDS WITH AN ATTRACTIVE YOUNG WOMAN LIKE YOURSELF. YOUR PLAYBOY PICS ARE SCREAMING F***K ME TILL THE COWS COME HOME. It would be very hard to just hang out working on cars looking like you do in those pics. After all you get what you expect if you look like that, you are only looking for one thing. Are you being honest in saying that none of your guy friends have ever wanted to go to the next level as in sex. And not to mention how long do these friendships last anyways. Its only human nature for guys who like you for other than cars to be like that and also jealous. Men and woman can never betruly friends especially good looking woman, becasue the sex part always gets in the way, unless all of your guys friends are gay or married. Most men are not stupid, and becasue of your many guys friends, it only seems unrealistic for someone like you to be without anyone for a long time. It would be very hard to be friends with someone like you. This is a touchy subject indeed, because its unrealistic, and everyone like you has there own unrealistic version of it. Beautiful creatures can do ugly things. TO be continued.
 Majestic_Lizard_Returns
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 127
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 6/8/2006 10:47:13 PM
tend to be at one point boring and not very intelligent becasue at one point they have a mind set like a guy. And guys who work on cars tend to be not very intelligent
You don't seem to have much of a grasp of what indicates intelligence.

A woman who hangs out with men has "a guy's mindset"?
Guys who work on cars tend to be stupid?
A man can't truly be friends with a good looking woman because of the "sex thing"?

Awful lot of invalid gross generalizations.
 Sagitarians_Rock
Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 128
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 6/9/2006 7:32:50 PM
Interesting points, very generalized, get out of the past man. Georgia must be a swamp rat of a place.
 Mechanics are Me
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 129
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/12/2006 9:53:01 PM
Oh okay so your bi, why didnt you say so, I wouldnt have wasted my time with you and all those emails. Other girls just come out and say it in there profile. No wonder your popular. So basically what you are saying is that you have the option of playing both sides and you can pick and choose which guys friends are friends and just in case you need some d*ck, you always have that option. Wow you have all figured out dont you. I'm so glad I took you off my favorites list, you are weird and stupid at that.
 BCDream
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 130
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/12/2006 9:54:22 PM
I guess the question is really

Would she mind if you only hung out with women?

NOTE TO WOMEN;

If you want to NOT have a man in your life...hang out with guy friends. Its one of the surest ways to chase away the guys who really want to be with you.

So enjoy having a brewskie with your guy friends while your other friends get married, fall in love and have romance. You will be hunched around the TV watching reruns of NFL plays and your girlfriends will be out having romantic relationships.

Men, no matter what they say here, dont like it. Women dont like it when a man has nothing but female friends. The added snag is that the temptation is just too much after a few drinks and sooner or later, mark my words, something will happen.

