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Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 131
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I like Older Women because........Page 6 of 10    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10)
You're not exactly 20 anymore. You men age far worse than women do!!
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 132
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I like Older Women because........
Posted: 2/6/2008 12:10:36 PM
maybe if that bona dea got a 'bona' in her 'dea' once in a while, she wouldn't be so angry and spiteful lol
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 133
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Posted: 2/6/2008 12:30:34 PM
So you think us older gals are desperate, easy and gaggin' for it, d'ya? (giggles) Truth is, we cougars are inundated with offers from you filthy, horny little b*stards, so who's REALLY desperate, easy and gagging for it? We cougars, on the other hand, pick and choose - who, when, what, where and how. Our call, our terms. So on yer knees, boys -- you're livin' in a(n older) WOMAN's world now! ha ha
 Sweet J-me Baby
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 139
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 2/9/2008 7:25:52 AM
Ya can't scare'em or con'em.As they are usually honest.

Scare 'em? Sure you can. We have our fears, they are just not the same ones we had when we were in our 20s. Con 'em? You are right, you can try conning us, but most of us are pretty wise and will call him on the con straight away!! Usually honest? Always honest for me and some people do not like it. Some people are honest their whole lives. Honesty is one thread in their moral fiber. Others, it takes years of learning the hard way to figure out it is much simpler to tell the truth in the first place than have to do damage control down the road (kinda like you can't con us for very long!)

And a 16 year-old heart is in every older lady.

I completely agree with this and is probably the reason I do not feel my age...yet!

I get a lot of emails from younger men and while there are some who are looking to have their fantasy of having an older woman fulfilled, most however, just want to have a decent, intelligent conversation with a woman. Two or three young guys I chat with only want to talk baseball. Another is a college student who loves to write, so we talk about that and his college life.

I do not chat with these guys (who are in their mid-20s) often, but they are welcome to say hello to me any time!
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 141
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I like Older Women because........
Posted: 2/18/2008 10:51:17 PM
Because with their age, their physical beauty has faded a bit, thus they tend to possess a certain lack of pretense and haughtiness that is absent in much younger women.
Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 144
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 3/15/2008 12:33:53 PM
My first wife: younger...selfish, immature, and worthless, now a deadbeat mom who won't pay child support and rarely even comes to see them.

My second wife: older...intelligent, acute, mature, honest, dedicated, everything I could want. We'd still be together if it weren't for a drunk driver...but as it is, I'm sold on the value of older women.

I have several friends with the same kind of experiences.
Joined: 9/12/2006
Msg: 147
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 12/17/2008 10:07:05 AM
Well, lets see...hmmm...where to start....WE ROCK!!! lol
I have dated younger men and truly loved it, but what it all comes down to is this:
We may be all those things but we are also looking for love!!! LOL
I have decided to try to find someone closer to my own age because it's nearly impossible to find a younger male that wants more than "the older woman experience"
I'm not meaning young 20 somethings, just younger by a few yrs. or more
So what is an older woman to do?
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 150
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Posted: 11/5/2010 10:01:21 AM
I'm with Phillo.

The generalizations being made are downright pitiful - and completely without merit. I don't play with youngin's so I guess that theory is blown right out the window, now isn't it?
Joined: 6/22/2010
Msg: 152
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Posted: 11/10/2010 9:18:04 AM
I am going to be one of the many that repeat the same thing but I have to agree with mature women being less shy.

Don't like to use the term "older women" and rather use the term "mature". Not only are mature women less shy, a bit more confident(sexually) but they are also less likely to play games, a bit more direct and in many of my previous experience- more sexual if you can get them to be comfortable with you.
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 154
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/11/2010 6:46:54 PM
datd00d: I hate to burst your fantasy bubble but you're totally wrong about the games, being less shy, confidence, etc. I can tell you that in most cases they're WORSE than younger women - believe me. It's a complete misconception that "mature" women are better - and how could they be? Not only do they drag along a ton of baggage of letdowns, divorces, separations and other things that life has thrown at them over the years. Many of them are so scared that they're anything BUT confident. Younger women have yet to go through all that so it makes perfect sense to see it that way. And since men and women don't respect each other the same way as in the past, life experience doesn't seem to be worth much anymore. As for the sex - same thing there as well. Why? If she's been married to the same guy for 15-20 years, how could she be more experienced than a single (younger) woman? That idea also doesn't make sense.
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 157
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Posted: 11/27/2010 9:27:50 AM
It's not SOME who are just looking for sex. That's THE reason when a kid contacts a cougar who responds positively.
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 158
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Posted: 11/27/2010 2:15:31 PM
they tend not don't use age as a criteria~

Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 160
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/27/2010 5:12:19 PM
when i were younger i liked to go after older women for one reason only and thats sex. I knew other guys and thats was the only reason any one of us went after older women. It was easier as they would realy like it when a younger guy chase them and that made it easier to get some sex. Like it or not just like when an older guy likes when a younger girl chase him so do women. So do you older women like the idea that they still got it when a younger guy chase them. But now that im 44 i dont chase older women. Rather have someone my age or younger. At my age older women are just too old.
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 161
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Posted: 11/28/2010 6:43:32 AM
So do you older women like the idea that they still got it when a younger guy chase them.

