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 Vixen08
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 126
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And thank you Saiyan
I should also say since Ive divorced almost 2 years ago most of the guys that make a move are the younger ones and well thats where 20-25 came in...
 softrider
Joined: 6/16/2004
Msg: 127
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 3:11:03 PM
for us "slow starters" this is also true - hitting 38 now and feeling like it's just getting started!
 Singlemale1962
Joined: 9/21/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 3:25:11 PM
My sex drive has always been high. had to wait for the women's to catch up !
 joyce1000
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 129
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 3:33:32 PM
factors of my life (such as the needs of my children, etc.), it's actually gotten quite difficult to find a woman of real class and distinction. For some, anything to easily attained is not worth having.

A woman of class and distinction is much more discerning. They are just not that desperate. I am astonished at how easy some women are and then they wonder why they cant find anybody to be interested in them. If i were a men i wouldnt be. I know a lot of men have attacked me on this but i keep my pants zipped up! I have a absolutely no illnesses . My future partner will have to be subjected to a medical test ( i already have given him several questionnaires so far) He so far has past the test and i have already told him i am not easy and dont do casual sex. He has agreed and if he thinks i will change my mind he has another thing coming. And for females that disagree with me , too bad, do whatever you feel like i am not telling you what to do.
 Tequila Sunrise1
Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 130
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:00:32 PM
correction, we hit our peak after 30!!
 tattat
Joined: 1/16/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:03:43 PM
saiyar___1 :^^^^^^^
Sounds like Mr Pop-O-Matic has a bit of soft spot for whats in his underwear.....Hey don't sweat it there (City). We cowboys understand y'all city folk tend to get a little up tight liven in the fast lane, little advice tho, Don't think about it so much, stop touchen it, and don't loose your cool so easily, The ladies see a man who cant control his attitude might mean he cant control whats under them thar fancy silky undergarments ya wear...... kinda tying his horse up in to many stables. Well you you know what I mean city,
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 132
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 9:32:13 PM
hahaha bub, you havent even seen me get close to being uptight! Loose my cool spattat??? hahahaha if I was , I woulda blasted ya good, not just jokingly dissed ya. Really though, maybe YOU cant see it, but.. to make a comment like you did in THIS forum... well cowboy, I gotta wonder if your a steer or a queer!
and... the "soft" spot in the drawers.. I think that be YOU
Ladies might be more apt to see a man who comments on another mans drawers, and not the essence of what he was saying, as a guy who cant control his ...ah..queer comments ... for it WAS CERTAINLY an odd thing for you to focus on... where you from... Brokeback Mountain?
yeah I tie a horse..you a lil pony.. now go ride off in your chaps, and stick to topic, BUMkin!

Speaking of which... Im catchin a certain vibe here...

A woman of class and distinction is much more discerning. They are just not that desperate. I am astonished at how easy some women are and then they wonder why they cant find anybody to be interested in them.
Sorry, but I GOTTA address this. And joyce, I mean no offence, but...
that sounds awfully condescending and judgemental. The...underlying vibe I get from your posting makes me kinda feel like you have a bit of a holyier than thou attitude, and your statement
do whatever you feel like i am not telling you what to do.
further adds to this upper-browism, ostentatious and pretentious feeling I get from your posting. Just my opinion, mind you, and correct me if Im wrong.
factors of my life (such as the needs of my children, etc.), it's actually gotten quite difficult to find a woman of real class and distinction.
. You make it sound like virile women ignore their kids (assuming they have any...just cuz YOU do doesnt maen everyone else does) or responsibilities in persuit of rampant, wanton, loveless unprotected sex, and cant find a man because of it.
And who said having a sex appetite, being virile, and enjoying a blooming or consistently healthy sex drive makes anyone desperate? Or low classed? or Lacking distinction? Thats rather inflammatory. I definately side with mary12465 who rightfully said:
The bad girl stereotype is lame and I try to overlook narrow minded comments about it. I've said it before and I'll say it again...liking sex doesn't make you a 'ho', it makes you human.
Actually read her whole posting. And unlike YOU.. shes very comfy with who she is, and has a pic up.Wheres yours?
How about passioniteone (like...WHOA... between her and vixen...Id pass out from lack of blood to the brain!! damn women... if we could box the two of you, and a few others here, we could put viagra outta business!) who said[qoute]Sex one can get anywhere......making love with someone you care about is soo much better....I am a romantic and I preffer the intamacy of one.... Hmmmm... these dont sound like women devoid of class and distinction, who are either easy or desperate. And doesnt allude to whether they persue unprotected sex with untested partners. Or that they participate in casual sex. Thats rather presumptuous joyce1000. Imagine poor buddy, subjected to all these tests and questionnaires (like wtf? You think your shits made of gold???) to find out you really are a prude and suck? as sparticuss said:
there is a shortage of men prepared to mum through hoops for sex.
... so whose gonna end up desperate? You are right though joyce,
anything to easily attained is not worth having.
.
But who ever said a womans increased sex drive, (especially in her THIRTIES where she is not only more comfortable with her body, but wiser to the ways of men, sex, and love) makes her 'easy' and easily attained? Women like fierynette who clearly show shes patient in waiting for a quality partner, despite her drive (and.. another one to add to my BOOYA ! list lol).
And your assumptions say plenty about men too... like we are all parasitic sharks looking to bang incessently, and that all we care for is loveless, casual sex. Now..not all of us, men and women alike, are baseless lil slutbags ya know, and some have learned that" sex without love is for virgins and animals." And here.. I quote myself.
Lastly... you never did say whether your libido has increased in your thirties!
 jumpin-java
Joined: 7/26/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/21/2007 10:19:29 PM
from what my doctor told me, the estrogen levels off in women and that makes them more aggressive and sexual. In men, it makes them more passive, which is nice since then they want to stay home more... or so I've found.