Been there done that. If a woman cant develop healthy relationships wiht other women, that says alot about her. And its not positive.
 Mechanics are Me
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 131
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/13/2006 7:13:52 AM
BCDream, you rock, I guess a intellectual perspective was needed. Hey Winnipeghunnie are you listening.
 cocopuff1974
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 132
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/13/2006 10:11:01 PM
I don't understand women that don't like having women friends. I get along well with women and the only guy friends I have are gay. Alot of the times, guys try to be your friend but end up slipping thinking they can sleep with you or start a relationship which is why I haven't had a straight guy friend in about 10 years! And if I need a guys perspective on anything, I have 4 brothers I can ask. I like having women friends. Plus I'm not catty, competitive, insecure, gossipy or jealous and maybe that's why I have many women friends. Not that I'm saying that is the reason that women do not hang with other women but it's been MY experience that usually the insecure girls do not like having other women around them and want to be the main focus of the guys attention. And before anyone get offended, that has been what I'VE seen.
 Mechanics are Me
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 133
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/14/2006 8:46:58 AM
What a LOSERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR you are, look at the forums hunnie, nobody's buying what you're selling.
 Mechanics are Me
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 134
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:28:21 PM
Why dont you make it easy on yourself, to make it all more believable with all those guys friends that you have, just charge them for your time, in return all you have to do is get down on your knees and all fours to thank them. Its all there, after all you look like one and have the wardrobe for it already. I think they are called escorts, not to mention you can teach your girlfriends something new. See just come out and be honest and everyone will believe you what you are trying to sell.
 Majestic_Lizard_Returns
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 135
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:50:07 PM
Its not a good idea for a guy to have female friends if their husbands are involved in law enforcement. Little tip from the Lizard.
 ODDMOD
Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 136
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 8/28/2007 5:07:43 AM
I Was online again today, my friend told me to try it. Looked at your profile again as you remind me a bit of my old girlfreind. From the looks of it you've been here a loooooooooong time. Did it ever occur to you that you are the problem. Your pics are very high maintenance and you probably think you are hot stuff. Probably dated and screwed the football team in high school. And now you are probably lonely as hell. You probably have a alot of guys in your life and you probably think thats cool. You probably are just frineds but you probably get off on knowing they would slam you in a minute if you gave them the chance. Thats why guys become insecure around you because you create that. Close to 400 johnsons want to slam you and you still cant find one. Guys on these site are looking to slam a dummy like you, while you are looking for the ultimate relationship. And righfully so, you have the look of a slut, being a model I can see you wear a lot of cheap makeup probably and its caked on, and you probaby just ike your profile saids, you want to have fun, meaning you just want to get slammed on a regular basis by a nice guy because knowing winnipeg you look like a hick who hangs out with thungs and they treat you like crap and they just want to slam you at 2 in he morning after they come home drunk and beaten up. Thats what you are selling. If I had a predction you probaby constantly miss opportunities wth nice guys all the time, like me, educated, have a decent job,have money to spoil you and yah slam you for al the right reasons like you want. Thans for visiting my profile, it just goes thow, you hve emotional itimacy problems and you constantly miss out on guys who just want to have a girlfrined to hold to hug to kiss late at night, make love to you because something is bothering them and so for. Lke I said you remind me of my girl friend, o I am sharing with yu my experiene, because hunnie, be a woman and stand up and say, I want to be a slut and thats all that there is to it.
 XoticDeeva
Joined: 4/10/2007
Msg: 137
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 8/29/2007 4:45:26 PM
All of my friends are males (not 2 say that I'm opposed 2 having a femme friend, I just get along w/guys alot better)... my guy friends are not petty, catty, full of "drama" or 2 faced, not 2 say ALL women r , I believe there's an honor/trust that should come w/friendships & I have yet 2 get that from any of the women I've met in the past, so guy friends tend 2 make better company 4 me so far, this should be no different than guys who only have or have a majority of female friends...
 peeachy
Joined: 8/5/2007
Msg: 138
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 8/29/2007 9:15:50 PM
I have alot of male friends...its never been a sexual thing or a romantic thing...just friends more so because I can relate more to men (maybe growing up with all those brothers) then I can to women. ..it has caused problems when meeting someone new and I tell them about my guys...but you know I wouldnt want someone who didnt trust my word or who is that insecure not to be able to handle it.
 benmillion
Joined: 9/3/2007
Msg: 139
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/1/2008 2:55:39 PM
actually

ive known several women who only have guy friends. i dated one of them (bad idea).

my theory is that - as an attractive woman it's very easy to have a group of male friends who orbit around her at all times. for the girl, this brings her many benefits, with little to no effort on her part.

1) the guys won't be critical of her at all, in fact they'll mostly be subservient. the benefits are obvious, they'll do pretty much anything for the girl, move stuff for her, be her bodyguard, always be there for her. always have exciting places to take her out to.

2) shell always be surrounded by guys who want her. being constantly wanted, having tons of options, wow. what a nice thing, no? i mean what an effect it would have on your confidence when ur always complimented, treated to dinners, asked out to events, etc.

