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 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 535
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 21 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
no condoms? fine! walk away, that's it

or just jerk each other off,
He will probably give you a song about it not being real sex blah blah blah

but stick two fingers in his anus and massage his prostate while you have a firm muscle grip on his penis and he'll howl with delight.

for your turn...
he jerks you off, sticks two fingers in your vagiina, directly or indirectly stimulates your clitoris, massages your G spot and hopefully you'll howl with delight too.

have a kiss and You'll both be alright. simple.
 ginamontecino
Joined: 9/26/2010
Msg: 536
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 8:40:17 AM
before anyone goes anywhere with anybody, it must be understood there will be no sex without proper protection. No one wants to die a horrible slow death because of a moment of pleasure. Wrap it and keep it clean.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 537
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:04:08 AM
I almost laughed myself silly in college once.
Brought home a gal for a one-nighter and she confessed the next morning she was "freaked out" that I had condoms in my night table drawer.
She accused me of being a slutty whore the next day. I just laughed at that one; she would have been perfectly content for me to dive right in bareback, but because I actually give a rip about not getting someone pregnant, I'm a "slutty whore."

As Butthead said in that hallowed animated cartoon series: "Huh huh, some people are dumb."
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 538
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:16:19 AM
^^^^I have never ever understood this mentality. I might joke about it, but even at 15 I was thinking about sex and I knew even then that I would be using a condom and was even prepared to buy it myself.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 539
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 12:20:59 PM
I've also discovered that condoms with some people create a false sense of security. What I mean, more than once after I produced a condom before sex, the woman seemed to have the idea that just because I wanted to practice safe sex, that I do so often and therefore I'm likely to be std free. And then will sometimes hint at not bothering to use a condom for that matter. I've also heard of men having that attitude as well.
 Tigerbabygirl
Joined: 10/25/2010
Msg: 540
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/13/2010 8:56:39 PM
It is women too, I know of a few that will sleep with any man that comes around and they refuse to have the guy wear condoms too. Just total stupidity really. I guess some just don't care until they actually contract an STD, it is well it won't happen to me.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 541
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/27/2010 3:57:04 PM
Some women object to condoms because they're running a scam. They want to get pregnant so that they can get welfare, medicaid, food stamps, subsidized housing, tax credits, and child support. As soon as the baby's out of the womb the mother is filing for protective orders against the father, even though he didn't do anything wrong. Sounds crazy (and in a way is crazy) but it happened to a friend of mine and almost happened to me.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 542
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Posted: 11/28/2010 7:58:42 AM

Most STI's can be treated, except for HIV.


You may want to do a wee bit of research there buddy. Your whole post suggests the need for that. People with STI are pretty obvious? Ever spent any time with an HIV positive person or someone with herpes?

I do agree with your point about risk and the game we play being alive, but if the resources are there to help you, why not use them?
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 543
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/3/2010 9:31:17 PM
the OP asks:
sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over arent u guys worried about any risks???


i reply:

i don't care if i do die

just so i make the juice fly

 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 544
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/3/2010 9:41:04 PM
Apparently based on your experience, there are none but in reality, men should be very aware. So why aren't they you ask, because some men like taking the chance. If it helps you, tell them you've had a STF in the past!
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 545
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/29/2010 5:36:55 PM
i'm one of those men who feel ABSOLUTELY NOTHING with a condom on.

all i feel is my hips moving forward and backward. i might as well be reading a book or watching tv when i have one on.

zero, zip, nada.
 A4RON
Joined: 3/16/2008
Msg: 546
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/30/2010 11:08:20 AM
I've actually had the opposite effect.

Pulled out a condom and the girl took offense like she was a slut. Didn't want one used. Started asking how many partners etc.. Just a flip side to the conversation for you guys.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 547
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/30/2010 11:46:49 AM
^^^My response is exactly the same as my response #551.

I'll also add that folks who do this probably don't know anything about safer sex anyway - they just pretend to so they are PC like everyone else.
 seadoesit
Joined: 12/15/2010
Msg: 548
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/31/2010 8:16:51 PM
Cotter ! I agree with u 100% . I believe the way u do get tested . To all that read this b careful even with Condoms bc if they have a STD on the bottom area no Condom will help . Thats how a patient of mine got warts at age 18 sad way to get something.
 itsaMonte
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 549
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/19/2011 1:01:11 PM
It's a no-brainer...
No condom = no sex.
Wear a condom = great sex
 viper1j
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 550
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/19/2011 3:48:51 PM
Some women say no sex without condoms, but they don't make condoms for tongues and some women still expect that.