my sex drive tripled in about 1 year.
 tattat
Joined: 1/16/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 12:17:06 AM
Hey city if ya cant seem to recall, scroll back. You be da only one talkin about the queer experience, wit da broke back thang watchin ya ding-a-ling and how it feels down in ya shorts. (your comment)
ya gotta get off-a dat BS, maken ya look bad. Maybe ya need ta cruze on down to ask a guy. There may be a boy or two ta your liken there who likes check-n himself out too.
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 135
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 5:16:32 AM
you still flappin you gums?
Well dude... I had to make some sort of assumptions about your motives, since the main point I was making wasnt about undergarments, it was about the virility of 30's guys in relation to 30's gals...especially in relation to hotties like vixen... and what had YOU to say?? Scroll yourself...
and stop worrying so much about me and how 'bad' Im lookin, worry about yourself...cuz Im actually making some awesome friends here, outside of this forum from this forum, where you should throw your comments if ya got the nads, and not here, where your shit is outta context, way off topic, and ostentatious to say the least...
Either knock of your yokel okel bullshit, and make an actual contributon to the thread, or f*ck off...
sounds like youre the one getting uppity, and your 'cowboy' lingo is not only droll, its a good mask for your nescience
enuff is enuff
now go on, git

I am curious to know..jumping java..TRIPLED???? Whats changed? And when? Are you saying that 40's women can experience a further peak (you obviously spoke to your doctor about this)? I guess that answers ClassyLexus' earlier question about women in their 40's. As for the 40's guy... and becoming more of a homebody... I dunno if that means hes lost some drive, or tired out... maybe hes FINALLY grown up and settled down!!
Seems to me, despite science and common trends, we still cant generalize about sexuality, and like everything, we gotta guage, accept, and analize everyone and their situation individually. Especially for the counterpart to the thread topic... us men. Maybe were GENERALLY supposed to peak at 18... but not all of us. Ill keep my PERSONAL findings.. outta here. Some women here have stated that theyve always been virile, since their 20's and not noticed any particular increase, like babe121, passioniteone(yum yum), racelover, indigo rose, and redheadedcutie67.

