|What do you do when there is no physical attraction?????Page 3 of 3 (1, 2, 3)|
|If you don't feel anything after the first few dates there isnt much to it. Once you get past the "I don't really know this person well" you should know if it's just a friend or it's a posibility.|
|What do you do when there is no physical attraction?????|
Posted: 11/15/2008 8:39:36 AM
|Sometimes if things move onto the physical level it can make all the difference as to whether or not you start to feel sparks. Someone seen as a friend can start to seem like more when you realise they have passionate side that they haven't really shown you. However, it's definitely not a good idea to encourage that if there's a good chance it won't work and you'll end up backing out and leaving him mixed up - quite apart from the fact that you may not feel you could. It does seem a shame that he seems perfect in every other way. |
It's not clear from your message whether he has indicated that he wants to date you, so we don't know if he has asked or not. Perhaps he's being a little too careful not to impose on your personal space and so by doing that is keeping himself in the friends zone. How would you feel if he did try to turn it into something more? What is your gut feeling about him?