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 TheDirtyBen
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 277
Do men really know what Women Want???????Page 10 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
Ah, so you want a guy that will get you out of the house? not so much as to what he has to offer as a person?
And what do you consider to be your age group?

Also, I would say not to pass up a younger guy so easily. Especially if his maturity level is upto par.
 Assurance67
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 278
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/9/2008 5:11:09 PM
independence, understanding, trust, uncontionaly love, humor, sex, and so on..woman(maybe just me..lol..want to much).
 max2099
Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 279
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/10/2008 9:01:49 AM
Indeed...What does a woman want. Maybe at one time the "nice guy to treat them well" line may have been an honest answer, but now...now it's just a stupid cliche. Nowadays, if you don't have a 100, 000 dollar (exagerating a bit) education, an 8 figure income, nice cars and can buy them things then you aren't even worth their time. Gone are the days of, "Oh, I don't care if you don't have any money...as long as you are with me I'm rich"....now it's "Lemme see your check book or credit card...better be a platinum". Then there are the women that seem pretty level headed, have a good sense of humor and when you say, "I'm not feeling well" or "I just don't want to come over right now" they have a 30 kiliton emotional melt down. Like you just ripped their hearts out and tapped danced on them. Are there any women left out there who don't play games? Someone who will say what they mean and stop f'ing giving hints and being pissed because "If they have to ask you to, then it doesn't mean anything". Really? We always have to ask, but when we do we are being pushy or we have to ask for any kind of attention we are suffocating them and not giving them personal space...OH and there's my favorite...Say a guy is faithful to his wife and she cheats on him...not once, but multiple times and gets pregnant by one of them...what then? We just don't understand what they are going through...give me a frigging break. Ladies, it's easy...if you want something...GD ask for something...stop playing these psycological bullshit games trying to read more into things than whats really there...stop having melt downs when we don't want to be intimate when if the tables were turned you would expect us to understand and ice ourselves down.

Hey Pot, this is Kettle calling....
 mheath4
Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 280
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/23/2008 8:57:11 PM
Women want ANIMALS!!!!

1. A jaguar in the garage
2. A mink in the closet
3. A tiger in the bed
4. A jackass to pay for all of it.
 Ethnea
Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 281
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Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/25/2008 1:49:11 AM
For this week only, women in Georgia want a man who knows where to purchase gasoline!
 whatsallthis
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 282
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/25/2008 2:51:02 AM
Women don't know what women want. How the hell is a man supposed to know, especially considering that whatever they want at the moment is subject to change suddenly without warning?
 DirtyOldManInTraining
Joined: 9/17/2008
Msg: 283
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/28/2008 10:54:28 PM
Women want me!


They just don't know it yet!!!

 OldFolkie
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 284
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Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/28/2008 11:25:59 PM
Short answer? No.

Long answer? No, we really don't.
 tallyover
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 285
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/28/2008 11:47:47 PM
My ex stole all my dreams, so I don't know what I want.
but I know what I don't want!
 jag62
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 286
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:27:55 AM
Easy, open your mouth and ask her
 Raging Heart-on
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 287
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/29/2008 9:32:00 AM
An endless supply of new shoes and chocolate.

 DreamGirl41
Joined: 8/25/2008
Msg: 288
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/29/2008 12:42:04 PM
NO,, It's our job to tell them......!
 davdo
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 289
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 9/30/2008 2:22:07 AM
How about a guy with a memory? remembers all the important dates, favorite foods, movies, shoes, designers and why these things are important to them. Also remembers why he loves her and not someone else.
 ThatsNOTmybaby
Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 290
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 11/27/2008 11:02:56 PM
I thought they wanted SEX and MONEY???? Wait.... they "want" other things? Please enlighten me on what it is?
 MizzDeannaBanana
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 291
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 11/27/2008 11:47:24 PM
I would hope that men would know that all women would want a best friend, a damn good lover(and no it's not! wrong to want a good lover!!) someone that they could trust and have a good laugh with. Respect, communication, mental stimulation. That could be just what this woman wants...I don't think some men know...many don't have a clue.

