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 1eastshore
Joined: 11/3/2010
Msg: 526
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!Page 22 of 24    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24)
I think both men and women should have some condoms just in case. A few times I went to a man's house. They didn't have a condom. But I did have one in my purse. If I didn't have one, there would be no sex. I'm not having unprotected sex with a man if I don't know he is clean or not.
 ktori
Joined: 7/9/2009
Msg: 527
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 12:24:13 AM
I'm shocked that in this day and age that anyone would have sex without a condom, unless in a committed relationship and having been tested.

Good magazine just came out with an infographic with some interesting stats on condom use by teens:

http://www.good.is/post/transparency-how-kids-are-having-sex/
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 528
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 9:31:47 AM


I'm shocked that in this day and age that anyone would have sex without a condom, unless in a committed relationship and having been tested.


If condoms didn't completely kill the pleasure of sex then guys would have no problem wearing them.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 529
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 11:48:32 AM
An old, yet popular thread. The last few women I had sex with, had no interest in using condoms even after I mentioned it. So it's not just the men. However, if you can't see yourself wanting to have unprotected sex with someone, should you be having sex with them? I know that may sound naive, but that's how I make certain decisions. If you have little or no desire to do certain things with certain people, you probably should not take it past a simple small talk conversation with them.
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 530
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/7/2010 10:27:14 PM
If I am in his shoes You will hear loud and clear here is the female condom wear it yourself. If you are so conscious why don't you carry a female condom in your bag I meant in your nap sack If you look in my briefcase you will find two boxes of Female condoms different colors.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 531
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/8/2010 4:49:15 AM
As My gay mate says when some one doesn't wan't to use condoms

"yeah Ow
PITY THE FOOL
THAT COMES NEAR ME UNCOVERED!"
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 532
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 4:59:41 AM
I'm still waiting for a woman to cover her genitalia with saran wrap or a garbage bag...and then try to stimulate herself....THEN come back and tell me how good that felt and if you want more....


Yes I agree they protect us from things...but sex with them...not so fun, and about 10 times more work to get off !!
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 533
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 5:18:44 AM

Really? I find it kind of funny that a few times when i had a condom with me when i was about to have sex (clothes are half off at this point), the girl turns to me and says "You actually brought a condom... ugh.. you mean you were expecting this?? You came all prepared for this didn't you? playerrrrr!"


Sounds like you are/were sleeping with girls, and not women.
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 534
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 7:40:10 AM
Each person should bring their own freakin condoms. Issue solved.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 535
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What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 7:55:10 AM
no condoms? fine! walk away, that's it

or just jerk each other off,
He will probably give you a song about it not being real sex blah blah blah

but stick two fingers in his anus and massage his prostate while you have a firm muscle grip on his penis and he'll howl with delight.

for your turn...
he jerks you off, sticks two fingers in your vagiina, directly or indirectly stimulates your clitoris, massages your G spot and hopefully you'll howl with delight too.

have a kiss and You'll both be alright. simple.
 ginamontecino
Joined: 9/26/2010
Msg: 536
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 8:40:17 AM
before anyone goes anywhere with anybody, it must be understood there will be no sex without proper protection. No one wants to die a horrible slow death because of a moment of pleasure. Wrap it and keep it clean.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 537
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:04:08 AM
I almost laughed myself silly in college once.
Brought home a gal for a one-nighter and she confessed the next morning she was "freaked out" that I had condoms in my night table drawer.
She accused me of being a slutty whore the next day. I just laughed at that one; she would have been perfectly content for me to dive right in bareback, but because I actually give a rip about not getting someone pregnant, I'm a "slutty whore."

As Butthead said in that hallowed animated cartoon series: "Huh huh, some people are dumb."
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 538
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 9:16:19 AM
^^^^I have never ever understood this mentality. I might joke about it, but even at 15 I was thinking about sex and I knew even then that I would be using a condom and was even prepared to buy it myself.
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 539
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2010 12:20:59 PM
I've also discovered that condoms with some people create a false sense of security. What I mean, more than once after I produced a condom before sex, the woman seemed to have the idea that just because I wanted to practice safe sex, that I do so often and therefore I'm likely to be std free. And then will sometimes hint at not bothering to use a condom for that matter. I've also heard of men having that attitude as well.
 Tigerbabygirl
Joined: 10/25/2010
Msg: 540
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/13/2010 8:56:39 PM
It is women too, I know of a few that will sleep with any man that comes around and they refuse to have the guy wear condoms too. Just total stupidity really. I guess some just don't care until they actually contract an STD, it is well it won't happen to me.
 CountIbli
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 541
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/27/2010 3:57:04 PM
Some women object to condoms because they're running a scam. They want to get pregnant so that they can get welfare, medicaid, food stamps, subsidized housing, tax credits, and child support. As soon as the baby's out of the womb the mother is filing for protective orders against the father, even though he didn't do anything wrong. Sounds crazy (and in a way is crazy) but it happened to a friend of mine and almost happened to me.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 542
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Posted: 11/28/2010 7:58:42 AM

Most STI's can be treated, except for HIV.


You may want to do a wee bit of research there buddy. Your whole post suggests the need for that. People with STI are pretty obvious? Ever spent any time with an HIV positive person or someone with herpes?

I do agree with your point about risk and the game we play being alive, but if the resources are there to help you, why not use them?
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 543
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/3/2010 9:31:17 PM
the OP asks:
sorry men but this is rather annoying especially cause it happens over n over arent u guys worried about any risks???


i reply:

i don't care if i do die

just so i make the juice fly

 JP1111
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 544
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/3/2010 9:41:04 PM
Apparently based on your experience, there are none but in reality, men should be very aware. So why aren't they you ask, because some men like taking the chance. If it helps you, tell them you've had a STF in the past!
 Email Tom Now
Joined: 9/17/2010
Msg: 545
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/29/2010 5:36:55 PM
i'm one of those men who feel ABSOLUTELY NOTHING with a condom on.

all i feel is my hips moving forward and backward. i might as well be reading a book or watching tv when i have one on.

zero, zip, nada.
 A4RON
Joined: 3/16/2008
Msg: 546
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Posted: 12/30/2010 11:08:20 AM
I've actually had the opposite effect.

Pulled out a condom and the girl took offense like she was a slut. Didn't want one used. Started asking how many partners etc.. Just a flip side to the conversation for you guys.
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 547
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/30/2010 11:46:49 AM
^^^My response is exactly the same as my response #551.

I'll also add that folks who do this probably don't know anything about safer sex anyway - they just pretend to so they are PC like everyone else.
 seadoesit
Joined: 12/15/2010
Msg: 548
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 12/31/2010 8:16:51 PM
Cotter ! I agree with u 100% . I believe the way u do get tested . To all that read this b careful even with Condoms bc if they have a STD on the bottom area no Condom will help . Thats how a patient of mine got warts at age 18 sad way to get something.
 itsaMonte
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 549
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/19/2011 1:01:11 PM
It's a no-brainer...
No condom = no sex.
Wear a condom = great sex
 viper1j
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 550
What is it with men N freaking condoms!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 2/19/2011 3:48:51 PM
Some women say no sex without condoms, but they don't make condoms for tongues and some women still expect that.

Things that make one go hmm..
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