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 Casper66
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 201
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The number one reason would probably be that I like being single, I live my life as I choose, I have a great career, close to family and friends, take interest courses, have hobbies and have met some great guys just not that elusive one. So I'm not in any hurry to jump into a relationship that is not based on compatibility, mutual respect and friendship, finding too many just pretending to be looking for a relationship but really looking for quick hookup or are married, so I will remain patient until I find the one.
 geoffonpof1
Joined: 7/9/2011
Msg: 202
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Posted: 10/12/2011 3:51:47 AM
Being taken advantage of for being a nice guy. and coming in on a close second, women that assume prior to having any knowledge about myself.
 SweetKel1
Joined: 5/5/2011
Msg: 203
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Posted: 10/13/2011 1:17:50 AM
I have had my share of losers in my life...and at 46 yrs old now..I know I want, and its not asking for much...I simpily will not just settle for anyone.
 FuBarMan1000
Joined: 10/29/2011
Msg: 204
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Posted: 11/11/2011 10:50:59 AM
Meeting people is so random. We each have a lifetime of experiences and none of us will ever be at the same point in life at the same time.
 msgsudz
Joined: 10/25/2011
Msg: 205
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Posted: 11/11/2011 2:17:18 PM
all of the better looking guys in my area. if only women would lower their damn standards.
 senadin*
Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 206
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 11/11/2011 5:39:21 PM
LOL seriously? Lower their standards?

Let me ask you this? Would you lower your standards if it came to it? You may say no but when face with reality i bet you would change your tune.
 Falcon91
Joined: 10/10/2011
Msg: 207
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Posted: 11/11/2011 6:11:53 PM
That my whole town is mostly family or people I am somehow related to @.@
 msgsudz
Joined: 10/25/2011
Msg: 208
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Posted: 11/11/2011 6:14:59 PM
i was actually kidding...
 ddelite
Joined: 8/19/2008
Msg: 209
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Posted: 11/13/2011 6:22:40 AM
None of the above.....Just haven't found the right match.....But life is good anyways.....The right guy would just compliment what I already have......
 SimpleMan_388
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 210
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Posted: 11/13/2011 10:50:25 AM
My job. While the entire "man in uniform" is attractive to women initially, when it comes down to it, I could be gone at any time, for a length of time.
Too many stories of military guys just being dogs, control freaks or having some form of mental baggage.
Also, due to work, I live in an area of about 5 men per girl, and it's semi-isolated from any decent sized metropolis, far away from the local women who have their own stigma attached to them.
 krillinguy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 211
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Posted: 11/21/2011 6:32:40 PM
I refuse to be nice.
 grindblast
Joined: 10/4/2010
Msg: 212
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Posted: 12/3/2011 9:34:52 PM
Well you could take two perspectives form this question. One person could look at their faults and blame it on that particular reason, or someone could look at that question as if they were being asked why they enjoy being single. It's an interesting question really, I can see why so many people replied.
 RockinRollMan
Joined: 3/14/2011
Msg: 213
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Posted: 12/6/2011 7:10:14 PM
People who can't read profiles or are complete freaks is what keeps me from dating many women. What happened to being normal? It's not that I am picky, though I do have my preferences, I just know what I like in a woman. I am not looking for a bum, since I myself am not a bum, I have a decent job and a good life, I look for the same in a woman. I tend to avoid some people like the plague for physical reasons, and I am sure the feeling is mutual that if you won't be physically attracted to someone then you won't be interested in dating them extensively.
 Thennn
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 214
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Posted: 12/11/2011 8:43:39 PM
Probably just taking chances or talking to people. I need to get out more.
 LifeBegins1
Joined: 11/17/2011
Msg: 215
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 12/17/2011 3:21:48 AM
Haven't found anyone that can pass a random drug test, credit check and polygraph.
 pondersfishing
Joined: 6/7/2011
Msg: 216
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Posted: 12/17/2011 9:29:09 AM
LifeBegins1..........took the words right out of my mouth lol.
 BacktoUL
Joined: 6/25/2011
Msg: 217
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Posted: 12/21/2011 3:44:52 PM
I think it is my disability... and I am a little shy.
 jonomc85
Joined: 11/29/2011
Msg: 218
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Posted: 12/23/2011 6:54:17 PM
Not getting any replies... ha...

I've msged varies ladies here, connecting through their profiles about likes/dislikes, but I've yet to get a reply...
 Schrödingers_Dog
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 219
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 12/27/2011 8:36:11 PM

Not getting any replies... ha...
I've msged varies ladies here, connecting through their profiles about likes/dislikes, but I've yet to get a reply...

Yeah, basically the same here. I sent out a dozen messages -- same basics but adapted to each person to whom I was sending (not cookie cutter). Of the dozen, not one reply and only one of them even viewed my profile.

I even went to a meet and greet locally. One woman there seemed quite nice and even gently chastised me for not having contacted her. So, that night, I did: "Nice to have met you... maybe you'd like to get together sometime?"
Nothing.


If absolutely amazes me how many women's profiles rant about how they don't want a man who plays games, etc. but (not that these are the same women) they can't bother to even politely reply if they're not interested.

Ignoring someone is also being a game-player.
 Rain.
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 220
Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 12/29/2011 3:46:52 PM
major thing seems to be height.....lol something i can do nothing about
 jonomc85
Joined: 11/29/2011
Msg: 221
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Posted: 12/29/2011 6:52:11 PM
Understandable this is a dating site... don't expect msgs etc etc...

I recall prior to my previous relationship, all you had to do was send a msg saying Hey, What's up, care to chat etc etc... and I'd say... easily 75% of the time you'd get some sort of reply...

Now a days.. you read someones profile of course 90% dont just say hey whats up i won't respond.. so you make connections with the profile... yet nothing..

I am sure this happens to everyone since... this is the "why you are still single thread" ha..
 Rain.
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 222
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Posted: 12/29/2011 7:16:51 PM
it follows the stigma of being an online human window shopping site , where folks look for the best deals and in most cases miss the heart by miles. Sometimes i get the impression its more about what you own/have / job tittle then the actual substance of your make up
 lizzn1955
Joined: 4/2/2011
Msg: 223
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Posted: 1/2/2012 3:03:32 PM
Haven't found a man who actually READS your profile.
 kevin_001
Joined: 12/7/2011
Msg: 224
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 1/13/2012 6:04:40 PM
I’m a bit shy, and when I do end up in a relationship it becomes hard to see each other because of my job
 goldilocks013
Joined: 10/18/2011
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Name the number one thing keeping you single..
Posted: 1/15/2012 8:23:19 PM
I don't feel like I have anything to offer anyone. Which category does that fall under?
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