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 rsoxfancg
Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 165
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Men dont know what women want because most of the time, the women themselves dont know what they want.

If you were to ask me what i would guess that most women REALLY want it would go something like this.......

A tall, "badass" type who treats them like crap but will occassionally treat them nice so that way she can justify every other time the guy acts like a jerk. Bonus points if they are possessive and they treat everyone else like crap as well.

Oh and also...........the "ideal" man changes daily.



I think that about sums it all up.
 browneyedhansomeman
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 166
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:43:22 PM
every woman has a different feel .
So depending on the woman ...sure can easily tell . almost as easy as saying sure i can get with that .....but only by reading info of course .
Everyone wants pretty much the same thing except in different preportions ....not all at once .
too fast ...she's out the door .
too slow something is wrong .
just right ...thats the ticket.
but i am sure we all want the same thing.
but it is just our self conciousness holding us back .
along with our stereotypical ways.
So take a dip into a different pond every now and then .....soem tims she doesnt even know until she experiences it ...and there you have i folks, thats a wrap.......is that a wrap.....back to you phil...
 HotLipsElvira
Joined: 8/11/2006
Msg: 167
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:47:43 PM
Then you have yet to meet the right woman 4 you :)
 yankeeinnc
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 170
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/27/2006 11:07:02 PM
But I agree they want the baddest, bad ass they can find, even when they really want an orgasm, but the bad ass only cares about getting his. This explains why women get so frustrated and confused that they cannot think clearly to know what it is they really want.
 yankeeinnc
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 171
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/27/2006 11:18:48 PM
Oh yeah, and when they do know what they want, and you click like crazy, its futile because these women seem to always have these mysterious unsolved issues they simply MUST deal with before they can have a relationship, which usally end up taking the rest of their natural like, which means I know what they actually want - DRAMA. ANd thats something an average stable Joe can't provide. I wish women would just tell us what they really want!!!!!!!!!
 whowantstoknowjoe
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 172
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/28/2006 7:26:45 AM
I think both men and women don't know what they want a lot of the time even when they say they do. I also think different people want different things out of life and out of there partner?

In general...
People want people with similar morals
People want people with similar interests
People want people with similar lifestyles
People want people with similar habits
People want people with nice cars(jk) only some but that goes with lifestyles

You ask a general question you get a general answer
 TheBigID
Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 174
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Posted: 8/28/2006 12:58:19 PM

WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT BOYS?


A tall, dark, and handsome prince, and heir to the thrown of a small, but wealthy European nation, with a very sick king, a castle with a moat, and a palace credit card?

Oh, and a salad with dressing on the side.

Close?
 Wullis
Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 176
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Posted: 8/28/2006 2:08:49 PM
The Honest truth is that NO MAN knows what women want .......because since EVE women have been saying "if you REALLY loved me I wouldn't need to tell you"

Its the original Catch 22
 bill2k6
Joined: 8/15/2006
Msg: 178
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 10/10/2006 6:49:33 PM
ok....i'll take this question! what do woman want???? they don't know! thats why all us single guys are here! not at home with a woman who loves you for who you are! cause there is that one guy who will do it for me? naaa not a chance...take the smart, ugly guy! its safe and less stressfull!
 RichSoprano
Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 180
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 10/16/2006 12:15:08 AM
It's simple,,,,,, Men want to rule the world and women want to rule men. :-)
 Ryan832
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 183
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:28:40 AM
I have no clue as to what women want.
 Nightwing66
Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 184
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 3/15/2007 9:32:30 AM
Yep....women want a person who doesn't lump them into an all-inclusive category like "Women" & who takes the time to figure out the individuality behind the actual person in front of them.

Suprise!

Guys want this too.
 nautimile
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 185
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Posted: 3/15/2007 9:51:15 AM
do women really know what women what??
 nautimile
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 186
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Posted: 3/15/2007 9:53:09 AM
do girls really know what women want?
 mamabee
Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 187
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 3/15/2007 8:16:16 PM
Do we, as women, really know what we want???

Sometimes I think I do and sometimes I have no idea.
 orchidtigress
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 188
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 3/15/2007 11:24:01 PM
Agreed- No clue!
 iWorkSteel
Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 189
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 3/15/2007 11:29:27 PM
I thought I knew. Let's see. I gave them both the house, part of my income, cars, and several pints of blood sucked from my veins. Wasn't that it?
Please tell me that was it.
 Fight Naked
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 191
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Posted: 8/2/2008 4:07:37 PM
Not everyone knows what they do want. And even when they say they do they don't.

In Real-Estate we say buyers are liars. They give us this and that which we must find. Then we get close or chose a home that is nothing like their list but has one thing that we feel you might like and boom. You have to have that house. It was not on your list and not in the exact area but you have fallen in love with it.

Some times, we don't know what we want until it slaps us in the face and then we just have to have it. Opposites attract and like attracts and sometimes way out of the box is what we just have to have.

No men nor woman do not always know what they want. They might think they do.

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 deere rancher
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 192
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Posted: 8/2/2008 8:39:07 PM
everything thats what they want everything
but they can be happy with less
 Aries0328
Joined: 1/19/2008
Msg: 193
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/2/2008 8:44:40 PM
I've tried to guess. I've tried to ask. Everytime I think I've had an idea it's been shoved back in my face how completly clueless and what an ass I am :-P

 Aries0328
Joined: 1/19/2008
Msg: 195
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Posted: 8/2/2008 10:12:45 PM

but I guess if you do it with love she will be pleased


Ha... Got a good smackdown for trying that one too.
 yourstillhere
Joined: 7/30/2008
Msg: 196
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Posted: 8/2/2008 10:39:00 PM
Heres what women want-

A woman just wants ONE man to fulfill her EVERY need. Forever.

But heres the problem-

A man just wants EVERY woman to fulfill his ONE need.
Forever.
 discrete_contact
Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 198
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/2/2008 11:41:47 PM
Women want: Resources and Genes. - this is a compressed and short answer.

Some details:
Resources as - money, good guy with "goals" to ensure money is pouring in and would never give up on his goals, in general they want a resourful guy so they are on the "safe" side. Also the guy better be "resourceful" in terms of entertaining her as well(being funny) at all levels...tickling her inteligence and her well being with sweet things again at all levels. Guys - this part requires TONS of energy and involvement. The scale is "galactical".

Genes as: they want a guy to be able to have kids with. the right guy need to be attractive and good looking and he would want "just" her forever (until death) - Their access to the "genes" is vital that's what their life is all about mostly at one point. Procreation, making sure that the species would survive. (hardcoded stuff). Yeah sure exceptions here and there but, most women would ask if you want family anyways -this is the so called: "I want a serious guy" which is fine.
(the requirements are the problem, not this one, read above)

I could add here all kinds of collateral stuff of course, but that would just be in help for the "core" needs .... and would be just to support the great undertake of creating and keeping a family together with all its pressures and issues.

I don't know to many cases of women looking for a guy "just for fun". Or if there are its just for a while....until they decide to get to all of the above.
But that's another story.

That's basicaly it. You could rephrase or put it in other words if you like and put the more details. (I can assure you there are more details...:-))

Have a good one.
 SapphirePoet
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 199
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Posted: 8/3/2008 6:17:13 AM
Well this turned out to be quite the women bashing thread didn't it now.

Women just want to be loved for who we are and not what we can do for you!

See how easy that was.
 FatBottomGirlie
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 200
Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted: 8/3/2008 7:34:53 AM
Don't ya just love being told over and over again you don't have a clue what you want.

*rolls her eyes*
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