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 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 154
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datd00d: I hate to burst your fantasy bubble but you're totally wrong about the games, being less shy, confidence, etc. I can tell you that in most cases they're WORSE than younger women - believe me. It's a complete misconception that "mature" women are better - and how could they be? Not only do they drag along a ton of baggage of letdowns, divorces, separations and other things that life has thrown at them over the years. Many of them are so scared that they're anything BUT confident. Younger women have yet to go through all that so it makes perfect sense to see it that way. And since men and women don't respect each other the same way as in the past, life experience doesn't seem to be worth much anymore. As for the sex - same thing there as well. Why? If she's been married to the same guy for 15-20 years, how could she be more experienced than a single (younger) woman? That idea also doesn't make sense.
 3prong
Joined: 1/3/2010
Msg: 155
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/20/2010 4:10:41 PM
I'll admit I haven't read every post but I much say that the appeal us older women have seems more on the sexual front than the happily ever after.

I too have a tendancy towards younger men but I'm always cautious about them. My child rearing days are over so won't get involved (except for fun) with a younger man.

I used to feel that I just can no longer compete with a young hard body; my younger man certainly seems not concerned at all over my stretch marks, operation scars, saggy boobs and plumper belly; the skill, stability, and rational mind frame seem to win over asthetically pleasing every time.
 eastbelle
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 156
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/27/2010 9:15:47 AM
Some possible reasons why some younger men date older women.

1. Let's face it. Some are just looking for sex or a mommy figure.
2. Some feel that women around their age are too immature.
3. Some will go after any reasonably attractive woman. Regardless of her age.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 157
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/27/2010 9:27:50 AM
It's not SOME who are just looking for sex. That's THE reason when a kid contacts a cougar who responds positively.
 StevieCashmere
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 158
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I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/27/2010 2:15:31 PM
they tend not don't use age as a criteria~

~Stevie
 eastbelle
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 159
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/27/2010 3:31:43 PM
It's not SOME who are just looking for sex. That's THE reason when a kid contacts a cougar who responds positively.


I think this is more likely to be the reason when the age difference is really large. Such as 21 yr old man contacting a 45 yr old woman. But I don't necessarily think a 35 yr old man contacting the same 45 yr old woman is just looking for sex. Some people have broad age ranges or prefer to date older / younger up to a certain point.
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 160
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/27/2010 5:12:19 PM
when i were younger i liked to go after older women for one reason only and thats sex. I knew other guys and thats was the only reason any one of us went after older women. It was easier as they would realy like it when a younger guy chase them and that made it easier to get some sex. Like it or not just like when an older guy likes when a younger girl chase him so do women. So do you older women like the idea that they still got it when a younger guy chase them. But now that im 44 i dont chase older women. Rather have someone my age or younger. At my age older women are just too old.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 161
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/28/2010 6:43:32 AM
So do you older women like the idea that they still got it when a younger guy chase them.

Oh please. A young guy will screw anything he can hold down that won't run away from him. I hardly find it flattering to be on his 'hit' list when that list includes just about anything with eyebrows.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 162
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 11/28/2010 8:17:02 AM
"I think this is more likely to be the reason when the age difference is really large. Such as 21 yr old man contacting a 45 yr old woman. But I don't necessarily think a 35 yr old man contacting the same 45 yr old woman is just looking for sex. Some people have broad age ranges or prefer to date older / younger up to a certain point."
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...No reason to get into such extremes as 21-45. I'd say (% sex): 21-45 (as your example) = 100%, 21-30 = 99%, 25-35 = 85%, 30-40 = 75-80%, 40-40 = 45%, etc. In other words, sex is ALWAYS part of the dating world. However, when the difference in age becomes less significant, even though there's still a high percentage, the approach will be completely different and more acceptable to both. Why? Well, for one thing you're dealing with a person your own age or let's say + - 5 years and there's a lot of common ground.

Dating a much younger/older is always about sex because there's no common ground, life experience and chances are lesser than slim for it to ever work out in the long run. Exceptions? Of course, but VERY few.
 curmudgeon_ed
Joined: 11/24/2010
Msg: 163
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 12/1/2010 6:20:37 PM
thanks for a rediculously entertaining and unrealistic post...
 BentonHarbor
Joined: 3/2/2010
Msg: 164
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 12/9/2010 5:22:18 AM
I like older women because........................


........many of them are simply older versions of their younger selves which were highly desirable for myriad reasons!

