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 truthodare
Joined: 2/26/2006
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Lol, if they don't have teeth, I'm out of there. No explanations necessary.

Aside from that, I have a thing about hands, and it can be a factor in whether or not I'm attracted.
 Larissan04
Joined: 4/28/2004
Msg: 177
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/12/2008 6:10:53 PM
honestly, i check out the guys clothes. if a guy doesn't have a sense of style i am not attracted to them. i am an artistic person and design is important to me. i am not saying that the guy has to wear designer duds by any means, i am just saying he needs to have his own sense of style. having a bad hair cut, outdated jeans, a ratty tshirt usually with some beer or sports insignia on it, with the shirt tucked in and a belt pulling the jeans way up high around the waist... yeah that's a big turn off.... and wearing tennis shoes with denim shorts and socks... oh god! what a turn off...

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 defaultname105
Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 178
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/13/2008 8:37:43 PM
actualy. i listen to the sound of their voice. people can change their hair color, eye color, wear makeup, high heals, etc.
but you cant change your voice. it can realy clue you into who someone realy is
 *Sassy Redhead*
Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 179
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/13/2008 10:32:15 PM
I notice how tall they are, the broadness of their shoulders and the warmth in their eyes. I like tall men!
 DamCute
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 180
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 12:05:26 AM
Eyes. Their expression. If a smile reaches them. Do they avoid eye contact?

How they carry themselves. Are they articulate? Can they carry a conversation? Do they speak intelligently? I mean you dont have to have a Ph.D , in philosophy, but c'mon! Attempt to put a Few words together!

Body Language

Body Hygene
 YourAngel_a
Joined: 9/25/2008
Msg: 181
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 1:36:56 AM
If he smiles when he sees me, his chances with me double alomost instantly, I love a man's smile : )

 diamonds_or_pearls
Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 182
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 3:38:20 AM
[If he smiles when he sees me, his chances with me double alomost instantly, I love a man's smile : )]

I'd much rather see that smile than an "oh s&%t" look!
I have a thing about teeth too. They don't have to be the whitest ever, or perfectly straight, but it is really important that they be in good shape-- to me anyways. I guess it's because I'm obsessive about mine. My parents spent alot of money getting mine straight!
 arista1
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 183
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 5:01:56 AM
I look into someone's eyes and you can also tell how someone is interested by the eyes as well.
 girldc
Joined: 1/25/2008
Msg: 184
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:16:44 AM
one time I noticed a guy's EARS. If you look like you haven't cleaned your ears with a q-tip in about a year then I have to wonder about what other daily personal hygine routines you neglect...

 NvrLookBk
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 185
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/14/2008 6:26:09 PM
Well the very first thing I notice on the opposite sex , which I find EXTREMELY attractive, is A JOB!!!
 NotJustAnotherGuy
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 186
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/18/2008 6:47:47 PM
the quality of a woman's smile matters to me...without that in one of her pics i'm considering leaving...

next, she has to have a descriptive view of herself that i can visualize from her profile...the more she owns her own life, the more she excites me...loving your own life is very important...just saying it is not enough...demonstrate it to me...

if both of those things are missing, i'm gone...
 oldsoul
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 187
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/18/2008 6:52:25 PM
His warmth (or lack of).

 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 188
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/18/2008 7:23:54 PM
I notice men's hands and teeth. If they can't take care of both of those, I don't want to touch them. If someone has dirty teeth or fingernails, it's gross and they probably don't take care of the rest of themselves.
 diamonds_or_pearls
Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 189
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/19/2008 7:51:45 AM
Speaking of hands, I like hands that are a little callused. I don't like a less than firm handshake or super soft hands.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 190
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/24/2008 1:12:29 PM
Their posture and eyes. Smile and eye contact is a good indicator.
 nagyi
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 191
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/24/2008 1:50:42 PM
eyes...smile...butt
 joanne1357
Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 192
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/24/2008 5:02:00 PM
eyes, smile, hands
 A_wild _rose
Joined: 7/30/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:01:17 PM
I notice the face,eyes and smile first. If the smile is warm and inviting or a little nervous. . .... eyes the window to the soul
 Lil Brooker
Joined: 6/17/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:11:14 PM
Eyes, hands, lips, smile, shoes, over-all dress, laugh, words, demeanor, courtesy, smell.
It's not one thing but a bundle. Only if one were one dimensional could this be answered properly.
 IamMIMI
Joined: 10/3/2008
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:40:25 PM
TALL , Strong silent type (BAD BOY)that kind of shy hotness like they do not know they are hot, then voice and big hands.
The man that looks a bit different then the ones around him you know not the GQ guy, the man who can rock a tight pair of jeans the front and the back.
They have a sensuality in their eyes, and the way they move the way there body moves as they walk! WooooHOOO!!!!
Always always check out the rear view as they are walking past me, I don't now if it is the ass or the way they walk.

It all has to go together he cant have just one of the features!
All that and then you notice that sombody got there before you you see the wedding RING!
Now I need a cold shower.
 IluvChris
Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 196
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/25/2008 8:43:20 AM
First thing I look 4...... 2 see if they look me in my face/ eyes when speaking.
 beebeedi33
Joined: 9/23/2008
Msg: 197
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/25/2008 11:49:10 AM
First thing I notice is if he looks like his pics, if it is obvious they are MUCH older pics than he looks like in person. Then the smile and how he is dressed.
A torn shirt and dirty shorts unless you have told me I am coming straight from work doesn't do anything for me.
 lookinatit
Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 198
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/25/2008 3:46:51 PM
First, the way she's put herself together (neatly, I hope); hate to see women who look like they just rolled out of bed. Second, the way she carries herself (with confidence). Third, attitude (not stuck up). Fourth, ability to carry on a conversation (a dying art).
Fifth and most important, sincerity. I hate phonies.
 cooladrenalin
Joined: 2/20/2007
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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 10/25/2008 4:43:29 PM
Teeth, eyes arms. I LOVE strong arms.
 Nyte7
Joined: 10/19/2008
Msg: 200
When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice?
Posted: 11/5/2008 10:07:37 PM
Eyes, definitely.

You can tell a lot by how they look at you and the dilation of their pupils.

What do I know though, I've never been in a serious relationship :P
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