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 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 523
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 15 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
"..sorry we cant have sex as i have no condoms"
I've said it.

"why ASSUME no condoms is a good thing? Like fuk i dont know where u have been !!! sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over arent u guys worried about any risks???"

So like what are you, the village bicycle?
 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 524
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/3/2010 10:39:29 PM
Hey yall women got these big clunky purses full of junk.
There is certainly room for a few love gloves in there.
Geez.
Yall dames want to throw us guys down.
Have your way with us.
and not carry protection?

Where are we supposed to carry those things?
In our pockets where our keys will rip em open?
In our wallets where they pop out in church while tithing?
I mean think this thru.

...if yall want to mix it up with guys.
come prepared.
We'll take it from there.
:-P
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 525
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/4/2010 4:05:14 AM

Where are we supposed to carry those things?
In our pockets where our keys will rip em open?
In our wallets where they pop out in church while tithing?
I mean think this thru.


LMAO......nice try.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 528
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 9:31:47 AM


I'm shocked that in this day and age that anyone would have sex without a condom, unless in a committed relationship and having been tested.


If condoms didn't completely kill the pleasure of sex then guys would have no problem wearing them.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 529
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 11:48:32 AM
An old, yet popular thread. The last few women I had sex with, had no interest in using condoms even after I mentioned it. So it's not just the men. However, if you can't see yourself wanting to have unprotected sex with someone, should you be having sex with them? I know that may sound naive, but that's how I make certain decisions. If you have little or no desire to do certain things with certain people, you probably should not take it past a simple small talk conversation with them.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 531
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/8/2010 4:49:15 AM
As My gay mate says when some one doesn't wan't to use condoms

"yeah Ow
PITY THE FOOL
THAT COMES NEAR ME UNCOVERED!"
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 533
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 5:18:44 AM

Really? I find it kind of funny that a few times when i had a condom with me when i was about to have sex (clothes are half off at this point), the girl turns to me and says "You actually brought a condom... ugh.. you mean you were expecting this?? You came all prepared for this didn't you? playerrrrr!"


Sounds like you are/were sleeping with girls, and not women.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 534
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 7:40:10 AM
Each person should bring their own freakin condoms. Issue solved.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 535
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 7:55:10 AM
no condoms? fine! walk away, that's it

or just jerk each other off,
He will probably give you a song about it not being real sex blah blah blah

but stick two fingers in his anus and massage his prostate while you have a firm muscle grip on his penis and he'll howl with delight.

for your turn...
he jerks you off, sticks two fingers in your vagiina, directly or indirectly stimulates your clitoris, massages your G spot and hopefully you'll howl with delight too.

have a kiss and You'll both be alright. simple.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 537
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:04:08 AM
I almost laughed myself silly in college once.
Brought home a gal for a one-nighter and she confessed the next morning she was "freaked out" that I had condoms in my night table drawer.
She accused me of being a slutty whore the next day. I just laughed at that one; she would have been perfectly content for me to dive right in bareback, but because I actually give a rip about not getting someone pregnant, I'm a "slutty whore."

As Butthead said in that hallowed animated cartoon series: "Huh huh, some people are dumb."
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 538
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:16:19 AM
^^^^I have never ever understood this mentality. I might joke about it, but even at 15 I was thinking about sex and I knew even then that I would be using a condom and was even prepared to buy it myself.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 539
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 12:20:59 PM
I've also discovered that condoms with some people create a false sense of security. What I mean, more than once after I produced a condom before sex, the woman seemed to have the idea that just because I wanted to practice safe sex, that I do so often and therefore I'm likely to be std free. And then will sometimes hint at not bothering to use a condom for that matter. I've also heard of men having that attitude as well.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 541
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/27/2010 3:57:04 PM
Some women object to condoms because they're running a scam. They want to get pregnant so that they can get welfare, medicaid, food stamps, subsidized housing, tax credits, and child support. As soon as the baby's out of the womb the mother is filing for protective orders against the father, even though he didn't do anything wrong. Sounds crazy (and in a way is crazy) but it happened to a friend of mine and almost happened to me.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 542
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/28/2010 7:58:42 AM

Most STI's can be treated, except for HIV.


