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Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 26
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So another Brittanie Wannabe?... they all look alike to me, that site almost crashed my PC no wonder the kids gotta have the latest now!
Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 12/18/2005 6:32:40 PM
I noticed this is kind of an old thread, but compelled to put my 2 cents worth in.
I have always dated younger men. But there IS and HAS to be a limit. That's just the way it is....older men ACT older....while younger men ARE older to a certain degree. I don't really know why, but I have just always gotten along better with someone younger. The younger men seem to treat an older woman better. Especially if they've never been married. The older gents all want to talk about the ex wives, and how bad it was with them. The younger guys don't seem to "dwell" on it as badly. I won't date a guy younger than 40. A friend of mine said, and I quote, "If they're young enough to come out....they're too young to go in"...I know...sounds kind of crass, but it's the truth......

Luck to us all.....
Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 12/20/2005 8:50:38 PM
My name is Thomas I am 25 years old from Ohio. When I was 22 I use to date a 56 year old. I will be honest she was from Kentucky we never had the money, so it really never went anywhere. The 6 months we talked and all everything was all right. So I mean I wanted to post my message in here and see what people thought. To me age is a number and if u really care about someone and they love u for u. and u love them for them, why would it matter. But that was my little story on older woman younger men. Hey even today I wouldnt mind a older woman, everyone is equal and are good people if u have that good person. Thank you Thomas
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 2/3/2006 12:04:36 PM
Im married to a woman that is 16 years older then me. I wouldnt tread it in for enything. I love older woman and think they make the best partners. If enything would ever happen and I would be single agen you better belive that I would go for a older woman.
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 5/19/2006 7:07:40 PM
I am in full agreement with you. I just wish I could find an older woman in my area.
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 5/21/2006 5:59:48 PM
I love older women because the ones I've came accross no what they want and aren't afraid to go out and get it. Also I can relate with them eaiser, than some of the women I've encountered that were younger than me. However, I have to agree with my man if I could find someone in my area it would be nice.
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 6/12/2006 2:44:25 PM
well personally i believe everyone is different in all aspects and cant be judged based of the person befor them. i actully had a girl break up with me and never tell me because she had never had anyone take a relationship as serious as i was taking it. i guess it doesnt pay to be faithful ( im kidding of-course )
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 6/13/2006 6:05:31 AM
Well said! I was married to a man 12 years younger than myself (and I'm OLD!! lol). Unfortunately, it didn't last..but it was by far the happiest time of my life while it did. I would do it again in a heart beat if I could find someone. But at this time of my life, I think I'm a little too long in the tooth for anyone to care, but I keep hoping.
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/19/2006 4:26:50 AM
Hello all,

I am tossing my 2 cents in here. I have frequently dated younger men. I love their tenatiousness in the bedroom, however, no matter how much I adore them, they always want to marry me. I am not into marrying, as I have done it twice and it will take someone extremely special to drag my ass down that aisle kicking and screaming again!

I am 49, my last lover was 32. Very mature acting for his age and very happy that I was willing to try just about anything (well mainly I already knew it, and it was fun refreshing..giggle) or he was willing to try just about anything ... we had excellent communication ... however, he wanted to try "swinging" and I am just too monogamous for that AND he kept at it and kept at it. I ended it because it was a non stop issue with us.

Personally, I find older men, for the most part boring and predictable. They get set in their little routines and rarely defer from it. Sex is usually so so because of erectile dysfunction due to numerous reasons..HBP meds, prostate, etc. Once the "middle age crazies" set in, all they can think about is getting out and doing whatever they want, because they were so "tied down" in their marrage ... so here's what they do ... FIRST THING ... buy a Harley, the older man's answer to the penis extension, and for some bizzarre reason, they think they are going to get laid on a regular basis...or a hot new sports car. They seem to think this will make the ex-wife jealous or pissed off.