FYI... did you guys know"excessive" sexual appetites amongst women in the old days was considered a sign of insanity? Freud himself looked upon masturbation as a sign of insanity and "self abuse"...
furor uterinus, in more modern times, (sorry, what we call nymphomania), is only considered a disorder now when when a womans (or in the case of men satyriasis) sex drive is so powerful and excessive that it interferes with her every day life. Like... she cant get outta bed, or maybe has graduated to toys ..that are gas powered, use the plug for your stove or clothes dryer, or a car battery, and require WHIMIS training to operate!!
just kidding lol
But seriously..any of you women here have it so bad that it affects your functioning in everyday life? lol Ever wind up late for work (or..hahahaha miss a bus or train stop or..cant get up) because your drive has overwhelmed you?
Or had a thought induced orgasm (look ma, no hands!)? lol
And apparently... alot of men subconsciously feel emasculated by the increased virility of women (especially thoose that can ejaculate), especially 30's women, and maybe why women like vixen are primarily approached by younger guys...
It wont faze me but might make me PANic (lmao).. Im a northern boy looking for his Selene... his aurora borealis. Lets see whose smart enuff to catch that....

and, Im learning from this thread ... theres more than steers and queers in Texas!
 Trillion
Joined: 11/14/2006
Msg: 136
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 8:50:26 AM
Its the hormones, their have been studies done which say that women over 30 are horner because of the hormones seems so, they say and i mean doctors say we should get younger men who can keep up with us, seems the men our age or older just dont have what it takes to hit that home run we are looking for in bed, so its best to get a man a few years younger, now ladys dont get someone who is still stuck to his moms tit! for goodness sake get a man a couple years younger and youll have the fun you are looking for. like ummm........im 38 so a man around 33,or even a 30 year older might be the man for me in bed that is lol. so think about it since we are horny we may as well get someone who can do something about it either way enjoy! I know i will.
 crazeegyrl
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 137
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 10:32:39 AM
Ok I am not alone-----------------Phew * wipes my brow*

I thought I was the only 30+ female walking around humping the air.....


Ya I have found that since i have gotten older the better SEX seems to be!!!!

good explanation on that one------------------^^^^^^^
 Vixen08
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 138
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 10:48:37 AM
Saiyan ...actually the thought of the wind getting a man especially a nice looking one excited as Crazeegyrl says at this stage in my life, can get me excited too, I could be "humping the air"
DARN where is my cucumber and KY Jelly
 joyce1000
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 139
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 11:39:52 AM
To saiyan 1

First, we all have our own opinions do we? You dont agree with mine and i dont agree
with yours. I am not calling you judgemental ( eventhough you give me your opinion and think its right ) or condescending.

factors of my life (such as the needs of my children, etc.), it's actually gotten quite difficult to find a woman of real class and distinction.

This was not written by me but by someone i responded to.

just cuz YOU do doesnt maen everyone else does) I dont have any kids i was not even discussing them. Why would i if i dont have any?

And who said having a sex appetite, being virile, and enjoying a blooming or consistently healthy sex drive makes anyone desperate? Or low classed? or Lacking distinction? Thats rather inflammatory.

I never said there s anything wrong with a healthy sex drive.

and has a pic up.Wheres yours?

I took my picture down since i met someone on this site. If you read my profile before mouthing off you would know more about me. But no you rather just write your bullshit because i happen to disagree with your views. I am very comfortable with myself have no sexual hangups at all and enjoy it when i am in a relationship. I dont happen to go to happy hour bars and have sex all the time with guys i ve just met.

Imagine poor buddy, subjected to all these tests and questionnaires (like wtf? You think your shits made of gold???) to find out you really are a prude and suck? as sparticuss said:

Oke i have no idea what sparticuss said and i dont care. All i care about is the person who i am interested in. And yeah i did send him a whole bunch of questionairres and he answered them without any attitude. Because he s the most wonderful man on this whole earth. He s not insecure like some men. And i can tell him anything i like and he can do the same with me without being attacked. By the way you dont need to worry about poor buddy he will have a very good sex life with me. I ve never had anyone complain in that department . You see just because i am not easy doesnt mean i dont enjoy great sex.

And no i am not a prude at all. Who is judgemental and condescending now?

Not that it bothers me as i said the only opinion that matters to me is the person i am going with.

like we are all parasitic sharks looking to bang incessently, These are most men unfortunately.

Lastly... you never did say whether your libido has increased in your thirties!

I never had any libido problem before or after 30.

You probably should have read the letter i was responding to. The man complained about how easy women were nowadays. And many are. Its their right if they want to do that. I am just saying what i do.
 Vixen08
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 140
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 6:12:32 PM
The thought of being hornier as I get older seems like a nice benefit to getting older
 studplayrico
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 141
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 9:03:37 PM
SEXUAL PEAK!!! who knows.
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 142
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/22/2007 9:44:53 PM
Joycee.. If I could say ONE word to you RIGHT NOW...
Id be ....