You may want to do a wee bit of research there buddy. Your whole post suggests the need for that. People with STI are pretty obvious? Ever spent any time with an HIV positive person or someone with herpes?

I do agree with your point about risk and the game we play being alive, but if the resources are there to help you, why not use them?
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 543
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/3/2010 9:31:17 PM
the OP asks:
sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over arent u guys worried about any risks???


i reply:

i don't care if i do die

just so i make the juice fly

 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 544
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/3/2010 9:41:04 PM
Apparently based on your experience, there are none but in reality, men should be very aware. So why aren't they you ask, because some men like taking the chance. If it helps you, tell them you've had a STF in the past!
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 545
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/29/2010 5:36:55 PM
i'm one of those men who feel ABSOLUTELY NOTHING with a condom on.

all i feel is my hips moving forward and backward. i might as well be reading a book or watching tv when i have one on.

zero, zip, nada.
 A4RON
Joined: 3/16/2008
Msg: 546
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/30/2010 11:08:20 AM
I've actually had the opposite effect.

Pulled out a condom and the girl took offense like she was a slut. Didn't want one used. Started asking how many partners etc.. Just a flip side to the conversation for you guys.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 547
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/30/2010 11:46:49 AM
^^^My response is exactly the same as my response #551.

I'll also add that folks who do this probably don't know anything about safer sex anyway - they just pretend to so they are PC like everyone else.
 itsaMonte
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 549
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/19/2011 1:01:11 PM
It's a no-brainer...
No condom = no sex.
Wear a condom = great sex
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 551
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/20/2011 4:39:01 PM
I am giving this topic a lot of thought. I have had sex with 4 men in the last 2 yrs since my last STD testing. They have all been bareback. I have a very bad reaction to latex, I carry epipens for it. When I was working in the dental field (which I had to quit due to the latex allergy) I would react from non latex gloves as well. My best guess and the doctors is that since they are typically manufactured in the same plant the dust residue from manufacturing carries the latex particials to the nonlatex gloves. My reactions also come from rubber band and if I write with a rubber grip pen.

So this has been on my mind of how to deal with this for myself. For me yes latex itself CAN kill me. Probably for me a much greater risk than a STD and much quicker than AIDS would. I decided to do a test with one on the non latex condoms to see. I handled it for about 2-3 minutes and yes I put it to my lips because I would probably go down on a man after he had one on. While I didn't need to use the epipen, I did have shortness of breath and my lips swelled. A prolonged exposure of a greater amount of time the situation could require an epipen and a trip to the ER.

I cannot see abstinence being an option for me. I have pretty much decided that I will have to do regular testing and to take calculated risks.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 553
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/21/2011 6:23:47 PM

Don't they make lambskin condoms anymore?

Probably, but lambskin condoms don't offer much protection against STDs.
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 554
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/22/2011 6:07:57 AM
Yes I researched the lambskin condoms and they don't offer much protection. My tubes are tied so I am not concerned with pregnancy. At this moment there isn't anyone I am willing to take that step with. The next person would have to be willing to wait until testing comes back all clear before I would consider it. I am due for testing and a pap anyways so I will be getting that done soon and then being abstinent until I feel comfortable doing so.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 557
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2011 2:27:26 AM
It's mostly because it's easier to clean an 'outie' than an 'innie'. As long as a guy doesn't have any broken skin, pees after sex, and washes his penis, the chances of infection are greatly reduced. A woman doesn't have that option. Just because you're exposed to a disease doesn't mean you will always catch it; the duration and amount of exposure are also factors.
Of course, the real reason guys go 'bareback' is because it feels so much better. I'd be lying to you if I said anything different.
Try running your hand through long silky hair. Really nice, huh?
Now, put a glove on and do the same thing. Now do you get it?
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 560
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Men seem to think bareback is ok even though they have no clue of your past.
Posted: 11/12/2011 12:05:03 PM
I looked at the OPs question, and.... if ALL these men are having bareback sex, they must be having it with just as many women who think it is ok........
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