3) shell never be alone. guys will probably start to compete for her, and she can just take her pick of whichever guy she wants. so the minute the current guy she happens to be dating is out of the picture for whatever reason, she has an infinite number of guys who will be at her door with their shoulder to cry on at a moments notice. and they will be there for her. and they will probably end up being their next boyfriend. wow - being alone for those ten minutes must have been really difficult for her...

and yea, shell give all the same reasons for having only guy friends. - that girls are too catty, they get along better with guys, etc. the simple fact of the matter is she is manipulative and selfish. shes hustling guys the same way a career driven person will hustle job opportunities. shes using men to climb the social ladder, and do as little work as possible in doing so. its also biology and society, women just have to sit back and watch men tear each other apart to "get the girl". she just has to reject them as they constantly hit on her, and eventually when the tallest, richest most successful and socially connected/ respected alpha male comes into her view, she'll take interest.

 devilwoac
Joined: 1/28/2010
Msg: 140
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Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/16/2010 7:03:12 AM
I have been seeing a woman for about a year and a half. We had an arrangement to be Friends With Benefits, but only have sex with each other. But from the get go, it was more than that, we started talking everyday for hours doing things together alot. We both started having feelings for each other, but when I bring up a real relationship, she always says shes been in one her whole life and wants to have her ME time now.
She too has many guy friends, shes had men come over to her place for hours and drink with them and when Ive called her the few times this has happened she wouldnt answer the phone. She had one guy friend call her in the middle of the night drunk to come sleep at her place, when I called her the next morning she told me he was sleeping in her bed, while she was up cleaning.
I know she chats with some of them practically everyday, and I know some have texted her and have said how they love her and wish she loved them back. She always tells me how she loves attention and wants eveyone to look at her and think shes hot. She is older now has issues with that.
When Ive questioned her about these men she always says their just friends and totally denies anything else is going on. Should I believe her? these few instances seem very shady. But I have seen proof that these man want more than just friendship, maybe she doesnt want that, but why would she still remain friends with them? Is it just for the attention?
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 141
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/16/2010 7:10:25 PM
Women who only have men friends are insecure about being around other women.They don't think they measure up to their female friends so being around all men is easier for them.It's also a bit of an ego boost for them being the only female in the group.
 jezebellpgh
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 142
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 9:05:27 AM
Actually I have had more men friends but not ONLY. I just don't have any interest in talking non-stop regarding a female friends children. Most women who reproduce don't have a life. There are only 2 exceptions that I know of my sister's friend and a beautician I still go to. I also don't like the prissiness of females, they don't like bugs, spider and the outdoors gross them out, its like their sh*t doesn't stink. It gets pretty old there.
 TexasNightOwl
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 143
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 11:38:04 AM
Have any of you guys dated women who had ONLY guy friends? I wonder how those relationships went and whether you were able to deal with the fact that she would hang out only with guys.


My ex-wife and my last ex-girlfriend -- both still my friends, with the latter staying at my house almost every other weekend -- have mainly guy friends. During the 22+ years I was with my ex-wife she had only one girl friend. Both ex's gave the reason that women are selfish, backstabbing, b*tches. I didn't have a problem with it because all of their friends were married or living with someone. I might (would) have felt different if their friends had been single guys. Now that I am single, most of my friends are female...I will add drama to the list of characteristics. I definetely agree with @XoticDeeva above. But I kind of like it because life is never boring, and cat fights are a plenty.
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 144
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 12:02:55 PM
I don't trust women who don't like women.

Stay away from me.
 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 145
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 2:12:44 PM
I just dont understand why a woman who has all the same intrests as guys, hangs around nothing but guys, gets along better with guys, who seem to be single for a long time.

If you have a number of guys who want to be your friend, but yet dont want to be with romantic?...

sorry, I just dont get it....
 My I
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 146
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 2:16:39 PM

Women who only have men friends are insecure about being around other women.They don't think they measure up to their female friends so being around all men is easier for them

Generally speaking you may be right. I know a couple women who mostly associate with men because of the cattiness females have amongst themselves. Some people want little to do with the cattiness and the jealousy issues women have among themselves, especially when other men are around.