I agree with the poster that said ask her...honesty goes a long long way.

 jimtash71
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 292
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 11/28/2008 7:19:38 AM
I would hope that men would know that all women would want a best friend, a damn good lover(and no it's not! wrong to want a good lover!!) someone that they could trust and have a good laugh with. Respect, communication, mental stimulation. That could be just what this woman wants...I don't think some men know...many don't have a clue.


But what many fail to see is that couples need to bond in more ways than just mutual attraction and chemistry. If they don't share commonality beyond that, then there will be no true friendship or mental stimulation. How could there be?

Men especially need to take heed of that.

And as for the women, maybe ya'll should also realize that you need to be yourselves and not change for the sake of anyone. Nor should men have to change for you. Bonding happens because of who and what you are. It's the sign of true compatibility.
 smartandtall
Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 293
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/9/2008 2:37:38 PM
It has been my experience that jag62 is 100% correct. Each woman is unique and what is important for one woman most likely is different for the next woman.

I find some of the posts on here amusing! Especially from some MICE masquerading as men saying silly cliches about money and sex.

For me, it is easy. The most sensual part of a woman's body is her brain, and an intelligent woman looks better to me than an illiterate Barbie. Once I capture a woman's imagination, the rest will follow.....
 Blue_Note
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 294
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/12/2008 8:53:01 PM
Do men reallly know what women want? NO!

Fortunately, most men I know in my life readily admit this.

"No" makes for a great starting ground. I've found that every person is individual (gender may produce some similiarities, but we aren't all the same and don't all want the same things).

I don't know what men want either, generally speaking, so take it on a case by case basis. Most men I've met know to do this with women too. It's called "getting to know each other."
 Intellikinky
Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 295
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/13/2008 4:01:57 AM
the TRUE response NO ONE has yet to figure out is YES. Men know what women want. There are lots of things and men can fulfill plenty of them. They are logical creatures.

The POINT of the matter is it's WOMEN who DONT know what THEY want.

Girls will blow off a perfect gentlemen and prince because of some peice of irrationality. A guy will blow her off after a long string of irationalities if everything else was fine.
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 296
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/13/2008 5:41:01 AM

generally speaking, so take it on a case by case basis. Most men I've met know to do this with women too. It's called "getting to know each other."


One of the most honest answers here.

If your here to find someone date and know better,
be patience and be realistic cuz in alot of ways it's no different off line.

imo,one of the biggiest misconceptions here is instant compatitbility cuz you think you have more knowledge to go on,not so.

I have meet some beautiful friends here which grew over time and commuication was paramount with them, this is called being on the same page!

Now if your not sure what she wants just ask or watch that movie with Mel Gibson or

and when I was a young peep the best information I was given was women love vanity

so if you click with her 'sweet nothings' can go along way.

P.S. And lastly,my good old mom, taught me right!

Thanks.........
 MY OH MY
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 297
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/13/2008 1:32:18 PM
It is like how many licks does it take to get to the center of the tootsie-pop, the world may never know, but some men do.
 Saturday Night Rocks
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 298
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/13/2008 7:38:19 PM

Here is my question men seem to think they all know what women want but do they really?????????? Do they actually take time to think about what it is that make us tick.................WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT BOYS?


I know what they want. I'm just not prepared to sell my soul to provide it . . .
 man of my word
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 299
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/13/2008 9:00:57 PM
Funny cause women don't even know what they want. Every couple of years women change their mind when it comes to what they want in a man. Before women start bad mouthing me on this thread, women have told me this & at my age & still dating I've come to realize they might be right.
 dave28079
Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 300
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/15/2008 3:37:47 PM
Haha... THAT's funny!


Truth is... a woman will never tell you what she REALLY wants. I haven't read all 13 pages of this thread, but I have read several and here is what I've not seen anyone say yet:

Women will say they want a nice guy who's honest, caring, trustworthy.. blah blah blah.. But, what they really want is a jerk. A guy who is nice once in a while, but a "bad boy" the rest. Ever notice how all the nice guys are single and all the jerks have hot girlfriends?

This is definitely worth a read: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/483318927.html
 SmarmyBob
Joined: 11/12/2008
Msg: 301
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 12/15/2008 4:04:16 PM
Yeah, that's easy, confidence, compliments, communication.. blah, blah
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