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 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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She is a typical woman.


Talk about a stupid comment, she's not a typical anything, she may well like bad boys but if all you have found are women looking for bad boys that is your personal problem.
 Casper66
Joined: 3/2/2007
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Sandra Bullock and Jesse James? huh?
Posted: 3/25/2010 12:35:56 AM
Ayesha40, it makes me very sad to hear you talk about yourself this way, you should be proud of who you are, it sounds like you have allowed this man to define you as a person strictly on the ability to bear children. There is over 6 billion humans on this planet, you can give yourself a break, no one expects you to save the species, so please save yourself. It's only a man's world if you let it be, you are free now to do what you want, go back to school, take interest classes, join groups, volunteer, travel do what makes you happy, I would never trade being a woman, it hasn't always been easy for me, but then there is always someone out there worse off then me so I consider myself lucky. Good luck to you and I hope you find happiness.

People cannot help who they fall in love with, the rational part of our brains just seem to shutdown and we follow our hearts, sometimes into disaster. The only one to blame is Jesse, he made the choice to cheat and risk his marriage and he might now lose his kids to the ex, because the ex is now stating that Sandra was the stable one in the relationship, if she isn't there the kids should be with her. A high price to pay for a piece of a$$.
 treselle
Joined: 6/16/2005
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Posted: 3/25/2010 5:21:13 PM
Sandra is 45 and well past child bearing age. My ex husband is 63 and he left me because I could not give him any more children.

Nonsense! A cousin of mine was 46 when she gave birth for the first time and her baby was healthy. She never took birthcontrol pills and that's why she did not have a problem with getting pregnant. Your husband just came up with a stupid excuse to leave you.

Big gut men can father children until they die.

BS as well. If a much younger woman marries an old man, it does not mean that her children are his biological children. There are women who want wealthy older men for a husband, but want healthy beautiful children as well. So, those women use young men as sperm donors.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 25
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Posted: 3/25/2010 7:57:45 PM
I actually think Jesse is hot, and can see what he'd see in a woman like Bullock--she seems very "alive".

I think his affairs were more to do with HIS getting older than with HER getting older, although I have read some "studies" that suggest men have affairs because they feel old because their WIVES are getting old (of course--we always must blame women for men's actions, the poor things cannot possibly be held responsible for their peckers. It's BIOLOGY! They have to fuk everything that moves! It's a fact!).
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Tatts, not tatts, that doesn't have anything to do with it. I think she's hot, too (the little patootie)
 My I
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/25/2010 8:03:15 PM

I think his affairs were more to do with HIS getting older than with HER getting older, although I have read some "studies" that suggest men have affairs because they feel old because their WIVES are getting old (of course--we always must blame women for men's actions, the poor things cannot possibly be held responsible for their peckers. It's BIOLOGY! They have to fuk everything that moves! It's a fact!).

Ummmm.... I'd think his history with a porn star may have something to do with it. Not the porn star herself, but the lifestyle that usually accompanies it. Afterall, check out the tatooed thing he was cheating with.... it's not like she wouldn't pass for a porn star.

Biology of a different nature may have more to do with his behaviour - not his/her age
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 3/25/2010 10:10:14 PM
I'm a Sandra Bullock fan, but I don't know her, so I have zero idea of what made her find Jesse James seem like a good man to marry. I do feel badly for her, he's made a mess of what she seemed to think was something special between them. Interviewers were always asking her what she saw in him (a big red flag, if everyone thinks you're crazy, maybe you should pay attention) and she was always talking about what a beautiful person he is...now did she miss the mess his life was before and the types of women he married before and the lifestyle he left his children in with the types of women he had them with and his cheating....what part didn't she really wonder about. ??? I find it clueless at best on her part but one really does have to wonder what she was thinking and what is she into that he gave her. This isn't a case of her not knowing before hand, the man's record with women was well known and he's not attractive....something made her want him, so she can hardly be seen as a victim, more of participant who may have just had her bubble burst or someone who's also going to be seeing their 'dirty little secrets' revealed here pretty soon. I'm curious just where it is she's going to come out in this by the time it's all over. I prefer to think of her as the nice person she seems to be, but it makes no sense to become involved with Jesse James unless you have some deep kinks somewhere.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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Posted: 3/28/2010 11:19:28 PM

I have zero idea of what made her find Jesse James seem like a good man to marry

really? he's a biker bad boy with his own tv show. what industry chick could resist that?
 slybandit
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 3/29/2010 8:18:04 AM
A. Who cares? Really...who...cares.

