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 OneCoolChick
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 53
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!Page 6 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
wait.... I'm in the wrong thread ...
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 62
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 10/31/2005 6:32:41 PM
actually .. some of us start looking to end the conversation
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 65
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 10/31/2005 6:47:33 PM
im gonna get in trouble for this, but, oh well, never stopped me before ahahaha


maybe your words are not very interesting. but your chest is. so look at the glass as half-full and take it as a compliment
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 69
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 10/31/2005 6:53:35 PM
^^^^ that would make me smile AHEM

see, i think this is what it comes down to. if you WANT to get angry about it, you will. if you'd rather not get angry, then its no big deal. i think that the things that offend people say more about the people than the things
 viceguy1
Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 72
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 10/31/2005 7:24:07 PM
Try covering them up for a change.......not that that will help much if ur stacked...
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Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 74
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/1/2005 3:19:31 AM
looking at the girls is like staring at the sun, linger too long and you may get burned.
 OneCoolChick
Joined: 9/13/2005
Msg: 84
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/1/2005 10:31:31 AM

Hmmm well I don't know, I don't really get uppity about guys staring at my chest, it's the retarded comments that come out of their mouth that annoy me more.


yeah... exactly.

at the same place I bought this t-shirt, there was one that said "excuse me, could you please tell your boobs to stop staring at my eyes?"

 evanevan6
Joined: 8/6/2004
Msg: 89
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/1/2005 1:02:24 PM
Well, as Kimmydawn has clarified, she is talking about staring.
So yeah that's rude.
But noticing - If the woman is dressed to kill - is not.
In fact, it might be rude to ignore it completely. I think one should be direct.
If she has a great bod - you can say that - and then get back
to looking her in the eye and finding out about her!
Other wise- no hot bod for you! And she would most likely be correct
about dropping you!
Evan
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 92
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/2/2005 6:55:07 AM
Lets be honest … in most cases … boobs are bigger than the eyes
 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 94
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/4/2005 1:30:33 PM
We are not stupid .. we know they can’t talk back and we don’t always look unless there is something to look at such as a nice cleavage or attractively formed contours .. but most importantly .. men just suffer from wander eyes syndrome and short attention span.
 grplaman
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 96
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/6/2005 5:44:51 PM
Kimmydawn, would you rather have him, looking at another woman instead? Men are men...what, you never noticed, thier packages?

And if you say, "well, I don't stare at them." Then I'd say back, "Why not?" Men like that........it seems to me-you being to shy......and not playing the game correct!

I don't mean to be mean,....so, please forgive me, if you think i am. It's just that, no one looks at my "package" and that's a pet peeve of mine.
 Inkwell
Joined: 10/8/2005
Msg: 98
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/7/2005 6:35:25 AM
Sorry, did you say something? I was distracted
 grplaman
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 100
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/7/2005 7:29:52 AM
YEAH! Also too,..have you ever considered wearing a "Habit" ? All, men respect and behave around Nuns..........those rulers, hurt!!!!!!
 Swiftone
Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 101
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/7/2005 7:47:34 AM
Well, you'd be safe with me... I'm more of a butt guy than a boob guy so when I'm having a conversation with a woman I usually stay focussed because she's usually sitting down and REALLY difficult having a conversation when I'm walking behind her.....
 grplaman
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 104
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 11/8/2005 7:51:02 AM
Men are not after faces.........the face just tells them..........it's a female! Faces only serve as identification'al purposes. They want what's under the clothes. A mans' purpose is only to, "Boink".
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 112
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 1/15/2007 4:41:31 PM
I would think for women there would only be one thing worse than guy's staring at your chest and that would be :......guy's never staring at your chest.

I don't stare ....but I might look a little ......they are great.
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 114
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 1/15/2007 4:53:22 PM
^
Are you actually saying a busty woman wearing a low cut top and a "hey look at my melon's" push-out bra can legitimately complain if guy's stare???...did you undergo some sort of "modern sensitivity training"? ...or what?
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 117
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 1/15/2007 5:36:21 PM
99.9% ......????...I don't agree....there's quite a few busty mcmelon's out there.






And, yes, I did undergo sensitivity training, otherwise known as maturation.


I'm mature and I sometime's look...nothing wrong with that .....I don't stare ....but part of maturity is being honest and realistic...


If someone present's something in a look at these manner that they know full well are sensational and eye catching as boobs are , to the public, they can expect that to draw alot of attention .....to expect otherwise is illogical and childish...not mature.....simple as that.
 DonInVictoria
Joined: 12/24/2006
Msg: 120
UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 1/16/2007 8:51:51 AM
OP msg 22 " And the staring back idea, hey the men I know would just see that as a come on and enjoy the heck of it. "

Well, at least you've got half the equation right.

If we thought you were otherwise unattractive, you can be sure we'd not be looking at all.

For many of us, it's a way of coming on to you. Which only shows we lack imagination.
 cedar77
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 121
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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here!
Posted: 1/16/2007 9:24:11 AM
Men, as a group, need to get their act together and quit bandying around lame excuse like "it's a habit, or women secretly like it."

Oh we do... do we??
Men as a group??!! .....Speak for yourself ...you sure aren't a representitive of all men (and if you are ....you're fired!! ) and neither am I ...so I won't lump all men in together.
Don't bother incriminating all of us!
Like I said.... one last time ....I don't stare and I think staring is not classy and is rude and creepy but ...
I think it's more like a few men who go too far .....like the one's who stare when a woman just happen's to be busty and isn't wearing anything "provocative"
That's the key word ....:"provocative" .....to provoke ...to cause a reaction....get it???
That's exactly it..."personal responsibilty" ..men and women have to take responsibility for their action's, but of course also this include's their provocation's.

I think maybe you're just trying to score point's with potential dates....not good...
Anyway's we disagree .....that's ok....no big deal.
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