As a male, I shy away from associating with many married men because many of them have issues with me being single and they're not. These guys are always slinging cheap shots... this seems to be a very common trait when comparing married to single people, especially if you are the same gender.

If she acts immature and laughs a lot (excessively), I link that as being her anti-depressant
 Annie was here
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 147
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 4:31:36 PM
women are selfish, backstabbing, b*tches.



my friends are female...



I don't know what is more sad about you.The fact that due to a couple of bad experiences you generalize about an entire group of people or that you consider your "friends" to be selfish,backstabbing beyotches.



I know a couple women who mostly associate with men because of the cattiness females have amongst themselves. Some people want little to do with the cattiness and the jealousy issues women have among themselves, especially when other men are around.


Maybe your friends should stop associating with petty individuals? Stop generalizing about an entire gender based on your friends who are obviously insecure women.None of my friends are catty or jealous of each other.There certainly is no jealousy in regards to men among any of the women I know.


 E_keys
Joined: 10/3/2009
Msg: 148
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 9:01:23 PM
This thread was revived with a specific question (#208):


I know she chats with some of them practically everyday, and I know some have texted her and have said how they love her and wish she loved them back. She always tells me how she loves attention and wants eveyone to look at her and think shes hot. She is older now has issues with that.
When Ive questioned her about these men she always says their just friends and totally denies anything else is going on. Should I believe her? these few instances seem very shady. But I have seen proof that these man want more than just friendship, maybe she doesnt want that, but why would she still remain friends with them? Is it just for the attention?


Sounds like she told you truths, she likes the attention and the sexual tension. I have a buddy who made other feelings clear to me, and when I told my BF I found that flattering, he grinned and said well heck why wouldn't I?

You should be asking yourself, what deal do you have with her, and can you accept it. She seems to have informed you that her autonomy is more important than your desire for a real relationship. She doesn't give you permission to care too much about what's up with her.
 cinsav
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 149
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/17/2010 9:08:29 PM

Have you any of you guys dated women who had ONLY guy friends? I wonder how those relationships went and whether you were able to deal with the fact that she would hang out only with guys.


NEVER, EVER waste your time dating a woman with nothing but guy friends - or women who have more "guy friends" than female friends.

The same applies to you women too (guys who have more "female friends" than male).

First and foremost, again as I've said a billion times, men and women can rarely ever be "just friends." 9 times out of 10, one or other wants more than just friendship and is simply waiting for the right time to 'strike.'

When you get involved with a girl who has nothing but guy friends... wow... bad news. First, you have to realize that she's addicted to the attention. Do you really think she doesn't know that the majority of her supposed friends wouldn't pounce at the chance at nailing her? Really? Is there really anyone that naive? Of course she's aware of it - and she feeds on it.

Anyway, I'm too tired to carry on - avoid it - at ALL costs. She isn't worth it.
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 150
Women with only guy friends
Posted: 10/18/2010 4:39:34 AM
Before my ex, I would have said yes.

But having gone through it, I now say NO. The reason, most of her guy friends were actually just trying to hook up with her, or in 1 case, he was in love with her, and pretty much the whole time we dated, he was behind the curtains, trying to win her over.

Personal experience only here, often times the lines get pretty damn blurry in male/female friendships. I found out she used to have cuddle fests, sleep overs, and naps with guy friends...(same bed) obviously your mileage may vary, but from what i've seen usually the women who have more guy friends then girlfriends, is because
- they are hot and guys flock to them, and stick around hoping for either a drunken night or a relationship.
- they crave/want attention from people and its easier to get from men then women.
- when they are single its easier for them to get the feelings/satisfaction they would get from a bf, like cuddling, and nice words, and stuff like that, while also getting stuff bought for them on nights out.
- they are huge flirts
- Women generally won't put up with their bullshit and high maintenance.
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