OOOPS!

You see... I just realized you were quoting someone... problem is you are apparently unaware of how to use the quote feature here (reading the rules and ettiquite of using the forums will show you how to highlight a passage youre quoting).. and you didnt use the old fashioned way of quoting someone using quotation marks (" ").
This was not written by me but by someone i responded to.
. And you indicated this... how?
maybe some women are easy... irrespective of their age and/or virility. When the topic HERE is
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
and you interject comments about women being easy (which ones? the ones HERE..or IN GENERAL???) and how YOURE not (and power to ya)... its too easy to misconstrue the point your trying to make.. especially when you said NOTHING in reference to the actual topic itself, it leads to the assumption that your comments were condescending to the women here who have expressed comments about their sexuality. A comment like
I am astonished at how easy some women are and then they wonder why they cant find anybody to be interested in them.
here... on a DATING site, in light of the TOPIC, could easily me misunderstood. Especially when you gave NO indication that you were responding to another posting, by identifying the comment made (no quote, no references, no msg. number) or the commentator (i.e. tagname). With so many postings, a lil clarification would have had me see what the point was you were making...
and in light of sparticuss' comments (which he's made twice) your comment seemed to counter what he was saying earlier about men jumping thru hoops.
So.. I apologize for my misunderstanding... but please, no ones a mind reader, and a simple clarification of who youre quoting or responding to would sure help. Even your last posting is confusing as hell, since theres no distinction between what YOURE saying, and what youre QUOTING. Im sure many have no idea who or what are quotes and from whom in your last posting. Its all just mashed into borderline incoherency.

You probably should have read the letter i was responding to.
you should have used the shift key and the quotation mark key to indicate you WERE quoting and responding. or said "in response to". Thats just being lazy, or nescient to basic stuff you learn in public school English class. Theres alot of messages here... 154 and counting...


like we are all parasitic sharks looking to bang incessently, 'These are most men unfortunately'.
I had to discern where your quote of me ended and your counter started, or, by your...quote, people would have no idea I didnt say what you just implied I said, since theres no distinction between the two (sorry, a comma doesnt count). And... Ouch... sounds like someones been burned?

You see just because i am not easy doesnt mean i dont enjoy great sex.
Has anyone here said or implied you WERE? Or dont? Or cared?

All i care about is the person who i am interested in.
Then why are you even here? If you had even just said
I never had any libido problem before or after 30.
thats all that really was necessary. And no ones really talking about libido 'problems'.. to the contrary. Your posting #141 seems irrelevant...unless... youre responding to a comment someone else made. Which.. appaently you WERE!!

You probably should have read the letter i was responding to.
. You should have indicated that you were responding to another letter, and quoting someone else. Kind of a ... prerequisite Id think.
So sorry I misunderstood.. cant see how I could have possibly done that, especially since there was nothing in that posting that was related to the TOPIC itself, other than to imply something other than was intended by its ambiguity.
Also.. I have now nor at any time had cause or reason to read nyour profile, and why should I? I made my comments strictly based on your comments HERE.. why would I want to know anything about you... especially a faceless entity on a dating site?
In the end, despite all this... I dont know how you can really say either of us disagrees or argees with the others opinions, since, now that you finally clarified what the hell you were saying.. I might agree, especially now that I know you werent being highty-dighty to the other women who were expressing comments about increased sexuality... maybe you are worth jumping thru hoops for... maybe not. And we know whose the ONLY person who should care, dont we. Its not ANYONE here!!

And... ahhhh ... seems like Im not the only one who appreciates... a nice breeze! lol
Im watching cable.. and the movie "Commando" is on... hmmmm... in light of the recent postings... I somehow have a different connotation to what "commndo" means!!
Im sure its not just vixen and crazeegyrl who should stay away fro that styl of dressing!!
and.. cucumber, vixen? Imaging..imaging... BLOCKING...BLOCKING.. gee...thanks for the visual... I wont be able to stand up now!
 joyce1000
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 143
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/23/2007 5:45:27 AM
To Saiyan 1

Oke you win. Are you happy now?
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 144
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/23/2007 6:06:45 AM
Nope... just sorry I pissed you off actually
 Escences
Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 145
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/23/2007 12:04:47 PM
Sexual peak has been going on for years...Just wish I could meet someone that will knock it right out of me.Over and over lol.A 5 min one hit wonder doesnt help thats for sure.Funny those are the ones that brag lol they are sooo GOOD!I dont want good at my age I want the best!
 joyce1000
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 146
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/23/2007 3:43:20 PM
Thats oke, i was in a bad mood. About the english your right but thats because i was raised learning 2 languages at the same time. My parents traveled all over the world and when i was 5 i had to be bilingual. I spoke english but they decided to live in The Netherlands. So i had to learn dutch. Then at 13 i had to learn french and german, which i dont speak at all anymore except a few sentences. My poor brain cant keep up with it.