Things that make one go hmm..
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 551
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/20/2011 4:39:01 PM
I am giving this topic a lot of thought. I have had sex with 4 men in the last 2 yrs since my last STD testing. They have all been bareback. I have a very bad reaction to latex, I carry epipens for it. When I was working in the dental field (which I had to quit due to the latex allergy) I would react from non latex gloves as well. My best guess and the doctors is that since they are typically manufactured in the same plant the dust residue from manufacturing carries the latex particials to the nonlatex gloves. My reactions also come from rubber band and if I write with a rubber grip pen.

So this has been on my mind of how to deal with this for myself. For me yes latex itself CAN kill me. Probably for me a much greater risk than a STD and much quicker than AIDS would. I decided to do a test with one on the non latex condoms to see. I handled it for about 2-3 minutes and yes I put it to my lips because I would probably go down on a man after he had one on. While I didn't need to use the epipen, I did have shortness of breath and my lips swelled. A prolonged exposure of a greater amount of time the situation could require an epipen and a trip to the ER.

I cannot see abstinence being an option for me. I have pretty much decided that I will have to do regular testing and to take calculated risks.
 shayla_v
Joined: 11/12/2010
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/21/2011 7:35:08 AM
Three years ago, I met a man. Insisted he wear condoms. After 3 months, we went and got testetd together. Had exclusive unprotected sex from then on....last October he put a ring on another woman's finger and married her a little over a month ago, and uh, we were still together. When did he start having sex with her? A damn year ago! And who knows who else before and after that?

So there I was in November, crying at Planned Parenthood getting tested again because my so called long term man had been sexing other people behind my back. He put me at risk and didn't think twice about it.

I will never again have sex without a condom....I don't care if we have been together for ten years. I don't care if we are married. Because you never really know what another person is doing, and protecting my life is more important than his next orgasm. Or mine either for that matter!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 553
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/21/2011 6:23:47 PM

Don't they make lambskin condoms anymore?

Probably, but lambskin condoms don't offer much protection against STDs.
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 554
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/22/2011 6:07:57 AM
Yes I researched the lambskin condoms and they don't offer much protection. My tubes are tied so I am not concerned with pregnancy. At this moment there isn't anyone I am willing to take that step with. The next person would have to be willing to wait until testing comes back all clear before I would consider it. I am due for testing and a pap anyways so I will be getting that done soon and then being abstinent until I feel comfortable doing so.
 lovngoodguy
Joined: 11/2/2011
Msg: 555
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/8/2011 5:54:08 AM
I plan on staying D/D free,condoms are in my car,and by my bed!if a relationship is ongoing and we prefer bareback!then we show our clean proof of D/D free status,and enjoy skin on skin and awesome sex!But anal pleasure for her always gets a raincoat!
 Ab_Aeterno
Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 556
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/8/2011 7:40:14 AM
i would think the only risk would be pregnancy as you should both have gotten std tests before sleeping together. so at that point if your on the pill, there is really no reason for a condom at all.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2011 2:27:26 AM
It's mostly because it's easier to clean an 'outie' than an 'innie'. As long as a guy doesn't have any broken skin, pees after sex, and washes his penis, the chances of infection are greatly reduced. A woman doesn't have that option. Just because you're exposed to a disease doesn't mean you will always catch it; the duration and amount of exposure are also factors.
Of course, the real reason guys go 'bareback' is because it feels so much better. I'd be lying to you if I said anything different.
Try running your hand through long silky hair. Really nice, huh?
Now, put a glove on and do the same thing. Now do you get it?
 jimolee
Joined: 1/2/2010
Msg: 558
Men seem to think bareback is ok even though they have no clue of your past.
Posted: 11/12/2011 6:47:52 AM
From my experience it's the exact opposite. The woman says no you don't need to I'm clean ect. I'll bring it up and they seem offended. Or they are willing to swallow but want you to wear a condom for intercourse. I still always wear one though.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Men seem to think bareback is ok even though they have no clue of your past.
Posted: 11/12/2011 12:05:03 PM
I looked at the OPs question, and.... if ALL these men are having bareback sex, they must be having it with just as many women who think it is ok........
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