THEN he starts cruising the local hot spots to see if he can get a younger girl interested in his new acquisition...sometimes it happens (if the guy is in great shape and looks reasonably good) but most times it doesn't. But while he is there, he gets tanked up and finds a few of his old buddies and starts bragging up his new found freedom! He drinks it up, buys drinks for the local honies who are huggin him in appreciation but the closest he gets to bagging her is copping a "feel".

After awhile he gets bored with that because he hasn't scored so much as a passing glance, and his semi-erect penis is no longer responding to his own fondling ... and he ends up sitting in front of the TV flipping channels just like he did at home before he left and his wife was nagging him to get off the couch and do something...only this time he is ALONE!!!!!!!!

There are exceptions, usually they are married men, older career men whose wives lost interest in everything but his money and he needs attention and seeks is out. Sometime a woman will fall into the affair and sometimes he just frequents call them after hours escorts... and last but not least there is the guys who has kids that wants to get laid but not get into a committed relationship because he doesn't want his kids to be affected by a change in the mother /father relationship, even though mom is remarried and he is still in love with her but doesn't realize it...and then there is the rare exception to the older man rule...the guy who is just plain normal and is looking for a great relationship and is active physically, in shape and willing to try great things and experience them with a great woman, they have little problem keeping it up, but are willing admit they need assistance ... I haven't met many of those guys ... however, I keep a sample of levitra on me at all times, just in case! (wink wink)
Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/19/2006 9:42:14 AM
I think it all depends on the level of security the guy has,whether he wants to be in a real relationship or just a one night stand.Alot of men will say they are ready for a relationship when they don't even know themselves then get mad when a woman knows more about them than they do thier own selves.It doesn't matter the age of a man it's how true of a person he really is,even a 40 yr old can be a player if he wanted to.
Joined: 4/1/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/19/2006 10:51:25 AM
DesertFox...that was GREAT!!! THANK YOU !!!!!!
Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 37
Posted: 6/19/2006 12:07:41 PM
well i really like to date an old woman as well.
can u help me.
Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/19/2006 1:22:22 PM
When did you gals give up on older men? You just havert tried the right ones.........
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/19/2006 1:32:07 PM
I feel the need to put in my 2 cents also.From all I have read so far the only thing I have come up to was that a older woman dates a younger man so she dont feel her age and wants to feel young again,and a younger man dating a older woman makes him feel older than he really is.Doesnt anybody want to act their age anymore?
What is the big deal about all of the sex crap?dont anyone know that anyone that has sex outside of marriage is wrong?Oh yea I forgot people dont read the bible much anymore because it contradics all of their own all have the internet take a look at the truth.We are married till death do us part...