By the way i was angry at the man who made the statement about women being easy.
I happen to love my female sisters. unfortunately hewas right and i cant debate it unless i resort to lies. I am not saying every woman is like that. And if they are i dont mind, its just not who i am. As far as the cucumber thing i laughed at it , see i have a bizarre sense of humor. And no i dont mastrubate, but if i would i have no problems admitting to it. I have done so in the past but at present i choose not to do so As far as being promiscuous i have done both so i understand where these women are coming from.

I ve never been considered a prude. That one i thought was funny. Was raised during the sexual revolution in Amsterdam, Holland of all places and i ve done it all. If you knew anything about Amsterdam you would know its one of the most liberal countries in the world even for European standards.

As far as my questionnaire, dont feel bad i have more people attacking me on that. But i prefer to have sex without a condom and i like to know if that person has any illnesses. I think thats just smart. I dont see anything wrong with a medical test and am so happy i found this wonderful man, i have to travel over 30 hours to see him but when i do i am sure its going to work out just fine.
 Robert_n_Dallas
Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 147
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/23/2007 5:35:12 PM
I believe your right!! Women just hit there peak... Plus they also know what they want compared to when they were in there 20's. I also believe in there 30's - 40's women have more freedom, there more leberal as well.
 saiyan_1
Joined: 8/26/2005
Msg: 148
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/23/2007 9:46:34 PM
See joyce.. hate to be picky.. but you were incorrect... we do share similar opinions! lol
And I feel bad for totally misunderstanding cuz I resent the notion that all women are easy.
Amsterdam huh? Of course I know about it.. Im Canadian! lol
As for the masturbation thing.. weird co-inky dink, and maybe some other women here can contribute on this. I recently had a good talk with a female friend... shes 22 and has never masturbated. My ex fiancee never did, til I found out and taught her. 12 years after we broke up, she saw me and THANKED me profusely because masturbation so enhanced her sex life. Now she knows what she likes and can direct her partner so much better now that shes experimented, and knows what she likes, and even gives herself rugburn in her throes of self gratification. Sure, youre right, everyones different, but for women, even moreso than men, masturbation is very important in finding ones exact sexual preferences, and helps a woman unlock the particular combination to her safe. (like Monica said in an episode of friends..4,5,2,3,7,3,7,5,7,7,3,7,4,,7,3,7,7,7,7,7,7,7,7,7!!!) And I dunno what it is, but, especially in the 30's women find two... particular places that, when stimulated, with the right amout of... ah... manipulation, that these 2 ...spots, or erroneous zones, can help push her over the edge into "O" land, especially when shes really really close and at the point where shes gonna make it or lose it (and,isnt that frustrating??). An most find thes, and other things, usually NOT from an experienced and astude male partner (maybe, on occasion from... never mind) but usually thru self experimentation.
Maybe playing with yourself isnt for YOU.. but most women its a definate must. You sound like an anomoly there joyce.
And I agree about your.. need for screening. Ive always said..if you use condoms for protection from disease, and not birth control, what the hell are you doing sleeping with them in the first place???
 joyce1000
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 149
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/27/2007 4:31:13 AM
to saiyan 1

Hi i said i used to. Didnt say i never did it. At the moment i am not. Having too many problems in my life. Men troubles! They keep me too busy thinking, my shrink tells me to get rid off them. haha.

 jojo821
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 150
Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/27/2007 6:14:48 AM
of course it has to do with hormones,self confidence,experiance,all that.i know for me in my 20's sex was always good,but now that i'm over 30 my sex drive has gone way up,its crazy .i'm thinking ,this is what it feels like to be a guy,thinking about it all the time and inneciating things i would have been embarresed to do in my 20s with no shame.its very liberating .
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