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 callmelori
Joined: 12/3/2008
Msg: 28
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Because they can?

:::::skippin' away and giggling::::::
 varinia
Joined: 1/1/2009
Msg: 29
does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 2:09:19 PM
THe first time I'm meeting someone I'm kind of in observation mode. I mean, I need some neutral time after to think about it. So, I don't kiss on the first date, but give a hug. And that doesn't mean that I don't like him and that doesn't mean that I'm very slow. It just means that I just met him and my walls are still up until I decided that , yes, he's someone that I want to let my walls down for. I don't kiss just anyone.
 unsolvedmystery
Joined: 8/18/2009
Msg: 30
does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 2:43:00 PM
I pretty much only hug on the meet and greet wether or not I'm into them and I assume it's the same sort of thing for alot of women. I would find it odd that someone thought I'd be uninterested based solely on a parting hug versus a parting kiss. You can make out for 10mins and they still might not be interested to actually date you :P
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 31
does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 9/19/2009 2:56:15 PM
HELLO......
Is anyone paying attention????

Oh well guess not!

The OP posted this in 2005......... DUH he's not gonna answer.
 Misfitluv
Joined: 11/10/2009
Msg: 32
does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 1/23/2010 6:07:40 PM
Um she touched you....it's a good thing.
 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
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does a hug mean she's not really attracted
Posted: 1/23/2010 11:14:48 PM
I don't think there was even a hug on our first date and the 2nd date I acted so aloof there almost wasn't a 3rd, he told me this several dates later. We were enjoying still emailing each other though and after not feeling a connection with another woman he met he decided to ask me out again. It wasn't that there was no interest I was just scared of getting close too soon. We sat in his vehicle and talked for hours. On this date, the 3rd I leaned over for a hug and he kissed me. I could tell he wanted to on our 2nd but he never tried.




A hug does not necessarily mean she is not attracted to you. Honestly some girls are more shy around a guy they do like then one that they do not!


I would think a hug was a postive sign and especially since she wants to see you again. BTW, I am now in a relationship with the man who thought I wasn't interested.


I just noticed this was an old thread hope you had better luck since then.
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