B. Marry a bad boy. He proceeds to behave...like a bad boy. Yawn.

C. One of the guy's exes was a heavily tattooed pornographic movie 'actress'. Who got arrested for beating the crap out of him with a flower pot and a metal sculpture.

Now, I'm not going to talk down about 'actresses', but in all seriousness, whatever it was that he did was enough to put an, ahem, 'actress' over the edge into kicking his *ss, really ought to raise a red flag with anyone sensible.

The others included (suprise) heavily tattoed 'dancers' and 'models'.

This stuff is all public record, I'm not crying any tears for Ms. Bullock, who is an adult and (hopefully for her health, considering where he's been) vaccinated. If she had no idea that he was cheating she was being wilfully blind.
 chameleonf
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 3/31/2010 12:49:53 PM
This just sounds like any forum thread sad tale...minus the fame. More proof that under the money and jobs, they're just as normal/abnormal as the rest of the people populating the planet.
 Lint Spotter
Joined: 8/27/2009
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Posted: 4/10/2010 4:18:52 PM

He looks like a thug to me and she looks ordinary.
I'm shocked that anyone would comment that Sandra Bullock's looks are 'ordinary'...

I feel sorry for the woman... any woman that goes through something like that and isn't given the privacy to deal with her problems without a litany of well meaning advisors clamoring at her door.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 4/11/2010 3:19:22 PM
Whenwillthiswork, we get that you don't like Ms. Bullocks looks, but really I have always thought she was stunning and she's been around for some time so she's not this year's model of what's hot, she's been hot for years. Certainly, going by looks alone, she is not who you would think Jesse James could date, he looks not only like 20 miles of bad road but also has the personality of a**** self-involved boob (my opinion of course) and after seeing him on Celebrity Apprentice it seemed obvious to me that he's full of shit to boot. But these are only our opinions, personal tastes, the fact is that he married someone and proceeded to cheat with gutter tramps throughout the marriage. Not liking Sandra's looks is hardly the subject at hand. Wondering about Sandy's taste is men is par of the topic. He doesn't get a free pass to cheat just because some don't think his wife is pretty enough, anymore than she should cheat on him because he's homely as hell. Which brings me to back....what the hell was she thinking!!!

Anyway, truly sad and I really feel for his kids, what a lousy hand they've been dealt.
 Lint Spotter
Joined: 8/27/2009
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Posted: 4/13/2010 7:02:12 AM

A good woman will accept this.
Seriously... are you on crack?
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 4/19/2010 7:57:20 AM
First I've said it before and I'll say it again. I could care less about celebs and there cheaters, bad kids etc.........But this one kind of hits home.... Its about a good woman (and hot imo) getting with the "bad boy" and him cheating on her (imagine that esp with his history).

She tried to change him, tried to make him a bad boy only by looks not actions. She liked the adventure and probably tattoos as well. One woman once said "look at him he's so ugly he's purty." Which is the fact of Jesse James. I know I'm a guy so my opinion of every guy is ugly, but I will admit when someone is handsome but he's down in right ugly with a capital U.

I agree that we only see the celeb on the outside, what they want us to believe and for the most part we don't "know" the actual person. What if Sandra was a constant complainer, controlling, or even just bad apples. Or what if she was too "goodie tissues" what if she never wanted to join Jesse in bike rides or anything. What if she always threatened him of being a cheater when he was going on long bike rides so one day he said "why not?" She always accuses me so I might as well do it.

We wouldn't know the true story unless we lived it. I mean how many times have you heard that this person or that person is a "bad apple" then when you actually meet them they are the complete opposite. Esp when the stories turn into gossip.

Oh well best of luck to everyone
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 5/8/2011 4:57:45 AM

Does it matter that he LOOKS 10 years older than she does?

^^^^^^^^^^^LOL

I think all that fabulous sex on the side aged him...
To much "crack"?

NOW he is publicly saying KAT VON D is 100 times better in bed than Sandra to promote his book.
Pfffffffffffft. Right.


A woman is desirable from puberty until about 35

Whatever you say...............* snort*
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 5/8/2011 6:05:59 AM
I agree Pepp.

I use to think he was a good guy. Boy did he
turn out to be a big ole piece of shiitt.


Kat is gonna get what every woman
got before her.

She is No more special than the porn star
or the Oscar winner.

He is what he is and will always be.

Good luck Kat.
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