For purposes of this thread we'll not discuss those who morph into something far less desirable than younger women or those of a similar ago who've not morphed so unplesantly!
 joey33icerain
Joined: 12/11/2009
Msg: 165
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I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/13/2011 2:21:20 AM
me to i have joined a few cougar websites im 23 so its fine with me if there in there 30s or 40s.since i was 18 i was into older id never let age be a reason for true love though honestly.there are quite a few others who like the older younger combo with older guys young women or young guys older women its all up to your preferences everyone has different tastes
 asheerkiss
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 166
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I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/13/2011 4:48:32 PM
isn't that the truth! you may think we are easy prey...but it fact your the one's who've just been pounced on... roar!
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 167
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/18/2011 1:37:18 PM
At 42 ? um I am not pulling the Mrs Robinson and poaching out of the retirement home.
 Diancarock1976
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 168
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I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/19/2011 2:17:49 AM
I think young guys try to date women in there 30's and 40's for a meal ticket. This may not be true in all cases, but I don't trust it. I've never met a man in his twenties who I can carry on a real conversation with, yeah we can flirt, talk shyt, shoot the breeze. But to seriously make him my boyfriend, or even have sex would just be a waste of time for me. (Well I take back the have sex lol), but after it's over, it's like okay.....don't forget your nikes!!! And what can a man in his twenties seriously bring to the table but his penis. You can't build!! He'll just be building off of you!!! I'll stick with my 30 to 40 year old guys, plus there kids are almost grown, or grown and out the house. NO BABY MAMA DRAMA
 Lolita_LeBron
Joined: 1/12/2011
Msg: 169
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/20/2011 6:45:49 PM
The OP has 3 unflattering pictures, a crappy profile, and his thread was foolish. He is soooo not a hit with women his age, that he thinks that older women can be an easier catch. It is easier said than done. I doubt seriously that the OP gets anywhere with anyone. He needs to recognize...
 pinkoleander
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 170
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/20/2011 7:07:40 PM
^^^Oh, lord I didn't bother to read the original post or look at his profile. He has a little girl tummy and man titties. And he's young. They're going to be C cups by the time he's my age.
 RichenLosAngeles
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 171
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/22/2011 12:45:11 AM
I like older women because they are great people.
Great in bed, great listeners, great cooks, great to learn about life from.
 EMunchy2010
Joined: 8/23/2010
Msg: 172
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/22/2011 4:40:22 AM
It's not older women that turn me on, it's maturity and security. They know they have the power so they have will-power as-well.


 italyflower
Joined: 5/31/2011
Msg: 173
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 7/22/2011 11:37:19 AM
I totally agree!!! We use these young guys just as much as they use us!!! "Until a keeper comes are way!!! Way to go!!!!
 rivrat34
Joined: 8/15/2010
Msg: 174
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 8/2/2011 12:20:23 AM
I seem to work better with older than young, because I hate head games, not saying all of them. Just sayin! and older ones are on prime, most of them are sexy! since of course young men tend to need lots of sex which most young women cant keep up with. I guess everything is like Mars vs Venus.. young women work better with older men, while young men work better with older women. My mother has been happily married to 13 years younger man for 21 years now.
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 175
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 8/3/2011 1:59:49 AM
anybody up that would like to chat?
 phill34
Joined: 5/28/2011
Msg: 176
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 8/13/2011 12:50:13 AM
i agree with this.

i like older/mature women because they are not shy but they also have good personailty and know what they want.

second of all i've always gotten along with older/mature women.

thirdly yes they are experienced and they are good in bed.

mature/older women rock
 mona401
Joined: 5/18/2011
Msg: 177
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 8/17/2011 1:32:49 PM
You go girl! I agree! Im 48 and dating a doctor thats 29!
 ladyinup2013
Joined: 8/22/2009
Msg: 178
I like Older Women because........
Posted: 2/12/2013 1:16:45 PM
freeman, are you sure about that?? i have plenty of young guys after me, even my neighbor who has a secret crush on me since he was 16 and he's 26 now, sorry, ain't sleeping with the age of my son, and I prefer older men, cuz they know how to be respectful and it's not all about SEX to them~Ever try for a real relationship, if you havent got communicating in all areas, you have nothing but what's easiest to talk about SEX~! then again, the older guys are getting angry, so i am thinking about switching to younger, but not to the point i am dating my sons friends, that just sounds so non relationsionable~
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