When someone gets divorced for any other reason than fornication or sexual sins then they commit adultry.they used to stone adulterers so the inocent would be free to marry again.why is it ok now?because the guilty person is already dead spiritually.
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/19/2006 2:10:19 PM
I don't need to feel younger, I already do! I just need someone that can keep up with me. Right now I'm seeing a 27 year old (I'm 34) and he has a hard time. Merch, maybe this isn't the website for you- they have lots of Christian dating websites out there, ya know! I was married, it didn't work out. Does that me I should be condemned to a life of misery because I picked the wrong guy? IT IS 2006!
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 6/19/2006 2:52:02 PM
Your absolutley right,it is 2006 and only we have changed.I never got my updated bible yet maybe you could loan me yours!the true fact are that 3 to 4 out of 4 divorces are caused by the woman walking away in search of greener pastures.and your right there are christion dating sites as there are sites where others are only seeking intimate relations,even if they are married or the way you pricked the wrong person at your own choice.maybe if you spent more time doing right you wouldnt be doing wrong.Why would a 27 year old have a hard time are you a sex addict that cant get enough.young people call it sex and older people call it making love,your just wanting the sex and cant handle the resposability that goes with staying with one person to know what making love is.and never will,youll be in and out of relations the rest of your life.
Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/19/2006 5:52:07 PM
Dude, you over-analized this, most likey to your unfortunate encounters, and in this year of 2006, you certaintly can not be throwing this bible at everyone. And who says people cant search for what makes them happy, it might take them down adventurous roads, but that is in their comfort. Your beliefs arent the same as evryone elses, and you dont have any right to push religion on anyone, you make it seem like a cult, and by you i generalize. And why would you bring that into it, way to lame it out, this started as an educational convo, thanks for the grinding halt
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/19/2006 6:44:29 PM
Thank you Tank! I wasn't putting down Merch, mainly just expressing my views. I was married for 14 years from age 18, at which time I was too young to be married. People make mistakes, but apparently not Merch. You are exactly the reason I don't attend church, I don't want your way, which in your eyes is the only way, shoved down my throat. I am perfectly happy in my life and I hope you are too! Don't tell me how to live my life and what my issues are when it is obvious you have plenty of your own!
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 44
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Posted: 6/19/2006 6:47:20 PM
And when I said he had a hard time keeping up with me, did I mention sex? Maybe you should re-read my post and get your mind out of the gutter!
Joined: 4/1/2006
Msg: 45
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Posted: 6/19/2006 7:38:03 PM
MERCHANDISE: would YOU stay in a relationship where your spouse cheated repeatedly, stayed gone weeks at a time....only playing daddy to his kids when it was convienent for him? Running up charge cards at outrageuos rates buying for his g/f? I REFUSE to put up with that any longer! It wasnt for greener pastures of another man...i was faithful to my husband....i put MYSELF and HIM through college..only to be treated ths way...I decided I didnt have to be treated this way anymore....get into reality dude...things arent like they were in the 50's.....I have had to except this move what you have to do....and i say if the other person is younger or do what makes the BOTH of you have to learn to live.........
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 6/19/2006 8:12:44 PM
I personally think it does not matter, men are just little boys in grown watch them at x-mas with I have dated men in thier mid 30's who acted 12, I have dated men 21 who have acted 35, on the same note I have also dated men that are 20 and acted 12. I guess its an individual thing as is everthing. I dont think it matters as lond as you are happy, I personally like younger guys, they seem less likely to be couch patatoes.
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 6/19/2006 11:42:37 PM
I have always been mostly attracted to older women..its engrained into me..

mostly because they have direction in life and can have a more stimulating...ahem..conversation with...
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 6/22/2006 9:01:17 AM
i've posted a cpl comments regarding the older women younger guys subject, personally i prefer the younger guys but not the immature ones, theres alot out there who really do have their shiat together and have their goals set where as i find many guys my own age are still having issues what they want out of life aka mid life crisis setting in lol to borrow the words of Johnnyangel, more stimulating
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 6/22/2006 2:17:40 PM
i'm an authority on age differences. i've done it all. i've gone to one end and came back to the other. i've been single most of my life. i've had a failed marriage to a woman 20 years younger than me when i was 45. in my teens i dated women in their 30's as well as my own age. when i was 28 i dated a woman who was 61. i'm 54 now. a couple of months ago i dated a beautiful 28 year old, a 32 year old and last year a 23 year old who was even prettier. last week i went out with a 60 year old. i've been out with hundreds of women over the past almost 40 years of dating. i can only speak for myself. younger women lack maturity. period. there's no sense of commitment, loyalty, self honor. the prettier they are the hotter they think they are but really are more boring than most. the lay there during sex. they're demanding. the older woman is more easy going, understanding, willing to compromise and please, less jealous. the whole bit. why do i continue to go out with younger women you ask. because they DO make you feel young to be with them. and i love to feel young and learn new things. plus i like hip hop music which most women my age don't. these are my views and i stand by them. i have the true life experiences to back me up.
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 50
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Posted: 7/2/2006 6:30:05 AM
I ve always had a thing for older women too. Theyve gotten along with me more and give me more attention than women in their 20s. Age is just a number, its all about whats inside.
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