Oh please. A young guy will screw anything he can hold down that won't run away from him. I hardly find it flattering to be on his 'hit' list when that list includes just about anything with eyebrows.
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 162
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/28/2010 8:17:02 AM
"I think this is more likely to be the reason when the age difference is really large. Such as 21 yr old man contacting a 45 yr old woman. But I don't necessarily think a 35 yr old man contacting the same 45 yr old woman is just looking for sex. Some people have broad age ranges or prefer to date older / younger up to a certain point."
...No reason to get into such extremes as 21-45. I'd say (% sex): 21-45 (as your example) = 100%, 21-30 = 99%, 25-35 = 85%, 30-40 = 75-80%, 40-40 = 45%, etc. In other words, sex is ALWAYS part of the dating world. However, when the difference in age becomes less significant, even though there's still a high percentage, the approach will be completely different and more acceptable to both. Why? Well, for one thing you're dealing with a person your own age or let's say + - 5 years and there's a lot of common ground.

Dating a much younger/older is always about sex because there's no common ground, life experience and chances are lesser than slim for it to ever work out in the long run. Exceptions? Of course, but VERY few.
Joined: 12/11/2009
Msg: 165
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Posted: 7/13/2011 2:21:20 AM
me to i have joined a few cougar websites im 23 so its fine with me if there in there 30s or 40s.since i was 18 i was into older id never let age be a reason for true love though honestly.there are quite a few others who like the older younger combo with older guys young women or young guys older women its all up to your preferences everyone has different tastes
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 166
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Posted: 7/13/2011 4:48:32 PM
isn't that the truth! you may think we are easy prey...but it fact your the one's who've just been pounced on... roar!
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 167
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/18/2011 1:37:18 PM
At 42 ? um I am not pulling the Mrs Robinson and poaching out of the retirement home.
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 168
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Posted: 7/19/2011 2:17:49 AM
I think young guys try to date women in there 30's and 40's for a meal ticket. This may not be true in all cases, but I don't trust it. I've never met a man in his twenties who I can carry on a real conversation with, yeah we can flirt, talk shyt, shoot the breeze. But to seriously make him my boyfriend, or even have sex would just be a waste of time for me. (Well I take back the have sex lol), but after it's over, it's like okay.....don't forget your nikes!!! And what can a man in his twenties seriously bring to the table but his penis. You can't build!! He'll just be building off of you!!! I'll stick with my 30 to 40 year old guys, plus there kids are almost grown, or grown and out the house. NO BABY MAMA DRAMA
Joined: 1/12/2011
Msg: 169
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Posted: 7/20/2011 6:45:49 PM
The OP has 3 unflattering pictures, a crappy profile, and his thread was foolish. He is soooo not a hit with women his age, that he thinks that older women can be an easier catch. It is easier said than done. I doubt seriously that the OP gets anywhere with anyone. He needs to recognize...
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 171
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/22/2011 12:45:11 AM
I like older women because they are great people.
Great in bed, great listeners, great cooks, great to learn about life from.
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 172
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Posted: 7/22/2011 4:40:22 AM
It's not older women that turn me on, it's maturity and security. They know they have the power so they have will-power as-well.

 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 175
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Posted: 8/3/2011 1:59:49 AM
anybody up that would like to chat?
Joined: 5/18/2011
Msg: 177
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 8/17/2011 1:32:49 PM
You go girl! I agree! Im 48 and dating a doctor thats 29!
Joined: 8/22/2009
Msg: 178
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 2/12/2013 1:16:45 PM
freeman, are you sure about that?? i have plenty of young guys after me, even my neighbor who has a secret crush on me since he was 16 and he's 26 now, sorry, ain't sleeping with the age of my son, and I prefer older men, cuz they know how to be respectful and it's not all about SEX to them~Ever try for a real relationship, if you havent got communicating in all areas, you have nothing but what's easiest to talk about SEX~! then again, the older guys are getting angry, so i am thinking about switching to younger, but not to the point i am dating my sons friends, that just sounds so non relationsionable~
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